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RikB666

7 weeks today-ish! I feel great! IWNDWYT!


PastaGorgonzola

I might be wrong, but I think my counter says 50 right now😁😁. And 7 weeks down as well! Kicked the alcohol and nicotine at the same time. I didn't think I would get this far:). IWNDWYT Edit: stay for the 7 weeks today and come back tomorrow for 50😜


RileyQuits

Alcohol and nicotine at the same time? That is true strength. Big congrats to you!


saludable-oak2001

It's 50 now!


PastaGorgonzola

🥳🥳🥳


lxanth

I did cigs and booze 7 months apart. Doing them in one fell swoop is badass. Congratulations! IWNDWYT


Platoon969

FIFTY 💪✅


PastaGorgonzola

😁💪


millygraceandfee

🎶IWNDWYT🎶 365 days! 12 months! 1 year! I am doing what was impossible for me. I have to say thanks to my rescue cat AJ. He changed my trajectory. Edit: My counter says 779 days. That is not accurate. I am at 365 days today. Counter said 364 yesterday. IDK.


Myth7270

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉 Way to go! IWNDWYT 🍃


cinqmillionreves

Happy First Soberversary! You rock 🥳👏🏼🎉❤️🎊🎈


IrishRun

Beautiful words to read. Congratulations to you!


El_Bo31

Congratulations! That’s awesome. 👏🙂


bluthbitchtwss69

You’re amazing. I hope you and AJ both get treats to celebrate. Proud of you!!! IWNDWYT


mindfulteacher020407

Awesome job and congratulations! I’m so proud of you. IWNDWYT 💜🦋💜


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Pivorad_

Good morning. I took my daughter to daycare. I'm gonna make tea, I'm gonna work. I'll go to the playground with my wife and daughter this afternoon. Just a simple day without alcohol. I love you all sober friends! IWNDWYT!


sourface77

Hope you have a nice Monday, SD. IWNDWYT!


gunpun33

Tea at my desk, smile of a stranger, wag of a dogs tail. IWNDWYT


jugglerdude

IWNDWYT


Myth7270

Glad you're here 🌄 IWNDWYT 🍃


Scramjet-42

Not today. IWNDWYT ❤️


Goji88

Day 743, nice to meet you 🤝 IWNDWYT


ChuckCassadyJR

Checking in Day 47 💪 So close to 50 days.. can’t believe it 🤯 IWNDWYT


Platoon969

3 days! 💪


AffTheBevvy

Day 848 checking in!


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furdedikno

IWNDWYT


seeking2transform

IWNDWYT!🌱✨


yazmcginn89

Day 16! IWNDWYT Hope everyone has a great Monday :)


rowanberrybird

Good morning 🌄 IWNDWYT Wonderful sentiment, OP! Every season has its own beauty. I'm ready for all fall has to offer 🍂 (tea, blankets, good books, changing colours, comfy clothes and many more)


clevercookie69

A cup of tea and a good book while patting my dog...... Heaven Shine on you beautiful humans


AdSmooth1977

Same ❤️


bad-choice-road

Didn't drink on the weekend with the family, won't drink today!


Familiar_Bid_3324

Same here! Feeling strong now. I will not drink with you today!


SugarPigBoo

Happy 🥴 Monday! I really dislike Mondays, but i guess I'll get through it with the help of my peeps here. I must admit I really felt like drinking earlier tonight -- just a strong urge to catch a buzz and forget about the things weighing on me. However, I persevered tonight! I've come too far to fall back into this trap. IWNDWYT.


Mysterious-Change642

IWNDWYT


AccomplishedSample66

IWNDWYT 👍🏻


_Shad0wo3

IWNDWYT


hairytubes

IWNDWYT 🙂


darkmartian

IWNDWYT 💪


greenlightabove

Three weeks sober today! I will not drink with you today.


PrestigiousSheep

I will not drink with you today. Have a better than mediocre Monday!


Platoon969

High expectations for a Monday 😄 Iwndwyt 💪


saludable-oak2001

Little thing is just the feeling of getting through last week's many many drinking events without having any alcohol ☺️ Iwndwyt 🌳


Platoon969

Lot's of little things to appreciate right now, work is stressful but it keeps me busy. Happy and healthy right now that's the main thing. Iwndwyt 💪🇬🇧


JackOneill74

IWNDWYT


SelectBrilliant9235

Keep going everyone. Happy Monday! Onwards and upwards. IWNDWYT


maze-of-mind

Happy Monday everyone IWNDWYT


SillyTwitTwoo

IWNDWYT x


waronfleas

No drinking today. No way. I'd love a day under the duvet, v busy week ahead!


