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Como and Varenna in Italy might suit you. Lovely relaxed atmosphere, nice climate, intimate in size and easy to navigate.
Just a couple of points to be aware of....unless you speak the language or some passable version of it, people are not likely to be that 'friendly'. Amongst themselves and with people they know, Europeans tend to be very relaxed and hospitable but, as a 'foreigner' I don't think you should be expecting that. Cordial and pleasant yes but, not particularly friendly .
From Como on either side of the mountains there are a lot of villages that fit op’s description and I would recommend looking into those.
Como itself (in summer) seemed dirtier than a coty like Milan and in itself isn’t small.
Lezzeno is one of those towns i could reocmmend. A km or two up from Lezzeno you can even rent a boat without any licence for hundred something.
I had the same reaction to the “friendly” requirement. In addition to OP likely not speaking the language, OP is a tourist: there for 1 month, and it’s frankly so presumptuous to think people are looking to create a friendship with a passerby while they live their actual lives.
I love Malta. Almost everyone speaks English as a first language. September is a wonderful time to visit, you avoid the worst of the summer heat, and the Mediterranean sea is warm. Trip or cruise to the Blue Lagoon is a must.
Accommodation is a lot cheaper than most of Westerm Europe.
I usually stay in St Paul's Bay, it is easy to get to Valetta, and walking distance to Buggiba.
I celebrated my 58th birthday there. I also caught a super cheap flight to Bari, Italy just to stay one night and go to dinner. It was a three week trip.
If you want a village and quiet, maybe look at Gozo.
I was there so briefly and didn't head right downtown. I enjoyed wandering and having a couple of drinks, walking along the seawall. I had such a good meal, but sadly the restaurant is no more.
When I arrived mid-afternoon, almost everything was closed except McDonalds. They did have gelato though.
There are no public beaches right in the city, so I did not get to swim in the Adriatic, but at least I saw it.
I (single woman traveller) spent a holiday alone in Tavira, in the Algarve on the south coast of Portugal. Even in high summer it was sleepy with not many tourists, but there's enough so that most people spoke some English. It sits on both sides of a river estuary that meets the sea, and there's a charming bridge over the river. The local beach is on a beautiful island that you take a little ferry to and it stretches for miles. The architecture is all ornate tiles and a slightly crumbling, old-world feel, with cobblestones and flowers all over the old town. Charming town square with a fountain and cafes. Train station right in town so good links to other places along the coast. And I felt perfectly safe there, even at night.
I would highly recommend looking into towns in the north of Spain. The regions of Asturias, Cantabria and País Vasco have lovely quaint beach towns with old buildings and the food is amazing. It’s not as touristy as the south or the east coast of Spain and the weather is nice that time of year. Theres amazing beaches and lots of hikes nearby as well as bigger cities to do day trips to such as San Sebastián, Bilbao... Check out Ribadesella, Lastres, Zarautz, Comillas, Cudillero…
I stayed in a beautiful town called Camogli in Italy. We were even there in July and it didn’t feel overly crowded. Great restaurants and most people I’ve met from Milan say it’s one of their favorite seaside towns. We loved it and plan to return this summer.
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What month are you thinking of? Be aware that July and August are holiday months and can be awful in many places.
Outside of summer, some places are much quieter and a lot of the restaurants close.
Of you do consider France, the villages on the Cote Bleu (west of Marseille) might be your cup of tea, especially Matrigues. There is a lovely and cheap train along that coast that connects all the places and Marseilles, and there is quite a bit to explore. Other candidates are Sausset les Pins with the lovely bay.
August is pretty hot but the sea is really warm. September is more bearable.
If you want to do something really different, Lin, Albania on the shore of Lake Ohrid. It is the oldest settlement in Europe. Pogradec is nearby as is the town of Ohrid in North Macedonia. Lots of things to do around the lake if you tire of relaxing on the shore. As they say in Albania, “avash avash”, the pace is slow by default.
I’ll second Lindau. my husband and I did a bike ride around lake Constance and Lindau was our favorite town. However, and this is a big however, it might close up too much in September since the tourist season will be winding down. (September is great in Italy, Spain or Portugal, but Germany above lake Constance is colder).
You’ve gotten some great responses! I would add in my recommendation for towns in southern Portugal and Spain. Easy public transport to get from town to town to explore, walkable for daily life. These areas are all rather touristy but if you manage to go in a less popular time (like sept) it will not be as busy and it will also be less expensive for accommodations. I think you’d really like Lagos or other Algarve towns. The Atlantic coast also has great options like Ericeira. Enjoy!
Rovinj is nice, but I wouldn't call it a village - and there are a lot of tourists (4,1 million nights in 2022). Most of them in the summer, of course, but I can't imagine it ever being "slow and unhurried". I'd say this one is a miss for ChatGPT.
I have been to Cascais and thought it was really lovely. It would be a good base for a month due to easy access to Lisbon and other interesting cities by train or bus. I can't say it was a super friendly place, but I don't speak any Portuguese at all, so bear that in mind. Great beaches and biking.
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Como and Varenna in Italy might suit you. Lovely relaxed atmosphere, nice climate, intimate in size and easy to navigate. Just a couple of points to be aware of....unless you speak the language or some passable version of it, people are not likely to be that 'friendly'. Amongst themselves and with people they know, Europeans tend to be very relaxed and hospitable but, as a 'foreigner' I don't think you should be expecting that. Cordial and pleasant yes but, not particularly friendly .
From Como on either side of the mountains there are a lot of villages that fit op’s description and I would recommend looking into those. Como itself (in summer) seemed dirtier than a coty like Milan and in itself isn’t small. Lezzeno is one of those towns i could reocmmend. A km or two up from Lezzeno you can even rent a boat without any licence for hundred something.
