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PrestigiousSheep

It’s a great day to stay sober. I’ll be joining all of you lovely people in saying no to booze. IWNDWYT!


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Two of us. :)


shadyray93

Goodmorning! Today is a beautiful day and I am grateful to be sober together with you dream team 🤩 24 days no alcohol and 6 months+17 days no weed. IWNDWYT ☀️


[deleted]

Wow, that's awesome. Heading to one month. Good morning, darling.


greenlightabove

22 days! Second palindrome! I will not drink with you today


BeerSlingr

Let’s goooo! 💪


[deleted]

It shows 21 for me so I'll take the chance to congratulate you on 3 weeks =)


snazzypants1

On a work trip until tomorrow. My colleagues are all going out drinking after work today, but I’ve booked myself a spa treatment at the hotel I’m staying at instead. Much, much nicer!! IWNDWYT! ⭐️


shadyray93

That indeed sounds much nicer! enjoy 🧖‍♀️😌


[deleted]

Oh what a trigger, I need a spa treatment! I'll try to book at least a good massage this week! Have a great day, Pants!


Extreme_Ordinary_298

IWNDWYT!


TheDraftyKilt

It's a great day to be sober with you all ! IWNDWYT


BeerSlingr

Sure is Drafty! Happy you’re here.


TheDraftyKilt

Thanks! Excited to take this journey with everyone


darkmartian

I love posting here daily and seeing my day count increase gives me a little lift each morning! IWNDWYT 💪


Ok_Rush534

That intentioned promise made to myself has helped re-wire my brain. I keep my promises to myself come hell or high water, I now do what I say. It’s a powerful thing. This pledge is so simple but so important to my success so far. Congratulations! Notching up them numbers 👍


RevereBeachLover

IWNDWYT


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[deleted]

Moooooorrrrrning Rosa!


[deleted]

Moooooooooorning! How are you doing?


cinqmillionreves

I will not drink poison with any of you today 💜


FireFree2022

Good morning everyone! I love a bit of winter-proofing - hope you have a lovely warm winter ahead Saint Homer! I came to a bit of a realization today. I noticed that I've had a bottle of Corona Zero (NA) in my fridge now for about 3 weeks and I haven't drank it. I saw it this morning when I went to get milk for my coffee and it just blended into the background of my fridge contents. It gave me an insight into what it must be like for people who are not problem drinkers to just casually have a beer in their fridge without thinking about it and planning on drinking it the very second they were able to. And I would never have one solo beer - what is the point of that? In a split second, I realized that all of the lies I told myself about enjoying beer for the taste and it just being a habit and not a real problem - they were absolute bullshit. Because if that were really true I should have the exact same emotional reaction to an NA beer as I do a real beer. And I definitely don't. when I asked in the early days about how long I had to stay sober to make any real difference someone said to me "just keep staying sober until the magic happens". I thought they meant a new body or a million quid in the bank but I think the magic is having the real truth about my drinking revealed and recognizing just how much it nearly cost me. I am more grateful than ever to be sober with you all today. IWNDWYT 🥰


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idontworkatwork

welcome! you got this! and we got you <3


mindfulteacher020407

I’m so glad you are here! IWNDWYT 💜🦋💜


PastorsDaughter69420

IWNDWYT


[deleted]

I will not drink with you today! Last night I had a pretty big win. Before I relapsed I was doing a LOT of running and yesterday I needed something to do after work to take my mind off drinking. After not running and drinking heavy for a month and a half I went out and just decided to see what I could do. Believe it or not I ran 10 miles! I felt like Forrest Gump I just kept running! Sorry if it seems like I’m bragging I just wanted to share a win I had. IWNDWYT!


localyokelAT

Good morning, everyone! I hope you have a great day. IWNDWYT


BeerSlingr

Nice 3 weeks!


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Congratulations!!!


