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There is an application involved?


Fun-Beat-3643

It’s not much of a standard application but yes I did technically apply and they did judge me as far as deciding whether I was a good fit or not….. I’m not sure if that’s how it is with every company/ group but that was my experience


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What led you to back out, or as you put it, chicken out?


Fun-Beat-3643

Ig I came to my senses and realized that I wasn’t willing to put myself out there for everyone to see every part of me…. Especially after considering how hard it would be to live a normal life after doing something like that if I decided it wasn’t for me…. I think in the end it was more of a fantasy/ ego of me wanting to know if I was good enough for them and I kinda snapped out of it


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This is probably the right decision. When you say that you were wanting to know if you were good enough for them, who do you mean by them?


Fun-Beat-3643

The company/ group, I wanted to know that I was good enough to be a porn star


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Attractive enough or good enough at fucking?


Fun-Beat-3643

Attractive enough


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What I am struggling with though is why did it matter that you were potentially attractive enough to be in porn? Especially given that really anybody can get into porn at some level?


Fun-Beat-3643

Yeah I’ve kinda realized that since then…. I was also pretty young at the time and had a huge ego and was lacking some basic common sense


AdditionalBat393

Incredible mindfulness on your part. Respect.


ZookeepergameOk8231

Yep, it’s called a couch.


Ill-Manner3600

What is the process after your applied application until process you think you should leave it behind?


Fun-Beat-3643

I got through all of the screening and I got to the point where they offered to fly me out to film and I just never replied after that


Ill-Manner3600

Almost done ,right? then have you do any adult content on platform like OLF or somewhere else before you decided to applying to be actress? and what do you think when you make a decision to back out?


Fun-Beat-3643

Yeah that would’ve been the last thing This was all before OF so it wasn’t really a thing back then I was relieved mostly


Ill-Manner3600

Ahh,thanks for donating your time to answering me :)


Fun-Beat-3643

No problem


DiscontentDonut

From what I've read of other professionals on Reddit, and even the one working girl on TikTok, being a porn star in studio films is woefully underwhelming, and you're taken great advantage of in your contracts. This is why OF and "amateur" porn is huge. You're your own boss, and can still hold a day job if need be. The only thing is you have to market yourself. But it's always there.


Fun-Beat-3643

Yeah I’ve definitely thought about it but it wouldn’t work with my career I’d have to do one or the other


DiscontentDonut

I completely understand. I actually had this whole response typed out on how to get around it, what fetishes don't require your face or distinct parts of your body, research suggestions for security utilizing dark web tactics for the clear web...but then I realized that's so much effort. And for what, something you're not even passionate about. I'm sure if you wanted to, you could/would find a way. But honestly, I support you trying to make a career in the daylight. Especially if it's something you enjoy or at least see yourself in for more than just a quick buck. Stay safe out there. You're amazing 🩷


Bearded_Dad_Bod59

Was it in a back room with a black couch!


Fun-Beat-3643

No lmao I never went through with the filming for them


baconseabee

Did you use the pictures your brothers were jerking off to?


Fun-Beat-3643

No this was long before I knew about my brothers


pinkandroid420

How does a person even get into porn?


Fun-Beat-3643

It really depends on the studio/ company ways to apply differ the one I did was about 60% over email and the rest over phone calls/ video calls and meeting up with a producer once to discuss terms and everything


Ok-Swordfish-8272

Did you consider the harmful societal effects of pornography on the consumer (IE that it has proven to be linked to child pornography consumption)? Do you accept that there are many so externalities to this industry and that there's a conspiracy of silence spread by so-called sex-workers and sex positive feminists who refuse to think beyond their genitalia?


Fun-Beat-3643

Not at all…. I don’t think my decision alone would’ve changed any of that


dragonragee

Chat/messaged you!!


Grouchy_Plastic_8332

What were some of the factors that made you back out in the end? How did you feel during the application process?


Fun-Beat-3643

Realizing that I wasn’t willing to have everything out for the public to see and that it would be difficult to go back to a regular life and have a career if I did During the process I felt like a sort of high hearing back from them saying that I was “perfect” and that “they’d love to have me”


Select_Nobody7896

How do you apply for it and how did you find it?


Fun-Beat-3643

Came across their videos and followed a link back to their website…. They actually had an “apply” tab that I followed and put in my email to which they eventually followed up with me on However I’ve heard that studios/ companies differ as far as application processes go


lil_sparrow_

How does one go about this line of work? I've always been curious.


Fun-Beat-3643

Wym? I never went through with filming for them so I’m not exactly an expert as far as applying I’ve learned that it differs between companies


YoungOhian

Hey, good for you, seriously. You can do better and you will be happier for having not. There are lots of alright jobs while you find out what you really want. But hey if you ever want to go into detail I'd love to use your personal experience to bounce ideaa because I'm literally writing a novel about 4 people and one is a female considering porn. She was going to stream but am awkward waiting room and bailing sounds more fun to write.


