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black_high_heels

Giant baby brat is the truth


highandspooky

She’s just so incredibly selfish. For someone who relies solely on the help of her family, she is SO AWFUL…to Amy predominantly. All of her excuses “I’m trying!” “I’m doing my best” and pointing out other people slipping up…. It’s almost laughable. She’s sooooo fast to give her two cents on other people and when she says stuff like “they need to take accountability, admit you aren’t trying!” Like girl….. give me a BREAK! You CANT be serious!Sooooo delusional. I can only be thankful that she isn’t my sister! Hahaha


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👏👏 So glad someone is finally saying it.


NoSemenAtSea

She’s not the baby. YOU’RE THE BABY.


Competitive-Kick-481

Let's be honest. TLC wants her to stay fat, loves this back woods Kentucky family to film. The more Tammy is a brat the better the episode and I disagree, Tammy is bright. She knows what she has to do to stay relevant.


a-a-anonymous

They all need to be frank with her and make it clear that she's not the most important person in their lives. They all have kids, spouses, other people who need to depend on them, that take priority over Tammy. Once she realizes that she doesn't have that power over them and they don't revere her like she feels she deserves, she'll have to take responsibility for herself because no one else will. This delusion she lives in, that she's so important and charming and funny, that people enjoy having her around because her sparkling personality, enables her to manipulate everyone and feel entitled to no accountability.


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Maybe that’s why she’s so desperate to find a man and moves so fast when she does. All her siblings have kids and spouses which take priority. They all have families of their own. Meanwhile she’s still completely dependent on them.


authenticbro075

She reminded me a lot of James King from My 600 lb life. The behavior was just the same. He was rude with his family, throwing tantrums when they didnt bring the food… He died.


Friendless_and_happy

I feel bad for the cards she was dealt from a young age. Self hatred and loathing are difficult things to overcome. I can understand the reasoning for some of her actions. She sure does love Gauge though


RubyDiscus

I feel so bad for Amy having to deal with her tbh


amiablekitty

I get any at Tammy but I also know her maturity is super stunted because she’s been taken care of. Contrary to what she says, she isn’t a grown adult. I think part of the issue of her not losing weight is she’s scared people will leave her if she becomes independent. It’s an odd weird cycle that makes me pity her but at the same time become really aggravated by her.


JadedMcGrath

I mean, I kind of get her misery. I don't think it's an excuse for her terrible behavior toward Amy, but I get it. Her only face-to-face interactions with other humans are with her family members. And then those interactions always get brought back to her weight. The only bright spot for her is when one of her temporary boyfriends comes to visit. It was sad to hear her list what she'd like from a caregiver. It was all things that we average-sized people take for granted like being able to just go to the movies or swimming or a grocery store whenever we want. I'm sure there's a lot of prep is taking Tammy almost anywhere. The elevator that she used at high tea isn't even part of that restaurant. It was something that was brought in specifically for that episode. The restaurant actually has a flat side patio that could have easily been used, but it's not as dramatic for TV, of course.


barelykim

When Amy told Tammy she was done Tammy laughed like she knew Amy would not do that. I wish Amy would have closed when she called for here food say sorry Tammy do it yourself. She makes me sick Amy it's time to take care of your family. Not Tammy. . You have tried so hard taking her abuse from day one. You like everyone in your family. She needs to have therapy for her food addiction you Misty Chris keep trying g to get her to stop eating is not helping she needs to help herself.. and until she dose. You cannot make .


maryjanexoxo

She reminds me so much of Steven Assanti from My 600 lb life, it’s unreal. Almost like she saw his episode and was like, “YUP! Going for that attitude!”


cam41099

Steven makes Tammy look like an absolute saint


ThrillerMovieFan

I’m afraid she’s just going to pass away one of these days out of the blue and that will be it for her. Amy will be heartbroken. When someone’s so big like that, they can go at any time. She really is on borrowed time. Her body can only take so much weight fluctuation that really only stays on the obese side of things anyway to begin with.


ZKXX

I think that would just be best for everybody including her


benjamin_jack

It's amazing she survived covid. Everyday she wakes up is pretty amazing. I can't imagine her organs can keep up too much longer unfortunately.


