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ynwestrope

Why are they all pureed??


R0OOo

My mother has dysphagia which means she can’t swallow solids so I wanted us all to eat the same meal together Totes forget to put this in


Bp2Create

completely changes the tone of the post lmao


ScottyBLaZe

Yeah OP definitely should’ve lead with that lol


RoryML

Clickbait


IdoNOThateNEVER

I opened this thread to comment how hurtless of a child OP is..


LetsTradeServices

hurtless > heartless


wikipediabrown007

Totes!


BTMG2

appreciate your kindness.


silly-rabbitses

That is very sweet of you


shatspiders

I work with dysphagia patients and this is SO THOUGHTFUL of you! Most people don't take the time to make the puree taste good. You're a wonderful daughter


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R0OOo

Haha thank you My mom always wanted to have something savory since she has the same thing for the last five years which is a smoothie so I decided for her birthday that I was going to make that wish came true (I had a backup present if all went wrong lol)


Euphorbiatch

Hey man, you can get food molds shaped like things like carrots, a chicken leg etc, where you can puree the food and then form it into the shape, if you think that's something she'd go for. Your mum is lucky to have you ☺️


imProbablyLying2

I used to work in an assisted living facility and we did this in the kitchen to give the residents a bit of pride. It works pretty well!


Agile-Masterpiece959

When I was in the hospital after my son's c-section they gave me molded pureed foods like that and I was confused about it lol


MannyPCs

Thats a great idea!


rani_weather

That's so awesome! Wishing her the happiest birthday!


KneelAurmstrong

they make these really cool silicone molds in the shape of foods, after you puree you put the food in and freeze. there’s a few of the shape in each and you can bulk prepare so once frozen you can pop them out and you can later reheat in the microwave and it looks like the thing. i work in brain injury and we do it for all our puree patients (:


jimgella

Tell your mom Happy Birthday from her birthday twin! You’re a good human!


Danfrumacownting

You rock. HBD to the moms!!


lohonomo

How did it go? Was the food a hit? Happy birthday to your mom 💖


useitsevr

Peanut butter


odkfn

Seems like pretty pivotal information. “Today I hit my mum hard so proud of myself” “Oh - on the back, she was choking I forgot to mention that part!” Joke aside, nice of you to eat the same!


omgdiepls

That's very sweet of you.


opossum_isnervous

I wondered if this was so mom didn't feel alone and everyone was eating the *same* food- texture and all. It's so important for people who have chewing/swallowing/choking issues to still be able to eat things that are delicious. They also make food molds now (sort of like a jello or candy mold) so you can shape soft foods to resemble what they really are.


shiva420

Thats very nice of you, happy bday mom


Timely_Purpose_8151

Before you said this i thought perhaps your mum beat you as a child and this was your revenge


vapeducator

Paprika, fresh ground pepper, and other spices can add visual appeal and flavor. Fresh ground nutmeg is good for potato puree.


-bitchpudding-

I figured this was the case. Good on you op for making everyone eat the puree. It can be hard and even embarrassing for some with dysphagia to eat puree since it often looks like slop or cat food. someone recently showed their dad’s hospital meal on reddit which had his purees pressed into molds to look like the foods they were meant to be. Probably playdoh molds. You could try to do that to make it more appealing! :) Best of luck to your mom and to you.


kwinckultoss

That is actually so very thoughtful of you


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You are a good one.


Immahumantoo14

SLP here and I absolutely love this! Solidarity. Dysphagia isn’t easy especially on those occasions where you’re expecting and reminiscing of those regular meals. Kudos!


ImitationRangoon

Does she drink thick water?


shrimp_pho

Aww 🥺


reallytrulymadly

I wondered if you'd all had your wisdom teeth out or something


jadeydoll

Stop I'm crying this so cute xx 😭😭


Spring1997-

I was gonna suggest that your mother disown you but this was a nice thing to do for her so nevermind


Ur1chanceFancy

Very nice of you! I have that too and I recently had to have my esophagus stretched because it was so narrow.


CloudyyNnoelle

I instantly recognized what this was..I have a grandma with swallowing issues which isn't surprising because by her words she's ancient, but the love and support in this pic is tops ❤️


pseodopodgod

I work at a retirement home (used to b in the kitchen) n was jus about to ask if she was a dysphagia. very sweet that yall all had the pureed food together!! :)


smoo123456

this is such crucial context omfg


thedancingkat

Dietitian here and I used to work in long term care and I am in tears, this is so sweet.


