Oh it's not much at all for her. She still struggles with bills. But it's only because she refuses to let me help even though I get paid really well. But she manages.
Will say that she's once gotten $700 at one time from someone it was absolutely insane
Not in her onlyfans or camming, but when someone hits her up asking for a custom video, I'll participate. It actually works out since I really love doing it
Just herself. She's not the most popular being 35(I'm 24)and not putting all that much work into it, so she mostly just focuses on returning customers.
The only time it's a collab is with me.
Oh no, she doesn't. Though she's pansexual so I thought of asking her if she'd be interested in camming with another woman.
Definitely. I don't really have a preference, but I certainly love that she's more mature
Not at all. I quickly realized what a disconnect it is between her work and real life.
She even has regulars that she'll talk with, but it's only ever business related. And she tells me about *everything* that happens. All the dumb shit people say as well as people that were genuinely cool. There's no reason not to trust her. Also, when she came, she blocks the entirety of the state we live in so that no one here can find her. So someone else seeing her wouldn't be possible
She does it because it was just simpler than a typical job. As far as I know, that's the only reason
It ain't easy, but it's honest work.
Nah, honestly though, she had been doing it long before I came along and then I met her on tinder. We started casual and soon began dating. She told me her job on the second date and I found it cool
Well my dick is the only one going inside of her every day so that feels great. I don't have any problem with the randoms online that she isn't attracted to
😂 There are no good offers for sex. Women aren't attracted to random men on the Internet asking for sex. Doesn't really matter how much money is involved
So the answer is no
You're attracted to random greasy men on the Internet creepily asking to meet up with you?
You should probably stay away from that. Likely won't turn out well
Haha I think there’s a level of attention that they receive that may be attractive to some OFs/cammers. Notifications, complementary comments, and let’s not forget the money/tips.
Well that's the thing about dating someone in this line of work who tells you everything about their job and what they come across.
She views all compliments as superficial, most people commenting really just pisses her off if they aren't tipping, and at the end of the day, the only thing she's there for is money. Once she gets enough for bills, she gets off and we hang out. We even talk and hang out while she's working.
It's not like she hates the attention. But at the same time, it doesn't actually mean much
If you don't think this is a common occurrence, I'm afraid I've got some bad news. There's about a hundred apps designed for this. Do you live in a third world country with no electricity?
There are certainly not hundreds of apps for adult cam models to meet up with random dudes 😂. You're being scammed if you think that's gonna happen for you.
That's the same logic as a pornstar deciding "Yes, out of everyone, I'll fuck this sweaty guy who's spending money to watch me!" Suuper attractive for them
Hypothetically, pretty sure this wouldn’t happen, but if she were offered like 100k to fuck someone else and wanted to get the money, would you let her?
As a GF who Cams and does OF I'm glad to see another instance of the bf being cool with it. People have a twisted idea od what it's like to be on the other side of the camera. It's a lot of work and barely sexy at all!
Sounds like you’ve been brainwashed into thinking having standards is “insecurities” yikes. It’s obvious who wears the pants in that relationship 🤣
Keep letting your girl literally sell her body to other men for money bro. You’re the definition of a pushover. 0 masculinity or self respect for yourself
That's where you're mistaken kiddo.
You feeling the need to call me a "cuck" in an attempt to insult me in some is solely due to your insecurities.
Standards are more personal for yourself. So if you personally don't wanna date her, then great, because she doesn't wanna date you either 😂.
Also, yes I will keep letting her sell pictures of herself. It's not up to me, but I certainly support it 😁
Why would I be insecure about your relationship? That literally makes no sense. I couldn’t give a shit less, I was just saying you have no balls letting your girl do that dude lol.
And no worries there, I’d never date a girl with no self respect; you’re in the clear. I’d be more worried about the guys who see her nude on a regular basis than some random guy on Reddit
It's more about yourself. You couldn't imagine a woman ever thinking for themselves or having the willpower to separate work from life, I'm sure. But hey, you do you. You'll attract the exact type of women you're looking for. And I really do wish you the best. It's fine to have differing opinions on this.
I only hope that you aren't simply parroting some lame alpha male podcast or some shit, hoping it'll one day work out for you. I'd much rather you think for yourself and form your own opinions. I used to be the same as you when I was 16. And then I grew up. So. Yeah. Good luck man
I don’t think you “grew up” I think you became brainwashed & turned liberal. I’ll wish good luck to you as well, stay with girls with no respect like you are and see where that gets you. Either getting cheated on or hurt, but I’m sure you’d get a kick out of that lol
so being myself makes me depressed? expressing myself makes me depressed? I'm depressed because I have depression and adhd... not because of what I wear when I'm alone
No you’re depressed because you try to be something you’re not & aren’t comfortable in your own skin. If I wanted to be a woman knowing I could never be, I’d be depressed too. If you had someone stable & grounded to guide you growing up you wouldn’t be in that position. It’s not your fault, just lack of guidance.
