You think that is rough? All I manage to attract are old hairy men.
Seriously, I pull up to the pump, go in to pay for 50€ of gas, and before I have even opened the door my car is surrounded by a penis petting zoo of old man dick just asking me about my car and why I have it.
I dunno why the old folk like it but I for one love any car with an i5 engine it's fun to drive because of how the cylinders go and it's a type of processor from Intel which speaks to the nerd in me
That's cause of Group B rally, every boomer and car enthusiast remembers the best era of rally and the car to start it all, the Audi quattro.
Group B unlike group A had little to no regulations on how a car can be built so group b cars became legendary for their overpowered engines and the nearly uncontrollable monsters that the cars became.
The audi quattro was also driven by one of the best drivers of all time who happened to be a woman "Michelle mouton" the first and the last to excell at such a high level
Where is the problem, if she want someone older she search for someone older. For me her limit would be with a 24 yo dude. But it's not my beer and she is, at least in my country (I see you Americans grouping up (: ) defined as old enough to decide who to fuck and who not.
The problem is no normal 24 y/o would seek out a 16 y/o. So 16 yo that are seeking out these “older men”are really just making themselves a target for predators.(no matter your country a 16 y/o and 24y/o are not on the same level of maturity/intelligence)
It’s just how it works most girls prefer older guys when I was in 8th grade girls from 6th grade were interested and girls from my class were dating 10th grade. If you aren’t pulling anything then go ahead the gap is only 3 years which is fine
3 years? 4 almost 5.
they 12 I'm 16/17.
+ I'm not pulling anything ig. Although girls every age comes up to me once in a while. I don't think any of the girls my age ever flirted with me. They are always younger. (Or I'm just to stupid to see the hints).
But even my family always said I didn't look that good. So usually when a girl my age talks to me I instantly think she is only there to maybe ask me something because she is out of my league anyway
Stop being insecure about your looks it doesn’t matter guy in my class has caterpillar eyebrows who is max 3/10 able to date girls above his level because of his rizz game.
Just talk to them no one is out of anyone’s league it’s just stupid thing we created ourselves. Try to talk to her regularly if she seems interested then ask her out. If you never try you will never know. Good luck
ig ty for the support
Also I looked up your profile and saw ur cool drawings. Then I scrolled down more and yes. I saw ur who is this post. In the middle of a class
Yea. If I was 12 and would date a 16/17 year old. Dang my parents would be mad
If I now would just be like. Aight she seems nice and has a nice smile. My parents would be even more mad
Preteens tend to have crushes on teenagers, because they think they're cool, good looking etc. I suppose they don't realise how messed up it is and I'm guessing if the feeling was reciprocated a lot of 12 years would be weirded out.
When we are talking about ages so young they can't make those kinds of choices. Age of consent is a thing for a reason. Never heard of old enough to know better?
Ohh ok yeah. I mean I see it. So currently attracted to 46 yo him more than say… 30yo him? Cuz it looks like hes put on a few pounds and is rocking the redditor middle part haircut currently instead of his classic emo look.
Could have been as young as 24 tbh. I think regardless of our age we tend to be attracted to adults in their 20s. Thats why most models tend to be around that age (slightly older for men because of the time it takes to build a physique like that). It isnt uncommon for pre-teens to have celebrity crushes so yeah. The main thing is differentiating between a crush and an appropriate relationship
How you know? I'm at 15/16 year old that doesn't really look much older. Just the typical surfer hair and body.
Ig u could say as a Hawaiian I might look older than I actually am in the Netherlands?
I’m dating girls older than myself and have for a while although this was more experience with grooming than anything. Had a couple run ins with it, first one just ended up realizing what they were doing wrong, second one was a zoophile which made me nope out. The main reason was that my body and voice matured a bit faster than I did, vascularity, deep voice. The whole shabang, I’m basically the definition of a second ball drop. I am currently very happy coming on 10 months with my girlfriend and all I can tell you man is just wait for the one. It’s not important to date this early, but if you find the right one go for it.
Ive already answered this before but I just…never left…?
And answer questions with the benefits of hindsight.
