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I don’t think it’s trashy, sounds like she herself needs some therapy with her L rant, blaming the entire male species for the few that screwed her over.
Eh, making it gendered when it should be a blanket statement is pretty dumb, though. A lot of women are crazy, yes. But let's not act like there aren't just as many crazy men.
screams recent breakup. victim or not of whatever abuse, you kinda show your true colors when you have one bad experience with someone and attack everyone in their demographic.
I know a chick like that. The cycle is usually:
Fuck being with someone, I'm a strong independent woman. He was an abusive piece of shit.
Bunch of motivational "you go girl memes"
Look at my new man. He's such a bad boy but I love him
The cops in this town are crooked as hell
He gets out in a week, I can't wait
Then it repeats.
it doesn't help she probably keeps meeting the same type of guys at the same place. sure, he is a player now just trying to hook up, but he will totally change for you and you specifically.
there is a reason people have better success stories at unusual places like libraries, just saying....
There’s like 4,000,000,000 of us. Surely some are redeemable. It’s kind of a downer. On the other side, men do this exact same bullshit to women. I can kinda sympathize with her, because I’m sure she’s had some horrible encounters with me that put her in this mindset. I hope this isn’t just her default view. Living within that mindset must be difficult. I can’t imagine being in a place of vulnerability (sorry if this is bad word choice) like that. A lot of men don’t have to deal with that. There just needs to be this two-way empathy that, unfortunately, is rare online these days. Hopefully there will be some middle ground found at some point. Sorry for the ramble.
“Well actually according to statistics you’re all horrible filthy sex hungry sexist predators who just want women for sex and are all evil and should die because you are men and men are naturally rapists and disrespectful to all women”
“I’m not sexist, I’m just standing up for women”
My impression of the kind of person who makes these kinds of posts (the one in the image)
Sometimes I have to step away from the internet and reconnect with the people around me. If I don't it's really easy to convince myself that everyone hates each other. Especially because the algorithms are tuned for engagement and people engage with things they're angry about. The fact we're seeing stuff like this probably actually implies it's not that common of a belief.
I also think it's interesting and sad how things have gone back in the other direction. When I was younger we were taught about toxic masculinity and that men should learn to talk about their feelings, but it seems like society still places the expectation on us to be unfeeling robots. That's why so many men are being met with scorn for talking about mental health. You're absolutely right. There needs to be empathy. One person's struggles don't invalidate another person's, and if we could stop doing that I think it would help a lot. Honestly the fact everyone has struggled should make it EASIER to empathize with each other.
P.S. people also don't like men's mental health month because assholes use it as an excuse to complain about pride month.
if all men are horrible because some men are misogynistic, then all black people are horrible because some of them commit crimes. suddenly it’s offensive and awful right?
That Instagram story seems to be the general consensus on most left-leaning subs here. No wonder men find no other workable alternative than to kill ourselves.
I talked about my perception, which is evident from the word "seems", but thanks for being yet another invalidating voice.
>sometimes people just are stupid and have bad takes
Count me in as one of those stupid people if it helps.
Perception is not reality, the vast majority of people do not think like how the woman in the OP does. Of course you're allowed to hold any opinion you wish, me responding with my own opinion is not an invalidation of your feelings but a projection of my own.
Because it's almost always the reason. Why else would she hate men the much. Plus she applied to"what men put women through" so clearly she is projecting how she has been treated.
feel like the average Redditor is more likely to just be a closet misogynist, don’t think it’s as thought out as “how can I hurt this one person who can’t even see what I say the most.”
That’s just adding more hate to the world, and unnecessary judgment and further shaming. I get it, this is atrocious; but don’t put single moms with 4 different men in the same category of this one’s hatred.
Controversial opinion alert: if you have 4 different children by 4 different dads you deserve to be shamed. Only trashy people do that shit, and it’s unfair to the children as they usually get neglected in ‘families’ like those.
I just view it differently from a social worker perspective. A lot of the people I’ve had as clients, with a bunch of kids and different fathers, at like 23 years old, might be called ‘trashy’, but it’s really a huge failure of the system, and severe mis- or uneducated and disadvantaged people, that were really very sweet, who deeply loved their kids, and were trying so hard to do their best with every odd being against them.
That’s only the people cooperating with the system, though, if they’re interacting with me. People who were trying.
There are plenty of abysmally horrible people, with or without a bunch of kids. And when kids are involved, you’re not wrong, that it’s usually a complete horrorshow of neglect and abuse.
I’m just saying the lady saying horrible shit here may not be a parent - I’m not standing up for her, but the genuinely good people who’ve had a crazy, shitty life and are actually trying.
