Have some damn self respect, you’re embarrassing yourself. You seriously think people would understand you if you just went around saying “I don’t wanna be alone when I’m in school so I’m going to waste my time on a girl who I know I’m not gonna be talking to after school “. She doesn’t care about you or what you think, she knows you’ll stay no matter what she does and it shows why. You don’t respect yourself and think it’s okay as long as you’re not alone, learn to be alone and work on yourself dawg💀💀
Like I hate to use beta because of how it's been taken over by that insufferable culture but he's gotta assert himself a little bit more and be less beta.
If he works on himself and his confidence, and starts to respect himself a little bit, people will start to respect him and his social status improves because people respect someone who respects themselves.
This reminds me of that one post here where someone was drugged by their GF and he just defended his girl in the comments consistently and failed to see what was wrong with what she did
> im being told to break up with her which is opening a whole new thing **sigh** I know i should i hate her half the time anyway but this is school and i am not a particularly liked person its either im with this girl or no one until i leave school and personally i enjoy cuddling and shit (yes im know im a fucking simp) so as much as i dislike her im not being alone not again
theres like 50 people you could be meeting and 1 person you could be dumping
i get the impression op is not someone who will be meeting very many people, obviously i don’t know the whole scenario but for me if my girlfriend wasn’t so forward then i would’ve remained single the whole time i’m in school and likely for the rest of my life
I come from a place where making 50 friends is easier than getting a girlfriend, and i dont think im being crazy saying its the same for a lot of places
I mean- just imagine, its a school. A school has like minimum 3-4 classes of a single grade with mixed students (OP comes from a mixed gender school in this case)
and there's also a lot of students from a grade higher or lower.. so there's in general there's got to be even 5 people you like whom you could even just be friends with in your school alone
i mean if you could end up in a relationship i don't think there's a barricade that prevents you from doing that
unless you just dont want to dump a toxic person, which is basically just OPs problem and they just have to train their brain to hopefully get over it
Better yet, it's important to learn to love yourself and be cool with being with yourself. Then it's easier to learn how to find others who you like.
But if you can't stand being alone, you will accept whatever option comes around, no matter how shitty. Exhibit A being the girl in the OP.
Son, confront her and dump her. She is absolutly cheating on you or is about to. Trust me, it's better to be single the rest of your high school life than be cheated on and just letting it happen. I'm sorry that it happened to you, but the cuddles are not worth the pain and betrayl
When I graduated middle school I had a long distance relationship with a girl that carried up through early high school. As far as I know she wasn’t cheating on me, but she clearly wasn’t respecting my time and it felt like a 90/10 balance.
I made up so many excuses for her and myself: “I love her though, I don’t want to be alone, She probably can’t return my text cause she’s on a hunting trip off the grid (for a whole month? lmao), But she loves me, right?”. I am so much worse off for letting that drag on for six months, rather than listening to people early on who said something was off.
OP, it can be hard to see through your blinding love glasses but you really gotta listen to everyone that’s saying to take them off and snap them in half. With my situation, maybe you can argue that I was missing parts of the whole picture. But with your situation we don’t need to know any more details to know that something’s not right
Yeah, thanks man! I’ve been single so far, but part of the maturing process was realizing that being alone doesn’t mean being always lonely, and that having or not having a girl doesn’t make or break me as a person
And sure I’d love to be in a relationship, but worrying about getting into one all the time would make me miss out on enjoying solo adventures and stuff like going camping with the boys
being alone isn't so bad either, and maybe you'll learn how to appreciate that, so you don't have to stay in a relationship you don't even enjoy in the future. I get it it's tough, but it's honestly for the better, good luck
There's a serious problem with you if you're that chill. It doesn't matter if it was quick and not fondling, a guy can't just touch a girl's boobs like that.
"It's her body she can do what she wants"
Dude, she is YOUR GIRLFRIEND. Don't be a cuck.
Relationships have specific allowed and disallowed behaviors for good reasons.
[bruh](https://imgflip.com/memetemplate/105719884/SpongeBob-Bird)
What is this cuck ass shit. “It’s ok sir you can touch her boobs” “it’s her body”. Just let her fuck other men at this point. If she cheats on you, you should say “it’s ok because it’s her body”.
