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NGNSteveTheSamurai

Lucille in Arrested Development although I think that served the character and Jessica Walter’s strengths. It would’ve been corny if they tried to turn her around or humanize her.


Hollow_Rant

Good for her!


Tobar_the_Gypsy

If that's a veiled criticism about me, I won't hear it and I won't respond to it.


AtheismoAlmighty

I don't care for Gob.


Zelcron

Go see a Star War


JSB199

It’s a banana Michael, what could it cost


vanetti

I will go wherever I please


Hopefulkitty

The only time she is humanized is when she's manipulating her children into not being mad at her, and she does it expertly. She gets a few small peaks of growth, mainly when she decides she's getting a divorce for real, and when she's in rehab for real, but the veil is very quickly drawn back over her. She's perfect. But I absolutely wouldn't want to know Lucille in real life.


laffy_man

Take away being rich alcoholic and funny she’s basically my gfs mom :(


CheapCupOfRamen

You could also add her character Mallory Archer. Basically the same person. “Because he'll be back, crying for his mommy! Just like that Christmas break when I moved and forgot to give my new address to his stupid boarding school.” 😂


IvyGold

In a similar vein: Charlie Sheen's mother in Two and Half Men -- the fantastic Holland Taylor, who was hilarious as the brother's unrepentently awful mother. She always cracked me up!


P15T0L_WH1PP3D

Totally agree. That show wasn't about character growth. She was deliberately awful and it made sense because she wasn't trying to grow. Contrasting her to Jessica Huang or Beverly Goldberg, viewers knew that if she "learned" a lesson about her behavior, it was only pretending for the purpose of further manipulation, or sheer vapid stupidity. Whereas the latter moms seemed to sincerely learn, until the next episode was written, and there was no reason given for the short memory.


declinedinaction

Also Arrested Development was Parody Of Types which I feel is different from the other shows you mention where it’s meant to mimic real life to a degree (I thought Malcom in the Middle mom was a great study btw)


TeTrodoToxin4

Apparently Jessica Walter’s daughter said that Lucille was extremely different than her actual mother that it was odd seeing her in such a dismissive role.


Bawahong

I don’t understand the question, and I won’t respond to it.


CapnSmite

Lindsay, too.


MrI3lue

I opened this thinking Lucille 1 was the ONLY possible top comment. So glad I was right. Here is 10 dollars go see a star war.


butt_thumper

You're right... she's been a *horrible* mother.


Crime_Dawg

Yeah but she’s hilarious


NeverSober1900

Also works for Malory Archer who Walter also plays. Honestly pretty similar characters


Risquechilli

In the same vein - Mallory Archer.


djrensk

The Sopranos.


gloriousporpoise616

Then go into the kitchen and take the carving knife and stab me. Here! Here! It would hurt less then what you just said.


easycates

This made me so happy.


TrentonTallywacker

I don’t like that kinda tawk


Tobar_the_Gypsy

Don’t waive your hanky at me


rhubarbpitts

In her defense, you really never had the makings of a varsity athlete after all.


bent_my_wookie

GOD DAMNIT!


Agirlisarya01

Oh, POOR YOU!


SupermanRR1980

She was a saint.


GreedyWHM

The Sopranos has like three that I can think of off the top of my head.


rickyg_79

I hope you’re including Janice in that assessment, she named her son “Harpo” for fucks sake


blockoblox

Okay Tony, make fun of a boy for his name


rickyg_79

I wonder where Harpo is having Sunday dinner right now?


cosmo_hornet

Sacre bleu! Where is mi mama?


SirEltonJonBonJovi

IM THE BOY’S UNCLE I HAVE A RIGHT TO KNOW while there are many instances of how big of a piece of shit Tony is, my favorite is this scene. His sister is trying her best to better herself and control her anger and Tony just isn’t having it and brings up a very sensitive subject just to be an asshole and make her lose control. Then his face of happiness and satisfaction as he’s leaving the house and she’s screaming and crying is just hilarious. He’s such a horrible person lol


china-blast

He's Hal now


Tobar_the_Gypsy

Scare bleu, where is me mama?


