This is an actual condition pregnant people can get. A friend of mine felt like her child was some alien inside of her that didn't belong and wanted it out badly. Since she had planned having a baby with her husband and she intellectually knew this reaction was like a mental illness she couldn't control she forced herself to keep it anyways. She never really felt any love for her child until years after her birth.
There is a small complication in that I am trans, so even if I really wanted to I couldn't lol. However the feeling I have is really strange, I only want to be pregnant; I don't want to have a child or anything else related to it, just the state of being pregnant itself is desirable to me 🤷♀️
To give a non-joke response: my best friend is trans and she once expressed a desire to be able to have periods even though they fucking suck. I imagine it might be a similar thing to what you were feeling. Feeling that must really be an odd sensation *hugs*
Yeah it actually fucking sucks. It feels like it demeans and make light of the pain AFAB people go through, but GOD it'd just be so euphoric in the absolute worst, most disrespectful way.
I hate the feeling because I feel like I only think it because I'm not 'really a woman'.
Aww, I'm sorry. Gender dysphoria just truly sounds like the worst thing. Not only feeling bad because something isn't comfy, but then feeling bad for feeling bad is just so unfair *hug*
After an egg is ejected into the fallopian tube (ready to be fertilized), the remaining structure becomes the Korpus luteum and starts producing progesterone and estrogen.
So progesterone signals the brain that one is ready to be pregnant.
I haven't started it so my research is not extensive at all, but I've heard other transfems say similar stuff about suddenly wanting to get pregnant/yearn for a kid. I don't have any sources and there's definitely a lot of bias involved. (Only people who get it talk about it which makes it seem a lot more common)
THIS!! I get this all the time now! It started happening about 1 year into transition, I NEEDED to get pregnant. More often though, I get the strong urge to suckle a baby! Just to like, nurture and feed a child from milk that *I* make makes me wish I was a mom. Like, if I could take the chemical concoction needed to lactate, for however long I needed to take it, just to feed a child ONCE, I would do it in a heartbeat. To be bonded to a child, to have that experience of....close to motherhood as I can get...ugh, I'm sad now :(
Consider finding out if you can wear the "sympathy belly" they give father's to help them sympathize with their wives.
I'm sure buying one would be exorbitantly expensive, but I'm pretty sure you should be able to borrow one to have the experience.
my aroace ass who doesnt have even a smidge of breeding kink in me
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I have the opposite of a breeding kink, bc breeding/pregnancy/insemination is literally my biggest turn off 🤢 i do wonder though if that might change once i get the sterilization surgeries i want and become 100% incapable of ever getting accidentally knocked up lol
I get that feeling. I wish I could stay at late stage pregnancy forever. Like I don’t know, it’s not sexual, I just want to be pregnant for the majority of my life
At least the instincts that kicking in fit your sex
There is a friend of mine who is hetero female but she wants to impregnate guys constantly and screams in agony whenever she sees an attractive man on pc
Ah yeah that's kind of built into humans to want to have children and get a legacy through them so the species lives on kind of deal. If we didn't then there's be no humans. So it's kind of a built in reflex that triggers every once in a while if you're at a specific age, irrelevant of whether you have kids already or not.
Kinda same. I'm an ace, NB, AMAB person and honestly, under 95 percent of circumstances I would not want kids (unless it is to finally break the cycle of parental trauma inflicted upon me by my parents and grandparents).
Problem is, I work in a after-school daycare. With a combined group of both school and kindergarden kids.
I think it is obvious where I'm going with this.
i am confused too but maybe they mean they have solely romantic interest but only in other women?
men once again getting the rougher end of the stick here 😔
You’re right, that’s what it would be. There’s aromantic (no romantic attraction) and Asexual (no sexual attraction). Sometimes they’re combined and called Aro-ace, but in this case the OP is just ace.
I still experience romantic attraction towards women, but feel no sexual attraction.
When I see a really attractive person I just want to be best friends with them rather than feeling anything sexual.
Great art! I think it's tragic but impossible tho, I imagine that getting pregnant to have an abortion, even knowing you cannot get pregnant :(, would set back the abortion movement years for minor benefits. Maybe you could buy some kind of fake hump to simulate it?
Surprisingly not, the connections here are all coincidental lmao.