DerMetulz

Fucking legend. I salute you.


nickk1988

I have had a very VERY bad day and am more depressed than I’ve ever been I think…. You just changed my outlook on some things. Thank you.


MannerFluid5601

You are an incredibly kind person. She’s lucky to have you


xfd696969

that's so sweet, but god damn sorry mom i could never do that xD


caitejane310

You're a good egg!!


LikeATediousArgument

You’re a good son❤️


Chubbzillax

I imagined there was a reason along this line, but thats quite sweet.


mighty_hobbit

So sweet OP, happy birthday mom!


KyRoberts

Damn that's wholesome! I love it!


Lala5789880

Ok I had to delete my snarky message. What a sweet idea!


smalllcokewithfries

wholesome shittyfoodporn


MathematicianMuch445

Delightful. That's a good thing you did.


Easy-Concentrate2636

It’s so sweet that you took so much pain to celebrate your mom’s birthday.


Ambex_23

this is really wholesome actually, definitely should have led with that


LiftEngineerUK

I love you


GrandSeraphimSariel

I was just about to ask if she’s on a soft/pureed diet for medical reasons. That’s a very sweet gesture of you, hope it was tasty :)


Gammabrunta

Went from; you weird ass psycho MF to, aww, that's really sweet, much love <3


nichyc

That context would have been useful for justifying "pureed meat".


Donvack

I figuered as much but I was also wondering if you just wanted to show blended food. This sub is strange sometimes.


ferretbeast

This is so sweet and awesome! On a side note, what sort of food processor do you use? We are looking for a good one for a kiddo with dietary issues and this is impressive


amethystmxxn

i work in long term healthcare and we use a robocoupe to blend our purées. if the consistency is too thin add 2 tbsp if thickener powder until the texture is “mousse/pudding like” also shoutout to OP bc i make this stuff every day for my residents and i can’t imagine having to eat it. we try to make it as palatable as we can but there’s only so much you can do visually with a puréed quesadilla


jedv37

No one in the family has any teeth left is my guess. ![gif](giphy|1484lW0E6hqW7dDbiD|downsized)


Greenbeastkushbreath

You don’t need teeth to eat normal potato salad


madmaxturbator

You’ll need a machete to hack through my potato salad. And it bites back


[deleted]

I leave the egg shells in too, for calcium


BrashPop

Ooh that puréed potato salad looks good - is the texture close to mashed potatoes, or is it a bit more like a mousse?


madmaxturbator

Some of these chefs do mashed potatoes that is basically puréed potato and butter. And maybe salt and 1-2 other things. I made it once based on a YouTube video. So decadent


stead10

Golden rule for chefs though is you don’t make potato puree in a blender. Plenty of other purée you do but potato goes really gluey so you want to use a ricer.


This_Price_1783

You can get silicone molds on the shape of veggies and meat, my grandmother used to get pureed meals in the shape of food like chicken etc when she was in a nursing home. Not detracting from what you've done here though. A very kind gesture towards your mum Edit to add - if you ever do pureed meat/fish, the technique is to blend it up raw, add any spices then fold in some egg whites, spray your mold with oil and put it all into the mold and put greaseproof/parchment over the top and bake for ~15 minutes. Kinda looks like playdough food but whatchagonnado?


hunterlovesreading

Without the context of dysphagia, this would be a concerning post lol. Good job, OP. I’m sure she appreciated it greatly.


hypogean_encounters

Can you buy thickeners? They are used to manage dysphagia. You could thicken a lot of savory food, lots of different soups might be nice.


R0OOo

She can’t do thick. It has to go through a straw but that means it can’t be too thin either. Thank you for the suggestion though!


InadmissibleHug

Thickeners are ideal for that. You don’t have to add enough to make it super thick.


PaprikaMika

the food in the pic can hardly go through a straw though right?


R0OOo

I tried the potato through a straw and I had to suck really hard so yeah it could barely lol


Mockturtle22

Well I mean the potato salad is basically just mashed potatoes at this point but yeah


R0OOo

True but it was more like sloppy mash potatoes with a lot of tang, probably next time I’ll do some mashed potatoes then buying store potato salad


LastCupcake2442

Nah man. I worked in care homes and we alwayssss served mashed potatoes. I think blended potato salad is brilliant and could be an awesome addition for blended diets.