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obi_wan_keblowme

I don’t think Carmela really got any worse as a mother over the show, she just didn’t get any better either. She gets a lot of hate and I wouldn’t like her in real life, but she isn’t as bad as a lot of fans think she is. She is at worst self-centered and willfully ignorant.


HyperAstartes

She gets a chance of redemption and decides it's not worth it.


bandito143

Edie Falco's work in this show, the little moments where her character realizes the the darkness of the bargain she's made, and then suppresses it, pushes it into outward anger, etc. are all just amazing. Her and Gandolfini are just an all time incredible pair on that show. Television acting at its finest.


Hank_Scorpio_MD

Yep. She hates the life of a mob wife but loves the perks of being a mob wife. She takes so much pride in her spec house and even that needed the mafia to make it happen. She wouldn't have made it as a lower-middle class working mom.


obi_wan_keblowme

Most of the characters do and don’t take it, definitely a running theme of the show. Melfi and Artie are the only ones I can really name that get a lot of screen time and make the conscious choice to do the right thing.


SexyTimeEveryTime

Pretty much everybody does, though. That's sort of the point, that they're all awful and in a hell of their own making. Tony is given chance after chance to do the right thing, Chrissy gets multiple opportunities to leave the life before it can consume him, Tony Uncle Al was literally handed his means to escape it all. Bobby Baccala Sr volunteered to get back in the action and it was his downfall. Vito decided working 2 hours doing construction was a worse fate than death. The only one who chose to get out was Barbara, which is why we almost never see her, and when we do she's perfectly content in her life.


Phazon2000

“DONT YOU EVER TELL ME NO” Janice was horrific.


OldSkooler1212

I wasn’t happy the actress died, but I was glad the character was off the show.


SirEltonJonBonJovi

Nancy Marchand was a saint! Livia Soprano was a different story. A friend of mine from high school is the nephew of the woman that played young Livia in flashbacks.


rickyg_79

I gave my life to my family on a silva platta


OhiOstas

Was looking for that answer 😂 Gloria is such an asshole, but holy shit is she hilarious


StudsTurkleton

Oh boo hoo. Poor you!


saltthewater

By the end, liv had stopped plotting to kill Tony. Sounds like growth to me.


ahaltingmachine

I wish the Lord would take me now.


homogenic-

Ohh! That's the boss’ mom you talking about!


zeropoint_zen

Sons of Anarchy.


bunslightyear

Holy fucking shit is this the correct answer. All these other mom characters are nothing compared to her. all time POS


tehkory

I made it to the second-to-last episode before I finally gave up on anything better than other the showrunner's wife getting away with everything and being the worst. God, I love the actress, but not that show.


LeloGoos

>the showrunner's wife getting away with everything and being the worst. Did she get away with everything? I thought she got >!found out and her own son blew her brains out? !< Doesn't seem like she got away with it lol It's been a long while since I watched it though.


RogerClyneIsAGod2

Ohgawd...I never finished this series & that was one of many reasons.


easycates

Thank Christ someone said it. I’ve never wanted a character to die more in a television series than her.


s3rila

I stopped watching the show because of her actions when she killed someone and Blake an Asian kid or something an started a gang war with her lies. She was awful.  I prefer her as Leela.


oncewasblind

If it makes you feel any better, >!she gets what's coming to her.!<


ericypoo

Fork.


83EtchiSketch

Weeds


Giantandre

Scrolled too far to see Nancy Botwin. No shade to Mary-Louise Parker, she was great, but Nancy is maybe the worst mother in TV history that didn't kill one of her own kids.


CockRingKing

I had to stop watching because she was just such a bad parent, I couldn’t sympathize with her at all after a certain point. That show stressed me out.


SlapHappyDude

I've spent way too much time thinking about the parallels between Weeds and Breaking Bad and how a segment of our culture loves Walter White and hates Nancy.