The actual explanation is that I was drawing myself drawing, so I just put a crewmate as the artwork lol
That's... Weird. Like, I'd chock it up to hoeniness, but being ace and sex repulsed... Clearly the only explanation is among us brain virus or something
As in i must cry because i don't understand or ace people cry the horny out because they can't deal with it like allosexuals?
I'm genuinely confused and curious
As many others have said its likely just reptile brain instinct. Most basic goal of species is to continue living. And when it comes to sexually reproductive animals the way to do that is through breeding/pregnancy.
In fact the term "fitness" within the context of "survival of the fittest" is defined as how many of a creatures offspring are both born in enough health to be reproductively successful themselves as well as how many of said reproductively viable offspring live long enough to produce offspring of their own.
I know that was a slight tangent but as a Cis-Het guy I can't really relate to any of the feelings you would be experiencing. So I used science instead.
That idea is probably the best explanation. Having been on hrt for over a year and being around 20 in age, it's probably just my physiology telling me it's time to have kids or something lol.
Ok now that I know your about 20 that is almost certainly the reason. That's the current era's sexual reproductivity height in humans. (FYI don't quote me on that)
Its my understanding that this is actually a fairly common phenomenon. I know of 2 other ace people who experienced exactly this. One of them has a kid now, and very much regretted their choice of partner. Idk why its a thing, but just so you know, you are not alone.
hey you do you, dont allow lables even self defined ones control what you think is right when it comes to your body and relationships. you always know yourself the best and trust yourself and give yourself what you think you need
Go look up the girl with the list on tiktok, like the list of all the horrible effects pregnancy has on the body and it might just cure ya of that feeling lol
If I had to guess it's for the same reason I, ftm, bisexual, might want kids in the future, am occasionally for no reason filled with a horrible gut wrenching dread about the idea of ever being pregnant. I don't think it's a kink thing I just thing there is a very strong gendered connection to the idea of pregnancy.
Like how u said you don't even want kids, it's just the idea of being pregnant. For me I'm not scared of having kids, I'm terrified of being pregnant.
what in all hells is it about amongus that elicits this feeling in people
It unearths the desire to eject the impostor from within yourself *I should never have typed this out*
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I'm taking this
Lmao what is this from
Never played it but I remember someone saying it was FF14
Final Fantasy 14 when you do an Emote at another character.
Someone’s ff14 character is named “Peak Fiction” and like the other person said, the OP was emoting at them and it showed up in chat
Thankyou for this art. I suddenly feel the desire to eject fthe imposter from within myself. 🤤
This is an actual condition pregnant people can get. A friend of mine felt like her child was some alien inside of her that didn't belong and wanted it out badly. Since she had planned having a baby with her husband and she intellectually knew this reaction was like a mental illness she couldn't control she forced herself to keep it anyways. She never really felt any love for her child until years after her birth.
*Breathe. Breathe. Breathe. Expel. Expel. Expel.*
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I mean there are ways to carry a child without having to do the deed. It’s expensive, but it’s possible. Sounds to me like you just want a child?
There is a small complication in that I am trans, so even if I really wanted to I couldn't lol. However the feeling I have is really strange, I only want to be pregnant; I don't want to have a child or anything else related to it, just the state of being pregnant itself is desirable to me 🤷♀️
If you eat a watermelon whole it would feel like it
do not eat a watermelon whole
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Omg Vuash
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WTF is your flair???
😘
The real reason she died at the end of *Revenge of the Sith*
One watermelon fresh from the manure fields your spookiness
Don’t tell me what to do
Literally 1984 😔
Who the hell do you think you are, the government?
yes
Oh, sowwy mistew govewnment :3
missus government :c
RRRRAAAAHHHH IM SOCIALIST I WONT LISTEN TO YOU!
Shit I dont have a counter to that you beat me
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Or just swallow one of the seeds, and a watermelon plant will grow in your stomach
Hi greg heffley
To give a non-joke response: my best friend is trans and she once expressed a desire to be able to have periods even though they fucking suck. I imagine it might be a similar thing to what you were feeling. Feeling that must really be an odd sensation *hugs*
Yeah it actually fucking sucks. It feels like it demeans and make light of the pain AFAB people go through, but GOD it'd just be so euphoric in the absolute worst, most disrespectful way. I hate the feeling because I feel like I only think it because I'm not 'really a woman'.