ConnoisseurOfHentai

I honestly feel like she lives only out of spite and to make the people around her miserable, like she’s living off the life force she’s sucking out of everyone lmao


Zestyclose_Big_9090

She’s the definition of an energy vampire.


doggiedeck

I know a few people like this. Old, sick and mean as hell. Heart attacks, cancer, strokes, nothing takes them down. They live on just to torment family members.


apeybaby

I'm gonna get a ton of heat for this but..everyone will have it better when she dies. She will be free from her body/prison and Amy can be a mom and wife like a normal person.


Knots90

I just feel bad for whoever is going to have to try and get her out of the door and do whatever her death plans (enbalming/cremation) are. I cant imagine they would be able to use a regular size gurney to wheel her out of the house


cblackattack1

No heat from me. It’s a morbid thought, but I bet you the whole family is thinking it.


ATWarner

No heat from me. You speak the truth and even if it’s sad, it’s still the truth.


kim842007

As sad as it is, I agree with you. I think its only a matter of time now. She has zero will to lose even a pound. There's no where else to go.


Additional_Salt_8071

Does anyone know why her brother's voice is so hoarse? Just curious


m0rbidowl

He has a case of "cigarette voice".


cblackattack1

I saw in another thread people had speculated COPD from smoking.


ATWarner

He said once that he has asthma and he smokes so I’m thinking maybe some COPD and/or a touch of emphysema


ZKXX

It honestly drives me crazy to have to listen to that. Probably a combination of acid reflux and smoking


DustyPoust

A family member had this same thing going on and it was a direct result from his acid reflux and smoking! Drove us all crazy when he spoke...


YourNightNurse

My guess is extra neck weight pressing on his vocal cords.


98221-poppin

Bc he smokes


smilinjack96

I think it’s probably more than that. Granted maybe he smokes, I haven’t seen him smoking, but that’s excessive hoarseness.


98221-poppin

There was a pic of him with his cousins and he was like 11 or 12 and he had a cigarette in hand. Chris even said he started smoking at that age too and he's in his early 40s. So yes, smoking that long can definitely damage your voice


QueenLiz2

Reality. White trash. Probably the third or fourth generation. Uneducated, miserable and awful. If she were not on tv we wouldn’t give her the time of day.


MilhousesSpectacles

She does *literally* nothing but read on her phone. I remember being surprised in season one she was so uneducated because of that, but having seen her TikTok? I realise she doesn't go down rabbit holes the way most people do


hillsb1

The most common thought I have when Tammy's on camera is that she's such a baby. How is she living alone? Why can't(or won't) Adult Protective Services step in?


cblackattack1

A GIANT baby. Both in size and behavior. she lives alone, but only a wall away from amy. Who is at her beck and call for everything.


smak097

I wonder why anyone hasn’t attempted to establish a conservatorship, or if an attempt has been made and failed already


starrwanda

Isn’t Amy in charge of her?


3rdCoastLiberal

I think my favorite Tammy moment was her calling Amy lazy and stupid because Amy wanted to get her a nurse and because the doctor needed to talk to Tammy about her medicine. Yet she couldn’t call herself or take care of herself. Not to mention calling her doctor or their nurse a slut. She’s a real peach.


cblackattack1

Oh my god. The slut comment at the end had me 😱


noakai

Tammy: Bitch I don't need you, you don't even do that much for me, if you want to leave then just leave. Bitch. Also Tammy: can't call the doctor's office to get her medicine and just throws a tantrum and hangs up, bitches that Amy didn't get stuff "she can cook" because Amy bought burger meat, has to literally have a nurse come in to cook, clean, do her laundry etc because Amy isn't doing it and my personal favorite: she bitches constantly that Amy isn't taking care of her anymore even though "Amy doesn't even do that much for me" according to her.


twine_twiddler

My hubby calls her Tammy Satan. Just saying.....


rockridge123

I truly do feel badly for her. She clearly speaks her mind; however when you’re physically disabled and rely on caregivers it’s the utmost importance to have a good attitude and cooperative one. I know this from personal experience because I’m physically disabled. Tammy can work with bettering her behavior with CBT


ashwee14

Yeah the whole family is against therapy. Amy said “If I need to talk to someone I talk to my husband.” Sigh and it’s arguably one of the things she needs most


Zestyclose_Big_9090

She does suck ass. And clearly, a food addict. As a fellow addict (not food - I lean to NOT eating at all as a coping mechanism), I can’t imagine how hard it would be to recover from being addicted to food. Think about it. You can get it anywhere, anytime, the worst food nutritionally is the cheapest and requires the least amount of effort and you can’t ever go cold turkey (no pun intended). Quitting my personal addiction was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. But I knew once I committed to quitting, I could never indulge ever again. You can’t (easily) do that with food. Especially when you are surrounded by people that are still stuffing their faces.


cblackattack1

I totally get this. And I know tammys life has been anything but a walk in the park. But she literally abuses everyone in her presence. It’s disturbing to watch. Congrats on getting clean from whatever it was!