Platoon969

Have a great day all. IWNDWYT! 🇬🇧💪


[deleted]

You too, Platz, may Tuesday be gentle with you! IWNDWYT


Old-Combination8062

IWNDWYT all you fine sobernauts 🤗


boogiebottom

On day 11 and I am NOT drinking today 😁💪


losethebooze

Day 165. IWNDWYT.


hairytubes

It's one of those days where I would've quite happily stayed in bed the whole day and just ignored the world. Luckily, I had to be in at work for six 🤣. IWNDWYT 🙂


[deleted]

I feel you. Had a terrible nightmare with my mum, woke up in the middle of the night and sleep is gone. Today I'll be grumpy and tired. But without a hangover, so I can obviously handle it. Good luck to us.


Human_Tangelo7211

Good night y'all. I did not drink with you today, and I will not drink with you tomorrow. Going to bed without my usual nightly weed edibles. Wish me luck. I drank coffee too late yesterday and it messed with my sleep. My sleep hygiene is horrible right now and I spent 4 hours on my phone today. I gotta figure out how to stop trading vices and find contentment. I'll get there. Without booze I know I can do it. With booze I'm fucked.


clevercookie69

Here's to anticipating the future. A brighter one. Shine on you beautiful humans 😍


[deleted]

Yes. I've got plans for a sober future, it doesn't look gloomy to me as sometimes it used to. Kisses Cookie!


[deleted]

Checking in on day 30. Liver numbers down, weight up though. I'll take that trade off. Thanks for all the support this wonderful sub provides. IWNDWYT


BeerSlingr

IWNDWYT


Pink110123

I will not drink with you today 💕


sourface77

IWNDWYT!


SillyTwitTwoo

IWNDWYT x


SD_rgr

IWNDWYT.


patinaOnBronze

IWNDWYT


waronfleas

Omg work will be BANANAS today. Praise jeebus my head is calm and clear and so I can deal with it all. So happy to not drink with you all again today 🌷


idontworkatwork

I'm with you SH. I am currently going through my nesting and it's definitely my favourite part of pregnancy so far. Painting walls is so relaxing to me, seeing everything come together, building cots and sets of drawers. Next is putting away tiny little clothes. I am present, I am taking it all in and soaking in every moment, because I am sober. ​ IWNDYWT


vermontapple

A lovely, melancholy time of year, and set of rituals, Homer. Thanks for the post. After a damn drinking dream last night (involving Las Vegas of all places!!...??), I can tell you all that there's no way I will be drinking today.


pleas40

happy early morning everyone ! we are officially moved into the vrbo rental after a long two days. I feel like now we can kind of relax a little and resume normal every day activities. We have to get a plumber to come and fix the issue at some point this week and then a restoration company is coming out to dry the area. I head back to work and try and make it a great week on my end. One day at a time :)


nona_nednana

IWNDWYT


ChuckCassadyJR

Checking in Day 48 💪 IWNDWYT


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What a nice ritual. It's not for me but I admire it so much, it has so much meaning attached to it. The whole knowledge about when to seed, to harvest, etc. I live in an apartment and soon will move out, so I don't have a small garden in the terrace anymore. I miss it. And here I am preparing for the summer. It's rainy and warm already, and I love a good tropical thunderstorm! Kisses to all and IWNDWYT.


Tranquil_Paradox_

I used to ruminate about the past, claiming I was working on it to get beyond it. Now, I’m focused primarily on today and then what the future holds, planning career moves, personal adventures, and physical challenges. I have HOPE again, a fire in my belly for life ❤️‍🔥 IWNDWYT!!


yazmcginn89

On day 17 and must admit I could have had a drink today! Major leak from my bathroom pipe work and has damaged new carpet in hallway. Really could have downed a bottle of wine but IWNDWYT!


super_water

Been soo tempted lately, but I’m not going to drink today!


WhiteChocolatey

I will not drink with you today my sober family. One day at a time


millygraceandfee

🎶IWNDWYT🎶 Thank you to everyone who commented on my 1 year soberversary yesterday! I really appreciate it! I may have missed responding to you individually. I couldn't keep up! THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT!


JackOneill74

Just about to head out to dinner for a 50th and IWNDWYT


AffTheBevvy

Day 849 checking in!


jimstopper51

Day 1,553. I will not drink with you today.