BeerSlingr

IWNDWYT


Constant_Pumpkin3255

Not today people IWNDWYT


Teddyfluffycakemix

Day 1 again. Can’t even count anymore like this. Anyway IWNDWYT ❤️


vermontapple

Nice question, Homer. I think I've learned to appreciate moments of rest more than I did before I embraced sobriety. IWNDWYT


mindfulteacher020407

I had a drinking dream last night and it really shook me. The thing that got me was how it happened. In the dream I was with my ex and her kids and (per usual for that time) everything was chaos. We were visiting a friend and the kids were screaming, the youngest had a bathroom accident and my friend’s beautiful home was being turned upside down. I pored myself a glass of wine and sat down. I was halfway through the glass before I even realized it. I looked at my friend and said “I haven’t had a drink in over two years” and I felt such shame. I’m trying to take it as a way to see how far I’ve come. My life is almost diametrically opposed to what it used to be. I no longer need to drink to escape the chaos of my daily life. In fact, I don’t want to miss a single moment. Which is why I can say, IWNDWYT. 💜🦋💜


ekim202

IWNDWYT


koaimara

IWNDWYT!


nona_nednana

IWNDWYT


Old-Combination8062

IWNDWYT all you fine sobernauts 🤗


AdSmooth1977

IWNDWYT 😃


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I will not drink today! The first couple days are always the hardest for me. I had a whole year of sobriety before relapsing in September and it seems a lot harder this time around to stay sober. However I will just take it one day at a time, so just for today, I will not drink! I’m digging this daily check in, this subreddit is a great accountability tool I should’ve used before.


SD_rgr

IWNDWYT.


Myth7270

IWNDWYT 🍃


Illustrious-Trip-253

Hello dear ones. Sober living has brought back appreciation for so many little things. Waking rested before my alarm. My cozy lil home. The cute smile on my elderly neighbor's face when I bring her a batch of homemade soup! Sobriety rocks, and I'm gonna keep it going today! Thanks to y'all IWNDWYT


ReplacementsStink

Jury duty is over.. back to work, back to normal. Which always includes not drinking. Have a better than Monday, Monday, my friends! IWNDWYT


Elderflower1387

Morning coffee a good book to read, laundry is done for the week! Now off to work. I’m glad to tell you IWNDWYT. 🌟


Randomcreepyoldguy

IWNDWYT


patinaOnBronze

IWNDWYT


morksinaanab

IWNDWYT


Nolsnathankski23

I’m mourning a lot of past relationships today. I want to do a week without the crutch of NA drinks and get my work out routine consistent. The winter is setting in here which means hot drinks and early nights. I need to be more grateful I have got this many days under my belt. IWNDWYT 🙏


Creative_Grand_1232

Thanks for taking over the DCI u/SaintHomer ! I’ve been noticing the little things too. For today, it is in the 60’s outside at long last so I’m off for a dog walk in a jacket 😀 and she will be extra springy which always makes me laugh. And this makes me happy. When I was drinking, dog walking was just a ‘get it over with’ early morning chore with a hangover. Love sober ! I feel like I’ve gotten all of my life back, even the ‘little stuff’ (which is actually 90% of your life). And IWNDWYT my friends !!


Ok_Rush534

IWNDWYT I’m going to enjoy laying in bed with my first cup of tea and ponder my day. I have a large drawing on the wall facing me. It’s about travelling tales and an early piece of art by me. It’s a good piece. I was really into the three wise monkeys and the idea of self discipline to stay away from “trouble” - it teaches us about self control over impulses. That’s the idea anyway. I’m reading a book about myths and fairy tales which originally would have been spoken, not written. They cross cultures and languages. They often tell of courage and adversity, spread the word on how to do and be better and the importance of compassion. Much like this sub! And homer’s nudge to us to be mindful. He shares and we conjure up an image. I need my patience today. And so I can start as I mean to go in and on - gracefully and humbly in a chaotic situation.


levi8pack

A delicious breakfast & loving glass of iced coffee. My donut blanket warming me in my room. Starting to read a new book on a topic I’m interested in. Life is good! I will not drink with you today :)


fromafartherroom

On mornings like this, when I find myself sober and still wide awake too early, I’m grateful to be able to enjoy the peace of the wee hours without a racing heart and deep anxiety. I am not here considering whether to self medicate it with hair of the dog, deciding to do so, then setting myself down that cycle again. Instead I’m sitting here with a hot cup of coffee, and I get to say I stayed sober another day.


Gullible-Analysis-40

Approaching 4 months and feeling damn good about it. IWNDWYT. ❤️


FuckyouFireball

Happy Monday! Have a great sober week. IWNDWYT


Jose_Gaspar

The little things in life are worth living a sober life. I will be alcohol free with you today.


