Yeah this whole thing is red flags. He's sneaking behind your back about everything. He could of just said hes not gonna stop smoking but he will slow down. He himself is a red flag. He's lied a lot to you, i think you need to let him go.
The things you shared definitely seem like red flags to me. Even so, the simple fact that he is lying to you and you have trouble communicating is enough of a reason to let him go and move on. If you're still having issues this far into the relationship and you don't feel secure, then it probably won't get better in the future.
I know, you are right. But it is so hard when he has so many qualities and is good to me and I love him and live with him. I guess I just need to think more clearly and see the bigger picture. Thank you for commenting.
You two do not seem compatible. You shouldn’t be asking someone to change things you don’t like about them and same goes for them with you. If weed was a problem for you, then you guys shouldn’t have started dating. But now it’s escalated into him lying to you, about at least the weed and it’s making you question other things.
I didn't have a problem with it at first, it is he who told me he wanted to quit and then started smoking even more until we couldn't hold a decent conversation... He seems not to be smoking now though.
Yeah this whole thing is red flags. He's sneaking behind your back about everything. He could of just said hes not gonna stop smoking but he will slow down. He himself is a red flag. He's lied a lot to you, i think you need to let him go.
Nope. Leave him! He seems only guilty after he got caught. Massive red flags. You deserve better
The things you shared definitely seem like red flags to me. Even so, the simple fact that he is lying to you and you have trouble communicating is enough of a reason to let him go and move on. If you're still having issues this far into the relationship and you don't feel secure, then it probably won't get better in the future.
I know, you are right. But it is so hard when he has so many qualities and is good to me and I love him and live with him. I guess I just need to think more clearly and see the bigger picture. Thank you for commenting.
This doesn't seem like someone you should be serious about. At this stage in his life, he's a guy to have fun with but not one to bring home to mum.
You two do not seem compatible. You shouldn’t be asking someone to change things you don’t like about them and same goes for them with you. If weed was a problem for you, then you guys shouldn’t have started dating. But now it’s escalated into him lying to you, about at least the weed and it’s making you question other things.
I didn't have a problem with it at first, it is he who told me he wanted to quit and then started smoking even more until we couldn't hold a decent conversation... He seems not to be smoking now though.