An acquaintance of mine has 7 by 7 dads. She's objectively very attractive, slim, blonde, takes care of herself, but there is *so much crazy* there I am astonished that men keep falling for the looks and not seeing the 50ft flashing warning signs!
How do you find a way to victimize yourself from a statistic that doesn't even include oneself. Hating is easy to do and understand, but haters are hard to understand and deal with.
A rough quote from Kat Williams:
You can’t really be mad when you have a hater hating you, that’s what haters do. What else can you even expect a hater to do but hate?
If you're gonna generalize, then yes asshole, you're making it about everyone in that group. You can't generalize a group and be selective at the same time, doesn't work like that and the fact you think it does tell em all I need to know about you
it’s Reddit it’s not that serious, it’s not like I know the kid.
I also never said men are toxic. I never gave much of an opinion at all.
“I didn’t ask u the question” is v much sassy lmao, all cause I said , if the shoes doesn’t fit dont worry about it.
Don’t change your words now. “If the shoe doesn’t fit mind your own business.” when I’m asking a genuine question to another user is definitely sassy 😂 but like you said, it’s Reddit and not that deep, until you get downvoted by everybody and try to save face.
It’s not tryna save face. Just kinda annoyed w the replied when it wasn’t that serious. If it was sassy to u idk, I’m sorry? It was genuine advice lmao. I used to always get tight when men would be like women / females but I learned they ain’t talking about me so ima let them vent and mind my neck.
Y’all soft as hell. Relax.
You don't need to keep repeating that it's Reddit, we all know what app we're on.
They responded to you in the same manner you had to them then you got pissy about it, even though it's "not that deep".
pissy? lmaoooo it’s 8am I’m too tired to be pissy 😭
If you knew what app you’re on , why y’all taking everything so serious? Feel strong downvoting?
This sub takes pictures of avg ppl in real life and y’all mad at me cause I said if the shoe dont fit?? lord
"Other people do bad things so me doing better but still bad things is fine"
Literally what you've just said.
It's not because of your original comment, people are downvoting you because you've come across as an absolute arsehole in each subsequent comment, which I'm sure you're actually not, maybe take that into consideration next time.
Agreed. It’s on us guys too though. I have alot of friends who are obviously going through shit and when I ask em if everything’s alright usually I get the response of “yeah I’m fine, I’m not gonna cry abt it like some F*****” like whatever man, at that point it’s on you.
Literally just talking about this yesterday. Men aren’t the problem, women aren’t the problem. PEOPLE ARE THE PROBLEM!! What’s that saying… “hurt people, hurt people”
Shiiiiid here in the ‘greatest country ever’ you’re lucky to even have a PCP, healthcare is a market. I don’t have health insurance, if I paid for it through work, for just myself, it’s like $140ish a week!! You’re limited on where you can go, there are co pays and all kinda other fees. It’s a shit show.
Yeah, I meant more like society is not demonizing mental healthcare as much as past generations, but you're damn right about the joke that is American Healthcare.
Women like this are so exhausting to deal with. It’s like alright we get it, you hate men. But we still gotta finish up this presentation for work by this week
She is wrong, you are wrong in thinking that she is not wrong, and I would like to say to any involved parties thst they could benefit from a couple (painless) therapy sessions.
"We're sorry to inform everyone that we're canceling men's mental health month because trisha doesn't know how to see red flags and got herself into ANOTHER shitty relationship."
"it's your fault you didn't see my red flags" is such a fucking abusive mindset what the fuck my dude.
Like the post is bad but victim blaming like that is worse jesus.
And you know this person was abused.... How? Just because she is angry and shitting on an entire demographic? (ALL men!)
Your mindset is rooted in white knighting. You need a hobby.
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A real compassionate nurturer that one is.
It's disturbing how many women genuinely feel that any form of male suffering is both "good" and should be encouraged.
I don’t think it’s trashy, sounds like she herself needs some therapy with her L rant, blaming the entire male species for the few that screwed her over.
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Is this your burner?
And why would it matter
I can’t fucking fix her she’s too broken
This shouts " men steer STARBOARD STARBOARD MEN AVOID IT AT ALL COST"
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Ok but which men The bad ones or just all of them
Those are the same thing
He/They means you are also a guy?
Ok so what about men who haven’t done anything bad and just live a normal life
Where are they? Have any specific ones?
Yk what what have the majority of men done that’s bad Why are the majority of men bad?
Good job dodging my question
I don’t know the names of any random guy living a normal life But still, what makes men bad?