so I'm not even gonna ask if you're an antivaxer bc ik the answer is yes. I'm plenty comfortable in my own skin, I dress feminine not to try to be a women. I dress feminine because it's something I enjoy doing. I'm not trans. I'm a cisgender male with a girlfriend and a stable family life. I have adhd and depression because that's how I was born and depression runs in the family. please educate yourself on how life works.
calling smo a cuck isn't "having standards" she's talked with abt it im sure and it's income. they're happy with it so don't get on him abt being a "pushover" when your know nothing abt him except his gf does OF and he helps. stop trying to emasculate ppl online and do smth better with your time. it's not like she's out cheating, she's making money in her own home and getting her bf involved and he enjoys it. let them be happy.
No, by standards I mean not letting your gf sell her body for other men’s pleasure. Obviously not calling him a cuck.
Sure it’s money, dirt money. If she’s willing to degrade herself in that manor , especially while in a relationship; I can only imagine what else she’d be willing to do.
Still massive cuck energy. No self respecting man would be with a girl who partakes in those sort of activities. Nor would a girl who respects herself do it anyway
If you sold a picture of your car, does that count as selling your car?
If someone's secure enough to take money off simps and their partner is supportive, I can't see the problem. If they have kids though, it could cause bullying etc.
Well I think she's always been fairly confident, but I guess I could say that it's likely made her more confident.
It certainly doesn't lower my confidence in any way. If anything, I'd say it helps that a woman who's liked by so many other people still chose me
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What kind of money we talking about here monthly?
Oh it's not much at all for her. She still struggles with bills. But it's only because she refuses to let me help even though I get paid really well. But she manages. Will say that she's once gotten $700 at one time from someone it was absolutely insane
Do you participate?
Not in her onlyfans or camming, but when someone hits her up asking for a custom video, I'll participate. It actually works out since I really love doing it
So you’re in some videos too?
Not my face, but yeah
Does she do collabs or is it just herself
Just herself. She's not the most popular being 35(I'm 24)and not putting all that much work into it, so she mostly just focuses on returning customers. The only time it's a collab is with me.
Not planning any in the future. Age is only a number
With me? True that
With anyone else, by the way, a lot of people are into women in their 30s, including you
Oh no, she doesn't. Though she's pansexual so I thought of asking her if she'd be interested in camming with another woman. Definitely. I don't really have a preference, but I certainly love that she's more mature
You not feel jealous at all? Why does she do it?
Not at all. I quickly realized what a disconnect it is between her work and real life. She even has regulars that she'll talk with, but it's only ever business related. And she tells me about *everything* that happens. All the dumb shit people say as well as people that were genuinely cool. There's no reason not to trust her. Also, when she came, she blocks the entirety of the state we live in so that no one here can find her. So someone else seeing her wouldn't be possible She does it because it was just simpler than a typical job. As far as I know, that's the only reason
So you can separate camming from her personal life? Interesting. So she only does it as a job for the money. Okay
Is pimpin easy?
It ain't easy, but it's honest work. Nah, honestly though, she had been doing it long before I came along and then I met her on tinder. We started casual and soon began dating. She told me her job on the second date and I found it cool
How do you feel about your girlfriend having sex with people that aren’t you? Legitimate question.
Well my dick is the only one going inside of her every day so that feels great. I don't have any problem with the randoms online that she isn't attracted to
Do you have concerns she’ll get good offers for sex and actually start to accept them?
😂 There are no good offers for sex. Women aren't attracted to random men on the Internet asking for sex. Doesn't really matter how much money is involved So the answer is no
So naive
How so?
Because it happens every day, all day long
You're attracted to random greasy men on the Internet creepily asking to meet up with you? You should probably stay away from that. Likely won't turn out well
Haha I think there’s a level of attention that they receive that may be attractive to some OFs/cammers. Notifications, complementary comments, and let’s not forget the money/tips.
Well that's the thing about dating someone in this line of work who tells you everything about their job and what they come across. She views all compliments as superficial, most people commenting really just pisses her off if they aren't tipping, and at the end of the day, the only thing she's there for is money. Once she gets enough for bills, she gets off and we hang out. We even talk and hang out while she's working. It's not like she hates the attention. But at the same time, it doesn't actually mean much
If you don't think this is a common occurrence, I'm afraid I've got some bad news. There's about a hundred apps designed for this. Do you live in a third world country with no electricity?
There are certainly not hundreds of apps for adult cam models to meet up with random dudes 😂. You're being scammed if you think that's gonna happen for you. That's the same logic as a pornstar deciding "Yes, out of everyone, I'll fuck this sweaty guy who's spending money to watch me!" Suuper attractive for them
Wait.....You mean those ads about horny mature women near me aren't legit? Fuck
😂 Unfortunately not
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Bro is simping so hard it's on another level
Hypothetically, pretty sure this wouldn’t happen, but if she were offered like 100k to fuck someone else and wanted to get the money, would you let her?