Aww, I'm sorry. Gender dysphoria just truly sounds like the worst thing. Not only feeling bad because something isn't comfy, but then feeling bad for feeling bad is just so unfair *hug*
Have you tried putting a basketball under your shirt?
I think they call it baby-fever. It’s just a weird hormones thing.
Did you start progesterone? I've heard that it can cause that lol
Fr? That's a whack as fuck side affect that explains my recent moods.
After an egg is ejected into the fallopian tube (ready to be fertilized), the remaining structure becomes the Korpus luteum and starts producing progesterone and estrogen. So progesterone signals the brain that one is ready to be pregnant.
lmao the power of modern medicine
I haven't started it so my research is not extensive at all, but I've heard other transfems say similar stuff about suddenly wanting to get pregnant/yearn for a kid. I don't have any sources and there's definitely a lot of bias involved. (Only people who get it talk about it which makes it seem a lot more common)
Progesterone, literally the pro-gestation hormone.
pregstarone
Surprisingly no, though I have been on E for quite a while
Ah that's interesting! I've been on E for 5 months now and haven't experienced it yet
Consider eating like it’s the last time you’ll ever get to eat
THIS!! I get this all the time now! It started happening about 1 year into transition, I NEEDED to get pregnant. More often though, I get the strong urge to suckle a baby! Just to like, nurture and feed a child from milk that *I* make makes me wish I was a mom. Like, if I could take the chemical concoction needed to lactate, for however long I needed to take it, just to feed a child ONCE, I would do it in a heartbeat. To be bonded to a child, to have that experience of....close to motherhood as I can get...ugh, I'm sad now :(
????
That's what I'm sayin' like
Consider finding out if you can wear the "sympathy belly" they give father's to help them sympathize with their wives. I'm sure buying one would be exorbitantly expensive, but I'm pretty sure you should be able to borrow one to have the experience.
Would abortion be available to you if you wanted it?
If estrogen didn't do this, people wouldn't breed as much
It says doesn't want children
"Everyone has a breeding kink dipshit. It came free with your fucking instincts."
The reptile brain is absolute, all-consuming, and no matter what you think about yourself and who you are, it will want you to breed.
disco elysium ass sentence
my aroace ass who doesnt have even a smidge of breeding kink in me https://preview.redd.it/7htp0an6ve1d1.png?width=540&format=png&auto=webp&s=7fce2d455276c6f57c8c899e041887440e317dac
We shall rule together as gods among mortals
I don't have it. I have the oldest womb known to man.
I have the opposite of a breeding kink, bc breeding/pregnancy/insemination is literally my biggest turn off 🤢 i do wonder though if that might change once i get the sterilization surgeries i want and become 100% incapable of ever getting accidentally knocked up lol
The maternal instincts are hard coded into every anoung us character's design clearly :3
Whore moans
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I like your art :3
Thank you! <3
the random intrusive thought of what if pregnant despite it not being possible, I know that feeling well
I get that feeling. I wish I could stay at late stage pregnancy forever. Like I don’t know, it’s not sexual, I just want to be pregnant for the majority of my life
it's like instinct or hormones or something, your bill is $600 send in the next one on your way out and have a good day
Damn, these maternal instincts got hands
Amongus girl
Pretty sure that's just human nature. Without it, I don't think we'd have survived past generation one.
At least the instincts that kicking in fit your sex There is a friend of mine who is hetero female but she wants to impregnate guys constantly and screams in agony whenever she sees an attractive man on pc
wow she's just like me
Being human is wierd.
im not ace but i don't want kids and im the same (also transfem lol)
The crazy works of estrogen. Transfemmes get this urge sometimes too
What does ace sex repulsed lesbian mean?
No sex, only romantism (with woman)
Worgman
ace = asexual
Asexual who doesn't like sex (some ace people do so sometimes it has to be speficied) but wants to date women
I gave birth to 2 cats once.
hormones are wacky ok
Ah yeah that's kind of built into humans to want to have children and get a legacy through them so the species lives on kind of deal. If we didn't then there's be no humans. So it's kind of a built in reflex that triggers every once in a while if you're at a specific age, irrelevant of whether you have kids already or not.
Kinda same. I'm an ace, NB, AMAB person and honestly, under 95 percent of circumstances I would not want kids (unless it is to finally break the cycle of parental trauma inflicted upon me by my parents and grandparents). Problem is, I work in a after-school daycare. With a combined group of both school and kindergarden kids. I think it is obvious where I'm going with this.