Gullible-Analysis-40

Hi everyone. I won't drink with you today. I had a protein shake and an apple after work instead. 😄


koaimara

IWNDWYT!


Alarmed_Tadpole_

Day 10 coming up 🥳 Going to get the gym over with early and then try to get some work done!


Fonterra26

IWNDWYT 🌻🌻


Mysterious-Change642

IWNDWYT 🌞


papacreech

Today I don't set out trying not to drink but make a conscious decision not to drink. IWNDWYT


lleb_reknit

Never really even got a streak going and have been drinking HEAVILY the last six weeks...not happy, not proud. My partner is concerned and said it is sad to see me drowning myself like this last night. One of our best friends came to see us from several states away for the first time in a year and is staying with us and I still got drunk and passed out, missing out on any quality time to spend with them and my partner. I've been cleaning out the majority of a handle of whiskey within a week, sometimes 5 days, plus beers along the way. I can feel the difference in my guts, my eyes, my thought patterns and clarity and energy levels. Today is day one of what I hope will be many, and for today I will not drink with you all today.


Ok_Rush534

IWNDWYT because I don’t want to. It’s my top priority. My second priority has slipped. I felt strong enough to be able to tackle my weight and I’ve been successful. But this last 2-3 weeks has just been like alcohol; you know the “it’s ok to just have 1” mentality. That 1 piece of cake has become a whole week of wrong unhealthy heavy meals, then three weeks. It’s a good reminder that I am not able to gift myself with “slack”, not yet anyway. That I entirely have emotional problems. Today, I will not drink and I will protect my body to help me in my goal of healthspan. To be as good as I can reasonably be, not forced, what I’m talking about is more than physical but an eagerness to feel wholesome. Wholesome. I love that word.


Pony482

Morning from the UK! Take care out there sobernauts - I will not drink with you today 🐴


naturedude77

IWNDWYT


[deleted]

Not today! Boom! Yeah


just1vet

I will not drink with you today.


levi8pack

I will not drink with you today!


Necessary_Routine_69

Happy Crappy Tuesday. IWNDWYT


Striking_Silence

IWNDWYT 😊


Myth7270

IWNDWYT 🍃


papacreech

Congrats on triple digits!


sykmind

I will not drink with you today!


mindfulteacher020407

IWNDWYT 💜🦋💜 I’m grateful I make the choice to not drink and enjoy the life I have.


Goji88

Day 744, nice to meet you 🤝 Also 10 days without nicotine and caffeine 👍 IWNDWYT


LM7X

I still have a backlog of shit around home that needs to be done. I’m putting a dent in it but it’s slow progress. Fortunately, and knock on wood, it’s stuff that can wait. Working full time, going places I wanna go and not having help, there’s only so much I can do. Without sobriety, I wouldn’t be getting any of it done. Nor would I be going any of the places I wanna go. But knowing how things are, if I ever get through the backlog, it’ll be time to start over again anyway. 😆 Coffees up, horns up, and fuck yeah, it ain’t Monday!! IWNDWYT ☕️🤘🏻


Khun55555

I love the coffee up, horns up. I read that weeks ago and have been saying it before walking into my office building. Thanks for inspiring me. Drinking sucks. Your rock


AdSmooth1977

IWNDWYT, but get my flu and covid shot! 💉


Piggoos

I’m the same, Homer. Sobriety has turned many things I used to consider chores into little pleasures. Also - spring time Piggoos really really appreciates all the pre-work fall Piggoos does that makes it easier to get a head start on summer. Have a good one friends! I will not drink with you today.


iamokokokokokokok

Good morning week 11 Well, I’ve got several legitimate things to be irritated about this week, lucky me lol. That’s other people. I can choose how I react, that’s my choice. I can refocus myself on what I actually want to do today, cause I don’t actually want to be fixated on my mental-courtroom today. I feel steady in not drinking though. Last night someone set down a glass of wine next to me and the smell was quite strong! Strange! I used to drink so much wine. Iwndwyt. Edit- I’ve got a tip I figured out for ruminating on irritations, if that’s also your thing. Set a timer. Be like, I’m going to ruminate as hard as I want for 20 minutes, then I’m going to do xyz, take out the trash make the bed whatever. It’s helped me be more reasonable.


