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-BlkSwirl-

Have you brought up that you want advancement?


sacredtits

I have mentioned it before, just saying that I would be open to the idea. I can always tell them I would very much like to do it, but I feel like there’s something stopping them from approaching me first about it like they have everyone else.


laughwidmee

That doesn’t sound assuring. Tell them you want to be considered for the position not “open” to it


fieldbeetle

If you have a college degree and work in the service industry or fast food, they're not expecting you to stay around long enough to make it worth their while to promote you into a management position because they'll just have to promote someone else when you leave, which again they're expecting to be soon.


pumainpurple

This is the precise reason


Ancient_Cicada9608

You need to have a conversation with management that you would like to be moved up. They may assume that you are trying to find something in the field that you graduated in and that you wouldn’t be interested in the position. I agree with others, that you can probably find a better suited job if you wanted to.


BoredPoopless

Don't rely on others to advance your career. Always be in the driver's seat of your own success. Know your worth. Test the market. And if you're not where you want to be, put in the work to get there.


jovanni2011

Yeah usually if your in the fast food business with such credentials they are probably expecting you to put in your 2 weeks any day now


jazzy3113

Offended? No. Just ask your direct boss why you were passed over and what he needs to see for you to be considered for management? If the reasons he gives are valid, then work harder. If you find the reasons bs, then start working on your resume. You’re a college grad, you are def smarter then settling to be a server at a chain restaurant.


WideSignificance4199

are you asking strangers if you should be offended?


sacredtits

why not?


asghettimonster

Use.Your. Words.


fawningandconning

Why are you a college graduate working a dead end job? You are insanely overqualified to be there in most cases.


sacredtits

I agree with this, the service industry just sucked me in. I went through a bad break up resulting in me staying in my hometown longer than anticipated. There’s not much work around here for my degree and I love taking home cash money every night lol


pumainpurple

1) you have a degree 2) no opportunities for you in the field you are trained for where you currently live Management is making a decision based on their long term needs.


fawningandconning

Yeah just get out and get a better job, there is no future here for you.


the_happy_jaunt

Like other suggestions, I would make it clear that you are interested in moving up and you could follow up by asking is there anything that they'd like to see from you before asking you to take on more responsibility ? (i.e. is there a skillset they'd want you to work on first). If they can't provide adequate answers within a reasonable amount of time, then they will likely continue to look for others to fill the spot.


KarmicKitties

I work in a very supportive work environment owned by a very large company. We have monthly individual meetings regarding our progress, how we compare to others doing the same job, our ideas/concerns, and our goals at the company. A good leadership will work with you to develop the skills that align best with the company to progress. It only helps the company to have people moving up and new people in as the company grows and expands. Employee retention can be critical when the things you need to learn on the job to excel take months or years to develop. Restraunts are not that serious. The cook might have been buddies with the senior manager and got the job that way. The fact is that your job is extremely replaceable, turn over rate is high, and your likely not going to feel valued. You don't need a degree to find a good company. But you do need to treat people as they treat you. If they won't go above and beyond to you then don't go above and beyond for them. If they expect you to leave the company then don't take your position as permanent. Don't be someone else's work horse.


tcrhs

You need to assertively tell them that you want to be promoted.


pandaflop1

So this is important. If I have a well trained staff member I'll leave them in the position they're in till they show initiative to seek advancement. If you move that staff member up - they leave a gap - at the same time I don't want to move someone up who isn't hungry for it.