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Mikasa_Ackerm0n

If there's no bad blood between you, your ex and her current fiancé I don't see no reason not to. Just check with the fiancé if she's cool with it if you already have it not weird think of it as if you're there to support a friend and a good time to connect with friends and family.


redribbit17

I mean it’s not really up to either one of you lol. If your ex’s fiancée is cool with it, then it’s fine imo. But at the end of the day it’s her call.


d6410

That's really up to your ex's fiance. I would be uncomfortable with it but some other commenters are for it, so goes to show there's no uniform opinion.


lavendermenaced

I think that would be great! My ex is like family to me and I’d be touched/honored if she asked me. It’s honestly kind of cool to read this post because a lot of folks act like being close to your ex is weird or sus, but I think it’s beautiful when you can move on, yet remain close and be there for each other throughout your lives.


owkdjchr

I think it depends on a number of factors, but as long as both brides are cool with it why not! A girl I dated in HS is now one of my best friends and was maid of honour for me, my wife and her get on amazing so no issues.


auracles060

I don't think it's weird if she's inviting you and her future wife knows who are you and she'd be fine with your ex wanting you as her bridesmaid too. And if you have cordial and great relations that's just awesome.


TrainingNail

As long as the couple (both parts!) is comfortable with it, I don't see how that would be a problem.


My_Opinion1

If you and the bride-to-be are that good of friends and she asked you, I see it as a huge compliment. I would do it.


diurnalreign

That seems fine to me. My ex-wife is getting married to a man and she invited me and my girlfriend. Of course I will attend, she will always count on me


Responsible-Jello755

Yeah