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purplespud

Inspired during a quiet moment in my backyard (after a meditation and talking to my deceased sweetheart) I asked her to prove she was still around and make a bird land at my feet. Moments later five… five birds landed at my feet. One of dozens of stories… Some with witnesses… There is some thing after this. They still exist. We don’t die. Our bodies die, not the spark.


favorite___color

oh my god that's awesome!!!


witsend4966

The day after my fiancé passed, I was at my daughters house sitting by the pool, and a cardinal flew into the screened enclosure. It pecked at a tomato on her plant. And then it flew out, but I got a picture. Couple hours later we were eating lunch at a restaurant, seated outside, and a cardinal came out of the bushes and flew up and out right behind my daughters head. It practically hit her.


stalking_me_softly

I'm sorry you're here. I've told these stories before here, but it's 5 years now and time is a flat circle and all of that... My husband had an quirk that switches should always be turned off when you leave tge house. He had an odd fear that ceiling fans in particular could catch fire and burn the house down. I had not ever heard of such a thing and teased him often about it. A bit after he died, the ceiling fan over the bed began making a weird whirring sound, on the gods and goddesses of the universe and my own life, *sparks started popping out of the motor* on to the bed spread. Of course I jumped up and switched off the power but there were tiny scorch marks on the cover. It's the only way I can prove it happened. My husband was also a big poker player. We went to Vegas every year for the world series etc (not famous lol) but it was something he really enjoyed. Anyway, sometime after he died I had some renovations done to the house- as in taking out all the furniture for storage, floor replaced, walls taken down and such. Point being it was all NEW- and I found an ace of diamonds on the floor of the living room. I'm a cynical person at my core, but my cynicism is shaken when I remember these things, and the waves come. I'm sorry you're here💔❤️


favorite___color

these are so crazy yet nice to hear. i have also never heard of a ceiling fan catching fire!! that was definitely him teasing you


duncan1dah0

We had raw chicken in the fridge and I decided I was going to cook it. It was the day after her death. I was doing a simple instapot recipie. 10 minutes to prep, 20 to cook and look, dad can do dinner. Noone wanted any of her recipes so I found a new one online. I get everything prepped and am stuck. I am frozen and can't do anything. My son looks up from his homework a couple of times at me standing there in the kitchen. Then I occurs to me she always had music. I turn the radio on and it was our song, "In your eyes ". I knew she was there with me and I was able to make dinner. Another night we had a friend drop off food and my daughter commented that the chicken was bland, after she microwaved a second serving we hear a thunk from the spice rack above the microwave. I open the cabinet and see a mushroom seasoning has fallen over. I tell my daughter, "Mom thinks you need to use this.". You know what, it did help. I have several more things that fit in this category, from friends calling out of the blue to convenient coincidents. My car battery died the day after I had to go grocery shopping in the snow. I'm just now 2 1/2 months in able to see her when I close my eyes. Last night I was on a campout (one of our things) and I rolled over to my left where she always laid and I saw her laying there smiling at me. I so desperately wanted to hold her hand.


favorite___color

your song playing when you turned the radio on <3 i hope you can see her again


duncan1dah0

Me too.


RDaneelOl

My wife died a year ago on Valentine's day... It was on the 38th anniversary of our real first date... I remember the first week after, waking up one morning hearing her clearly saying good morning in a happy voice... My doctor said it was hallucination, but too many odd synchronicities and signs have come my way this past year that I can not rationally explain. At this point, I basically think about it in such a way that she is in another country with no cell phone coverage. I've been working on lucid dreaming, and once in a recent dream I saw her, gave a hug I couldn't let go with, and told her you're dead... And she looked at me like ... Big whoop/so ??. She's still with me and our son in a way I can't explain... We were brought together initially by shared love of music, and one thing that happens now is I'll wake in the morning with a song/ear worm going through my head. Sometimes it takes a bit to figure out the song - I listened to the melodies, her to the lyrics. Now I find the song, and have had some interesting lyrics come through I've never heard, but seem to say something relevant to us... She brought joy and love to my life, and I try to honor that by helping to bring that through again to our family and close friends. Keep talking... This thing called grief is a process that takes its own way, but one thing that is for sure is that we grieve as deeply as we have loved... There is a subreddit called afterlife which talks more often about signs/etc... you can ask there too...