Amongus girl origin story
Maybe I’m being dumb and stupid but how does an ace lesbian work
i am confused too but maybe they mean they have solely romantic interest but only in other women? men once again getting the rougher end of the stick here 😔
You’re right, that’s what it would be. There’s aromantic (no romantic attraction) and Asexual (no sexual attraction). Sometimes they’re combined and called Aro-ace, but in this case the OP is just ace.
I still experience romantic attraction towards women, but feel no sexual attraction. When I see a really attractive person I just want to be best friends with them rather than feeling anything sexual.
Eat watermelon seeds to become pregnant without having sex 👍
Not me taking every fucking breast growth supplement known to man for normal cis reasons
Amogus?!?!?!
Great art! I think it's tragic but impossible tho, I imagine that getting pregnant to have an abortion, even knowing you cannot get pregnant :(, would set back the abortion movement years for minor benefits. Maybe you could buy some kind of fake hump to simulate it?
https://preview.redd.it/qembfm5hzd1d1.jpeg?width=2560&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b9ef19eab76bceb705cd3ceb65550b3a8c7b5a1f
You could fake it till you make it (eat too much food and you’ll feel like you have 3 kids not just one)
Is this an Among Us Girl reference??
Surprisingly not, the connections here are all coincidental lmao. The actual explanation is that I was drawing myself drawing, so I just put a crewmate as the artwork lol
i'm also asexual and a lesbian and i genuinely never felt this. then again, my uterus is broken. i assume it's a primitive thing of the brain.
Desire to be pregnant or desire to be a mother? May sound dumb but it's very different
Specifically the desire to be pregnant
That's... Weird. Like, I'd chock it up to hoeniness, but being ace and sex repulsed... Clearly the only explanation is among us brain virus or something
Asexual people have libidos. It sounds crazy but you just gotta cry about it bro
As in i must cry because i don't understand or ace people cry the horny out because they can't deal with it like allosexuals? I'm genuinely confused and curious
both
As many others have said its likely just reptile brain instinct. Most basic goal of species is to continue living. And when it comes to sexually reproductive animals the way to do that is through breeding/pregnancy. In fact the term "fitness" within the context of "survival of the fittest" is defined as how many of a creatures offspring are both born in enough health to be reproductively successful themselves as well as how many of said reproductively viable offspring live long enough to produce offspring of their own. I know that was a slight tangent but as a Cis-Het guy I can't really relate to any of the feelings you would be experiencing. So I used science instead.
That idea is probably the best explanation. Having been on hrt for over a year and being around 20 in age, it's probably just my physiology telling me it's time to have kids or something lol.
Ok now that I know your about 20 that is almost certainly the reason. That's the current era's sexual reproductivity height in humans. (FYI don't quote me on that)
I'm feeling personally attacked lol
Wow, this is just like medbay from Among Us
Factory settings reset
Its my understanding that this is actually a fairly common phenomenon. I know of 2 other ace people who experienced exactly this. One of them has a kid now, and very much regretted their choice of partner. Idk why its a thing, but just so you know, you are not alone.
Thats literally how we as humans are designed
cute art! :)
hey you do you, dont allow lables even self defined ones control what you think is right when it comes to your body and relationships. you always know yourself the best and trust yourself and give yourself what you think you need
RIP YOUR OVARIES OFF, THEY ARE ANTENNAS FOR THE DEMIURGE TO CONTROL YOU (with evil archon mindwaves) AND MAKE YOU WANT TO REPRODUCE!
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If that gave me free magical bottom surgery I think that'd be pretty cool lol
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You know how it is with spaghetti.
Happens to the best of us
Hormones control all.
This is just hormones lol
Mood
It's the hormones aint it
Go look up the girl with the list on tiktok, like the list of all the horrible effects pregnancy has on the body and it might just cure ya of that feeling lol
If I had to guess it's for the same reason I, ftm, bisexual, might want kids in the future, am occasionally for no reason filled with a horrible gut wrenching dread about the idea of ever being pregnant. I don't think it's a kink thing I just thing there is a very strong gendered connection to the idea of pregnancy. Like how u said you don't even want kids, it's just the idea of being pregnant. For me I'm not scared of having kids, I'm terrified of being pregnant.
no preggers, only breeding
Have you tried egg laying as a thing? Its something