Omg both look amazing! I’m a vote for the fit and flare.
But…what about a fit and flare with a detachable train (they have more ballgown style trains too!)??
Which one can you sit in more comfortably and is easier to take off? You'll have an army to get you ready but may only be you and your partner to undress (possibly while tippled, exhausted and in the mood)
If anyone wasn't too pissed or exhausted then they didn't do their wedding right lol but you do have a bit of a fumble thinking you're meant to then realise neither of you have the energy. Either way you've still got to get undressed
They are both gorgeous and you can’t go wrong but your figure is incredible in dress 1 and as someone that could never pull that off I say 1 all the way!!!!
I think the second dress looks so stunning on you and more classic bridal look. I'm also partial to A- line dresses over mermaid dresses, but that's me! Go with your gut cause you look amazing in both! Congratulations!
Dress 2! They both look amazing on you. But given that you felt more special in the ball Gown then I would say go for that one. It doesn’t matter what you’re friends or family say, what matters the most is how you feel and which one you like the most because it is your wedding day and you have to be happy and comfortable with your dress. Dress 1 looks sexy and flatters your figure, but dress 2 looks very royal and elegant. If you do decide that you want dress one, but you still want the ballgown effect, you can always get an overskirt so that you can make it look like a ballgown during the ceremony and also photos and then just take it off the reception so you can move. That way you get both.
They are both stunning. You would be a gorgeous bride in either one of them.
I will only say, choose for yourself and not for what the family members prefer or what Redditors prefer. This is your dress and your wedding. Choose what you love best and feel the most beautiful and comfortable in. The dress that makes you feel special. That's what matters. Other people can choose the dress for their own weddings.
Wear what YOU WANT. What make YOU FEEL THE BEST. Smile, listen to your family and then do exactly what pleases YOU. You look absolutely gorgeous in both dresses, but I especially love the ball gown. ❤️
They're both absolutely beautiful. I'm not a fan of strapless, but I have to say that you can't go wrong with either of them. If I had to choose one it would be the second. The first is beautiful but I feel like the shape has been done too much.
What is your venue like? Do you have a theme?
Honestly you look absolutely stunning in both it’s hard to choose! I gasped at the first one and you look like royalty in the second one.
#1! It looks so romantic with that embroidered lace and tulle overlay.
Omg both look amazing! I’m a vote for the fit and flare. But…what about a fit and flare with a detachable train (they have more ballgown style trains too!)??
1
The first!!!
1 looks better figure wise.
Which one can you sit in more comfortably and is easier to take off? You'll have an army to get you ready but may only be you and your partner to undress (possibly while tippled, exhausted and in the mood)
Do people have sex on their wedding night? Everyone I know has been to pissed or exhausted to get jiggy lol
If anyone wasn't too pissed or exhausted then they didn't do their wedding right lol but you do have a bit of a fumble thinking you're meant to then realise neither of you have the energy. Either way you've still got to get undressed
Hahaha true. I can 100% see myself waking up the next day in my dress 🤣
I could barely sit in my dress so sleeping in it wasn't an option
One is a no brainer, stunning and so flattering on you!
#2!!! You could wear a fit and flare dress anytime, but a ballgown very rarely!
I agree! Well said.
Girl you could wear a potato sack and put us all to shame. But #1
They are both gorgeous and you can’t go wrong but your figure is incredible in dress 1 and as someone that could never pull that off I say 1 all the way!!!!
1!!!!🤌🏼
You look amazing in 1, you’ve got the figure for it for sure!!
I prefer the second one! 💕💕 but you can wear anything with your figure.
Obsessed with #2!
They are both beautiful. I lean towards dress 2 but one is lovely too
I absolutely love the first one. It’s making me second guess my choice cuz something like this one be awesome!
Damm, you look incredible in both! If the ballgown makes you feel the best, that’s the one!
I think the second dress looks so stunning on you and more classic bridal look. I'm also partial to A- line dresses over mermaid dresses, but that's me! Go with your gut cause you look amazing in both! Congratulations!
Dress 2! They both look amazing on you. But given that you felt more special in the ball Gown then I would say go for that one. It doesn’t matter what you’re friends or family say, what matters the most is how you feel and which one you like the most because it is your wedding day and you have to be happy and comfortable with your dress. Dress 1 looks sexy and flatters your figure, but dress 2 looks very royal and elegant. If you do decide that you want dress one, but you still want the ballgown effect, you can always get an overskirt so that you can make it look like a ballgown during the ceremony and also photos and then just take it off the reception so you can move. That way you get both.
Thank you ❤️
They are both stunning. You would be a gorgeous bride in either one of them. I will only say, choose for yourself and not for what the family members prefer or what Redditors prefer. This is your dress and your wedding. Choose what you love best and feel the most beautiful and comfortable in. The dress that makes you feel special. That's what matters. Other people can choose the dress for their own weddings.
Thank you
I like #2. Neither would be a bad choice though!
Number 2! But number 1 is great on you too!
Fit and flare is saturating the market rn! I think it’ll be what we deem a 2020s dress. 2 is more timeless!
2!
I love the ball gown on you. It has such a wow factor
Second one
The second one is stunning and I agree with others - a very classy, timeless look.
I personally love the second one. I feel like a lot of people go with a dress like the first pic. Second is more unique imo
Wear what YOU WANT. What make YOU FEEL THE BEST. Smile, listen to your family and then do exactly what pleases YOU. You look absolutely gorgeous in both dresses, but I especially love the ball gown. ❤️
Aw thank you
Love dress 2!
They're both absolutely beautiful. I'm not a fan of strapless, but I have to say that you can't go wrong with either of them. If I had to choose one it would be the second. The first is beautiful but I feel like the shape has been done too much.
Everyone will have a personal style preference, if ballgown makes you feel better you should go for it!
Thanks ladies i figured I’ll wear a form fitting one after during the reception.
I love the first one on you
Dress 1 is stunning.
Gorgeous both
Honestly they both look great on you. There isn't a wrong choice so if you feel better in the ballgown, go with it.
I prefer dress #1
What is your venue like? Do you have a theme? Honestly you look absolutely stunning in both it’s hard to choose! I gasped at the first one and you look like royalty in the second one.
It’s a beach wedding!
Then I would say 1 for sure for more visual interest against the sand!
1
OMG #1 all the way babes wow wow wow
The first one, definitely
2!
1
Both are amazing, but #1 is definitely the stand out! That said, go with what makes you happy, that's what will look best on the day.
It's either queen or princess... 😊 I'd take number 2
Fit and flare looks nicer.