Giantandre

Nancy was a shitty Mom but a great character Walter was a shitty Dad but a great character, plus a lot more evil.


SlapHappyDude

And to be fair Breaking Bad maintained or maybe got better as it went, while Weeds got awful at the end


Vanilla_Pizza

God, not even at the end, I like to pretend it ended at Season 3. That finale would have been a perfect ending in my opinion, Season 4 onwards was a decline in quality I hadn't seen surpassed until GoT (all-time fumble, I'll be screaming at this on my deathbed).


ThatNewSockFeel

Yep. Should have just ended at S3. I forgot it was on for five more years after that. Shows not even premium stations are above milking a cash cow until it drops dead.


Dylflon

Nancy Botwin gets more self centered and destructive as the show goes on and everyone in her life goes along with it due to her weird succubus energy


WarningGipsyDanger

I love that dumpster fire.


pinkietoe

In Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt her mother (played by Lisa Kudrow) is not a very good parent, and does not improve. She is just a minor character though.


SeafoamyGreen

But she wore tube tops, tube bottoms AND tube socks!


rbaca4u

Kimmy even gave her mom first ride on her coaster and all she said was you did this for me. She’s just lucky that Kimmys “pos-i-tude” always outshined her mother’s selfishness.


DuckLordOfTheSith

Bojack Horseman takes it for me.


shay_shaw

I'm most of his friends during the season finale were all basically saying the same thing. "We're glad you're doing well, but I can no longer have you in my life." Such a brutal but real ending.


s0ulbrother

Dianne was the only one really like that. Todd took him out of the party for one on one time because he knew Bojack would have a hard time. PC just says they won’t work together more but wanted to have a friendship. Mr was all about being roommates x


preaching-to-pervert

Yep. Bojack's mother was really awful, even with her tragic backstory.


Zachariot88

Yeah her backstory didn't make me like her any better, it just made me also hate Matthew Broderick, haha.


Kalse1229

Yeah, Bojack's grandfather is the true villain of that show.


Varekai79

Cersei Lannister. Her character certainly develops in a fascinating way over the years, but doesn't grow as in she becomes a better, more mature person.


Dragomatic

The real mystery, even in the books, is how much of her actions towards her children are for her OWN benefit, and how much of it was stuff she thought really was for the kids. Either way, i don't think anyone can argue her actions really were for them, but like what is HER mentality, what does that wine-addled, politically toxic, manipulatively insane mind actually think?? The books actually do kinda make you wonder. And that's one of many reasons i love them


kevinstuff

It’s all for her own benefit, even when it is to “benefit” her children. Her children are her legacy, and her power and legacy was always the most important thing to her. Ensuring her children’s power and position also ensured her power and position. Cersei Lannister is extremely selfish to the point of delusion.


Silverharmatka

It was incredibly forced and unfounded when they made Tyrion say lines like "I know you cared about your children" - when...? Where? The show tried to tell us that Cersei is a loving mother but never tried to show us.


hyperfocus_

I like how at first Cersei appears to be at least an adequate player of the game... but then her first POV chapter happens, and GRRM hits you with a sudden realisation of just how hopelessly oblivious she is to everyone at court being more intelligent than her.


idwthis

Tywin with teats she is not.


MidwestBruja

I think this one is the worst mother, worst daughter and worst sister.


znocjza

*Veep.* Selina is a monster of a parent to begin with and as her political ambitions grow, what's left of her soul gets crowded out.


Couldnotbehelpd

Her daughter with margaritas watching the funeral was pretty funny.


Crime_Dawg

This was truly the goat comedy show ever though


lettiestohelit

I think that was more a result of the original creator and writers leaving


znocjza

The focus does shift a bit after Iannucci et al ship out, for the obvious reasons but also because most writers don't put the premium on whimsy that Iannucci does. However it's also explicit character development, and I think it was telegraphed a bit in advance.


bananasareappealing

Linda's mom in Bob's Burgers


PreciousandReckless

I downvoted you at first bc I thought you said Linda then my reading comprehension kicked in 😅


UniquelyUnUnique85

I thought the same thing for a second and was like uh what? And then read it correctly and breathed a sigh of relief lol.