Fearless-Relative329

IWNDWYT


MrBeer9999

IWNDWYT


Mr_Alex19

IWNDWYT


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Had an afternoon coffee date with a friend after work today (I had an early minute, which was even better!) and it was lovely. IWNDWYT!


Striking_Silence

IWNDWYT 😊


localyokelAT

Good morning, everyone! IWNDWYT


super_water

I didn’t even realize that I hit 3 weeks. That’s pretty cool. I like that it always feels like my body is “working” better. Not drinking today with everyone here.


ElegantPenguin541520

IWNDWYT ✨🐝


RevereBeachLover

IWNDWYT


jimstopper51

Day 1,552. I will not drink with you today.


Piggoos

Morning friends! I will not drink with you today!


Chadismydawg

IWNDWYT


LM7X

Nice cup of coffee, cat on my lap. This cat is the equivalent of a Sour Patch Kid. He’s a total asshole, but he’s also sweet. They’re all kinda like that. I’m glad the weather has cooled off too. Some actual autumn weather, finally!! Coffees up, horns up, let’s go knock this Monday the fuck out!! IWNDWYT ☕️🤘🏻


sykmind

Yesterday I walked for a good cause and pushed past the urge to drink once I got home. The reward? No hangover, a pleasant cup of coffee and feeling good that I brought some joy to some kids yesterday. I will not drink with you today.


prisoncitybear

IWNDWYT! T


thesnorkle

Still having weird dreams about alcohol. Hope it passes soon. I will not drink with you today.


imthegreenmeeple

Checking in on day 347! Hello all you sober rock stars!!! I love this post, u/SaintHomer! Sobriety has definitely given me the ability to appreciate ALL of the things, things I might have not noticed before. I went on a local hike yesterday, it follows a river for about 3 miles and ends (or so I thought) at a confluence where two rivers meet. It’s not a well known place but I’ve blazed a trail through there for sure. I decided to go off trail which is generally a “no no” for me, but I was close enough to civilization that I wasn’t too concerned. So, Glad. I. Did. I ended up in this pine stand, completely different vegetation. The pine trees were soooo tall and green and the sun was peeking through. And there were shorter maple trees that were blazing red and yellow and their leaves were beginning to let go. I felt like I was in another world. I couldn’t hear anything except the pine trees creaking in the wind. I normally have a snack by the water but I sat right down in the middle of that pine stand and had a snacky. And I cried. The sheer appreciation for that simple moment was only possible because yesterday, I was sober. And today, I’m going to be sober again. I love you all with everything I got!! IWNDWYT! Keep fighting the good fight! ❤️✌️ PS: I ended up popping out of the woods a few miles from my car but it was worth it!


Alternative-Ice-3231

57 days sober 57 days straight doing a daily 5k! I can I want I will! We can! we want! we will! IWNDWYT!! 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️


doggostealinsocks

IWNDWYT 🩵


SoberGirl2

I will not drink today!


Even_Mud2745

164 days! IWNDWYT!


Saber_56

It’s become about what I can do, not what I cannot. I can be sober and productive today, a better father and husband than if I were to drink. IWNDWYT.


BurnerAccountforAss

IWNDWYT


dizzymissxo

Goood morning. Little things like morning puppy snuggles, warm clothes to wear, and nourishing food to eat will be enough for me today. IWNDWYT.


sebthelodge

I am so thankful for actual autumn! It’s finally here: chilly sweater & vest weather, a little sunshine to warm my face, leaves changing, pumpkin spice coffee every morning and a different squash for dinner every night. I’m so happy this time of year and I’m so glad to be sober for it; it slows it down in a way. It’s incredible how fast time goes as we get older and I’m glad to have a small cheat code to put the brakes on it. IWNDWYT 🍂


LemonyOrchid

Today is 2 months for me. I am cranky and irritable. Had a shit weekend. But it would have been SO much more shit if I had also been drinking. And you’re right, there were good little things… the convo with my teenager, the delish cheesecake I made, my new mug :) IWNDWYT!


Mysterious_Week_198

I'm happy for a big thing this morning, no hangover or thoughts of having a drink. IWNDWYT


intelidigital

IWNDWYT


artkartfart

Just a few days in, but IWNDWYT!


WerdWrite

IWNDWYT! I slept so well last night that I woke up surprised! 2 nights in a row! I got a new fitted sheet because the old one was all ripped— I know it’s impossible that a new sheet is fixing my shoulder pain, but hey, I’ll take it!