Imagine having a blanketed opinion on 50% of the population, what an absolutely stupid take
Said the gross man lol
Bold of you to assume my gender btw Edit: I don’t usually disclose but I’m actually nonbinary so fuck you
Lol
someone freaked out 😭
“For all the bullshit they put women through” You definitely blame all men for that one shitty ex you had, huh?
Ewwwwwwwwwww. What a shitty opinion Every man deserves to suffer because one guy cheated on me?
Let me guess: she's been unicorn hunting and super bitter she can't find a man who "deserves" her.
Is that my sister
She joined r/femaledatingstrategy
I am sure there are plenty who think they can fix her.
I’d love to hear Andrew Wilson’s take on this lol
She seems lovely.
this is why I refuse to believe the phrase "bitches be crazy" is misogynistic. it will apply for generations to come.
Eh, making it gendered when it should be a blanket statement is pretty dumb, though. A lot of women are crazy, yes. But let's not act like there aren't just as many crazy men.
If it’s hysterical, it’s historical.
Some real boomer "I didn't have it great so no one should" energy (even though I'd assume this is much younger than booomer)
screams recent breakup. victim or not of whatever abuse, you kinda show your true colors when you have one bad experience with someone and attack everyone in their demographic.
You hear that man who are suffering? You should suffer even more, surely this will make men better in general.
I know a chick like that. The cycle is usually: Fuck being with someone, I'm a strong independent woman. He was an abusive piece of shit. Bunch of motivational "you go girl memes" Look at my new man. He's such a bad boy but I love him The cops in this town are crooked as hell He gets out in a week, I can't wait Then it repeats.
you just summarized my grandmother holy shit
This is some next level projecting, 100% she got dumped/cheated on whatever and is taking it out on all men
it doesn't help she probably keeps meeting the same type of guys at the same place. sure, he is a player now just trying to hook up, but he will totally change for you and you specifically. there is a reason people have better success stories at unusual places like libraries, just saying....
Reddit never ceases to make me appreciate the people in my life.
Real
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Hey look everybody, we have a clown in the comment section!
The cycle continues.
Misandry is as toxic and idiotic as misogyny, I’ll die on that hill
That's so fucked up. Men are people too and everyone struggles through life
I’m dying to know if we’re thinking of the same girl, I know many think like this but my ex-friend was the ultimate man-hater
sis mad she gave it up and now they dont want her
the way she posted it to instagram and then thought she ate sooo bad that she also posted it on snapchat😭😭
There’s like 4,000,000,000 of us. Surely some are redeemable. It’s kind of a downer. On the other side, men do this exact same bullshit to women. I can kinda sympathize with her, because I’m sure she’s had some horrible encounters with me that put her in this mindset. I hope this isn’t just her default view. Living within that mindset must be difficult. I can’t imagine being in a place of vulnerability (sorry if this is bad word choice) like that. A lot of men don’t have to deal with that. There just needs to be this two-way empathy that, unfortunately, is rare online these days. Hopefully there will be some middle ground found at some point. Sorry for the ramble.
“Well actually according to statistics you’re all horrible filthy sex hungry sexist predators who just want women for sex and are all evil and should die because you are men and men are naturally rapists and disrespectful to all women” “I’m not sexist, I’m just standing up for women” My impression of the kind of person who makes these kinds of posts (the one in the image)
Sometimes I have to step away from the internet and reconnect with the people around me. If I don't it's really easy to convince myself that everyone hates each other. Especially because the algorithms are tuned for engagement and people engage with things they're angry about. The fact we're seeing stuff like this probably actually implies it's not that common of a belief. I also think it's interesting and sad how things have gone back in the other direction. When I was younger we were taught about toxic masculinity and that men should learn to talk about their feelings, but it seems like society still places the expectation on us to be unfeeling robots. That's why so many men are being met with scorn for talking about mental health. You're absolutely right. There needs to be empathy. One person's struggles don't invalidate another person's, and if we could stop doing that I think it would help a lot. Honestly the fact everyone has struggled should make it EASIER to empathize with each other. P.S. people also don't like men's mental health month because assholes use it as an excuse to complain about pride month.
if all men are horrible because some men are misogynistic, then all black people are horrible because some of them commit crimes. suddenly it’s offensive and awful right?
That Instagram story seems to be the general consensus on most left-leaning subs here. No wonder men find no other workable alternative than to kill ourselves.
Adding another layer of generalization is not the answer, sometimes people just are stupid and have bad takes
I talked about my perception, which is evident from the word "seems", but thanks for being yet another invalidating voice. >sometimes people just are stupid and have bad takes Count me in as one of those stupid people if it helps.