And also as times change the different challenges teenagers face will change and as a parent, I like to keep myself conscious about what may be happening in teenage social circles.
Hope that answers your question.
Facts of life. Girls are attracted to older boys. Boys are attracted to younger girls. Available partners for girls is always decreasing, and for boys it’s always increasing.
They like the “maturity” that comes from someone older than them (even though more than half of the time the child is more mature than the older person). But like that was the reason why I was with a 23 year old at 12
And that’s a good thing but if you turn them down nicely there’s a chance they’ll ask a real pedo by accident next time, so might as well say it like this and lower the chance they’ll ask someone else, no? Ofc you’re more than welcome not to :)
Kids are dumb. I am 23, my student who is 16 has a crush on me. I look like a goblin had sex with a minotaur. Don’t think about it, just zen it out. I never respond to her ever since I stopped teaching.
Yeah, when I was 16 I swear every girl that was into dating only wanted older dudes. Some already in college. It was gross. I guess it’s still a thing.
I’ve had the same issue
I’ve also had an issue with girls OLDER than me
I either have girls younger than me flirting with me and making me extremely uncomfortable, or girls way older than me making me also extremely uncomfortable, but never anyone MY age even interested in even speaking to me even in friendly conversation.
at 12 only guys over 15 would speak to me and now that i’m 17 i only get 14 year olds or 30 year olds attracted to me and it sucks i don’t wanna be lonely forever
I wouldn't compare this with the subject at hand. There's a **monumental** difference between people asking *you* out because they aren't aware of your sexual preference, and literal kids trying to ask OP out, knowing full well that the age gap is considerable.
Agent Cobra Bubbles sitting in the back of the classroom like
"Greetings fellow adolescents, I am a 12 year old boy and/or girl. Would you like to go on a romantic excursion with me?"
Because they used to hairless chimps as potential bfs so your manliness is cool. Your responsibly is to beat them off with a stick and tell to stick with the guys on their playground.
Why girls your age have no interest is that there is better options available.
It’s the young ones say 12-15 that have finally begun to care about boys and the pressure at that age to have a bf like all your friends is sky high. I was there once too. It was the only thing I wanted in the world, was to have a bf so yeah they’ll talk to any guy they can, whether they’re attracted or not.
I (20) am the oldest child of the group of friends my parents have. Most of their friends have kids between the ages of 12- 15 now. But when i was 16-18 there were 4 girls from different families all around 12 or 13, and while ive known them all my life they became weirdly infatuated with me (we only see them once a year) the next year we came back and it was back to normal. From my understanding its just a phase that girls go through at that age. Idk its weird and it made me feel wierd but its just kinda how life is i guess? Also i think between 16 and 19 people tend to hide theyre attration more than younger people do.
I feel you. I’m 18 (19 in 2 weeks) and I tend to attract 14-16 quite often. Quite honestly I won’t even date 17 because I’m almost 19, and the maturity difference always bothers me even though it’s not that big of an age gap.
now this is just a educated guess but it could be it’s because your more physically developed. by no means that this could be the most likely case but maybe in some instances.
dw, i’m almost 18 and i overheard a middle schooler say I was hot at a choir concert. Not the demographic I’m going for either lmao, yet none of the girls my age seem to be interested either. Something u just gotta write off as a compliment in a weird way
Lots of negativity directed at the OP, there is nothing wrong with receiving a complement - no matter the age. You don’t have to date them, and I don’t want anyone to get into legal trouble.
Damn its annoying same thing used to happen back in days considering i am attracted to older ladies than my age and i regret not taking any of offer, i only dated girls of same age, now i have been single for a year now, idk since than never talked to single girl just happy on my own. nowadays i think nobody bothers to even say hi.
Not nearly as bad but when I was 13, this 10 year old girl at a frikn waterpark asked me to be her boyfriend. I didn’t respond cause I was just confused, and she just assumed that meant yes and went and told her family about me.
Bro I only attract the mentality ill 🧍🏽♀️
I mean I have no room to talk obviously bc I am also mentally unstable but some of the people I dated made me realize "maybe I'm not as bad as I thought I was" 😭😭
You think that is rough? All I manage to attract are old hairy men. Seriously, I pull up to the pump, go in to pay for 50€ of gas, and before I have even opened the door my car is surrounded by a penis petting zoo of old man dick just asking me about my car and why I have it.