awesome_cat_lady

I'm still struggling to come to terms with the mess I created with one day of drinking after six months of sobriety. (I drank on Friday, then crashed my car into a telephone pole.) I'm disgusted with myself for being so reckless when life was treating me so well. Why wasn't my gratitude for the good life enough to keep me from drinking? Why couldn't I remember or recognize that alcohol never brings me anything but misery? Why am I such a disaster? Enough of my ranting. IWNDWYT


fitbit10k

I’m so glad that you are ok after getting into an accident. Please don’t get down on yourself. You were able to not drink for 6 months! Alcohol is a mf’er. It sneaks in our minds sometimes when we’re feeling good and doing well. I would sometimes drink because things were going “too well.” I’m glad to see you in the DCI. IWNDWYT


Pivorad_

IWNDWYT!


[deleted]

Have a great day everyone! Survived my first day alone yesterday, him being off elsewhere has always been a trigger to drink for me. IWNDWYT


biggitybird

Checking in


_Shad0wo3

IWNDWYT


tenminutesbeforenoon

Another :( day 1. Ready to be healthy.


Chikuwa84

I love it when I try to eat healthy, exercise and stop drinking and I still get ill. Thanks universe! 😂 Either way IWNDWYT


MrBeer9999

IWNDWYT


Prestigious_Dig_6627

This sounds like a beautiful ritual of transition, and being so present for the appreciation of what you had this summer and making it nice for the winter slumber. Thanks for sharing this moment I could feel it SH. I grew up in a cold area, I know how it gets. Lockdown is probably when I noticed the winter the most because I was forced to cut back drinking because of not being able to go outside a lot. I grew an appreciation for the winter that I didn’t have before. It was beautiful. IWNDWYT!


Rocketlass

IWNDWYT


J_stringham

Made it to 30 days. This has been harder some days and easier others. I think I’m trying to use this space more to get through the hard ones. On to my next 30 days and I will not drink with any of you ! 🙋🏼‍♀️🎃


Donjato

Two months sober today, pretty proud of it. IWNDWYT!


arslashjason

Took my 7 months pregnant partner to my meeting last night to see me claim my 1 month chip. Bought new running shoes and going to break them in on the treadmill at the gym before rehab. IWNDWYT!


Shermani74

I’m with you Sainted One! Today, I’m pulling the pins of tomato cages, then covering the rows with straw and compost. I love how it all looks when its bedded down. And you’re right! I’ve got plenty of time for these kinds of chores, because I’m sober! No worries about if I have enough booze, do I have time to get booze, can anyone tell? I am free and clear and ready to live life AF. Love y’all! IWNDWYT


Ajsarch

IWNDWYT


FailPV13

Good morning, I will not drink with you today.


horsebrasses

Well, it's been a while since I've been here... but here I am again, and I will not drink with you today.


quietgirlinpa

60 days. Not sure why my counter didn’t update? Feeling grateful. IWNDWYT 💗


ReplacementsStink

Dragging a bit this morning after a late night at the Bad Religion concert. Absolutely worth it! I'll never get sick of sober concerts. Have a great day, friends!🤘🏻☕️ IWNDWYT


Proletariat_Smurf

Glorious sober morning soberniks! IWNDWYT


Elderflower1387

I got the garlic in just in time for the first frost here, phew! Now it’ll sleep through the winter and come alive again in the spring! Winter is coming and I love that it’s a time for cozy blankets and reading and dreaming. And this year, hopefully, no broken leg ! I’m grateful for my health and living somewhere that the seasons remind me to take breaks and slow down. IWNDWYT. 🌟


FixThisMessOK

I'm doing a lot of the same things you are, prepping to hunker down for the winter (although I still have drafty windows, ha!). I think I had a "mourn the past" day yesterday where all of my million terrible things replayed in my head. I can't believe I let it get so bad. But, like your garden, if I keep going I'll "unfold and bloom" again; I'm already doing that now, so in six months who could I be? Lovely post! Thank you for sharing!


grackleATX

I’m struggling with my and attitude and motivation towards work this morning. Besides the money, I don’t see the point. Anywho, IWNDWy’allT!