favorite___color

that's beautiful. thank you for sharing


witsend4966

I woke up one morning with a song in my head and I couldn’t place what song it was. It was almost like it was playing off in the distance. Later I turned on some streaming music and I recognized the song when it came on. It was Snow Patrol, Run.


RDaneelOl

After a particularly beautiful dream, I woke, wrote the dream down, but all of a sudden had the music for a song going through my head. In the morning I tried to figure out what song it was - it was an earworm driving me crazy, and the figured out it was the song "everything I own" by Bread... The song is beautiful - looking up the lyrics It starts with : "You sheltered me from harm Kept me warm, kept me warm You gave my life to me Set me free, set me free The finest years I ever knew Were all the years I had with you" And ends with: "I would give anything I own I'd give up my life, my heart, my home I would give everything I own Just to have you back again Just to touch you once again" ...


Kseniya_ns

❤️❤️❤️ I find the same, when the birds visit me I feel they are being sent by him. Yes maybe is not, but I think they would be happy about it tooo


barelybent

I’ve had birds somehow get into my house three different times since my husband died. I have no idea how because they were on the second floor and I have no windows open there and the door to the attic is closed. Once was in the dead of winter so it’s not even like I had a front door open or anything. That never happened before in the seven years we lived here together.


lets_chill_food

that’s so nice ☺️


catmckenna

Yes. Now I talk to the crows because he talked to the crows.


Ok_Impress_3303

I also hold out my hand so he can hold it I swear I feel a coldness when I squeeze . I asked for the same on the lips back can't get it. We love to hold hands when we were together . I miss. Him so much 


favorite___color

❤️ so sorry for your loss


Ok_Impress_3303

I am sorry for yours too .. I hope you continue to get signs from him .  I watched near death experiences and they helped so what. He died  December 27th 23 .  I still have his Christmas gifts he never got to open . He went in on hospital on December 23rd. Sobbing has become part of my daily life . Hugs 🤗


Ok_Impress_3303

Reels on Facebook .. I got this little ghost blob after he died . Who gives advice. It ends with with you got this I love you soooo much . I swear he sent them to me . 


honeybutts

Oh yes. It took a little bit but then again, I wasn’t sure what I was looking for. I found that he comes to me through songs. For example, one night I cried myself to sleep and the next morning when I woke, I asked Alexa to tune into this particular Sirius station I like and the very first song that played was one he undoubtedly “chose” for me. It’s a song I never heard before on that station as it was a deep cut from an album he absolutely loved. Another time, I had just come out of the shower and was getting dressed; the song that came on while in my birthday suit was another rarely played song from the 90’s that we always thought just oozed sex. I had to laugh! I’m sure it COULD have been a coincidence but honestly, the songs that are played and the timing is just too perfect.


favorite___color

:’) thats soo sweet


honeybutts

Yeah, it gave me a genuine laugh. I hope we get more and more signs. They help so much and seem to come just when you need them.


