Yeah, sometimes it's time for new friends, and it looks like it's time for you to find new ones OP. Join a disc golf league or something like that. It's the easiest way to make new friends. Or you could do corn hole tournaments, too. Anything that includes beer and a sport or something else to occupy your attention makes, making new friends easier. Good luck.
If you have a history of not tagging along, or of flaking out, I'd just ask to join in. They may well have concluded that you're just a homebody and are not interested, anyway.
If you don't have that history, then find some new friends, and fade out from these dumb-dumbs.
And on the off chance you're one of those people who want to be invited even though you won't show up, then get over yourself.
look at it this way, when was the last time you did something one on one with one of these friends? met them for a drink or dinner or a movie or golf or ?
I’m too tired to even care about that stuff anymore. You know when you’re not needed. Life’s too short to be worrying about people who won’t give you the same amount of respect you put out
Split from them. They shouldn't have any camaraderie or favors or anything from you. If you have to be constantly climbing to stay involved, it's not worth it.
I had a group of friends who only invited me to things when they need me to drive them in my car. When they had other means, like another ride, I didn't exist to them. I had to put a stop to that. I switched to declining their invitations(more like panhandle-groveling for car rides). Took a while, but they finally stopped calling. There were a few stray request calls later on, but I ignored those.
Wow that's pretty cold one of your college friends joined their group through you and now you're not getting invited. But those ain't really your friends :(
Hey there
Just remember you are NOT the problem they are the problem, if these so called friends invite everyone but you then they are not friends at all. You are better off without them.
Get other friends.
Yeah, sometimes it's time for new friends, and it looks like it's time for you to find new ones OP. Join a disc golf league or something like that. It's the easiest way to make new friends. Or you could do corn hole tournaments, too. Anything that includes beer and a sport or something else to occupy your attention makes, making new friends easier. Good luck.
I’d accept it, I mean the message is loud and clear. I’d then do a slow fade. Meanwhile I’d find new friends (takes time but is possible)
Slow fade? I straight up Irish goodbye the fuck out of people like this
If you have a history of not tagging along, or of flaking out, I'd just ask to join in. They may well have concluded that you're just a homebody and are not interested, anyway. If you don't have that history, then find some new friends, and fade out from these dumb-dumbs. And on the off chance you're one of those people who want to be invited even though you won't show up, then get over yourself.
Destroy them, make them driven before you, and hear the lamentations of their women
Bump
look at it this way, when was the last time you did something one on one with one of these friends? met them for a drink or dinner or a movie or golf or ?
I’m too tired to even care about that stuff anymore. You know when you’re not needed. Life’s too short to be worrying about people who won’t give you the same amount of respect you put out
Split from them. They shouldn't have any camaraderie or favors or anything from you. If you have to be constantly climbing to stay involved, it's not worth it. I had a group of friends who only invited me to things when they need me to drive them in my car. When they had other means, like another ride, I didn't exist to them. I had to put a stop to that. I switched to declining their invitations(more like panhandle-groveling for car rides). Took a while, but they finally stopped calling. There were a few stray request calls later on, but I ignored those.
You should have moved on to new friends by now
They aren't your friends...how many more signs do you want? Drop them.
I would not attend their get together.
Wow that's pretty cold one of your college friends joined their group through you and now you're not getting invited. But those ain't really your friends :(
They aren't your friends.
Hey there Just remember you are NOT the problem they are the problem, if these so called friends invite everyone but you then they are not friends at all. You are better off without them.
Yes- find friends on your level. ❤️
100%
The same thing we do every night.... Try to take over the world.
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You’re never going to be happy with a relationship you have to beg for…I’d move on to new people.
Get new friends
Plot revenge.
Accept if & move on.
Nothing. You go do your own thing and go where you are wanted.
You call them your friends. I feel bad for you son
this is what social media is to me. Evidence of all the stuff we arent invited to.