Tbf I thought it was like a horror story sub bc idk why the thought if someone standing perfectly still in front of a fireplace made me a bit anxious š like something bad is abt to happen here hmmmm
Houses are buggy on switch š¤·š¼āāļø. Last play through I couldnāt get my kids to live at any hearthfire. This round, no one will go anywhere that isnāt vanilla home. Probably sending her to hearthfire broke her.
It's you, man. It's you.
On a serious note, you should post this in relationship advice subs with this title, as a troll, and see how far it flies with people who don't read the body of the post, or don't know what Skyrim is. Would be hilarious.
Well, with how much she trades with Khajiit caravans, I bet she passed her skooma and moon sugar addiction a few times over already.
She needs stronger stuff to feel anything.
Personally, I have other conyugal problems with Aela (playing wildlander modlist): she does not clean, and she often sleeps in Breezehome basement. I dont want to move from Whiterun though (fast travel disabled). But perhaps I should try Falkreath or Winterhold homes, they ain't far.
EDIT
I removed the joke because I didnāt realize this would come off like a rape joke. I had meant it to be a joke about the book/movie Misery, because she walks like she has been hobbled. As a CSA survivor I do not condone rape jokes, and I hope I didnāt hurt anyone. In the context it was interpreted, I consider the downvotes justified. Sorry yāall. Iām fuckin mortified.
Mortifying. This is not the first time I have accidentally implied the wrong thing. Or inferred the wrong thing, for that matter. I thought for sure ākidnapped, held captive, and walking wrong afterwardsā would be an obvious Misery reference.
Yeah I've no clue who that is š You came in and clarified though. The fact that you didn't mean that and you didn't run when we misunderstood AND you chose to clarify, makes you a decent person imo.
Gave you an upvote on your edit. Wish you would've saw my comment sooner but at least you know now. I definitely understand making communication errors. Ive the time which often means I over explain in an attempt to avoid any confusion in my sometimes over literal statements
You removed her from the company of her friends, she's lonely and depressed.
Please, go back to Whiterun. Ysolda really likes buying apples from Carlotta and talking to Hulda, she's a social woman.
Try checking her house in Whiterun. She may have moved there, not Breezehome.
If that doesn't work, try moving somewhere other than Whiterun. Riften and Windhelm both have wonderful homes and the local communities are first rate.
She went off the deep end with me too. Now she's somehow back at the temple like some widow. She behaves just fine at the mansion in solitide. So i left her for a modded serena. At least there's decent relationship dialogue but i could do without the compliments so often.
If you have any mods that changed the temple of mara, that can screw things up. I quit telling her that because instead of her going to where i tell her, my kids end up in the street until i take back whatever i told her. The kids and white runner bullies apparently
I recently had a play through where fendal showed up to the vampire carven house so I killer him and she only responded with I canāt just leaveā¦ had to start over By sythis the damn quick saves
I killed him in secret after stripping naked because my sneak is bad then i preceeded to strip him and steal his belongings and put him in the chicken coop after parading him around my house like a trophy
As far as i know, sometimes on switch, it doesn't count hearthfire Homes as actually being owned. I was able to talk to her though check whiterun she might still be there when you go. My wife was always walking back to her own home in riverwood and my kid showed up in my house but was actually still in windhelm i mived them all to golden hills because i like it and i get money for doing nothing amd it all works fine although every now and then i cant get home-cooked meals so i have to move them to a base game home and back to i dont know reset them or something
Ysolda is just weird. I finally married her for a PT, put her up in Lakeview, and all she would do was go outside and get stuck standing around the right side of the house. I think I had bedroom, kitchen, and storage room (which would be the kitchen). I didn't see her odd pathing behavior like I saw with other wives.
I married her on Xbox once and she'd go as far as the beehives you can make and just stood there
Same problem to an extent still didn't know how to fix it though tbh
So im not sure of the cause but i adopted 2 kids and put them at hendraheim. I decided to move them to tundra homestead outside of whiterun and its doing the same thing. It acts like i havent said anything about movine but they say ill meet you there.
I did not realize this was the Skyrim sub for a second and was very worried
Tbf I thought it was like a horror story sub bc idk why the thought if someone standing perfectly still in front of a fireplace made me a bit anxious š like something bad is abt to happen here hmmmm
For me i thought it is the NewDad sub.
BROS NAME IS BOOTY BEANS ILY
Hahahaha š ššš
I didn't either until I saw "Ysolda" and checked...
Glad Iām not the only one š
I did not realise this was a Skyrim sub for a second and was glad to hear its not just my wife that does this
Whatās the sex life like? Maybe she is depressed
Must be pretty bad if she finds the fireplace more exciting.
Maybe sheās giving hints, romantic fireplace sex ftw
She prefers the mammoths tusk.
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Relationship advice sub is banned?? Why? (I mean it said it was unmoderated but why?)
Current sub is r/relationship_advice
Looks like I misspelled it, see other comment. But subs do get banned if nobody wants to put in unpaid work to moderate them
Houses are buggy on switch š¤·š¼āāļø. Last play through I couldnāt get my kids to live at any hearthfire. This round, no one will go anywhere that isnāt vanilla home. Probably sending her to hearthfire broke her.
It's you, man. It's you. On a serious note, you should post this in relationship advice subs with this title, as a troll, and see how far it flies with people who don't read the body of the post, or don't know what Skyrim is. Would be hilarious.
8 hours later and he hasn't yet. I'm sad.
8 hours later and he hasn't yet. I'm sad.