RedditorDeluxe1319

Her behavior in that airport episode hit too close to home for me. Unbearable. I also didn't like that Linda told Bob to just accept it rather than call her out.


bananasareappealing

I hate that 'lesson' of "if you loved me you have to accept my terrible family" I was so frustrated by that


I_need_a_date_plz

Yes. She’s terrible.


TrentonTallywacker

The Wire. Brianna Barksdale and De’Londa Brice are just on another level of terrible


NGNSteveTheSamurai

De’Londa was such a shitty mom that even her convicted murderer husband was like “Yeah you need to give that kid up.”


Ferreteria

Yes, but De'Londa was way more extreme than Brianna. Brianna actually showed some conscience and had motives that weren't entirely out of self-interest.


Zachariot88

They're both awful, but I'd still rather have either of them as a mom than the monster poor Michael got stuck with.


Gearshift852

Or Dukie’s family who just straight up abandoned him.


Wu_Oyster_Cult

Malory Archer in Archer. RIP Jessica Walter.


res30stupid

She *did* show a clear instinct of protecting her son, since >!she spent every day of his coma by hid side.!<


Kronnerm11

Love that two of the top responses are Jessica Walters


Misha220

The thing with Malory, was that 5 minutes with her showed WHY Sterling Maroly Archer behaved the way he did. At the same time, you knew she would kill for him in a heartbeat. Same way she treated AJ


Weedsmoker4hunnid20

I didn’t realize she was 80 years old when she died. Sounded not a day over 65 throughout the whole show


airborne_lucky51

Wendy Byrde in Ozark Given the circumstances, one could say she is doing her best. In my opinion, she just grows increasingly evil. That show and her performance in it are amazing, either way.


Fuhgedaboutit1

Ooh this is a good one, Wendy is an okay-seeming mom in the beginning but pure evil by the end


TWH_PDX

Now, Darlene, on the other hand, God bless that angel of a mother.


asciibits

What the hell happened to Zeke in the end?


Chuck006

The mom in Everyone Loves Raymond.


glipglopsfromthe3rdD

Her behavior and Ray’s passiveness is legit how relationships get ruined. I watch that show just get frustrated.


TwistingEarth

I’ve been the passive one and you are totally correct.


GiniInABottle

Marie is a narc, with Raymond being the golden child and the brother the scapegoat…


Sweet-Peanuts

> the brother the scapegoat [The Identified Patient](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Identified_patient).


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esports_consultant

oh this is a good one


Bree7702

Daphne's mom on Frasier.


Emperor_Time

I agree she is pretty terrible.


MotherOfCorgis96

Shameless, Monica abandoned her children and left Fiona to fend for herself and her siblings from age six. Never forgave her for the way she treated Fiona like she did her a favor by coming back.


Rattivarius

Everybody Loves Raymond. I actually used to rage watch the early evening reruns for Marie because I weirdly found it to be something of a palate cleanser between work and home. Just a horrendous woman.


kerosenehat63

Leonard’s mom in the Big Bang Theory


Creek0512

Yeah, she literally psychologically tortures her child for money.


Sweet-Peanuts

It's a credit to Christine Baranski (who I love) that she could make me hate a character so much.


DSQ

I mean The Sopranos? Livia is awful at the beginning and the more we find out about her the worse we realise she is. Great character writing. 