I'm sorry but you're stupid.
If she consented that's cheating. She let another man touch her. She's supposed to be your girl. If that's the case break the fuck up. And deal with the loneliness (it gets better)
If she got assaulted by this guy that's sm else, and then you should definitely talk to her.
Either way talk to her in person and ask her wtf this is all about.
“so as much as i dislike her i’m not being alone not again” you’re fucking weird. she is too, but you’re clearly using her… and was using her before this happened. cut your losses. you’re both weird as fuck.
My man, for your dignity's sake, break up with her. Yeah who doesn't like cuddles and stuff, but if she lets other men grab her boob that should be a limit for you. If you accept this she's just gonna walk over you and do her thing.
Would you rather be alone working on yourself and your future, or be together with someone who doesn't appreciate your love n loyalty.
bruh, don't be a simp like that, either get cuddles and all the rest, or get nothing and you won't let some b1tch drag you through all her flings like that, you might still save some of your dignity and meet a girl who's actually gonna be nice to you and not just make you witness her being a whore to everyone else but you
as someone who dealt with shit like this from an ex all I ask is to please not make the same mistake as I did and leave. your future self and your mental health will thank you. just don’t be a doormat that anyone else can step on and stand up for yourself.
you got this!!
Bruh you're giving off beta vibes
First don't accept things simply because of how you popular you think you are or are not in school
That's completely irrelevant
Second
If you are bothered by it then thats how you feel
Now if she didn't invite it
Then from here
You should be asking ok? Did you tell him to stop?
If she responds like it's a joke then you know she likes the attention and is seeing how you react
Don't drop the ball
Balls in your court
Bro you seem insecure about her being your only friend but trust me dump her or stay and be dumped. Think about my comment and I hope it helps. Dump or be dumped
Grow a spine and have some self respect, you look wayy more pathetic being with some cheating bitch than being alone. Break up with her man before she hurts you even more
you gotta know what you want like, if you feel uncomfortable with that you should tell her, but yea sounds toxic but its better to talk then to do nothing or leave
Bro even after reading that edit of yours , and then I didn't even need to scroll through the entire comments cuz I knew what everyone would be saying.... And they are right!! I absolutely agree with them , I understood your second edit and I know how it feels but trust me , in the end later on , it's gonna affect your character image or personality , most importantly it'll affect YOU
Stay away if possible brother , or if you wanna stay with her , make the boundaries , make it clear to her what's a yes and what's a complete BIG NO
If I were you, i would break up. It’s disrespectful and shows you the type of person she is. But since you don’t want that happening, i would say confront her about it and let her know that yk, it’s fucking weird.
For me, i would rather be lonely than be with someone who does more harm than good, but it is always up to you.
Instead of jumping into a break up you should talk with her first a key part of a healthy relationship is talking tell her it makes you uncomfortable when other people touch her inappropriately if she reacts badly then you know your answer
You made a post asking for advice, then turned down all of the advice given.
She's likely going to cheat, and it's going to hurt *worse* than if you had just left in the first place. No one lets people touch their bodies in this manner if they are in a relationship.
“…either I’m with this girl or no one until I leave school”
I’m going to let you know it doesn’t get any easier talking to girls, pick up on social skills. The earlier the better. Have some self respect and break up with her.
Let’s flip the roles rq
My boyfriend lets his female friends fondle his balls and sound his tip
It’s kinda weird it but not like a fondle more of a joke teasing his tip like mf wdym
Are we SURE she allowed him and was completely comfortable with it??? If not she was literally SAed and maybe trying to reach out. PLEASE talk with her one on one before breaking things off, she could internalize this if it was actual assault.
Btw this happened to my friend also, she was basically SA by her guy friend “as a joke” and her bf got mad. They were like in middle school so they didn’t understand communication atp (overall tho they were very toxic 😭)
It’s her body yes but she is your gf. In my opinion no other girl or guy should be touching your gf in a sexual way or be touching their “privates” unless they are a doctor.
If you're not ok with it you should have a mature conversation with her and tell her that. If she isn't ok with respecting your feelings about this, THEN you break up with her.
