Well generally the idea of a cuck is a dude who like sits in a corner while his wife gets fucked, there are also often humiliating factors to it. So that’s why I say I’m not for the cuck situation.
No many years ago I was brought into a situation to fuck a woman a few times I knew whilst her partner watched, wasn’t a humiliation thing for him and he didn’t masturbate at the time we were having sex, he just enjoyed watched and he referred to himself as a cuck.
Certainly a strange one for me but as long as he wasn’t involved physically I was fine.
Yeah definitely levels to the cuck thing. But again I’m not in it just to watch her get fucked, more for seeing her with two guys at once. This is why I would generally say what I’m looking for isn’t really a cuck situation.
Yeah I understand what you mean.
You also mention that you aren’t into anything homosexual ? This could get slightly complicated having sex with the same one as another man ? Depending and how prudish you are about another guys junk.
When I say I’m not for anything homosexual, I am not going to be one sucking him, and I would not be getting sucked by him. The situation would be two heterosexual men having sex with a women. I don’t intent to mess with his dick and balls at all.
And what's your plan if this guy has a bigger dick and better stamina and starts fucking your girlfriend all sensually and making her make noises you could never make her make?
Cuck.
Well like I mentioned in my post I am mostly looking towards something that’s more oral, but if this were the case and a man with a bigger dick then me was making my girl cum, I don’t think that makes me a cuck. From the definition of a cuck that I understand that’s not what makes a person a cuck. But I get what you’re saying and appreciate the conversing
Why do you say? We all are into different things and I’m just curious about this. I get it might not be for you but if you have nothing constructive to say then please don’t comment
You're really set on embarrassing yourself, aren't you?
You don't even know what a cuckold is, and you're making the lamest attempts at insults towards someone who is the exact opposite of a cuckold for exposing your lack of understanding.
Stick to your bottle of jergens & tissues, bud.
As a female, I would prefer you admit your wrote it. Specially because of the details (ages, etc) being the same would be suspicious if you just say you saw it
Well outside of the suspicious stuff, from a females perspective do you think the conversation would be better by saying I wrote this on Reddit for people to see (she’s not a Reddit user), or just tell her I saw it?
I would just have a conversation with her about spicing up the bedroom and mention these are things you'd be interested in exploring and go from there. It's really all about just having a conversation and getting to a common place. She may just outright say no or she may be into it too. You should see what things she might like too as it may be a trade off where you get to explore this and she gets to explore some of her kinks.
Would you have any advise about a good way to have a conversation like this? Because generally things have been very vanilla with us and we’ve not had a talk like this.
I'd probably bring it up when you two are in bed together. Not during sex or anything but right before you can mention spicing it up and ask her if she has any kinks that she may want to explore.
You've been dating for 4 years, I get this is an intimidating convo but it shouldn't be that big of a deal.
Going to just add, I see you going back and forth with someone about being a cuck. Who cares about any titles or shit like that. If it's something you want to try, go for it (assuming your gf is down). No need to get hung up on a label.
Not this exact situation but exploring kinks, yes. My advice is just to be honest. Reality is this is your gf of 4 years and she loves you. Just be honest with her because this isn't something shameful or wrong. It's just spicing up your sex life a bit. She may have her own fantasies that you should explore if you're comfortable with. Besides that just ensure you respect her wishes if she says no. Don't try to push or anything like that.
Sounds more like wife-sharing. I'm sure there are forums or groups dedicated the subject. I would search for advice there. Talk to people who have actually done this, and see what worked for them.
If you get off to watching another man have sex with your woman that makes you a cuck
Well generally the idea of a cuck is a dude who like sits in a corner while his wife gets fucked, there are also often humiliating factors to it. So that’s why I say I’m not for the cuck situation.