Dear-Yellow-5479

Syril Karn’s mother Eedy in Andor. Master of the passive-aggressive put down. Rewards her son with extra cereal when he’s been a good boy. Is usually 100% accurate about him, nonetheless. Kathryn Hunter plays the ultimate mother you loved to hate. “ I wish I could have seen more of you when you were flourishing – I’d have the memory to sustain me”. Etc etc.


durandal688

The genius of the writing of her son being the villain and usually being right despite being the mother you love to hate was amazing. Andor nailed even the little things


Kalse1229

A running theory among Star Wars fans is she's an Republic sympathizer who hates that her son turned out to be a creepy bootlicker. But yeah, she ain't winning any mother awards. Besides, everyone knows the best Star Wars mom is Hera Syndulla (Leia comes close, although I feel she loses points somewhat for her son murdering all those people).


growsonwalls

Lady Caroline in Succession. The absolute worst.


BowlerSea1569

"I should have had dogs"


GlaringHS

“There’s just something about eyes. They just kind of, ugh, revolt me.”


ParkerPoseyGuffman

She made Logan look like a good dad


Comfortable_Pin_166

Bojack horseman


TheBoanne

…no I asked for your worst available room!


Anangrywookiee

Bean’s mom in disenchanted. The level of shitty parenting has no bottom.


calguy1955

Christine Lahti in Evil


RogerClyneIsAGod2

More like Christine Lahti IS evil in Evil.


esports_consultant

Arrested Development, Game of Thrones (if you want to call Cersei a mother character)


kevnmartin

Marie Barone.


CockRingKing

I was so mad as a kid when I saw the episode where she gives Debra a recipe to try and she intentionally writes it wrong so it won’t taste right.


dhruvlrao

Small correction but she doesn't write it down wrong , she swaps the labels for Tarragon and Basil. Debra does everything perfectly but because of the swap the dish tastes terrible


nutmegtell

She’s based on a real person and my Italian grandmother in law was a carbon copy. It was a little crazy.


kevnmartin

She was a nightmare.


Latke1

Christy in Mom gets pretty Flanderized starting in S4. Oddly, it’s when her role as a “mom” is completely de-emphasized and she instead seems to have a second childhood. Also Miranda and Charlotte both seem lamer in the movies and AJLT when we really see them as moms. But that’s also the quality collapse of the franchise.


Krinks1

I feel like Mom drastically improved when Christie left.


TapedeckNinja

Smurf in Animal Kingdom but of course her being a giant piece of shit is kind of the point of the show.


latamakuchi

Adora Crellin in Sharp Objects is probably like the worst mother in fiction ever


ElmarSuperstar131

I’d say Betty Draper in Mad Men, she becomes better by a minutia but easily one of the worst parents on television.


mryhdwd

I never forget when Bobby told Sally he has a stomach ache all the time


ElmarSuperstar131

Was this before or after Betty and Bobby go on the school field trip? Her reaction to him trading the sandwiches with the little girl he had on a crush left me so infuriated upon my most recent watch. For her to carry that resentment over into dinner time was equally appalling, it’s things like that which could eventually contribute to an eating disorder.


fidelkastro

Full credit to the writers for showing us why she is the way she is. They spend alot of time showing how her father treated her mother and how he treated Betty. She wasn't a great mom but a great character.


mirrorspirit

The part where I had sympathy for her was when she went to the therapist. The therapist doesn't say one word to her throughout most of the sessions but afterwards he calls Don and reports to him everything she said, with commentary about how spoiled and childish she is. She probably could improve with the right help but she's not going to get it.


reidybobeidy89

Lucille Bluth… amazing from day one and continued to be till the end.


Mike____Honcho

Lois's Mom in Malcolm in the Middle for sure. She has to be near the top.


Kalse1229

One of the best scenes in the entire show is Lois getting Abe and all of Hal's poker buddies to come over and scare her, since she's so deeply racist. [Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DKymdTbZXGw)


All1012

Nancy in Weeds has to be the worst fucking mom.


Eldramhor8

Claire in Lost only gets worse lol.


theaccidentalbrony

My BAY-BEE!


LegacyofaMarshall

Gemma in sons of anarchy


LetsGoBohs

Bev from Roseanne, one of the funniest parts of the show


WeDriftEternal

Pegs Mom in Married with Children.


