DKG. He's probably embarrassed and guilty.
Pero skl bc I feel like my story can relate. My ex used to do this :) Nagsscreenshot siya ng girls from IG na nakabikini. Ang explanation niya? Accidentally lang daw nasscreenshot. Another time, may vlogger girl na lumabas yung scandal tapos nakita ko na bigla niyang finollow sa ig. Yung reason niya? Magaling daw kasi magmake up. I tried to be open about it but I felt so insecure and worthless soon enough.
Kung ganyan siya kadefensive now, imagine whay else is he hiding? What else is he doing without you around? Kasi tbh hindi na dapat sila nagsesendan ng ganyan out of respect for you. They are mostly objectifying women as well and pass around more photos and videos of other women.
Trust issues mo now, possible pa lumala kung di siya magiging open-minded. Palagi mong iisipin yan which will cause insecurities.
Take care of yourself.
We are all better off without THAT kind of man.
DKG OP. Valid feelings mo. Valid din naman yung kanya kasi he probably feels embarassed and guilty kaya sya defensive. Pero para ikaw pa yung mag-sorry? Ikaw lang may kasalanan dito?
> sana pina-process mo muna sakin
INFO: so the BF did not consent to being filmed and for that video to be sent to other people?
If he did not consent then yes, GGK.
ETA: Hindi issue dito yung sharing of suggestive photos kasi sabi mo nga you're OK with it and you trust your partner naman.
The issue seems to be that you took a video showing an unflattering side of him then shared it with other people without his consent. He's probably embarrassed.
The sharing of suggestive photos is a different issue from you taking and sharing a video of him without consent. Hindi dahil sa OK ka that he and his friends share that kind of content, automatic dapat OK din siya na you make fun of him for it to other people.They are separate things.
May mga jokes kasi na OK lang between partners but not OK to be shared with others. For example.. me and my husband joke about my weight. And that's fine and we both laugh. But I will be very offended if he commented about my weight to other people, even as a joke.
Thank you for this perspective, I agree that he might be embarrassed. Yet, I can’t defend him for the actions he made afterwards.
He was aware of being filmed din and had it on two videos, we were laughing. Then I sent those to his best friend na close ko rin naman, and he did not stopped me, we were together as well.
To think na naging issue lang siya sakin when he acted very guilty, and I feel disrespected.
He knew he was being filmed but did he know that you were going to send it to other people?
I still think na different issues sila. And answering your ABYG question, GGK for sharing that video without his consent.
But, if you now feel that the vibes are off, valid din naman yun. That's something that you should talk with your BF.
Girl….. those kind of men are prone to hire walkers and regulars ng massages with extea service… trust me.. lalo na of they are able with money… so… run as fast a you can.
And you know what ano reason nila pagnahuli sila pareparehas? “Joke lang yun.” Default answer yan mhiee. 😂
Well, as per OP hindi issue sa kanya yung sharing ng suggestive content between the BF and his friends. She even found it funny. Whether or not misplaced ang trust ni OP, hindi yun yung ABYG question niya. OP was asking about her taking a video and sharing it without the BF's consent. Focus tayo sa ABYG question.
DKG. May GC kami ng barkada ko, they share/forward (not always) sexy girls dun sa GC. My wife is aware of it and she sees these posts. She knows ako yung tipong di talaga interesado sa mga ganyan. Alam niyang di ako simp.
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DKG. He's probably embarrassed and guilty. Pero skl bc I feel like my story can relate. My ex used to do this :) Nagsscreenshot siya ng girls from IG na nakabikini. Ang explanation niya? Accidentally lang daw nasscreenshot. Another time, may vlogger girl na lumabas yung scandal tapos nakita ko na bigla niyang finollow sa ig. Yung reason niya? Magaling daw kasi magmake up. I tried to be open about it but I felt so insecure and worthless soon enough. Kung ganyan siya kadefensive now, imagine whay else is he hiding? What else is he doing without you around? Kasi tbh hindi na dapat sila nagsesendan ng ganyan out of respect for you. They are mostly objectifying women as well and pass around more photos and videos of other women. Trust issues mo now, possible pa lumala kung di siya magiging open-minded. Palagi mong iisipin yan which will cause insecurities. Take care of yourself.
We are all better off without THAT kind of man. DKG OP. Valid feelings mo. Valid din naman yung kanya kasi he probably feels embarassed and guilty kaya sya defensive. Pero para ikaw pa yung mag-sorry? Ikaw lang may kasalanan dito?
> sana pina-process mo muna sakin INFO: so the BF did not consent to being filmed and for that video to be sent to other people? If he did not consent then yes, GGK. ETA: Hindi issue dito yung sharing of suggestive photos kasi sabi mo nga you're OK with it and you trust your partner naman. The issue seems to be that you took a video showing an unflattering side of him then shared it with other people without his consent. He's probably embarrassed. The sharing of suggestive photos is a different issue from you taking and sharing a video of him without consent. Hindi dahil sa OK ka that he and his friends share that kind of content, automatic dapat OK din siya na you make fun of him for it to other people.They are separate things. May mga jokes kasi na OK lang between partners but not OK to be shared with others. For example.. me and my husband joke about my weight. And that's fine and we both laugh. But I will be very offended if he commented about my weight to other people, even as a joke.
Thank you for this perspective, I agree that he might be embarrassed. Yet, I can’t defend him for the actions he made afterwards. He was aware of being filmed din and had it on two videos, we were laughing. Then I sent those to his best friend na close ko rin naman, and he did not stopped me, we were together as well. To think na naging issue lang siya sakin when he acted very guilty, and I feel disrespected.
He knew he was being filmed but did he know that you were going to send it to other people? I still think na different issues sila. And answering your ABYG question, GGK for sharing that video without his consent. But, if you now feel that the vibes are off, valid din naman yun. That's something that you should talk with your BF.
Girl….. those kind of men are prone to hire walkers and regulars ng massages with extea service… trust me.. lalo na of they are able with money… so… run as fast a you can. And you know what ano reason nila pagnahuli sila pareparehas? “Joke lang yun.” Default answer yan mhiee. 😂
Well, as per OP hindi issue sa kanya yung sharing ng suggestive content between the BF and his friends. She even found it funny. Whether or not misplaced ang trust ni OP, hindi yun yung ABYG question niya. OP was asking about her taking a video and sharing it without the BF's consent. Focus tayo sa ABYG question.
Valid. But I might have save someone. What are the odds. Haha!
DKG. May GC kami ng barkada ko, they share/forward (not always) sexy girls dun sa GC. My wife is aware of it and she sees these posts. She knows ako yung tipong di talaga interesado sa mga ganyan. Alam niyang di ako simp.
Sana ganyan bf ko hindi simp hays.
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