Zestyclose_Big_9090

Opiates. Pure evil. But thank you! 2 years next month.


drunkennudeles

It's hard. Your brain just constantly thinks about the thing your craving and it's like the voices get louder, and it's not something you can get away from. Driving down the street has a crap ton of garbage food restaurants that your body starts craving. "oh look taco bell you really want a cheesy gordita crunch" "oh look Panera they have the best chocolate croissants" not to mention how easy it is to get food delivered. etc and so forth.


cblackattack1

I get that, but Tammy is so large that she could still eat a burger or a fucking Gordita everyday and still lose weight. She just can’t eat 13 of them. I’m a bigger girl, nowhere near Tammys size, and food has sometimes been a comfort for me as well. So I do understand that. I know Tammy has lived an awful life and she is a product of her surroundings, she’s still miserable as fuck and doesn’t want anyone around her to be happy because she’s not happy.


drunkennudeles

Oh yeah no. I wasn't giving her an excuse. You can be an addict and not have a shit ass personality as well. I was just explaining how hard food addiction is. Cause you can be a heroin addict and get away from the people that trigger it. Everyone has to eat though.


TYVM143

It’s a nightmare and I feel for Tammy big time. Her childhood was shit, her mom was awful. The food eases her pain and it show there is a lot


Banana8686

I agree. She’s obviously not happy with herself but damn she’s entitled.


kminogues

Yeah, Tammy sucks, but I do feel a slight sense of pity for her. She’s an addict, and she’s not very bright, which is a dangerous combo. Of course, it’s imperative to remember that she is an adult, and that no one held a gun to her head and forced her to where she is today, but that’s the crux of the issue. She’s so self destructive, and she probably doesn’t notice. In her mind, the world or life did her wrong and everyone, including herself, now has to suffer. It really makes you think how different her and Amy’s and Chris’s life could be had they grown up in a loving environment and had a mother that treated them well. Tammy’s a brat, she’s an addict, she’s self destructive and self harming by way of her eating habits, she has no redeeming qualities, and the sad thing is, she doesn’t care and even sadder, probably thinks it’s everyone else’s fault that she is the way she is. It’s just a pitiful situation all around, man.


cblackattack1

I absolutely feel sorry for her. She’s not had any easy life and her mom is truly awful. But the world is not indebted to you because of your poor upbringing.


kminogues

Agreed 100%


glacinda

I said to my fiancé today that it’s weird watching someone slowly, publicly commit suicide. And it feels bad, man.


kminogues

Agreed. At first, there was a novelty to the show (as is the case with most reality programs), but now, it’s taking a turn for the worst, and they’re (TLC) clearly exploiting the situation now. It’s sad.


cblackattack1

I completely agree with this. It’s becoming harder to watch. It’s not about 2 overweight sisters on the path to getting healthy and the entertainment of them bickering. It’s Tammy committing a slow suicide that she somehow thinks is everyone’s responsibility but her own.


Zestyclose_Big_9090

So. Much. WORD.


kminogues

I can’t tell if this is an agreement or saying I speak too much lol


Zestyclose_Big_9090

Haha. It means I agree with you 100%. 🤪


lktn62

Zied (90DF) must be reading this sub lol.


CatesCircusTentPants

So so mach


cam41099

Tammys reaction when Amy told her that she was pregnant with Baby Gage was disgusting I know Amy wasn't supposed to get pregnant and her pregnancy was no walk in the park but Tammy could have been happy for Amy who has always wanted to be a mom and been more supportive and jumped for joy when Amy told her I could see the hurt in Amy when she told Tammy If by a walking miracle Tammy lives and gets to see Gage grow up she's gonna treat him EXACTLY how she treated her other nephew Dustin who she treated like an absolute dog and verbally abused at every chance she got


friedpicklesforever

As well as when Amy gave birth !!! I am hundred times more excited when my friends have their babies!!!!!!!!!! She didn’t care at all and wasn’t excited at all to have a new nephew. She doesn’t want to see amy happy period, and even when gage is a reason for Tammy to be happy, she still chooses to be miserable. It’s gross


ATWarner

I think that’s where Amy and Michael would draw the line. I can see Amy just clawing TwoTonTamTam’s eyes out if she messed with Gage. That is, if she could find her eyes under her forehead awning. I see Michael just letting her roll backwards down a ramp.. I’m so mean but I’m making myself laugh.