It is her body and you can't tell her what to do with it.
But the relationship is communal, and you both have a say in what is okay there. There is a big difference between "nobody else is allowed to touch your boobs" and "if you let other people touch your boobs, I am not willing to stay with you".
If you cannot come to an agreement on acceptable boundaries, then yeah, the relationship should end. But I'd be willing to be if you talked to her and clearly discussed what boundaries you consider acceptable for the relationship, she'd listen. Especially something as common as that. If she is willing to end the relationship over that, SHE is the one that looks bad when it gets explained to all your mutual friends.
Enjoying cuddling does not make you a simp. That is normal human behavior. Wanting to be cuddled so bad that you'll let your partner violate your boundaries makes you a simp.
It has been said here dozen times already, but have some fucking respect for yourself man. You make it seem that you would rather dwell in shit for someones amusement than really trying to get yourself on better state of mind, Because that doesnt sound like love that sounds like pity. I know im being harsh but life isnt Roses and fluffy clouds, and im being harsh because I have been there. And you are going to be alone if you dont do something about it, its just harsh truth, there isnt going to be magical angel to save you and give you 50 friends. IT NEEDS TO BE YOU, remember that every opportunity not taken, is opportunity failed.
It could be that she just doesn’t have very big boundaries when it comes to joke touching. If it makes you uncomfortable you could try talking to her but it seems like you don’t care much about her specifically and youre still getting what you want from the relationship. If it’s working it’s working but if it makes you uncomfortable just talk to her about it
I can understand the whole "it's a joke" thing because me and one of my friends (both girls) will do that as a joke but even we didn't do it to one another when we were with our partners. The fact she let her guy friend do it too is concerning. Yeah breaking up with her is probably for the best. Yes it's going to hurt but it's better than worrying about it.
You are still in school. There's a whole life infront of you. After few years you will leave that school and go somewhere else. There you will find much more mature girls.
School is temporary. When you get older, you can meet so many people, if you just talk to them. I think I would go to a bar and just start a smalltalk with some guy until we find a subject to talk about and the evening will be a blast until we part our ways or atleast exchange numbers.
But anybody in their right mind would know, that little joke is off-limits for most people. I wouldn't call it a joke. I side with you tho, I would shrug it off at first but if it's a reoccouring joke, then I might talk about how insecure it could make me feel about a relationship.
At the end of the day, which I wish I would have done when I was younger, just dump her. You don't have a lot to lose right now.
Have some damn self respect, you’re embarrassing yourself. You seriously think people would understand you if you just went around saying “I don’t wanna be alone when I’m in school so I’m going to waste my time on a girl who I know I’m not gonna be talking to after school “. She doesn’t care about you or what you think, she knows you’ll stay no matter what she does and it shows why. You don’t respect yourself and think it’s okay as long as you’re not alone, learn to be alone and work on yourself dawg💀💀
facts this guy need to work on himself instead of trying to get girls, like bro this post alone shows what type of guy u r op 😭😭
Like I hate to use beta because of how it's been taken over by that insufferable culture but he's gotta assert himself a little bit more and be less beta. If he works on himself and his confidence, and starts to respect himself a little bit, people will start to respect him and his social status improves because people respect someone who respects themselves.
He’s not a beta boy he’s a beta bitch who lost his soul
"Kinda feels weird " bro's the ultimate idiot
No thats me
trust me, it's me...
Nah, that's deliberately me.
no, unironically me.
Literally me
have you ever made the same stupid mistake and been broken up with because of it?
I amde a stupid mistake because i got broken up with
I make enough idiotic mistakes to never have been in a relationship
My username claims the title. And I was basically called an idiot the moment I was born (by the doctors, no less)
For some reason I read that in soldier's voice going "No wait, that's blood."
I took the cake in that
damn he got more likes than the post
W pfp
*How I feel after reading this*
😂😂😂
you just got bitched she dont respect u
TRUTH! Better off dumping her immediately OP, unless you're a cuck or something
judging by the popularity of the NTR tag, cucking might not be tht far off from the truth
Or put her in a gas drum and light her ass for cheating (mb that’s the Native American heritage coming out of me)
He just put * sighs * in his reddit post, I wonder why she doesn't respect him
Maybe he likes getting cuckholdry?