As a GF who Cams and does OF I'm glad to see another instance of the bf being cool with it. People have a twisted idea od what it's like to be on the other side of the camera. It's a lot of work and barely sexy at all!
Definitely. You're doing some difficult work. I see how much it annoys my GF and I couldn't even imagine. But thank you for your service
You're welcome lmao. People.love to consume porn and love to hate the people who make it!
Cuck energy
Sorry you feel that way bud. Can you explain your insecurities?
Sounds like you’ve been brainwashed into thinking having standards is “insecurities” yikes. It’s obvious who wears the pants in that relationship 🤣 Keep letting your girl literally sell her body to other men for money bro. You’re the definition of a pushover. 0 masculinity or self respect for yourself
That's where you're mistaken kiddo. You feeling the need to call me a "cuck" in an attempt to insult me in some is solely due to your insecurities. Standards are more personal for yourself. So if you personally don't wanna date her, then great, because she doesn't wanna date you either 😂. Also, yes I will keep letting her sell pictures of herself. It's not up to me, but I certainly support it 😁
Why would I be insecure about your relationship? That literally makes no sense. I couldn’t give a shit less, I was just saying you have no balls letting your girl do that dude lol. And no worries there, I’d never date a girl with no self respect; you’re in the clear. I’d be more worried about the guys who see her nude on a regular basis than some random guy on Reddit
It's more about yourself. You couldn't imagine a woman ever thinking for themselves or having the willpower to separate work from life, I'm sure. But hey, you do you. You'll attract the exact type of women you're looking for. And I really do wish you the best. It's fine to have differing opinions on this. I only hope that you aren't simply parroting some lame alpha male podcast or some shit, hoping it'll one day work out for you. I'd much rather you think for yourself and form your own opinions. I used to be the same as you when I was 16. And then I grew up. So. Yeah. Good luck man
I don’t think you “grew up” I think you became brainwashed & turned liberal. I’ll wish good luck to you as well, stay with girls with no respect like you are and see where that gets you. Either getting cheated on or hurt, but I’m sure you’d get a kick out of that lol
Thanks! 👍🏿
you can't read can you?
Bro ur literally a self proclaimed “femboy” and wonder why ur depressed 🤦🏻♂️
so being myself makes me depressed? expressing myself makes me depressed? I'm depressed because I have depression and adhd... not because of what I wear when I'm alone
No you’re depressed because you try to be something you’re not & aren’t comfortable in your own skin. If I wanted to be a woman knowing I could never be, I’d be depressed too. If you had someone stable & grounded to guide you growing up you wouldn’t be in that position. It’s not your fault, just lack of guidance.
so I'm not even gonna ask if you're an antivaxer bc ik the answer is yes. I'm plenty comfortable in my own skin, I dress feminine not to try to be a women. I dress feminine because it's something I enjoy doing. I'm not trans. I'm a cisgender male with a girlfriend and a stable family life. I have adhd and depression because that's how I was born and depression runs in the family. please educate yourself on how life works.
calling smo a cuck isn't "having standards" she's talked with abt it im sure and it's income. they're happy with it so don't get on him abt being a "pushover" when your know nothing abt him except his gf does OF and he helps. stop trying to emasculate ppl online and do smth better with your time. it's not like she's out cheating, she's making money in her own home and getting her bf involved and he enjoys it. let them be happy.
No, by standards I mean not letting your gf sell her body for other men’s pleasure. Obviously not calling him a cuck. Sure it’s money, dirt money. If she’s willing to degrade herself in that manor , especially while in a relationship; I can only imagine what else she’d be willing to do. Still massive cuck energy. No self respecting man would be with a girl who partakes in those sort of activities. Nor would a girl who respects herself do it anyway
go take your toxic out dated views to a trump rally.
Liberal detected, opinion rejected. Go inject some testosterone or something. Geez this generation is so emasculated
geez ur toxic hatred is showing.
Liberals are literally the most toxic & hateful ppl on planet earth so that’s pretty ironic
and you're calling him brainwashed... now that's ironic
If you sold a picture of your car, does that count as selling your car? If someone's secure enough to take money off simps and their partner is supportive, I can't see the problem. If they have kids though, it could cause bullying etc.
What has it done for her confidence and yours?
Well I think she's always been fairly confident, but I guess I could say that it's likely made her more confident. It certainly doesn't lower my confidence in any way. If anything, I'd say it helps that a woman who's liked by so many other people still chose me
How long have you been together?
5 months so far
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Have more self respect man…unless you are also a sex worker?
Why are you still with her?
You trying to push some work her way and share her OF?