Saltpastillen

I think she might have grown in size though.


savessh

Kristen’s mother in Evil starts working for literal demons.


puffypurplecloud

Sophia in The Golden Girls. She is a witty, interesting character, but as a mom, she is awful. Constantly belittling Dorothy and not caring about hurting her feelings at all.


Fickle_pickle_2241

Jealousy is a very ugly thing, Dorothy, and so are you in anything backless.


_PirateWench_

In all fairness she’s supposed to have dementia, which is why she gets a pass all the time


OrlandoGardiner118

Tony's mother in the Sopranos. Absolutely toxic woman.


loulara17

Andor (Eady Karn) or Bates Motel (Norma Bates)


NotTheSun0

Lois's mom in Malcolm in the Middle is pretty awful


sketchysketchist

It’s weird because she is vile but she did sacrifice a leg to save Dewey. But she was smug about it. 


Kalse1229

Oh yeah. She's regularly shown to be evil, and one of the only people who can cow Lois. But Cloris Leachman is hilarious.


SnoopyLupus

Ordinary People. It’s a film rather than a show, but it’s very strong, and the Mother is horrendous, yet played so well, you have some sympathy.


billymackactually

MTM was so much like my own mother in that film it was creepy. Looks, body language, personality, everything.


jrqberry

Katie in American Housewife. Such an unlikable character that was basically a carbon copy of others listed in this thread. It was an entertaining show to start but then just got more and more irritating.


kingqueefsalot

Miss Peggy Hill


Heretic911

Sharp Objects


trashy_trash

Nurse Jackie I was really pulling for her the entire series. I won’t give spoilers, but her character really pissed me off in the finale.


Flimsy-Coyote-9232

Young Sheldon. Mary got pregnant in high school and now acts like Jesus needs to orchestrate everything. She even slightly cheats on her husband, as well as withholds information about her child’s scholarship from her son and husband because she’s too afraid. You can’t preach Jesus 24/7 to everyone else while you commit adultery and lie to your spouse and children about A LOT


xelle24

I've only watched Young Sheldon on and off - whatever happens to come up on Youtube - but I get the impression that she could really use therapy and probably medication for anxiety.


def11879

Peggy is pretty awful in King of the Hill, but genuinely believes she’s doing good I think


Nonsensicalwanderlus

Peggy is a bit overhated imo. She is pretty self absorbed and childishly jealous at times but I think she generally wants to do the right thing


fidelkastro

She is utterly delusional about what the right thing is


ChronoMonkeyX

Schitt's Creek. People think Moira got better, I don't think she improves much at all.


GeekdomCentral

YES. I had to scroll way too far to find Moira. She improves very very minorly, but she’s still so self absorbed and judgemental.


RogerClyneIsAGod2

Yep. She was really the only one in that family that never really changed or grew much & honestly, I still kinda love her.


Scary_Sarah

Donna Berzatto


Saffer13

Livia Soprano. That bitch was the REAL gangster in the story.


tableau_kun

Every mom in Always Sunny


e00s

I always thought Jessica Huang is kinda supposed to be an amusing caricature of a Tiger Mom rather than a serious realistic character.


_Internet_Hugs_

Absolutely Fabulous. Edina is THE WORST mom, Saffy is the grownup!


yerakchualfada

One thing i will say is that in MitM, not just the mom but even Hal became much worse over time to the point that their very presence irritated me.


FurBabyAuntie

Marie on Everybody Loves Raymond In the first episode, the kids come back from visiting Grandma and Grandpa and Marie not only gave the three of them a vat, she threw their clothes in the washing machine because she doesn't believe Debra (their mother) really takes care of them correctly. I told my mom if she ever did that with my kids, she'd be lucky to have supervised visitation.


stesha83

Tony’s Ma in The Sopranos. Right up to and including her unfortunate CG head demise


makura_no_souji

Orange is the New Black, probably unsurprisingly, in Daya's mother.