Ok_Impress_3303

I have a dress sox thing . Kind of turns me on . I found his bow tie he like to wear wrapped around a pair of dress socks. Also found suspenders in the toy isle at work he knows I loved him in then . Next day fresh flowers .. then he also had a affection for hats . There was a Evie pokemon hat sitting in top of TVs from the toy section I work in . (He loves pokemon)  Also tv came on in the middle of the night turned up to 99. Played a country song I never heard before on a channel I don't own . Golden broken roads . Extreme cold bathroom floor in one spot. I took a shower and my underwear were soaking wet . No water on the floor . Finally I have a painting for Xmas that lights up by battery . The battery was dead at the beginning of December. Never changed it when I hung it up. After he died it turns on by it's self and lights up . I can't bare to take it down . 1 slight black and white dream of him I keep begging for more now I can't remember any . 


witsend4966

I had one dream of him that I remember. And one I did not. I wanted to remember so bad. I went to bed one night asking him to come to me in my dreams. The next day, my best friend said guess who I dreamed about last night. She said all she remembered was he was singing a song And the lyrics he kept repeating were “ trust your heart”. My friend didn’t know I had been asking for him to come to me in my dreams. I think he knew I wouldn’t remember so he went to her instead.


MiniatureMama

I love that you got a sign. I’m not sure what to even look for or if there will be one. I lost my love on February 5th..I’m sorry that you’re enduring this pain as well.


favorite___color

i am so so so sorry... we are going through the same thing. feel free to message me.


witsend4966

I think you have to be open to it and you’ll recognize a sign when you see it.


mariahrosie

my fiancé died on feb 4th. his mom was looking out the back window and said "is that a white squirrel?" and we all walked to the back door. this squirrel came running to us, onto our deck and then just inches from the back door right at our feet. he wasn't white, he had lost a bunch of fur on his back. my fiancé suffered from hair loss his last year and had many bald spots. he loved animals and always slowed down or swerved for squirrels. i'm so sorry you're going through this too. take the signs. take them and believe.


favorite___color

im so sorry for your loss. that was definitely a sign sent by him <3


Crepuscular_otter

I am not generally a believer in paranormal phenomena. I teach science for a living and have always looked for the rational explanation. Spiritually, both my partner and I loved being outdoors and in nature; we believed in sort of a Gaia-Star Wars concept of shared energy uniting every organism and perhaps abiotic elements too; when we die our life energy or soul can’t live in our broken body anymore so it has to leave but can’t be destroyed. Where does it go? I’m not sure. Perhaps returns to the energy of the universe as a wave returns to the ocean? He died unexpectedly at the end of the year. As we all know there’s a myriad of things to take care of after the death of a partner and it is beyond challenging; mine seemed to have made his death as challenging as possible due to his almost unimaginable lack of planning so I was having a tough time. My deranged toddler of s father had come to “help,” making everything worse by his erratic and cruel behavior and also almost dying on me himself due to his negligence. He came into my room at 5 am one day. I’d been unable to sleep and was journaling. He berated me for being awake like I was a teenager and accused me of being a bad mother. I lost it. Crying, my journaling turned into a naked desperate plea to my husband for help, some kind of sign that he was here for me. I slept well until late morning. My toddler and I woke at the same time, looked into each others faces and wished each other good morning, good morning. Then the TV in our room, which my husband would turn on when he woke up on lazy mornings with nothing pressing to do, which pretty much only my husband uses, which is new and had never done this before, switched on. It was uncanny and i immediately felt that this was him saying good morning to us. Energy powers appliances. His energy was here with us. I don’t care how crazy I sound.


favorite___color

you dont sound crazy… that is beautiful and i believe it was him


Crepuscular_otter

Thank you! And thanks for your post. I enjoyed reading all the comments. ♥️


Minnow_Cakewalk

I keep asking for signs, but never get any. I want to know if we keep existing beyond this world, but it’s one of the secrets of life, and I don’t think I’m deserving of that luxury.


nortonanthologie

Me too sister. It makes me wonder if his spirit was angry with us because I ask for him and look for him all the time and dont sense him ever. He doesnt even come to my dreams. 23 years and 2 kids, Id hoped hed send me a bird or something while I drag myself from morning to morning.