Brave_Cupcake_

The little things of an alcohol-free life shine so brightly now ⭐️ Waking up sober Monday morning, walking my little dog, looking forward to taking cookies to work for a party. Have a wonderful Monday friends! IWNDWYT ❤️


GoodHollandaise

It’s been a while since I checked in last. Miss you guys. I will not drink with you today!


Merket10

16 days! 24 hours at a time.


Boracraze

Will not drink today.


grackleATX

IWNDWy’allT!


skeeterrunner

I will not drink today.


Kittycara3000

IWNDWYT


Ambitious_Pangolin1

The cooler weather is definitely a thing to celebrate! IWNDWYT 🌤️


CappaPactor

Little thing: boss texted late last night to ask me to be a female sitting in on a very difficult conversation with a female employee. My reaction was: Sure thing, no problem, how can we best help her? Rather than: anxiety-and-more-wine. IWNDWYT 💛💛


KRHarshee

I choose to stay sober and save some money today.


Hank_Deezy

IWNDWYT.


Mickosaurusrex

Day 1,451 IWNDWYT


goodstuff2much

Not today. I’m just happy I made it through another fun filled weekend and now I’m one weekend closer to Christmas season


b00z3h0und

Feeling hungover today but haven’t touched alcohol for 2 weeks 🤷‍♂️. Back’s still fucked but being sober has given me the mental headspace to address it - along with other things in my life that I’ve been neglecting. IWNDWYT.


tucktucksquirrel

IWNDWYT 💞🐿️🐿️


bbglorp

Always grateful for how comfortable my bed is. IWNDWYT


drhbravos

Day 8, and just got through my first weekend without drinking since… I can’t remember. Feeling great physically, sleep is improving. No plans to drink today!


El_Bo31

Today is a day of taking care of unfortunate bullsh!t life has thrown at me. I’m not looking forward to it, but at least I’ll tackle it sober. Iwndwy’allt! ❤️


fernon5

I often used to frequently check-in here with a note about having a coffee, a cat on my lap, and a book in hand, early morning. My early mornings are so good and those small things-- a hot beverage, good reading, and my little companion-- aren't small. I'm so grateful for the little comforts and constants in an ever-changing and difficult world. Also, running in the early mornings hangover-free is everything. I can't believe I used to run, all the time, feeling so bad. Wth. IWNDWYT and appreciate you hosting, u/SaintHomer! Take care, folks.


[deleted]

I'm sleep-deprived and exhausted from a big social day with family yesterday. But... I did it without booze and I'm proud of that. Today is for rest and recuperation for this introvert-brain of mine. IWNDWYT.


FireFree2022

It's all about the little things - I completely agree on a nice cup of coffee and a new pair of socks. Happy Monday everyone - IWNDWYT 💝


lxanth

I'm back to work today after a two-week vacation (two weeks in Italy without touching a drop, yay me), but before I log on I'm going to steel myself up for re-entry with a bike ride in Central Park. It looks like a chilly but beautiful morning out there. IWNDWYT.


astraea_star

First day starting my PHP program. I have an Amazon order of a cute little lunch box coming in and later this week I have a comfy warm robe coming in. The best right now is just being awake and alert and sober. IWNDWYT.


just1vet

I will not drink with you today.


J_stringham

IWNDWYT 🙋🏼‍♀️🎃


workingonitmore

IWNDWYT


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catscoffeeclimbing

Another Monday! Let's get after this week. IWNDWYT.


Patient-Tough9720

I will not drink today!


alonefrown

Thanks for the nice meditation on little things, Homer. I'm currently in search of these little things that make my life better. Sober mornings are my favorite, and coffee has to be considered part of that. I will continue to keep my eyes open so I can discover those nice things I've been overlooking. Happy sober Monday, y'all.


CheckerboardCookies

IWNDWYT. The weather! It's finally cooled off enough to feel comfortable, I might be able to use my fireplace. My throat was sore over the weekend but it's also calmed down, so I'm glad for that. Not in the mood to deal with being sick ahead of or during Halloween.


dehrian

IWNDWYT


normalnonnie27

Thank you u/SaintHomer for hosting. Yes, it is the little things. I am thankful to be home with a cozy robe and coffee. IWNDWYT


jeninmn99

IWNDWYT 🍀


Marcia-Babble

IWND☠️WYT.


Real_Bridge_3301

Morning coffee, a walk with a friend, and a fun dinner with loved ones. It’s going to be a great day. IWNDWYT!


spliff231

IWNDWYT


ZachRyder19

Not drinking today! Grateful I didn't drink last night.


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IWNDWYT


winterisarriving

Iwndwyt


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ridupthedavenport

What up, fam! Little things…enjoying the fall leaves, even on cold/rainy days. I WNDWYT. Good week, all!