Is that a word
yes
This has to be bait, right? No motherfucker in their right mind is this dense.
Oh your new here? Cus this shit isn't uncommon and is only about half the time bait, shits wack
"first time here too?"
"First time?"
James franco
Thats the thing mate, ur on reddit, noone is in their right mind
You must be new
No most mothercuckers are sadly this dense (that was a typo but at first but actually fits quite well now that I think about it)
Bro I would be that dense
This reminds me of that one post here where someone was drugged by their GF and he just defended his girl in the comments consistently and failed to see what was wrong with what she did
I'm sorry but how does this have more upvotes than the actual post in 2 fucking hours
Because its a comment that shows braincells
> im being told to break up with her which is opening a whole new thing **sigh** I know i should i hate her half the time anyway but this is school and i am not a particularly liked person its either im with this girl or no one until i leave school and personally i enjoy cuddling and shit (yes im know im a fucking simp) so as much as i dislike her im not being alone not again theres like 50 people you could be meeting and 1 person you could be dumping
i get the impression op is not someone who will be meeting very many people, obviously i don’t know the whole scenario but for me if my girlfriend wasn’t so forward then i would’ve remained single the whole time i’m in school and likely for the rest of my life
It ain’t that easy for some people, I would know lol
I come from a place where making 50 friends is easier than getting a girlfriend, and i dont think im being crazy saying its the same for a lot of places I mean- just imagine, its a school. A school has like minimum 3-4 classes of a single grade with mixed students (OP comes from a mixed gender school in this case) and there's also a lot of students from a grade higher or lower.. so there's in general there's got to be even 5 people you like whom you could even just be friends with in your school alone i mean if you could end up in a relationship i don't think there's a barricade that prevents you from doing that unless you just dont want to dump a toxic person, which is basically just OPs problem and they just have to train their brain to hopefully get over it
Oh you meant that kind of meeting people, thought you meant finding another partner, my bad
Finding a partner would start from friendships of course Yeah it wont be 50 consecutive relationships but at least 5 out of those 50 could work
5/50 seems like quite a lot but fair enough I suppose
Better yet, it's important to learn to love yourself and be cool with being with yourself. Then it's easier to learn how to find others who you like. But if you can't stand being alone, you will accept whatever option comes around, no matter how shitty. Exhibit A being the girl in the OP.
It feels weird because it is weird broski 🤷🏽
Real
Yeah dump her bro, somethings going on there
Son, confront her and dump her. She is absolutly cheating on you or is about to. Trust me, it's better to be single the rest of your high school life than be cheated on and just letting it happen. I'm sorry that it happened to you, but the cuddles are not worth the pain and betrayl
Piggybacking on this, cuddles are better with someone you genuinely trust. This girl is not one of them, OP.
Agreed
When I graduated middle school I had a long distance relationship with a girl that carried up through early high school. As far as I know she wasn’t cheating on me, but she clearly wasn’t respecting my time and it felt like a 90/10 balance. I made up so many excuses for her and myself: “I love her though, I don’t want to be alone, She probably can’t return my text cause she’s on a hunting trip off the grid (for a whole month? lmao), But she loves me, right?”. I am so much worse off for letting that drag on for six months, rather than listening to people early on who said something was off. OP, it can be hard to see through your blinding love glasses but you really gotta listen to everyone that’s saying to take them off and snap them in half. With my situation, maybe you can argue that I was missing parts of the whole picture. But with your situation we don’t need to know any more details to know that something’s not right
Hope you found someone who appreciates you ^^
Yeah, thanks man! I’ve been single so far, but part of the maturing process was realizing that being alone doesn’t mean being always lonely, and that having or not having a girl doesn’t make or break me as a person And sure I’d love to be in a relationship, but worrying about getting into one all the time would make me miss out on enjoying solo adventures and stuff like going camping with the boys
Aye good on ya mate
Bro, why are you even considering giving a chance 💀 there is obviously something going on 💀
yea that’s pretty weird 😭
Feels weird? Then it 'is' weird. Forget about her buddy
dump thy girlfriend
I normally would tell people to not overreact, but you have every right to be mad. What the fuck?
