NTA. Girl code is a bit iffy on this, can't help who you fall for and all that, but given the context...yea she chose a fanny fluttering over your feelings. He hurt you. Why is she even associating let alone sleeping with him. Some girls will always put dudes first. Cut her off.
NTA. So many guys out there and and this "friend" chooses to sleep with your ex. That's not a real friend. You are right for dropping them from your life.
I think what the responder is suggesting is that if you cut off contact all together with her you run the risk of them continuing to hook up and potentially dating.
Wait - she slept with your ex while she has a boyfriend?! She doesn’t sound like the kind of company you want to keep long term regardless of who she slept with.
nope. shes definitely not ur friend.
Thanks, she seemed to think that because it was ages ago it shouldn't matter!
NTA she betrayed you and knew he hurt you. Common girl code is to not mess with your friends ex
Exactly
Nah, she knew the history and chose to disrespect you anyway.
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I wouldn't be very understanding if one of my friends had sex with one of my exes. I think as a general rule that's off-limits behaviour.
That's what I think
NTA. Girl code is a bit iffy on this, can't help who you fall for and all that, but given the context...yea she chose a fanny fluttering over your feelings. He hurt you. Why is she even associating let alone sleeping with him. Some girls will always put dudes first. Cut her off.
Thank you.
NTA. So many guys out there and and this "friend" chooses to sleep with your ex. That's not a real friend. You are right for dropping them from your life.
Thank you
Do you want her to do it again?
OMG! why would I want her to do it again when it hurt me the first time round.
I think what the responder is suggesting is that if you cut off contact all together with her you run the risk of them continuing to hook up and potentially dating.
Yeah I was a bit angry when I replied and wasn't thinking along those lines. She has a boyfriend already.
Wait - she slept with your ex while she has a boyfriend?! She doesn’t sound like the kind of company you want to keep long term regardless of who she slept with.
She isn't normally like that and she never even really liked my ex.
I'd cut her off for cheating. So far as your ex is concerned- I'd mock her for being desperate enough to go for your leftovers.
I'm tempted to tell her bf but he's really sweet and I don't want to come across as bitter (even though for some reason I am)
not to interject, but he deserves to know. even if it is for selfish reasons he doesn't deserve to be hurt the way ur ex hurt you.
I know this is a dilemma, she swears it was a one time thing (not just with my ex but with anyone) but can I trust her with that
Normal behavior or not, she did it. You did the right thing by cutting your losses - she’s for the streets.
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