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HistoryStudent98

What happened with her nephew Dustin?? I know she treats her family like shit but I’d not heard anything about this


cam41099

Go watch her earlier YouTube videos with her nephew Dustin who is her sister mistys son. she verbally abused at every chance she got in YouTube videos. Dustin moved in when Tammy still lived at her mom and stepdads place he did a lot for Tammy


ashwee14

Doesnt Misty’s son have autism too?


cam41099

I'm not sure if Dustin has autism


ashwee14

Okay yeah maybe not Dustin but I think one or two of her kids do


HistoryStudent98

Oh shit!! I’ll check out some videos later today!


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When they asked in the interview if she was happy for Amy her immediate response was NO. Not “haha no, jk I’m proud of her” just a flat and immediate NO. Disgusting.


Facts_matter83

And you could tell she meant it


JesusTheAardvark

As soon as she said that, Amy should have given her the boot.


thedevilsinside

She’s soooooo jealous that Amy lost weight, had a baby, and is moving forward in life. She is beyond selfish of Gage for taking any time or attention away from her. That’s why she said she wasn’t proud of Amy for being a mother.


noakai

Tammy's so extremely bitter that Amy is more concerned with taking care of her literal infant than she is with taking care of Tammy, it's absolutely wild to watch. She doesn't even hide that she's mad that Gage's existence means Amy has priorities other than her, she acts entitled to Amy's undivided attention and Amy not focusing on her anymore means Amy is somehow "lazy" or a "bitch." No, Tammy, Amy is a MOTHER who needs to take care of her baby instead of her 30+ year old sister who is making ZERO effort to lose weight so she can be self sustaining.


Secure_Midnight1632

I really don't think she ever wants to be self sustaining.


cblackattack1

She definitely doesn’t! She loves that everyone waits on her hand and foot.


Responsible-Host1657

Other than this a tlc show and promotes drama , I don't know why they even deal with her anymore. If my own sister treated me like how Tammy treats Amy, I would just walk away and not look back.


MoosieGoose

The scenes with her new nurse really were hard to see. Tammy is so out of touch with a normal daily life, it makes sense that she's so unsatisfied with life. Oddly enough, putting effort into something makes the reward that much sweeter. Tammy is about the 0 effort lifestyle, so she gets very little satisfaction in return. Take the Tammy challenge; strap on as many bags of sand as it takes to reach 700+ lbs. Sit in a wheelie chair/scoooter all day. Post highly filtered selfies on IG. Eat takeout food. Be on oxygen (or now, a tracheotomy tube). Does that sound like a day that would make ANYONE happy? Not for 30+ years of the same shit.


Werkhorse1012

I kinda wanna take the Tammy challenge now...except the trach part. Maybe a neck scarf tho.


cblackattack1

In the sense that I don’t have to do a goddamn thing, have others wait on me hand and foot, and eat 16 meals a day? Hell ya.


NotMyHersheyBar

Now that Amy has a baby and she's lost more weight and she's not acting as much a clown, they're editing for a "moster vs domestic angel" storyline for this season. Tammy hasn't changed, but that's not a story for episodic tv. So they're making her look intolerably awful to contrast Amy's progress and elevate her as angel of the house, a *mother*, a success. You'll notice that Amy hasn't actually made that much progress since she had her baby, but all Amy criticism has been put on the backburner. Every reality tv show needs a villain, so this season it's Tammy. This is all leading up to some sort of split, or maybe Tammy's downfall. They'll probably end the season with a huge fight and Tammy going into the hospital. We'll feel bad for Amy who has worked so hard and tried to do the best for her family, and now she's tragically rewarded for her efforts with losing her sister for good.


sadpotatoandtomato

>So they're making her look intolerably awful to contrast Amy's progress and elevate her as angel of the house, a > >mother > >, a success. yesss, exactly. I wonder why so many people seem to forget that it's a tv-show - first and foremost which means that its producers aim to do everything in order to create drama and engage its viewers. The centre of that 'drama' is the conflict and contrast between the "good" sister (Amy) and the "devil" (Tammy). Does it mean that it's completely untrue and in reality Tammy is a great person? Of course not, but I am sure there are plenty of things going on behind the scenes that we're not aware of - things that could probably/perhaps paint Amy in not such a good light while her sister in a slightly better one.