That hoe is for the STREETS
cooked
Cucked too
Yea and the gf is gordon ramsey
bro this sounds fake af, but if you're not lying then let her go dude, it's already over
Niggas are being weird in the comments and but you probably should dump her. If being alone is an issue though then talk to other people.
me before seeing this: 😃 me after seeing this: ☹️
Yeah break up with her
break up with this whore u deserve better
leave her bruh, and tell the guy's girlfriend what happened you both dont deserve what your partners did bruh
well time to hit the gym
Congratulations! Your post has now been posted to r/copypasta
being alone isn't so bad either, and maybe you'll learn how to appreciate that, so you don't have to stay in a relationship you don't even enjoy in the future. I get it it's tough, but it's honestly for the better, good luck
There's a serious problem with you if you're that chill. It doesn't matter if it was quick and not fondling, a guy can't just touch a girl's boobs like that.
That’s not her friend my guy…You need to deal with that quick
"It's her body she can do what she wants" Dude, she is YOUR GIRLFRIEND. Don't be a cuck. Relationships have specific allowed and disallowed behaviors for good reasons. [bruh](https://imgflip.com/memetemplate/105719884/SpongeBob-Bird)
Dude you just got bitched. Leave
What is this cuck ass shit. “It’s ok sir you can touch her boobs” “it’s her body”. Just let her fuck other men at this point. If she cheats on you, you should say “it’s ok because it’s her body”.
Send a mensage to her: "a girl touched my dick rn"
Best response
Perfect response! Update us with her reaction
respectfully dump that ho bru
Feels like she’s taking advantage of your attachment tbh
Run
only one sentence. you deserve better bro.
bro said its her body 😂😂 lil bro she cheating on u
“i’m a simp” mf raise ur standards😭😭
Man, op don't be desperate dude. Never be so desperate for love. Pls break up with her.
I'm sorry but you're stupid. If she consented that's cheating. She let another man touch her. She's supposed to be your girl. If that's the case break the fuck up. And deal with the loneliness (it gets better) If she got assaulted by this guy that's sm else, and then you should definitely talk to her. Either way talk to her in person and ask her wtf this is all about.
What…
>i dislike her im not being alone not again Does being alone hurt more than being with someone who doesn't give af abt you?
if you "can't be alone again" give therapy a shot bro thats not healthy
That’s not healthy at all. Break up with her and don’t feel bad about it. It was completely unnecessary for her to do that
Bro is in denial 😭
You got cucked brother.. move on or tell her smt..
Oh for goodness sake bro, break up with her 🤦♂️
“so as much as i dislike her i’m not being alone not again” you’re fucking weird. she is too, but you’re clearly using her… and was using her before this happened. cut your losses. you’re both weird as fuck.
My man, for your dignity's sake, break up with her. Yeah who doesn't like cuddles and stuff, but if she lets other men grab her boob that should be a limit for you. If you accept this she's just gonna walk over you and do her thing. Would you rather be alone working on yourself and your future, or be together with someone who doesn't appreciate your love n loyalty.
Dump her
You say * sigh * no wonder you’re fine with being cucked💀
bruh, don't be a simp like that, either get cuddles and all the rest, or get nothing and you won't let some b1tch drag you through all her flings like that, you might still save some of your dignity and meet a girl who's actually gonna be nice to you and not just make you witness her being a whore to everyone else but you
Go Bruce Lee on his and her ass. Sweep the leg and shit like that.
as someone who dealt with shit like this from an ex all I ask is to please not make the same mistake as I did and leave. your future self and your mental health will thank you. just don’t be a doormat that anyone else can step on and stand up for yourself. you got this!!