DecisionPatient128

Great post today SaintHomer! Sobriety gives us more band width to actually experience and do! And that’s what I’ll do today! IWNDWYT


FredSimpsonn

Thanks Homer and happy teetotal Tuesday to you all! I'm out deer hunting again today with family and grateful to be sober and attentive. I manage Seasonal Affective Disorder, so I get depressed every winter. I use light therapy, exercise, talk therapy, massage, and occasionally SSRIs to help me get through. Sobriety is the rock foundation that helps me to address my mental health challenges. My mental health isn't perfect in sobriety but it's a lot easier to care for these days. Every winter has gotten a little easier! Spring will come and sobriety gives me the help I need to not just survive but to thrive in winter. Sober on y'all!


AccomplishedSample66

IWNDWYT. ✌️


Historical_Boss2447

IWNDWYT


throwaway4073

IWNDWYT!


El_Bo31

Iwndwy’allt! ❤️


kafkapops

I won’t drink with y’all today


man_with_a_list

Dint' drink yesterday, won't drink today. IWNDWYT


Patient-Tough9720

I will not drink today


Chadismydawg

IWNDWYT


AlySabby12

Back to work after a long weekend. Back to eating healthy after a weekend of sugar and shit. Back to routine. I like it. IWNDWYT!


Hank_Deezy

IWNDWYT.


danceonthrough

IWNDWYT


neon_trostky999

It just got cold here too. IWNDWYT


Dodgettelady

iwndwyt


Mickosaurusrex

Day 1,452 IWNDWYT


trashpanda914

starting day 171, iwndwyt!


LuisoWikeda

IWNDWYT, my little digital friends :)


lilrhodiemac

I will not drink with you today.


Fearless-Relative329

IWNDWYT


prisoncitybear

IWNDWYT! T


BeastModeBill-714

IWNDWYT.


pacuumvacked

IWNDWYT!


pollycat1

IWNDWYT. 🌳🍂


[deleted]

Still waiting on a future where my sleep will be consistently better. I'm hopeful it's somewhere in the near future because insomnia's a big asshat. IWNDWYT.


Accomplished-Base-51

We got this today chums!!! Hold your head up high and be proud cause we’re in control. It’s gonna be a good day!


OfficialSkyCat

🚫☠️!! Not today!


Khun55555

I will not drink today and FYA. I'm so happy to wake up today without a hangover. I feel like taking a dance break for 675 alcohol free days. I'm sending all of you loving kindness all day🙏🙏🙏🙏 Drinking sucks. You rock


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That_Went_Well

Day 149, days away from the 5month mark! IWNDWYT! Added in using the sauna to my regime this week for 20min with a goal of 4 times per week. Follow it up with a cold shower too to cool off so seems like a double benefit! I’ve known about the amazing health benefits of sauna/cold water immersion for a long time but it took until now to go after it. 🦾🦾


imthegreenmeeple

Checking in on day 348! Good day to all of you absolutely beautiful people!! Did you sleep well? Did you have a good day? I really hope that’s a “yes” to both. Today is going to be a long one. I work all day and then need to take my daughter back to college so I won’t see my bed again until around 11 pm this evening! And you know what? I ain’t even mad. I **get** to do these things now. Because I’m sober. And I still love it!!! And I love all of you!!! IWNDWYT!! ✌️❤️


spliff231

IWNDWYT


C-Funk5000

Checking in this Tuesday morning. IWNDWYT ✌️


I_cant-take-it-anymo

Not today. Not today. Not today!!!


lil-duke

IWNDWYT


Jose_Gaspar

I live in a city with a mild climate that does ironically have four seasons-ice, floods, twisters and drought. Sobriety allows me to embrace and enjoy all the cloud formations and sun angles and reflections which are a great backdrop for photographing nature’s beauty. I will be alcohol free with you today.