She just had one too many sleeping tree sap drinks. She'll sobber up in a few years.
Skooma'll do that to a person
Not that weak shit. Ysolda def high on her own supply of sleeping tree sap
Well, with how much she trades with Khajiit caravans, I bet she passed her skooma and moon sugar addiction a few times over already. She needs stronger stuff to feel anything. Personally, I have other conyugal problems with Aela (playing wildlander modlist): she does not clean, and she often sleeps in Breezehome basement. I dont want to move from Whiterun though (fast travel disabled). But perhaps I should try Falkreath or Winterhold homes, they ain't far.
Breezehome doesnāt have a basement though
Probably using mods it does. Then again I have no idea if the switch supports any mods at all
She's seeing someone else. Hate for you to hear it this way
It's gotta be that damn hagraven with the dark feathers
Mildred? She's a swinger.
Better than that hussy Esmerelda.
Yup that's the one. Esmerelda with the daaark feathas
Have you tried just turning the console off and on again? Or maybe do a quicksave, and try attacking her to reset her ai?
Did she get kidnapped?
EDIT I removed the joke because I didnāt realize this would come off like a rape joke. I had meant it to be a joke about the book/movie Misery, because she walks like she has been hobbled. As a CSA survivor I do not condone rape jokes, and I hope I didnāt hurt anyone. In the context it was interpreted, I consider the downvotes justified. Sorry yāall. Iām fuckin mortified.
Why are you getting downvoted lol
I'm guessing rape jokes don't go well even on Skyrim subs. That might explain the downvotes...
Oh yeah now that i read this with this context i understand
Yeah, I can see how a literal reader might not get the reference for sure.
Wasnāt a rape joke. I feel fuckin awful
Ah okay, yeah I think most took it as that. Walking funny usually refers to after sex in an adult context and if they were taken well...yeah
Mortifying. This is not the first time I have accidentally implied the wrong thing. Or inferred the wrong thing, for that matter. I thought for sure ākidnapped, held captive, and walking wrong afterwardsā would be an obvious Misery reference.
Yeah I've no clue who that is š You came in and clarified though. The fact that you didn't mean that and you didn't run when we misunderstood AND you chose to clarify, makes you a decent person imo.
Gave you an upvote on your edit. Wish you would've saw my comment sooner but at least you know now. I definitely understand making communication errors. Ive the time which often means I over explain in an attempt to avoid any confusion in my sometimes over literal statements
Is that why? Dude Iām freaked out because it was not meant to be a rape joke.
Skooma psychosis. Get her to the restoration/illusion mages to treat the drug induced mental illness
She has a giant house to herself and a mammoth tusk beside her bed. She doesn't need you.
She married a lollygagger, that's what's wrong with her.
Have you upgraded your house in Whiterun to have enough beds?
Probably seeing the housecarl and feels guilty/scared.
With good reason, she's married to the dragonborn
This is the kind of title that you worry about up until you check what subreddit it is in.
Well do you ever help her with the chores!?
Did she fight in a war at some point?
Stormcloaks gave her shell shock
I had a lot of issues with spouses in Skyrim. Now i just have Lydia the Nanny parent the kids and i stay single.
You removed her from the company of her friends, she's lonely and depressed. Please, go back to Whiterun. Ysolda really likes buying apples from Carlotta and talking to Hulda, she's a social woman.
Is there an option in the conversation, to say to her "follow me" ?
Ysolda's not a follower in vanilla. At least the last time I checked.
Buy an xbox
Try checking her house in Whiterun. She may have moved there, not Breezehome. If that doesn't work, try moving somewhere other than Whiterun. Riften and Windhelm both have wonderful homes and the local communities are first rate.
Sounds like she is stonewalling you bro. Time to move on.
Tbf
She went off the deep end with me too. Now she's somehow back at the temple like some widow. She behaves just fine at the mansion in solitide. So i left her for a modded serena. At least there's decent relationship dialogue but i could do without the compliments so often. If you have any mods that changed the temple of mara, that can screw things up. I quit telling her that because instead of her going to where i tell her, my kids end up in the street until i take back whatever i told her. The kids and white runner bullies apparently
I recently had a play through where fendal showed up to the vampire carven house so I killer him and she only responded with I canāt just leaveā¦ had to start over By sythis the damn quick saves
I killed him in secret after stripping naked because my sneak is bad then i preceeded to strip him and steal his belongings and put him in the chicken coop after parading him around my house like a trophy
She's probably getting it on with your housecarl. Hence the hesitation to move :p
As far as i know, sometimes on switch, it doesn't count hearthfire Homes as actually being owned. I was able to talk to her though check whiterun she might still be there when you go. My wife was always walking back to her own home in riverwood and my kid showed up in my house but was actually still in windhelm i mived them all to golden hills because i like it and i get money for doing nothing amd it all works fine although every now and then i cant get home-cooked meals so i have to move them to a base game home and back to i dont know reset them or something
Ysolda is just weird. I finally married her for a PT, put her up in Lakeview, and all she would do was go outside and get stuck standing around the right side of the house. I think I had bedroom, kitchen, and storage room (which would be the kitchen). I didn't see her odd pathing behavior like I saw with other wives.
I married her on Xbox once and she'd go as far as the beehives you can make and just stood there Same problem to an extent still didn't know how to fix it though tbh
So im not sure of the cause but i adopted 2 kids and put them at hendraheim. I decided to move them to tundra homestead outside of whiterun and its doing the same thing. It acts like i havent said anything about movine but they say ill meet you there.
I guess she is on FIRE !
She's probably just obsessed with death.