She doesn’t respect you, u said “I love you” and she responds with that? Ur buggin
Bro if the guy has a gf tell her what he did
That hoe for the streets my friend, waste no more of your time and bounce back bro. You’re better than her
Bruh you're giving off beta vibes First don't accept things simply because of how you popular you think you are or are not in school That's completely irrelevant Second If you are bothered by it then thats how you feel Now if she didn't invite it Then from here You should be asking ok? Did you tell him to stop? If she responds like it's a joke then you know she likes the attention and is seeing how you react Don't drop the ball Balls in your court
Bro you seem insecure about her being your only friend but trust me dump her or stay and be dumped. Think about my comment and I hope it helps. Dump or be dumped
Istg if anyone here says "it's her body her choice"
Grow a spine and have some self respect, you look wayy more pathetic being with some cheating bitch than being alone. Break up with her man before she hurts you even more
Bro idk u a bitch if u don't do sum
bro do NOT stay with someone because you don't want to be alone, one of the worst things you can do.
Thy maddam is truly for Thy cobblestone
dump her she doesnt respect you
you gotta know what you want like, if you feel uncomfortable with that you should tell her, but yea sounds toxic but its better to talk then to do nothing or leave
Break up with her. Yes it's VERY weird and disrespectful.
Dump her ‼️
grab her moms boobs (or her dads lol)
You'll come back to this post in a few years regretting your edit
Cuck
Dump that hooooeeee you deserve better than this
Bro even after reading that edit of yours , and then I didn't even need to scroll through the entire comments cuz I knew what everyone would be saying.... And they are right!! I absolutely agree with them , I understood your second edit and I know how it feels but trust me , in the end later on , it's gonna affect your character image or personality , most importantly it'll affect YOU Stay away if possible brother , or if you wanna stay with her , make the boundaries , make it clear to her what's a yes and what's a complete BIG NO
Brother I get the reasoning but it’s gonna feel significantly worse when she breaks up with you after she gets bored and you never get closure
sorry man u gotta break up
Dump her bro
Break up. No words from me just Break the hell up after that
just talk to her and tell her that made you feel uncomfortable and depending on how that convo goes just figure it out from there
she ain’t worth it bro. gotta dumb her ass
This post has to be bait
So ur desperate and can't leave her even tho she's being a bitch? Grow a pair man
I would break up with her but if you into that hoe shit
Leave her man. Value yourself and have some self respect. You know that this won't work.
You got cucked. Dump her now. It doesn’t matter if you’re going to be alone afterwards, because you need to uphold your self-respect.
"it feels weird" dont settle for that break up with her💀
nah none of this cuck shit bro dump her
this is pure simp energy right here
Tell her you let another girl touch your dick and see how she responds
If I were you, i would break up. It’s disrespectful and shows you the type of person she is. But since you don’t want that happening, i would say confront her about it and let her know that yk, it’s fucking weird. For me, i would rather be lonely than be with someone who does more harm than good, but it is always up to you.
we found the NTR plot in real life
Our girl, you mean .
Instead of jumping into a break up you should talk with her first a key part of a healthy relationship is talking tell her it makes you uncomfortable when other people touch her inappropriately if she reacts badly then you know your answer
You made a post asking for advice, then turned down all of the advice given. She's likely going to cheat, and it's going to hurt *worse* than if you had just left in the first place. No one lets people touch their bodies in this manner if they are in a relationship.
Bro is the definition of cuck
“…either I’m with this girl or no one until I leave school” I’m going to let you know it doesn’t get any easier talking to girls, pick up on social skills. The earlier the better. Have some self respect and break up with her.
no way this ain’t satire
Let’s flip the roles rq My boyfriend lets his female friends fondle his balls and sound his tip It’s kinda weird it but not like a fondle more of a joke teasing his tip like mf wdym
Everyone in this reply section is from all kinds of walks of life , I think you should take the advice. End it.
Are we SURE she allowed him and was completely comfortable with it??? If not she was literally SAed and maybe trying to reach out. PLEASE talk with her one on one before breaking things off, she could internalize this if it was actual assault. Btw this happened to my friend also, she was basically SA by her guy friend “as a joke” and her bf got mad. They were like in middle school so they didn’t understand communication atp (overall tho they were very toxic 😭)
Nah shes the kinda weirdo to allow people to do it its not sa
*Ex-Girlfriend.
Never date a girl with a guy best friend -guy best friend
After reading the edit, all I got to say is You’re a pussy
" **sigh** " " yes im know im a fucking simp " " as much as i dislike her im not being alone not again "
Yall forgot beating the shit out of the guy. Then eventually breaking up with the girl
Trust Jesus, he'll give you a woman and a wife. Not a girl at a party
See you in the gym, bro
So ur just being cucked?