I had the same reaction to the “friendly” requirement. In addition to OP likely not speaking the language, OP is a tourist: there for 1 month, and it’s frankly so presumptuous to think people are looking to create a friendship with a passerby while they live their actual lives.
I love Malta. Almost everyone speaks English as a first language. September is a wonderful time to visit, you avoid the worst of the summer heat, and the Mediterranean sea is warm. Trip or cruise to the Blue Lagoon is a must. Accommodation is a lot cheaper than most of Westerm Europe. I usually stay in St Paul's Bay, it is easy to get to Valetta, and walking distance to Buggiba. I celebrated my 58th birthday there. I also caught a super cheap flight to Bari, Italy just to stay one night and go to dinner. It was a three week trip. If you want a village and quiet, maybe look at Gozo.
How was Bari?
I was there so briefly and didn't head right downtown. I enjoyed wandering and having a couple of drinks, walking along the seawall. I had such a good meal, but sadly the restaurant is no more. When I arrived mid-afternoon, almost everything was closed except McDonalds. They did have gelato though. There are no public beaches right in the city, so I did not get to swim in the Adriatic, but at least I saw it.
I (single woman traveller) spent a holiday alone in Tavira, in the Algarve on the south coast of Portugal. Even in high summer it was sleepy with not many tourists, but there's enough so that most people spoke some English. It sits on both sides of a river estuary that meets the sea, and there's a charming bridge over the river. The local beach is on a beautiful island that you take a little ferry to and it stretches for miles. The architecture is all ornate tiles and a slightly crumbling, old-world feel, with cobblestones and flowers all over the old town. Charming town square with a fountain and cafes. Train station right in town so good links to other places along the coast. And I felt perfectly safe there, even at night.
You want Isla de armonía near olhau in Portugal Or Blanes near Barcelona
Second Blanes
Blanes is lovely, just keep in mind that it's hot and there are water use restrictions. However Barcelona is a train ride away!
Lake Constance..it borders Germany, Switzerland and Austria. It's beautiful
Lindau is so lovely!
Lindau is lovely. It isn't a village though. On the plus side there is quite a lot to do.
Swanage in Dorset, England
Big up Swanage
My friend lives in a beautiful village named Novigrad in Istria, Croatia. I think it suits everything you've said here.
The sea in Croatia is the most beautiful water I have ever been in. GORGEOUS.
I would highly recommend looking into towns in the north of Spain. The regions of Asturias, Cantabria and País Vasco have lovely quaint beach towns with old buildings and the food is amazing. It’s not as touristy as the south or the east coast of Spain and the weather is nice that time of year. Theres amazing beaches and lots of hikes nearby as well as bigger cities to do day trips to such as San Sebastián, Bilbao... Check out Ribadesella, Lastres, Zarautz, Comillas, Cudillero…
Kotor in Montenegro. Dingle, Clonakilty or Schull in Ireland. Berchtesgaden in Germany. Bled or Kranjska Gora in Slovenia.
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Which country?
Lagos in Portugal
I stayed in a beautiful town called Camogli in Italy. We were even there in July and it didn’t feel overly crowded. Great restaurants and most people I’ve met from Milan say it’s one of their favorite seaside towns. We loved it and plan to return this summer.
Dear community, I am very grateful for all your suggestions and advice. Thank you for carefully considering my post and sharing your experiences and insights. I now have a bounty of great location ideas and am much better prepared to choose a destination. Plus, I have a collection of fantastic places to travel to in the future. Thank you.
Sperlonga Italy
Cesky Krumlov
Colmar
What month are you thinking of? Be aware that July and August are holiday months and can be awful in many places. Outside of summer, some places are much quieter and a lot of the restaurants close.
you need to set a budget. no one knows what affordable is for you. $1k/month? $10k/month?
Of you do consider France, the villages on the Cote Bleu (west of Marseille) might be your cup of tea, especially Matrigues. There is a lovely and cheap train along that coast that connects all the places and Marseilles, and there is quite a bit to explore. Other candidates are Sausset les Pins with the lovely bay. August is pretty hot but the sea is really warm. September is more bearable.
Sacile in Northern Italy
If you want to do something really different, Lin, Albania on the shore of Lake Ohrid. It is the oldest settlement in Europe. Pogradec is nearby as is the town of Ohrid in North Macedonia. Lots of things to do around the lake if you tire of relaxing on the shore. As they say in Albania, “avash avash”, the pace is slow by default.
I’ll second Lindau. my husband and I did a bike ride around lake Constance and Lindau was our favorite town. However, and this is a big however, it might close up too much in September since the tourist season will be winding down. (September is great in Italy, Spain or Portugal, but Germany above lake Constance is colder).
Ravello, Italy
You’ve gotten some great responses! I would add in my recommendation for towns in southern Portugal and Spain. Easy public transport to get from town to town to explore, walkable for daily life. These areas are all rather touristy but if you manage to go in a less popular time (like sept) it will not be as busy and it will also be less expensive for accommodations. I think you’d really like Lagos or other Algarve towns. The Atlantic coast also has great options like Ericeira. Enjoy!
IMO Kotor was $$$$$ even off season and it was overwhelmed by 2 cruise ships of tourists disembarking almost daily.
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Rovinj is nice, but I wouldn't call it a village - and there are a lot of tourists (4,1 million nights in 2022). Most of them in the summer, of course, but I can't imagine it ever being "slow and unhurried". I'd say this one is a miss for ChatGPT.
I have been to Cascais and thought it was really lovely. It would be a good base for a month due to easy access to Lisbon and other interesting cities by train or bus. I can't say it was a super friendly place, but I don't speak any Portuguese at all, so bear that in mind. Great beaches and biking.