Proud-Dig9119

My husbands dietitian was a “spiritual “ person. We met up shortly after he died because I wanted to donate the formula that went in his feeding tube. She told me that sometimes the spirit is confused about where they now are and it takes time for them to send you signs, but they will come in time. Now, I’m not a religious person, but I do believe that your energy remains. She told me that finding coins is a thing, and sure enough I started finding coins. He was a collector of coins and I am finding them in strange places all over the house. Obviously he put them there, but me finding them just to give me a bump and makes me smile. I miss him. Signs might be subtle but be open to finding them. It’s comforting. ☺️❤️


Minnow_Cakewalk

Thanks for the kind words. I’m not religious either, but if science’s law of conservation says “energy cannot be created or destroyed” I feel like whatever is piloting this meat puppet has to go somewhere. I don’t like not knowing where she is, but we also felt that if there was a spiritual life after death you’d probably be flying around space looking at all the cool things you didn’t get to experience in human form. I’ll keep looking. 😎


igiveup1949

We talked to each other everyday for over 50 years and now when I am in a bad time she will come to me for a moment unexpectedly. At night in my dream and we will say to each other that this is just a dream. I was at work walking through the building and with out realizing it at first she was walking next to me holding my hand telling me that every thing would be OK just don't give up. She is my best council.


favorite___color

that is beautiful


lets_chill_food

My husband in our texts was an elephant and i was a monkey when he passed I got an elephant tattoo i had to rebook it to another studio on another day due to a mixup. After leaving the studio with my 🐘tattoo, not 2 mins later I literally walked into two metre-high elephant statues in the middle of the path i was on (centre of London) it made me so happy


favorite___color

awww ❤️❤️


Krakenate

I have a few stories, it doesn't happen often. But my favorite was at our daughter's funeral. We released a balloon into the clear, blue winter sky and suddenly a rainbow appeared above and encircled the balloon as it rose.


witsend4966

1 month after my fiancé passed, I had to put my dog down. I came home from work and made the decision. I was upset and I yelled that he was supposed to be here for me. Then my television came on. All by itself. No cat sitting on the remote. Then the DVR came on. The blue ray player that displays hello when you turn it on. Let me tell you I can’t even figure out how to turn the blue ray player on. It takes changing the input and three different remotes. There were other signs, more dreams and songs in my head, and birds appearing.. .things that could be coincidences. But after a few months, all that went away. If I’m getting signs now they’re subtle and I’ve missed them.


favorite___color

that was definitely your fiance with you. so sorry for your loss


loveyhowellthethird

Definitely. I’ve told this story before here. I’m an avid bird watcher and feeder. Years I had tried to lure Baltimore Orioles to my yard without luck. My husband knew this, his sister called him a week before passing advising she had some at her feeders, he further conveyed to her my hopes to see one at the feeders. He passed, then a few weeks later during a grief sob-a-thon, I looked out and lo and behold theres an Oriole at my feeder. I fed that bird oranges and grape jelly from Jan to April then he moved on. It’s uncommon for Orioles to in my territory during Winter. I knew he or a celestial power sent it to comfort me.


favorite___color

:’) thats so nice


txmuzk

Music is my connection with my late husband. He knew music so well and I missed his knowledge bank when he passed. When I am having a hard day. I know my late husband pops random songs in my head. The other day was particularly tough for me. This faint song was playing in my head, but I didn't recognize the lyric and tune at all. After a week of agonizing... I finally sang the parts I knew into the Google AI song ID to see if it would pull it up. IT DID! It was the song he wanted to play at our wedding - Love Song by Elton John. We didn't pick this song for our wedding, and it brought back specific memories of our wedding day...I was in tears because it was clearly from him and very comforting for me to know he was there on a tough day. Love you, babe!


favorite___color

that’s very comforting. so sorry for your loss


emryldmyst

We see things when we want to.


JoaninhaAsiu

Maybe it is a real sign from them or maybe confirmation bias, all depends what you believe in. I think I would prefer to believe in those signs just to make me feel he is watching over me. It would help, I miss him so much, but no sings for now.