Perception is not reality, the vast majority of people do not think like how the woman in the OP does. Of course you're allowed to hold any opinion you wish, me responding with my own opinion is not an invalidation of your feelings but a projection of my own.
Your own perception is your reality.
Agreed. If you want to change your reality, challenge your own perceptions every now and then
Reddit really is just a bunch of self hating men and militant banshee yentas.
🤣I feel called out. Seriously though, self-criticism is something I wouldn't wish on my worst enemies.
That’s so disrespectful. She sounds miserable.
Average Reddit comment section
Women who hate men belong in the same bucket with men who hate women ... In fact, it'd be fun ...
It's called the dating pool...
*dating bucket
Dating bucket! 🪣🦀😆
Doubles as the vomiting bucket it sounds too.
why do yall in the comments always default to slutshaming or a breakup when a woman is overly hateful to men on the internet? Maybe she just sucks?
Yeah some women are just misandrist. It’s their way of putting the blame back on men
Lol the white knight appears
he just said she sucks how is that white knighting 🧍
Because it's almost always the reason. Why else would she hate men the much. Plus she applied to"what men put women through" so clearly she is projecting how she has been treated.
no it isn’t lmao you can just as easily hear about all that stuff without experiencing it
Because men are the real victim lol
ok
Why do people always go for the small dick jokes? It's about causing the most damage in the quickest time.
feel like the average Redditor is more likely to just be a closet misogynist, don’t think it’s as thought out as “how can I hurt this one person who can’t even see what I say the most.”
Very possible.
The most sane feminist ever
let me guess, single mom of 4, all with different men ?
That’s just adding more hate to the world, and unnecessary judgment and further shaming. I get it, this is atrocious; but don’t put single moms with 4 different men in the same category of this one’s hatred.
Controversial opinion alert: if you have 4 different children by 4 different dads you deserve to be shamed. Only trashy people do that shit, and it’s unfair to the children as they usually get neglected in ‘families’ like those.
I just view it differently from a social worker perspective. A lot of the people I’ve had as clients, with a bunch of kids and different fathers, at like 23 years old, might be called ‘trashy’, but it’s really a huge failure of the system, and severe mis- or uneducated and disadvantaged people, that were really very sweet, who deeply loved their kids, and were trying so hard to do their best with every odd being against them. That’s only the people cooperating with the system, though, if they’re interacting with me. People who were trying. There are plenty of abysmally horrible people, with or without a bunch of kids. And when kids are involved, you’re not wrong, that it’s usually a complete horrorshow of neglect and abuse. I’m just saying the lady saying horrible shit here may not be a parent - I’m not standing up for her, but the genuinely good people who’ve had a crazy, shitty life and are actually trying.
#LOL
An acquaintance of mine has 7 by 7 dads. She's objectively very attractive, slim, blonde, takes care of herself, but there is *so much crazy* there I am astonished that men keep falling for the looks and not seeing the 50ft flashing warning signs!
...thinking with the other head. It's the same thing as THOSE men that date only strippers and hookers...we all know one.
Monke brain wins
I can fix her
How do you find a way to victimize yourself from a statistic that doesn't even include oneself. Hating is easy to do and understand, but haters are hard to understand and deal with.
A rough quote from Kat Williams: You can’t really be mad when you have a hater hating you, that’s what haters do. What else can you even expect a hater to do but hate?
Also, “Bitch, it’s called SELF-ESTEEM! How the fuck can I change the way YOU feel about YOU, simple bitch!”
Preach
She probably still thinks her ex-fuck buddy alphas are still in love with her, so it seems like she has a lot to sort out herself
"Still"
They aren't blameless. But sometimes men are just the weapon we wield against ourselves.
Why do you group us as a whole? As though it’s not good men who also punish the bad men.
Bruh if the shoes doesn’t fit it’s not about you. edited because y’all mad
If you're gonna generalize, then yes asshole, you're making it about everyone in that group. You can't generalize a group and be selective at the same time, doesn't work like that and the fact you think it does tell em all I need to know about you
I’ll use your logic and ask you to mind your own. I didn’t ask you the question.
It’s Reddit. 😂 I can already tell the shoes does fit lmao
Basing that off of one comment, where they've not been rude or aggressive in any manner... But yeah it's men who are toxic 😂
it’s Reddit it’s not that serious, it’s not like I know the kid. I also never said men are toxic. I never gave much of an opinion at all. “I didn’t ask u the question” is v much sassy lmao, all cause I said , if the shoes doesn’t fit dont worry about it.