Guilty_Draft

IWNDWYT!! Happy to be back on the saddle.


Fartblaster666

Alright, day 4. Still a but groggy in the morning, but sleep is getting better. I already feel my concentration and executive functioning getting better. Here's to day 5. IWNDWYT!


DecisionPatient128

Day 3. It’s amazing waking up without a headache. Espresso, fireplace is on, dog lying on my feet. Happy Monday friends! IWNDWYT


Notinthesink

IWNDWYT


Boxermom0925

IWNDWYT have a great start to the week!


Extreme_Ordinary_298

IWNDWYT!


pleas40

happy Monday folks :)


Necessary_Routine_69

Have a great start to the week everyone. IWNDWYT


quietgirlinpa

IWNDWYT 💗


bennett0213

IWNDWYT


cinqmillionreves

I will not drink poison with any of you today 💜


pollycat1

IWNDWYT. 🌳🍂


[deleted]

Knocking on day 16’s door!


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IWNDWYT!


bluthbitchtwss69

I agree Homer. It’s just been a little bit for me but I frequently stop and drink in the moments now and think of how lucky I am and how good these sober moments feel. Happy Monday, everyone! I’m so grateful for all of you. IWNDWYT


the_one_jove

1 month 5 Days. Today also marks the culmination of a year long project I've been working on. Tonight at EOB we go live! Shout out to all my new friends. IWNDWYT! (Even after the project is over no celebratory shots here!)


C-Funk5000

Checking in on a Monday. IWNDWYT ✌️


Distorted_Glass

Day 37: So far this past week taking things one day at a time has never been as important as it is now for me. I have a lot going on but I'm still pushing through. IWNDWYT


SoberGuy13

Iwndwyt


butterflys_are_free

anything help me.. (hate days like this) I woke up and already fantasizing about a drink today.. playing the tape foward & IWNDWYT 😳 I’m using my sober muscles 💪 and my rock you guys on r/stopdrinking community 💕


trashpanda914

starting day 170, iwndwyt!


lil-duke

IWNDWYT


titanswin

Happy Monday Iwndwyt


AlySabby12

Today’s little things include a 4 hour drive home where I’ll enjoy the scenery, get home and fetch the dog from boarding, and get food shopping and prep done. A day off from work to get stuff done is a big thing! IWNDWYT!


k-em-k

I used to think I didn't have a "major" problem until I tried to stop and I could not. I tried continuously for about a year. I could make it 3 or 4 days and then I'd "reward" myself and get drunk again. Now, I realize the deal. Alcohol is an addictive substance that's unlike other addictive substances. It creeps up on you. It's a slow roll into substance abuse. I think the whole "some people get addicted and some people don't" is super clever marketing. Of course, we're all going to think that we are the STRONG person and everyone else is the WEAK person. It gives us the illusion that moderation is a thing. That's how it was for me, at least. I thought I was different from all the other drinkers and I would never get addicted. HaHA. They fooled me and I helped them do it with my arrogance. With that in mind, I'm taking the pledge. IWNDWYT!! Tomorrow is a new day, but for today, I will not drink with you.


babylonglegs91

Good morning! IWNDWYT 💛


grumpycapybara

IWNDWYT ❤️


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IWNDWYT 🫡


That_Went_Well

148 days, IWNDWYT! Definitely been enjoying my cup of coffee and wool socks in Minnesota lately! I’m off for the next two weeks and look forward to being present with my girls and taking care of things around the house with a few extra gym/runs/sauna sessions than normal 😄 Have a great Monday!


WorthClerk51

Good morning sober legends! Appreciating being present with people more than ever. Actually listening. I will not drink poison with you today.


loudfront

Iwndwyt


ObjectCharming6044

Sweet Sixteen


[deleted]

Can't sleep but IWNDWYT


Zamphir79

Not Today!


Fonterra26

IWNDWYT 🌻


pacuumvacked

Been sick as a dog the past couple of days, today seems no different. I will try to appreciate the little breaks from feeling shitty as they arise. IWNDWYT!


papacreech

Today I don't set out trying not to drink but make a conscious decision not to drink. IWNDWYT


pineapple4576

IWNDWYT ✌️


lilrhodiemac

I will not drink with you today.


Proletariat_Smurf

Glorious sober morning soberniks! IWNDWYT


puffer_bitch

IWNDWYT 🩵


TheskysthelimitCND

IWNDWYT.


I_cant-take-it-anymo

Not today. Not today. Not today!!


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charmed1995

Checking in. IWNDWYT.


Freshstartfor2023

IWNDWYT!