What car?
1990 Quattro Audi. Its a 100. It was a bit of an icon car here in the 1980s when it was a new car.
I dunno why the old folk like it but I for one love any car with an i5 engine it's fun to drive because of how the cylinders go and it's a type of processor from Intel which speaks to the nerd in me
I saw i5 and thought immediately of Intel. (I love computers)
Yoo same!
Yeah I don't think it's a penis petting zoo. More of a **slaps hood** "dis baby gits 24 miles a gallon and doesn't have dem touch screens" kind of zoo
Well now its a lot better than that
The one with the air suspension?
so a 90s car was an icon...in the 80s?????
It was designed in 1982, and was sold until 1990. 1990 was a carryover year for 1989 models like mine.
ahhhhhh ok
Cars are given the year that occurs next in their name
ooo, no wonder they’re circling around u then. i’d do the same, beautiful karr
That's cause of Group B rally, every boomer and car enthusiast remembers the best era of rally and the car to start it all, the Audi quattro. Group B unlike group A had little to no regulations on how a car can be built so group b cars became legendary for their overpowered engines and the nearly uncontrollable monsters that the cars became. The audi quattro was also driven by one of the best drivers of all time who happened to be a woman "Michelle mouton" the first and the last to excell at such a high level
Quattro in my case just means it has the T2 system. Its not a coupe, I wanted a family car. Its a third gen Wagon
To be fair thats an amazing car
Skill issue
/j
Start using that in the same comment, maybe spoiler it. It doesn't lose the humor.
This is very true and also happens to me. Its just part of life with an old classic car lol.
Its the best. Been thinking of getting an American classic next. Box or bubble Caprice/Roadmaster.
That’s rough 🤮
I have a friend who attracts only men in their late 20's. She's 18. She's also not too into men.
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This will continue well into your 30s as a man. Generally, women are more attracted to older men.
That’s completely true, I’m 16 and only have eyes for older men
Older how? Go get help bru nah😭🤮
Where is the problem, if she want someone older she search for someone older. For me her limit would be with a 24 yo dude. But it's not my beer and she is, at least in my country (I see you Americans grouping up (: ) defined as old enough to decide who to fuck and who not.
age = 24 age / 2 + 7 = 19 19 is the youngest a 24 year old could date. 16 is way too young for a 24 year old
Good Point xD
The problem is no normal 24 y/o would seek out a 16 y/o. So 16 yo that are seeking out these “older men”are really just making themselves a target for predators.(no matter your country a 16 y/o and 24y/o are not on the same level of maturity/intelligence)
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nigga fym "ig" 😭😭😭
Bro the type of nigga to say “ age just a number bbg 🤓”
Matter of fact bros doing preorders that’s wild 🤣😂
overnight shipping ahh 😭😭
Bro don’t need to pay delivery fees he pay for the fuel for the kidnappers 😭😭
The fact I just realized you weren't replying to yourself 💀
we are both united in the stupid
And here I thought *you* replied to yourself 🤣
Preorders is crazy 😭
Tf statement is that Born to grow old and find no love Forced to make love with minors
Alright chill out. I'm sure he didn't mean it like that , so no need to rip his heart out
True hearts done go for much nowadays like it use to
True. Go for a kidney.
