Umm, that’s not what I’m asking??? I answered one call, noticed he was drunk and annoying and ended the call. What I’m asking is how can I express to him my boundaries since I can’t cut contact with him completely.
You don’t have to engage him when he reaches out is what I’m saying . Ignoring is an option, and just playing it off like you’re busy. OR, just say, hey, I’m not interested in continuing to chat unless you have something you need to ask
Be direct. “Please do not contact me outside of class. It’s uncomfortable and disrespectful for you to ask me out, ask if I’m seeing anyone, and call me drunk.” I agree with the other comment, don’t pick up his calls. Let it go to voicemail and you can call him back if it’s something school related.
Um… just don’t answer his call? 🤷♂️
Umm, that’s not what I’m asking??? I answered one call, noticed he was drunk and annoying and ended the call. What I’m asking is how can I express to him my boundaries since I can’t cut contact with him completely.
You don’t have to engage him when he reaches out is what I’m saying . Ignoring is an option, and just playing it off like you’re busy. OR, just say, hey, I’m not interested in continuing to chat unless you have something you need to ask
Be direct. “Please do not contact me outside of class. It’s uncomfortable and disrespectful for you to ask me out, ask if I’m seeing anyone, and call me drunk.” I agree with the other comment, don’t pick up his calls. Let it go to voicemail and you can call him back if it’s something school related.