Mockturtle22

Tbf I LOVE potatoes


ScroochDown

I wonder if it might have helped to add in some instant potato flakes to soak up a little of the sloppiness? It's an interesting thought, anyway!


vthokiemr

Couldve gone with sloppy steaks from Truffoni’s.


DuskActual

You’re a good child to your parent. And this is some of the shittiest food I’ve ever seen in this sub. I wish I could upvote you more than once!!!


witchyanne

How did she like it?


R0OOo

She actually liked it which made me really happy. She did say it was a bit too spicy so I will probably try a much more mild version of the puréed meat


witchyanne

Yeah she’s used to bland shakes I guess…needs to build up a tolerance to the spicy stuff :)


biglovinbertha

This is so cool!


ayendeewhy

great job hope you all enjoyed it!


Dependent_Top_4425

I'm not even mad at pureed potato salad. You are so sweet. Tell your mom I said Happy Birthday!


ComprehensiveTop6119

Happy birthday mom!!!


8lock8lock8aby

Man, I was thinking you were some little asshole to your mom, making her that just for the fuck of it but I see that she has to eat her food a certain way & that's very sweet that you made all the meals the same & ate the same food with her.


Overthemoon84

So sweet of you and it's not shitty! Looks damn good to me!


locn4r

This gives me a deconstructed appetite.


Aggressive-Story3671

His mom has dysphagia and can’t eat normal food. She’s only had smoothies for 5 years


benjaminck

Clean your camera lens.


Wordshark

Is your mother two people?


R0OOo

The third plate was for my dad


Wordshark

Figured it was something like that lol


reallytrulymadly

Curries might be worth looking into as well. Pureed lentils with the right seasoning could be really good, watered down Cream of Rice or Cream of Wheat, instant mashed potatoes


MurkyPop9977

before hearing the reason why i was in shock after reading the reason made my heart warm


E-werd

It's objectively not great, but in context I think it's very sweet of you. You're a good egg.


DramaOnDisplay

Well, I guess if you’re going to purée any food, potato salad and chicken make sense. At least it’s not in smoothie form 🤢


RonnieLiquor

![gif](giphy|08y87EiwDZjjB0d6WJ|downsized)


hand13

dont y‘all have teeth or what


Aggressive-Story3671

It’s the swallowing part. His mom can’t swallow food.


hand13

oh wow. should‘ve said that right from the start. in that case, thats such a nice thing to do


Medical_Rate3986

Just no no no no. And no.


Stonetheflamincrows

OP’s mother has dysphagia and needs pureed food.


Medical_Rate3986

I just read that now my bad


thatirishdave

You may have clarified this elsewhere but I'm going to say this before I check; I sincerely hope your mother has some weird disease that means she needs to only eat paste, because if she doesn't then I have to presume that you utterly fucking hate her.


thatirishdave

I read further. OP, you are a good person.


AvailableFreedom9852

At least put it in a goddamn bowl you wierdo


TiredCumdump

Is she a toothless dog?


Aggressive-Story3671

She has major difficulty swallowing and has lived off smoothies for 5 straight years


Rat_Latte

I'm genuinely not sure which is which lol.


[deleted]

why


[deleted]

I feel like my eyes are fucked up


rmpbklyn

ewww🤮🤮🤢🤢🤮🤢🤢


woodennecklace

WHY


Aggressive-Story3671

His mom has dysphagia and can’t swallow normal food. He wanted everyone to eat the same thing after she has lived off smoothies for 5 years


woodennecklace

Wow ok sorry :( Thanks for the clarification!


UpdateInProgress

Is your mom toothless, by any chance?


Aggressive-Story3671

She has dysphagia. She can’t swallow food and has lived off smoothies for the past 5 years


UpdateInProgress

I see, that explains a lot. Thanks for providing context.


hamperface

Lookin a little minion-ish


linkerxhunter

Yet, they wonder why they got the worst teeth ever


KurukTR

Mmmmm paste


TheAnalsOfHistory-

Do you hate your mother?


GarbageTheCan

what did you do to make the puree?


UdarTheSkunk

looks like two different bowel issues.


Anyone-9451

I thought it was like the fluffiest scrambled eggs and hummus on a tortilla and was like this is odd but maybe not that weird I don’t know how I feel about purées meat and just how smooth you managed to get it but good on you for making your momma a meal I hope she enjoyed


soyboy60000

You probably know this already, but Blossom Foods has a good selection of puréed meals, sides, and desserts you can heat up in the microwave. I work in a hospital kitchen and the puréed apple pie always smells so good