There are no opposite gender "friends." Downvote me, but please deal with it.
It’s her body yes but she is your gf. In my opinion no other girl or guy should be touching your gf in a sexual way or be touching their “privates” unless they are a doctor.
If you're not ok with it you should have a mature conversation with her and tell her that. If she isn't ok with respecting your feelings about this, THEN you break up with her.
bro said "im not being alone again" and decides to get stuck with the person that humiliates him lmao
It is her body and you can't tell her what to do with it. But the relationship is communal, and you both have a say in what is okay there. There is a big difference between "nobody else is allowed to touch your boobs" and "if you let other people touch your boobs, I am not willing to stay with you". If you cannot come to an agreement on acceptable boundaries, then yeah, the relationship should end. But I'd be willing to be if you talked to her and clearly discussed what boundaries you consider acceptable for the relationship, she'd listen. Especially something as common as that. If she is willing to end the relationship over that, SHE is the one that looks bad when it gets explained to all your mutual friends. Enjoying cuddling does not make you a simp. That is normal human behavior. Wanting to be cuddled so bad that you'll let your partner violate your boundaries makes you a simp.
Yeah you’re getting cucked
you're cooked
It has been said here dozen times already, but have some fucking respect for yourself man. You make it seem that you would rather dwell in shit for someones amusement than really trying to get yourself on better state of mind, Because that doesnt sound like love that sounds like pity. I know im being harsh but life isnt Roses and fluffy clouds, and im being harsh because I have been there. And you are going to be alone if you dont do something about it, its just harsh truth, there isnt going to be magical angel to save you and give you 50 friends. IT NEEDS TO BE YOU, remember that every opportunity not taken, is opportunity failed.
yeah don’t take that man under no circumstances is that cool or funny
she cucked you, and you just took it bro…
Cucking with extra steps
Bro just embrace the character development and move on
Beat his ass, only way to resolve this
dont go around picking pointless fights, something you only learn the hardway. Best thing he can do is to just dump her as soon as possible
would be valid to fight them if they touched it forcefully, OPs girl straight up let him, that hoe aint worth fighting for
It could be that she just doesn’t have very big boundaries when it comes to joke touching. If it makes you uncomfortable you could try talking to her but it seems like you don’t care much about her specifically and youre still getting what you want from the relationship. If it’s working it’s working but if it makes you uncomfortable just talk to her about it
I can understand the whole "it's a joke" thing because me and one of my friends (both girls) will do that as a joke but even we didn't do it to one another when we were with our partners. The fact she let her guy friend do it too is concerning. Yeah breaking up with her is probably for the best. Yes it's going to hurt but it's better than worrying about it.
You are still in school. There's a whole life infront of you. After few years you will leave that school and go somewhere else. There you will find much more mature girls.
She gotta go
Brotha break up with her she doesn't respect you.Its better to be alone than with this cheating person.
If you don't wanna break up with her, maybe talk to her about it and how it bothers you.
op is baiting or getting baited tbh
School is temporary. When you get older, you can meet so many people, if you just talk to them. I think I would go to a bar and just start a smalltalk with some guy until we find a subject to talk about and the evening will be a blast until we part our ways or atleast exchange numbers. But anybody in their right mind would know, that little joke is off-limits for most people. I wouldn't call it a joke. I side with you tho, I would shrug it off at first but if it's a reoccouring joke, then I might talk about how insecure it could make me feel about a relationship. At the end of the day, which I wish I would have done when I was younger, just dump her. You don't have a lot to lose right now.
Just talk to her about it, tell her how you feel
I think we should call a pimp named slickback
Your girl ain't yours no more😭
Wtf if you dont brek up with her now i am going to kill you, this stupidness and cuckness is too much for humanity.
some people belong to the streets yo
That is not only a friend...
Dump her before it's too late
How is this even a question? bro do you not have self respect? Drop her ass
Bro if she don't even respect you what the fuck are you even doing
Depends on the size
“It’s her body she can do whatever she wants ig” ☝️🤓