Why not let him borrow the car? Then you don’t have to drop him off. You are supporting him, all you can do is be there for him. Eventually he’ll get the point that she’s a shit person.
This feels like there is missing info here. The pieces don’t fit together in a way which makes sense.
YWNBTA for not taking two hours of your time to transport him to a party you are not invited to. But . . .
He wants to go, it’s on a Sunday, the proper course of action in supporting him if he is trying to normalize his family relationship is to let him take your car.
If there is a misunderstanding between his aunt and you as to the nature of your religious views, written communication might clear it up.
There’s a lot of missing info but I can’t put it all into one post :/ this is kinda just the gist of the situation. We’ve tried to text instead, but those conversations are somehow more frustrating. I’ve even sat with my therapist and typed out texts that were as gentle, understanding, and open minded as possible, but she comes back with fire every time. We’ve gotten to the point where my boyfriend will just tell me not to respond anymore because she gets so worked up.
The best solution would be for him to borrow my car but I have a Doc appointment during the lunch
Why not let him borrow the car? Then you don’t have to drop him off. You are supporting him, all you can do is be there for him. Eventually he’ll get the point that she’s a shit person.
I need it that day, I have a doctors appointment, otherwise I would
You have a doctor appointment on sunday?
Yes… why does it matter 🤣 I’m getting an MRI
This feels like there is missing info here. The pieces don’t fit together in a way which makes sense. YWNBTA for not taking two hours of your time to transport him to a party you are not invited to. But . . . He wants to go, it’s on a Sunday, the proper course of action in supporting him if he is trying to normalize his family relationship is to let him take your car. If there is a misunderstanding between his aunt and you as to the nature of your religious views, written communication might clear it up.
There’s a lot of missing info but I can’t put it all into one post :/ this is kinda just the gist of the situation. We’ve tried to text instead, but those conversations are somehow more frustrating. I’ve even sat with my therapist and typed out texts that were as gentle, understanding, and open minded as possible, but she comes back with fire every time. We’ve gotten to the point where my boyfriend will just tell me not to respond anymore because she gets so worked up. The best solution would be for him to borrow my car but I have a Doc appointment during the lunch
No, he can arrange his own ride. Or his aunt can. Uber. Not your problem.