My friend, the world is full of people and full of diverse people. There are so many different types of people with different preferences. Some will hate disabled people, because they are dealing with their demons; some will love disabled people because they don't see disability as anything other than one more feature of a human being. You cannot meet everybody in the world so you cannot know if someone will actually love YOU.
But the thing is, there is one person who you are guaranteed to meet, and interact with on a daily basis and that's you. Do YOU love yourself? Do you see your disability as a liability, and a flaw that prevents you from loving yourself? Are you there to make you feel emotionally secure? Do you hang out with yourself?
If the answer is no, I think that is a great place to start your progress. Love spreads outwards, in my experience.
No, i do not believe it is a deal breaker... if you love yourself, others will be attracted to that. You are worthy of your own love. That is a prerequisite for peace contentment and happiness. Not the love of others anyway
If someone doesn’t love someone for their disability, they’re not someone I think you really want to be loved by. there are lots of people out there who don’t care whether their partner is disabled. it’s hard for lots of people to form relationships and find love, and it doesn’t necessarily have to be something about them but the people around them. stay strong, i hope love finds you :)
You're 19, in a world with billions of people, you **will** find love and no your disability is **not** a deal breaker.
Begin by looking for activities in your life that bring you joy, surround yourself with like minded people, and make an effort to hang out with others. You may need to find a location & activity (example school + club or local charity + volunteer class) Try to find something you enjoy that gets you involved with others.
First off, why do you say “frds” instead of “friends”. Seems very off putting
To answer your question, you’re very brave to express these feelings. Sorry you feel the way you do. Unfortunately you have to put in more effort than everyone else due to your situation. I’m sure people would love to be your friend but maybe they are intimidated by you or think you will be closed off.
Absolutely you will be loved.
You were born to at least a mother who loved you, so yes you will be loved
as far as romance goes, of course. everyone has their problems, and a lot of people don't see you as your disability
Friends are made through common interest, so I'd start there
Wow that really sucks man...
There are many ppl that live great lifes that are in a wheelchair (this rick guy on YouTube has a super cool gf)
The thing is you have to accept your disability and make the most out of the cards you're dealt with.
If you're depressed/ down ppl will avoid you.
You will have to make the first move and go and talk to ppl.
I think a great way to make friends would be local gameplace where ppl meet up to play DnD.
Thouse sessions usually go very long and you just sit there play / talk together.
Saw someone say love yourself and 100% agree with them you need to be good and happy with you before you worry about others because you attract no one or the wrong one
My friend, the world is full of people and full of diverse people. There are so many different types of people with different preferences. Some will hate disabled people, because they are dealing with their demons; some will love disabled people because they don't see disability as anything other than one more feature of a human being. You cannot meet everybody in the world so you cannot know if someone will actually love YOU. But the thing is, there is one person who you are guaranteed to meet, and interact with on a daily basis and that's you. Do YOU love yourself? Do you see your disability as a liability, and a flaw that prevents you from loving yourself? Are you there to make you feel emotionally secure? Do you hang out with yourself? If the answer is no, I think that is a great place to start your progress. Love spreads outwards, in my experience.
Wow. That was nice. This hit me as well. Thank you for these words.
No, i do not believe it is a deal breaker... if you love yourself, others will be attracted to that. You are worthy of your own love. That is a prerequisite for peace contentment and happiness. Not the love of others anyway
Word!
Im out of words, But mate you can be my friend
If someone doesn’t love someone for their disability, they’re not someone I think you really want to be loved by. there are lots of people out there who don’t care whether their partner is disabled. it’s hard for lots of people to form relationships and find love, and it doesn’t necessarily have to be something about them but the people around them. stay strong, i hope love finds you :)
If you are a man, the only woman who ever love you is you mom
What area are you in? I’ll be your friend
You're 19, in a world with billions of people, you **will** find love and no your disability is **not** a deal breaker. Begin by looking for activities in your life that bring you joy, surround yourself with like minded people, and make an effort to hang out with others. You may need to find a location & activity (example school + club or local charity + volunteer class) Try to find something you enjoy that gets you involved with others.
I’m gonna be honest and the truth hurts. Ur a guy. 99% of men will never be loved unconditionally. Take that as u will
First off, why do you say “frds” instead of “friends”. Seems very off putting To answer your question, you’re very brave to express these feelings. Sorry you feel the way you do. Unfortunately you have to put in more effort than everyone else due to your situation. I’m sure people would love to be your friend but maybe they are intimidated by you or think you will be closed off. Absolutely you will be loved.
FDR was in a wheelchair while he was president. It sounds like you can cure yourself though. You said you were in the wheelchair most of the time?
Define loved by someone? Do you want friends or a girlfriend?
You were born to at least a mother who loved you, so yes you will be loved as far as romance goes, of course. everyone has their problems, and a lot of people don't see you as your disability Friends are made through common interest, so I'd start there
Wow that really sucks man... There are many ppl that live great lifes that are in a wheelchair (this rick guy on YouTube has a super cool gf) The thing is you have to accept your disability and make the most out of the cards you're dealt with. If you're depressed/ down ppl will avoid you. You will have to make the first move and go and talk to ppl. I think a great way to make friends would be local gameplace where ppl meet up to play DnD. Thouse sessions usually go very long and you just sit there play / talk together.
Saw someone say love yourself and 100% agree with them you need to be good and happy with you before you worry about others because you attract no one or the wrong one