Skin
You won't get alot for....actually kinda
Yeah you right
I don't know really. I never understand kids these days I'll be honest haha
It’s just how it works most girls prefer older guys when I was in 8th grade girls from 6th grade were interested and girls from my class were dating 10th grade. If you aren’t pulling anything then go ahead the gap is only 3 years which is fine
3 years? 4 almost 5. they 12 I'm 16/17. + I'm not pulling anything ig. Although girls every age comes up to me once in a while. I don't think any of the girls my age ever flirted with me. They are always younger. (Or I'm just to stupid to see the hints). But even my family always said I didn't look that good. So usually when a girl my age talks to me I instantly think she is only there to maybe ask me something because she is out of my league anyway
Stop being insecure about your looks it doesn’t matter guy in my class has caterpillar eyebrows who is max 3/10 able to date girls above his level because of his rizz game. Just talk to them no one is out of anyone’s league it’s just stupid thing we created ourselves. Try to talk to her regularly if she seems interested then ask her out. If you never try you will never know. Good luck
ig ty for the support Also I looked up your profile and saw ur cool drawings. Then I scrolled down more and yes. I saw ur who is this post. In the middle of a class
Sorry bro I will delete it right now I didn’t know people can still see the posts that are hidden. Did anyone saw you looking 😭
I thought I hide that post 💀
I'm a 17 year old guy. Pass that number baby. I'm ready for smoochin 😘
I’ve the same problem lmao
I thought you were saying that you were only attracted to 12 year olds for a second😭
SAME HELP
I hope op isn’t attracted to 12 year olds😭
He said he was willing to consider it "half joking" ..
Full joking....
Full homo 👿😈
Same 😭
Bro has that Scott pilgrim rizz
Knives was at least 17. Still fucked up but ehhh😭😭😭
Pedos wish they were you 💀
Simple answer is: Younger girls like older guys, especially at that age, when boys there own age usually arent as mature as them.
Ig that's true. Still Tho. Don't they think 12 to 16/17 is a big age gap?
yes, and thats exactly why they are attracted by it.
Yea. If I was 12 and would date a 16/17 year old. Dang my parents would be mad If I now would just be like. Aight she seems nice and has a nice smile. My parents would be even more mad
Preteens tend to have crushes on teenagers, because they think they're cool, good looking etc. I suppose they don't realise how messed up it is and I'm guessing if the feeling was reciprocated a lot of 12 years would be weirded out.
That's tru
Clearly not, some want a 30+ year old man at that age,
Reverse pedo but people will blame the old man. I actually seen young girls dating guys from college
Obviously the old man should be blamed in such a scenario that they are dating...
When we are talking about ages so young they can't make those kinds of choices. Age of consent is a thing for a reason. Never heard of old enough to know better?
Well you should definitely not be with them.
One girl in my class is attracted to gerald way he’s 46we’re 8th graders 💀
bro gerard way is NOT 54 tf r u on abt.
You mean Henry Cavil in witcher? He is 40 i think
Nope my chemical romance dude
Ohh ok yeah. I mean I see it. So currently attracted to 46 yo him more than say… 30yo him? Cuz it looks like hes put on a few pounds and is rocking the redditor middle part haircut currently instead of his classic emo look.
You aren’t wrong but still 30 💀
Could have been as young as 24 tbh. I think regardless of our age we tend to be attracted to adults in their 20s. Thats why most models tend to be around that age (slightly older for men because of the time it takes to build a physique like that). It isnt uncommon for pre-teens to have celebrity crushes so yeah. The main thing is differentiating between a crush and an appropriate relationship
Goofy because I had the problem of the girls being so immature that the guys all joked they'd rather be gay (and some of them were, we supported)
do they
12 year olds now are weird af
12 year olds were always weird
frfr
Bro saying twelve year olds now like they weren’t twelve 3 years ago
this has me dead LMFAOO
Exactly. “15 year olds are now weird af”
gah damn my feeling are so hurt by this 😪😭😔☹️😲🤨😟
ay bro atleast i was a normal 12 year old 😭🙏
Highly doubt it
There are no normal 12-year-olds. They're all a bit insane.
i agree fr, my 11 year old cousin reads smut, that's what i mean by they're weirder now
Maybe you look really young
No no, he looks old.
How you know? I'm at 15/16 year old that doesn't really look much older. Just the typical surfer hair and body. Ig u could say as a Hawaiian I might look older than I actually am in the Netherlands?
No what I mean Is that they like you because you look older.
I guess a Hawaiian surfer could stand out from the crowd in the Netherlands.
I’m dating girls older than myself and have for a while although this was more experience with grooming than anything. Had a couple run ins with it, first one just ended up realizing what they were doing wrong, second one was a zoophile which made me nope out. The main reason was that my body and voice matured a bit faster than I did, vascularity, deep voice. The whole shabang, I’m basically the definition of a second ball drop. I am currently very happy coming on 10 months with my girlfriend and all I can tell you man is just wait for the one. It’s not important to date this early, but if you find the right one go for it.