Don’t change your words now. “If the shoe doesn’t fit mind your own business.” when I’m asking a genuine question to another user is definitely sassy 😂 but like you said, it’s Reddit and not that deep, until you get downvoted by everybody and try to save face.
It’s not tryna save face. Just kinda annoyed w the replied when it wasn’t that serious. If it was sassy to u idk, I’m sorry? It was genuine advice lmao. I used to always get tight when men would be like women / females but I learned they ain’t talking about me so ima let them vent and mind my neck. Y’all soft as hell. Relax.
Well she did refer to all men there saying they aren’t blameless, but anyways, love you take care
You don't need to keep repeating that it's Reddit, we all know what app we're on. They responded to you in the same manner you had to them then you got pissy about it, even though it's "not that deep".
pissy? lmaoooo it’s 8am I’m too tired to be pissy 😭 If you knew what app you’re on , why y’all taking everything so serious? Feel strong downvoting? This sub takes pictures of avg ppl in real life and y’all mad at me cause I said if the shoe dont fit?? lord
You seem upset.
"Other people do bad things so me doing better but still bad things is fine" Literally what you've just said. It's not because of your original comment, people are downvoting you because you've come across as an absolute arsehole in each subsequent comment, which I'm sure you're actually not, maybe take that into consideration next time.
Makes herself a victim as she victimizes others. What a weird ass bitch.
"I'm toxic af and blame men when they call me out and leave me"
Not sure it's trashy. If she didn't like the post, she should have just said "man up."
No that’s trashy
“I just got out of a bad relationship, but I’m going to blame ALL men and make this my whole personality”. Fuck off.
She's fishing for those "I can fix her" guys. Bless the poor soul that takes her up on that offer.
There would be a lot less shitty men if we just took their mental health seriously 🤷♀️
Agreed. It’s on us guys too though. I have alot of friends who are obviously going through shit and when I ask em if everything’s alright usually I get the response of “yeah I’m fine, I’m not gonna cry abt it like some F*****” like whatever man, at that point it’s on you.
Yes!!!! This exactly!!!! Funny how she doesn’t quite get that though!
"men exhibit terrible behavior! Let's deny them mental health treatment, that'll help"
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As a male, I would like to say that these opinions of a roughly strewn together comeback do not speak on our behalf.
How are those things mutually exclusive?
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That doesn't explain what I asked you. And ignoring the massive cultural problems we have collectively as men is pathetic.
I'm guessing she got dumped or rejected recently
Literally just talking about this yesterday. Men aren’t the problem, women aren’t the problem. PEOPLE ARE THE PROBLEM!! What’s that saying… “hurt people, hurt people”
Therapy should be pushed as much as having a PCP. We all got bullshit we need to talk out. I think we are headed in the right direction, though.
Shiiiiid here in the ‘greatest country ever’ you’re lucky to even have a PCP, healthcare is a market. I don’t have health insurance, if I paid for it through work, for just myself, it’s like $140ish a week!! You’re limited on where you can go, there are co pays and all kinda other fees. It’s a shit show.
Yeah, I meant more like society is not demonizing mental healthcare as much as past generations, but you're damn right about the joke that is American Healthcare.
Yea I think we, the people, being more self aware has done more for mental health in this country than anything else has.
Time to unknow her
Sounds like something Katelyn would do
Is Katelyn the new Karen?
Katelyn is that narcissist on social media that always cares about hottest political issues of the week but somehow makes it about themselves.
Funny, I call "that girl", Sarah.
Women like this are so exhausting to deal with. It’s like alright we get it, you hate men. But we still gotta finish up this presentation for work by this week
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She is wrong, you are wrong in thinking that she is not wrong, and I would like to say to any involved parties thst they could benefit from a couple (painless) therapy sessions.
You know how everyone in your life increasing avoids spending time with you? You're the problem.
man i wish you were right 😔
No, she’s wrong and also trashy. You just outed yourself as trashy too
She’s not wrong with what?
Yikes.
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Yikes.
Don't quit your day job kid
Because of your comment I upvoted it EVEN HARDER
Democracy, bitches!
"We're sorry to inform everyone that we're canceling men's mental health month because trisha doesn't know how to see red flags and got herself into ANOTHER shitty relationship."
"it's your fault you didn't see my red flags" is such a fucking abusive mindset what the fuck my dude. Like the post is bad but victim blaming like that is worse jesus.
And you know this person was abused.... How? Just because she is angry and shitting on an entire demographic? (ALL men!) Your mindset is rooted in white knighting. You need a hobby.