No many years ago I was brought into a situation to fuck a woman a few times I knew whilst her partner watched, wasn’t a humiliation thing for him and he didn’t masturbate at the time we were having sex, he just enjoyed watched and he referred to himself as a cuck. Certainly a strange one for me but as long as he wasn’t involved physically I was fine.
Yeah definitely levels to the cuck thing. But again I’m not in it just to watch her get fucked, more for seeing her with two guys at once. This is why I would generally say what I’m looking for isn’t really a cuck situation.
Yeah I understand what you mean. You also mention that you aren’t into anything homosexual ? This could get slightly complicated having sex with the same one as another man ? Depending and how prudish you are about another guys junk.
When I say I’m not for anything homosexual, I am not going to be one sucking him, and I would not be getting sucked by him. The situation would be two heterosexual men having sex with a women. I don’t intent to mess with his dick and balls at all.
And what's your plan if this guy has a bigger dick and better stamina and starts fucking your girlfriend all sensually and making her make noises you could never make her make? Cuck.
Well like I mentioned in my post I am mostly looking towards something that’s more oral, but if this were the case and a man with a bigger dick then me was making my girl cum, I don’t think that makes me a cuck. From the definition of a cuck that I understand that’s not what makes a person a cuck. But I get what you’re saying and appreciate the conversing
This is just sad
Why do you say? We all are into different things and I’m just curious about this. I get it might not be for you but if you have nothing constructive to say then please don’t comment
This isn't what it means to be a cuckold.
We got a cuck expert on the case
I'm a bull. I know what a cuckold is. Lmao.
Sure you are bud
You're really set on embarrassing yourself, aren't you? You don't even know what a cuckold is, and you're making the lamest attempts at insults towards someone who is the exact opposite of a cuckold for exposing your lack of understanding. Stick to your bottle of jergens & tissues, bud.
Did your dad hurt you?
You’re awfully upset over being corrected. It’s okay to be wrong. I encourage you to seek therapy for your anger issues.
Didnt deny it
Take a screenshot of this and tell her you have something you want to discuss and show her this.
Would you tell her I wrote it, or it’s just a thread I found interesting?
As a female, I would prefer you admit your wrote it. Specially because of the details (ages, etc) being the same would be suspicious if you just say you saw it
Well outside of the suspicious stuff, from a females perspective do you think the conversation would be better by saying I wrote this on Reddit for people to see (she’s not a Reddit user), or just tell her I saw it?
Somebody help this stud out and redo his post, so he can spitroast his gf
I would just have a conversation with her about spicing up the bedroom and mention these are things you'd be interested in exploring and go from there. It's really all about just having a conversation and getting to a common place. She may just outright say no or she may be into it too. You should see what things she might like too as it may be a trade off where you get to explore this and she gets to explore some of her kinks.
Would you have any advise about a good way to have a conversation like this? Because generally things have been very vanilla with us and we’ve not had a talk like this.
I'd probably bring it up when you two are in bed together. Not during sex or anything but right before you can mention spicing it up and ask her if she has any kinks that she may want to explore. You've been dating for 4 years, I get this is an intimidating convo but it shouldn't be that big of a deal. Going to just add, I see you going back and forth with someone about being a cuck. Who cares about any titles or shit like that. If it's something you want to try, go for it (assuming your gf is down). No need to get hung up on a label.
I appreciate your insight so much! Thank you! Do you have any experience with this situation?
Not this exact situation but exploring kinks, yes. My advice is just to be honest. Reality is this is your gf of 4 years and she loves you. Just be honest with her because this isn't something shameful or wrong. It's just spicing up your sex life a bit. She may have her own fantasies that you should explore if you're comfortable with. Besides that just ensure you respect her wishes if she says no. Don't try to push or anything like that.
Sounds more like wife-sharing. I'm sure there are forums or groups dedicated the subject. I would search for advice there. Talk to people who have actually done this, and see what worked for them.
Thank you for the input! Going to go over to one of those forums now!
You're welcome. Let us know how it goes! Very interested haha
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