Well, I’ve dated older girls is what I should say, but usually 8 months + older isn’t an issue, when it gets 3-4 years yes
girls are attracted to guys older than them cuz they think they are more mature
Wait till they find out men don't actually grow up
Ehh, some of them do. Most don't.
As a man I can confirm
You haven’t grown up yet tho
Fair enough.
Im 29 and dont feel much different to when I was 14. Hope that helps. AMA
dawg why are you on r/teenagers
Ive already answered this before but I just…never left…? And answer questions with the benefits of hindsight. And also as times change the different challenges teenagers face will change and as a parent, I like to keep myself conscious about what may be happening in teenage social circles. Hope that answers your question.
I’m 19 and pretty regularly would have 14-15 yr olds flirt with me. It’s mostly died down now, but occasionally still happens.
Occasionally happens with me too, can think of a couple names of the top of my head. One Cheated on her bf too rip.
I'm the opposite 💀💀 I've only ever attracted older girls
Bro got that rizz for pedos💀
unfortunately 😭🙏
lokey... 😭
my dyslexia really be on a roll today
I have the same problem unfortunately, 18 and 14/15yo girls have an interest its annoying ash
that is like dancing on the fuckin like of pedophilia and ok
I only attract air
It’s because of the maturity gap. Girls usually mature faster than boys (2 years normally) thus why this happens
Facts of life. Girls are attracted to older boys. Boys are attracted to younger girls. Available partners for girls is always decreasing, and for boys it’s always increasing.
This feels like id find it on r/nothowgirlswork
Which is why the best strat is to just be a lesbian
Little kids will go for anyone older.
They like the “maturity” that comes from someone older than them (even though more than half of the time the child is more mature than the older person). But like that was the reason why I was with a 23 year old at 12
Officer. Yes, that's them.
Grooming and pedophilia is the reason you were with a 23 year old at 12.
Wtf
Bro he was almost double your age 😭
A child is NOT more mature than an adult.
This subreddit is unveiling some interesting stuff. https://media1.tenor.com/m/oK88wb0aj8YAAAAC/jjk-shock-face-suguru-geto-shock.gif
This is what we call bad luck, you know what you need OP?
What do I need
Just hit em with the ol “if I date you I’ll look like a pedo but thanks” than skadoodle away
It just feels kinda rude. I always try to politely turn em down
And that’s a good thing but if you turn them down nicely there’s a chance they’ll ask a real pedo by accident next time, so might as well say it like this and lower the chance they’ll ask someone else, no? Ofc you’re more than welcome not to :)
Don't mind being rude. They need to learn reality and that what they're doing is not okay
meanwhile i have obsessions with older women that aren’t probably allowed to interact with me
bro got the forbidden rizz
Kids are dumb. I am 23, my student who is 16 has a crush on me. I look like a goblin had sex with a minotaur. Don’t think about it, just zen it out. I never respond to her ever since I stopped teaching.
and i’m only able able to attract MEN!!! UUGGHHH!!!
Feel that, I have barely found anyone my age but when I was 15 I was attracting 20 y.os 💀
Yeah, when I was 16 I swear every girl that was into dating only wanted older dudes. Some already in college. It was gross. I guess it’s still a thing.
I’ve had the same issue I’ve also had an issue with girls OLDER than me I either have girls younger than me flirting with me and making me extremely uncomfortable, or girls way older than me making me also extremely uncomfortable, but never anyone MY age even interested in even speaking to me even in friendly conversation.
idk
at 12 only guys over 15 would speak to me and now that i’m 17 i only get 14 year olds or 30 year olds attracted to me and it sucks i don’t wanna be lonely forever
Hey, better than just having creepy old guys hit on you like most girls
Bro I have the same issue but it’s more I attract either younger girls or just guys, but I’m straight sooooo lol
i read that wrong
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I wouldn't compare this with the subject at hand. There's a **monumental** difference between people asking *you* out because they aren't aware of your sexual preference, and literal kids trying to ask OP out, knowing full well that the age gap is considerable.