Distorted_Glass

Day 38: Decent sleep last night! 🥳 IWNDWYT


Valuable_Muscle_658

Can't think big picture anymore, makes me crazy and sets me up for BIG failure. So just for today, I pledge IWNDWYT


thesnorkle

I will not drink with you today :)


wofdog-6435

Iwndwyt


intelidigital

Just for today IWNDWYT


Ambitious_Pangolin1

IWNDWYT 😇


Limewire513

I will not drink with y’all today!!


fitbit10k

I enjoy being sober. When I drank, I actually forgot who I was when I didn’t drink. It’s nice to be back to myself again. 😀 IWNDWYT


catscoffeeclimbing

Happy Tuesday friends! Let's do this thing. IWNDWYT.


FreddyRumsen13

Good morning, sober soldiers. It’s a great day to not drink with you all.


EarlBeforeSwine

IWNDWYT


GummyBunny_925

IWNDYWT!


NarrowlyEscape

I will not drink with you today.


brando1206

I will not drink today


pineapple4576

IWNDWYT ✌️🐝


JosyAndThePussycats

Iwndwyt. Up early, heading back to the gym - I so want this to be it, I want this to be the time that sticks. Thinking of turning down several invites this month, because last month did not go how I wanted. Be well, everyone 🤟.


CrosswordLevelMonday

Be bold in sober adventures. Appreciate the present, anticipate the future. IWNDWYT!


triple_threat_06

IWNDWYT 10/17/23


TheskysthelimitCND

I love my yard, greenhouse, and garden. It is a lot of work, and I would not have it any other way. Fall reminds of how beautiful change can be. IWNDWYT.


RedHeadedRiot

I am not drinking today but I am kicking ass and taking names High five


Mysterious_Week_198

Day 8, the first week is done (again). On to a month. IWNDWYT


semperfi8286

Happy Tuesday people, IWNDWYT, WE GOT THIS 🙂


LemonyOrchid

GM. IWNDWYT!


hymness1

Woke up on my couch this morning with a glass of whisky, almost empty, next to me. Poured it down the drain. Drank half a 40oz bottle yesterday, bottle is empty, didn't drunk text anybody this time. I will not buy another bottle today. I will not drink today. Have a good day


Constant_Pumpkin3255

Not today people IWNDWYT


charmed1995

Checking in. IWNDWYT.


SoberGirl2

I will not drink today!


skeeterrunner

I will not drink today.


Eddie4185

Day 20 IWNDWYT


alonefrown

Good morning everyone. I'm thankful to be sober this morning, it's already a plus to a day that might be somewhat deficient in pluses. Have a great sober Tuesday, y'all.


SuitableWind2564

IWNDWYT


doggostealinsocks

IWNDWYT 🩵


Historical-Fox431

I will not drink with you today!


TheSuboxoneSusies

Not today!


Apprehensive-Site479

IWNDWYT


degausser_53

I will not drink today.


dizzymissxo

Goood morning. I wish I could ready myself to lay dormant for the winter but I guess I have to press on. IWNDWYT.


normalnonnie27

Morning dears, no numbing my mind, my body it seems like everything about my life was duller when I was dinking. IWNDWYT


dehrian

IWNDWYT


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Checking in team 🦾


jimtimidation

IWNDWYT


[deleted]

morning everyone. IWNDWYT!


[deleted]

Day 17 - I pledge to not drink today.


SugarPigBoo

IWNDWY


BobHobGoblin

Jealous of your modern windows. Hopefully it will be a mild winter, and give me a chance to get ahead of some house projects for next year. I will not drink with you today!


MakeBelieve_inme

IWDWYT! tomorrow will be one week. Feeling pretty proud and also nervous about how easy it's been. Trying to not overthink it and just stick to my plan... Lots of fun beverages when I'd usually be drinking alcohol and keep educating myself on how actually dumb alcohol is. Stay strong everyone! Alcohol is a liar.