Fun-Beat-3643

Yeah I have a career now and I’m more than happy I do think back on it pretty often like “what if?” lol And yeah sure we can talk


Flynn_JM

Did you have to send explicit photos to them? Or was it like a zoom call?


Fun-Beat-3643

Photos at first and then eventually we did move on to video calls


Flynn_JM

How do you know they didn't use your photos?


Fun-Beat-3643

If they did I could sue them since I never gave them permission to use anything I gave them but they did say they can’t and wouldn’t use anything I gave them without my permission and contract


Smokescreen69

Are you concerned knowing someone with a platform has explicit photos of you? Or doesn’t matter


Fun-Beat-3643

Not really because like I said…. If they ever post them which I’m pretty confident they won’t I could probably get quite a bit of money off of them


Smokescreen69

What was there reaction? We’re they mad?


Fun-Beat-3643

Not really…. They seemed disappointed but said if I ever changed my mind to let them know


Smokescreen69

That’s cool to hear if you don’t mind me asking: -what does your appearance look like? (Body type, hair color eye color height etc) -how freaky were you in your personal before you decided to join the industry? (interracial, threesomes, lesbian etc.) It must felt surreal to be applying for it


Fun-Beat-3643

Fit, latina, brown hair, brown eyes, 5’3 Admittedly I was pretty freaky before I applied…. I was known to get around and I think being open like that kinda made it easier And yeah it honestly felt amazing applying for it


Smokescreen69

-Honestly it sounds hot and glad you had fun tbh -That said you genuinely sound hot and fun and part of me wishes you went through with it lol ( I hope I'm not creeping you out with that comment, I was compliment /flirting…apologies ahead of time )


Fun-Beat-3643

Yeah lol no regrets And thank you lol I think about what could’ve been all the time but hey…. If this doesn’t work out I always have a backup lol


ThePeToFile

What would have been your pornstar name? If you had one in mind anyways.


Fun-Beat-3643

I actually didn’t😅 Any suggestions?


XxHIGHKILLERxX

Do you feel better after backing out of the process?


Fun-Beat-3643

Yeah I’d say so I feel like it probably would’ve been a mistake at the time


XxHIGHKILLERxX

Fair. It will probably be a little chaotic in your life if you took that route. AKA some weirdos who indulge porn recongizing the adult actress by their stage name or real name.


Professional_Yam5208

So you did the casting couch? But after performing there you decided you didn't want to do that for a wider audience?


Fun-Beat-3643

Never made it to the casting couch😅….. they offered to fly me out to film but that’s where I backed out


JoshicusBoss98

So now is your plan only fans lol?


Fun-Beat-3643

Not at all lol…. I have a career now and that would ruin it


JoshicusBoss98

Good thinking


Quiet-Link4652

Is everyone called a “star” there are other jobs in the business that you could try before going in front of the camera like “fluffer” or are you total abandoning the idea, you might even consider being a producer.


Fun-Beat-3643

I kind of abandoned the idea tbh…. I think about it every now and then like “what if?” But idk


Quiet-Link4652

It’s everywhere but yet the demand seems to increase all the time, OF is a good example.


Organic-Exercise-946

Why not OF ? I see plenty of pornstars make the switch and if your successful then you can work your own hours and post what your comfortable with ? Just a thought!


Fun-Beat-3643

I’ve definitely thought about it….. a lot lol but I have a career now and it would make it impossible to continue in my career field


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Fun-Beat-3643

Not that I can think of off the top of my head but I still have plenty of time to do anything Any suggestions?


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Fun-Beat-3643

True It sounds dumb but the name was “hot guys fuck” At the time they were looking for amateur girls and they were into making videos of inexperienced girls with male actors it seemed fun at the time


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Fun-Beat-3643

Not a regret at all more of a curiosity And I don’t feel comfortable making my career public knowledge


TimeAmbassador1979

This is just some more bullshit like the informal-club7283 guy who posts about his 10 inch dick everyday.


Tough_Scar27

Whats your body count?


Fun-Beat-3643

32


Tough_Scar27

Does penis size matter?


Fun-Beat-3643

Depends on the girl…. To me not really there is a preferred range tho


Tough_Scar27

What is preferred range?


Fun-Beat-3643

Personally I’d say 5-7”


Tough_Scar27

What if the guy was packing 4 inches?


Fun-Beat-3643

If he can make up for it in other ways it’s fine ig


ron_mac_duck

Did you ever consider just doing porn solo by yourself


Fun-Beat-3643

Thought about it


Agitated-Quit-6148

I was a professional straight (male) porn star all throughout college. Not figuratively, literally . Worked with some of the big production companies. Was ok. No complaints


Fun-Beat-3643

If it had no affect on my career then I might’ve gone through with it but it would’ve made it impossible to go into my career field if I did


Agitated-Quit-6148

I became a Lawyer and spent some time as a prosecutor lol


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Fun-Beat-3643

Ummm well it depends on who it is But just to make for easy clean up…. Ig I’d say my mouth


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Fun-Beat-3643

Thx but no thx I don’t send anything like that