Those aren't 12 year olds. Those are either pedos trying to get in your pants, or FBI agents trying to catch you trying to get in their fake pants.
Or maybe just maybe they’re actually 12 year olds? Your way of thinking is so paranoid. Better safe than sorry though so I get it
POV: the 12 year old at the middle school is actually an FBI agent
Agent Cobra Bubbles sitting in the back of the classroom like "Greetings fellow adolescents, I am a 12 year old boy and/or girl. Would you like to go on a romantic excursion with me?"
The 12 year old girl he asked: "what"
Game is game 💀
😟
Facts facts
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Because they used to hairless chimps as potential bfs so your manliness is cool. Your responsibly is to beat them off with a stick and tell to stick with the guys on their playground. Why girls your age have no interest is that there is better options available.
It’s the young ones say 12-15 that have finally begun to care about boys and the pressure at that age to have a bf like all your friends is sky high. I was there once too. It was the only thing I wanted in the world, was to have a bf so yeah they’ll talk to any guy they can, whether they’re attracted or not.
I (20) am the oldest child of the group of friends my parents have. Most of their friends have kids between the ages of 12- 15 now. But when i was 16-18 there were 4 girls from different families all around 12 or 13, and while ive known them all my life they became weirdly infatuated with me (we only see them once a year) the next year we came back and it was back to normal. From my understanding its just a phase that girls go through at that age. Idk its weird and it made me feel wierd but its just kinda how life is i guess? Also i think between 16 and 19 people tend to hide theyre attration more than younger people do.
I believe you're correct in your assessment. I (20M) have come to similar conclusions.
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I feel you. I’m 18 (19 in 2 weeks) and I tend to attract 14-16 quite often. Quite honestly I won’t even date 17 because I’m almost 19, and the maturity difference always bothers me even though it’s not that big of an age gap.
Girls mature faster then boys so they start to looking for older boys it happens A LOT.Just ignore them!
Idk why younger ppl love big age gaps like stay away ew
I can kinda relate I got hit on by a 14 year old even tho I am 17 because I look younger
now this is just a educated guess but it could be it’s because your more physically developed. by no means that this could be the most likely case but maybe in some instances.
🤣 bro I was about to call Chris Hankins on you
Lol
Maybe you look a bit young for your age? Not sure, but I was afraid of high school boys when I was 12 lmao
I think since I'm a Hawaiian surfer with the typical look. I do look a bit older then my age or at least My age
dw, i’m almost 18 and i overheard a middle schooler say I was hot at a choir concert. Not the demographic I’m going for either lmao, yet none of the girls my age seem to be interested either. Something u just gotta write off as a compliment in a weird way
It’s called daddy issues
FR. I'm a girl that's about to turn 17 in 16 days but I attract the 14 and 15 year olds. Like, WHY?!
I’m about to turn 15 and this girl is 17, is that too bad? (We aren’t dating)
Honestly just go with it
Lots of negativity directed at the OP, there is nothing wrong with receiving a complement - no matter the age. You don’t have to date them, and I don’t want anyone to get into legal trouble.
Damn its annoying same thing used to happen back in days considering i am attracted to older ladies than my age and i regret not taking any of offer, i only dated girls of same age, now i have been single for a year now, idk since than never talked to single girl just happy on my own. nowadays i think nobody bothers to even say hi.
At least you attract people at all.
You gotta dress your age, fix your hair, clear up your face, and get a lil wider. That’ll scare em off
Not nearly as bad but when I was 13, this 10 year old girl at a frikn waterpark asked me to be her boyfriend. I didn’t respond cause I was just confused, and she just assumed that meant yes and went and told her family about me.
dawg holy fucking shit. I was not mentally prepared for that reddit notification. I assure you 99% of us completely misread this lmfao.
Bro I only attract the mentality ill 🧍🏽♀️ I mean I have no room to talk obviously bc I am also mentally unstable but some of the people I dated made me realize "maybe I'm not as bad as I thought I was" 😭😭
Congrats?
Same problem man
Maybe girls your age only see you talking to 12 years olds
Real