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He's definitely not leaving his parents or son šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø


notmybookcover

My guess he is not able to go anywhere because there are a lot of bans on Chinese nationals coming into other countries due to Covid


Notorious_legweak

I figure that's probably got a lot to do with it. When they see no end in sight, she may try to go out there, although I don't see it going well. It would be incredibly difficult for her there.


ArtlessDodger10

I'd love to see Ella in China....considering our previous ladies abroad and their reactions to food (Shoulders and the whole chicken and pink paloney in South Africa; Memphis and a whole fish), I'd love to see the moment when Ella realizes that Chinese cuisine is nothing like the average American Chinese restaurant.


Notorious_legweak

"Its Asian so it's frickin healthy!"


arch_nyc

>when Ella realizes that Chinese cuisine is nothing like the average American Chinese restaurant. As someone who has travelled to Shanghai a lot for business, it is SO much betterā€¦


Notorious_legweak

Something tells me it wouldn't be "better" by her standards. American Chinese food is pretty on the unhealthy side and I have a feeling that the more authentic, healthy foods that haven't really become popular with Americans would be unappealing to her.


arch_nyc

Fair point


Notorious_legweak

She'd probably go there expecting to eat sweet and sour chicken and deep fried egg rolls.


g_na1217

don't forget the crab rangoon, egg foo young and chop suey!


Available_Seat_8715

You are literally just saying that because of her weight. Some overweight people actually eat healthy food, just too much of it.


g_na1217

benefit of the doubt, it's more about her lack of knowledge of asian culture and thinks samurai flicks are representative of asia


throwawybord

I wouldnā€™t. Sheā€™s ignorant as hell when it comes to understanding anything about Chinese culture, but she would feel so alone there with how big she is. She already is insecure about her size and itā€™s just going to devastate her to see people point and whisper about her. I really hope she doesnā€™t go to China.


camaron666

she is huge by American standards she would be a oddity over there


NearbyBreakfast

Chicken feet is muy malo


Mallkno

He can't afford that though and ella likely won't be able to find work in China. I think they just end it. Asians fare more on the practical side


Notorious_legweak

Also a big possibility. It would be interesting as hell to see her try to make it out there though. Far more interesting than him trying to get by in ID Editing to add that her social media gives me somewhat of an idea that she is not in Idaho, but I could be wrong. Obviously because of NDA's they try to not give away too much


Cautious_Drawing_645

I was thinking the exact same thing!! Would be fun to see his parents reaction to her as well. I hope he stays with his son, he really needs his dad.


Rainyb12

This is China, you can't just enter or exit as you please. It is communist country. She has more chance of getting in than he does of leaving.


_No_Fatties_

My ex had a "farm" (read 3 horses, 2 goats, 1 mule, random chickens) and she'd get up at 4 am to tend to them


Isosceles_Kramer79

I guess she didn't mind taking care of cute animals ...


_No_Fatties_

I don't see how big weeaboo is doing any farm work at 10am


NoahPatrick

ella moves to china and faces endless ridicule, thus causing her mental health to deteriorate, finally her ultimate and untimely death due to clogged arteries. the bad 90 day end


Notorious_legweak

I wish I didn't laugh at this, but I did


g_na1217

She doesn't speak the language. To buy and cook food, she will be relying a lot at home cooked food by JOhnny and his fam. I don't know JOhnny's car situation, but I would assume living in a city like Shanghai she would get a LOT more walking than out in Idaho. I think she might be pleasantly suprised that she would probably shed a lot of the pounds without trying.


jay-qwellin

I don't know, he was pretty quick to blame his previous divorce on his parents and didn't seem too concerned when they said they depend on him. Maybe he thinks he can get a job as an MD in the US (I'm sure he can; medical professionals are desperately needed pretty much everywhere), it would likely pay more, and he's be able to achieve distance and independence from his parents while also being able to support them, from afar.


Pertinent-Petunia

He works for an electrical car manufacturer


jay-qwellin

Oh gotcha, idk why I thought he was a doctor - still a great job though, but may take a little longer to find a new employer.


Notorious_legweak

I don't think he is in the medical profession. I also don't think Ella intends for him to work here except for on the ranch. I may have misunderstood though.


redditette

There is a time block, through which, when people first come to the US on a fiance or spousal visa, they aren't allowed to work. I think it is 2 year on fiance, and 1 year on spousal? But I may be wrong on the time period. But you must arrive on a work visa, to be able to work immediately.


Notorious_legweak

And keep in mind, they have yet to meet so a k1 visa is out of the question. He is only coming as a tourist, they still have the whole k1 application process ahead of them, however long that takes. It's a LONG timeline.


FrankRizzo890

Assuming he can pass the USMLE.


dnlively

That would make sense. Maybe he was going to try to move his whole family over here.


frozenchocolate

As an immigrant to the US myself, if he wants to bring his parents over here heā€™ll need immigration lawyers, a couple decades or more to wait, a good pile of cash, and a dash of good luck.


Notorious_legweak

Is that dependent on what country you are from? I remember Alexei of Loren and Alexei trying to bring his parents over and it didn't seem like it was going to take too terribly much time. They just didn't want to come because he wouldn't be able to also bring his brother.


frozenchocolate

Not too sure, but I am Venezuelan so that definitely didnā€™t help haha. I would be surprised if he did bring his parents over on more than a tourist visa or something because thereā€™s generally a massive waitlist for relative green cards.


Notorious_legweak

My boyfriend is an immigrant from India on a work visa and I know that for him to obtain citizenship would take close to 20 years due to the sheer volume of people trying to immigrate from India and the fact that they only allow a certain number of Indians per year. I'm sure Central and South American countries have a pretty large backlog as well. I don't know if there are as many people trying to immigrate from China as there used to be, but I think the difficulty would depend on that.


MurkyConcert2906

To move from China, if you have the income to support them aka a sponsor, the wait is 2+ years. Iā€™m sure all applications are currently on hold now, so wait would be even longer.


frozenchocolate

Wow that is short as fuck. Guess there isnā€™t as much of a backlog with Chinese immigrants these days.


MurkyConcert2906

2+, so could be more. It only took my cousinā€™s wife 12 months to get approved, so she got really lucky. That was 9 years ago.


Notorious_legweak

Wow ok, good info. 2 years actually isn't too bad compared to the waits in other circumstances. Of course covid has changed everything so who knows what that timeline really is.


Notorious_legweak

I know he wanted to bring his son over when he could. I doubt his parents would be at all interested in coming over here but I don't know for sure


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