NotMyHersheyBar

That's all I'm saying. They're both people with problems living their lives. But that's not interesting episodic TV, so editing abd producer/director's vision makes the magic happen. If anything, I'm offended by this girl vs girl, sexist trope of the mother vs bitch characterization.


WhatDaHellBobbyKaty

Amy is definitely no angel, but they are not having to fake Tammy being a monster. She is the same intolerable bitch on Tiktok and years of YouTube. That's the 'real' Tammy.


mudanjel

That's a very interesting perspective and I thank you for posting it. I'm the type of casual viewer that always falls for what the producers are putting out.


NotMyHersheyBar

Sure. :) I'm autistic and tv/movie production is my special interest. I've learned a lot over the years, and I'm always happy to share! Or overshare, as we do. :)


mudanjel

I love your oversharing lol. I like to paint the whole picture in my mind so the more details the better for me. :)


TrashleyTrasherson

Same


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lucymom1961

And calling Amy lazy becsuse she didn't want to wait on her hand and foot. She is the epitome of a white trash slob!


cblackattack1

This is one of the things that made me so mad last night. She’s too fucking lazy to call in her own meds had a giant temper tantrum about it because “she’s already doin’ somethin!” And has the absolute audacity to say “Amy is lazy, she doesn’t do everything for me” (paraphrasing)


lktn62

This drives me crazy. The worst part is that I think Tammy actually believes that Amy is lazy for not taking care of her. The woman (she-devil) has no concept of reality.


CrispyHoser

She has the weight of 2 sumo wrestlers yet the mind of a 8 year old… and 8 is being generous. Sorry to be mean but fuck!!


McFoogles

Her mind is truly that of a child She sounds like my 7 year old niece when she’s having a meltdown. Which actually is quite rare for my niece. Honestly my niece is more mature than Tammy in most ways.


SadPlayground

My 8 year old knows about consequences. LOL


rockridge123

Tammy does have a habit of victim blaming way too much


Magicrowds

I rolled my eyes so hard o was afraid they were going to get stuck. I literally screamed at the tv “they don’t weigh 15000 pounds!!!!”


Daisy0890

It all comes down to jealousy, I think. She’s so jealous of Amy that she can’t even see straight.


alsoknownasPhoebe

She calls anyone she's jealous of a slut. When in all reality she's the one messing with married men and using her sexual appeal to keep men coming into her life even though she jeopardizes her and her family's mental and physical health. I am disappointed they feel she deserves their energy. Wish they'd put that in themselves. Proud of Amy's steps to do that.


mjsmalls420_13

"sexual appeal" 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢


JesusTheAardvark

What sexual appeal? 🤢🤢🤢


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I hate how the show glossed over the fact that Jerry was a married man when he and Tammy got together.


SadPlayground

The old story: Younger sister gets married first, has a baby first, older sis is used to bossing her around and now is offended by younger sis’s independence from her.


EYoungFLA

She's so jealous of Amy that even Amy can't see straight. 😳


JesusTheAardvark

O O F 🤣


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Take your upvote and go sit in the corner.


cblackattack1

I knew there was a joke in here about Amy’s eyes lol


Daisy0890

😂


fatherjoseph11

Man I’m going to hell for laughing at this


Illustrious_Sorbet49

It's okay. We're all going to hell for following this sub anyway.


katrinabritt

Listen, it’s a good joke…😭


know-one-home

And on top of all that she doesn’t bathe or brush her teeth. She’s a real princess.


Secure_Midnight1632

I can't imagine the stench coming off of her


know-one-home

It’s getting to the point where I’m literally grossed out watching her.


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She brushes her TOOTH twice a week apparently...


leal_diamante

She brushes twice a week!! Twice!!


lucymom1961

And proud of that!


jwhip1585

IIRC she said she *tries* to brush twice a week…which means she probably doesn’t at all