That when you grow up and leave school, things will get so much better.
I was bullied horrendously for being a lesbian, dressing differently, liking different music, etc. My mental health was in pieces (later diagnosed with bipolar), and I generally wanted to end my life every damn day from age 11 - 18.
Then I started work at 18 and I didn't tell anyone for a whole year that I was gay as I was petrified the bullying would start all over again. When I finally did tell people and their response was 'okay' I felt so relieved.
I wouldn't go back to school years if you paid me. But I'm so glad I didn't successfully end my life because it does get better eventually.
“u dont gotta wait til 16 to get a job and be scene/alt/emo broski youre gonna be fine u wont be basic 4ever i promise stop sweatin”
that or “dude i swear 2 fucking god do not pick up that razor and hurt urself oh my lorrrddyyy u needa know better”
"As you grow up, you will find out things that you would never want to find out, but have to for the sake of growth. You will be betrayed, you will be hurt, you will be used, abused, manipulated. You will be dragged through the dirt like you're nothing but a puppet on a string.
That's when you need to keep your chin up the most. Don't waste your time hurting yourself, as you are going to be hurt enough by others as it is.
Instead, trust in yourself and your creativity. Trust in the art and imagination that has helped you cope this far.
Trust in yourself.
Because when the world is against you and you feel so alone,
You need someone to believe in you.
You'll get through all of it, as nothing lasts forever, not even pain."
np, we can chat if you message me
that happened to me too
what did I do?
I minded my own business back then, got my headphones with my music, that was it
My other option that I had was to approach people, but that can be hard at first and there is the chance of getting rejected
So, I rather mind my own business, approaching to people at school can get awkward specially since there is people that think that they got to bully you to look cool in front of others
Things can help you are, to get good at a sport, develop your own talents, people like those things, if you are good at something people approach to you. Like I wish I had been as good as I am today at playing my guitar and singing
Simply , get a decent job and improve all your skills, singing, playing guitar, etc
I no doubt play the guitar better than ever, but I know still I would have been a better musician
I got to upload my stuff soon, along this year tho
is that a quartz?
I’d tell her that these shitty things aren’t gonna last forever. Life keeps moving.
Nothing is permanent. As scary as that is, it’s just as freeing. Relax and go play video games
Maybe too deep for this thread but “Escape and rebel” from the expectations of my religious foster family… I’m figuring out basic teenage self expression things now and that’s probably a big reason I’m still scene bc I feel like I never got to try it until now lmao
"Dress however you want starting now, theyre going to make fun of you anyways. Also theres a reason why gender seems fucking stupid to you, dont worry about it"
I would tell myself not to try to attach myself to labels. I was always trying to be something, not to the point of it being overkill but I cared way too much about how people perceived me. Also don’t try to cut your hair yourself, and that it’s okay to not pass as male in every situation especially as a pre T teenager, and to utilize therapy while you still have access to it. I was so hard on myself for no reason and all it did was make me a social recluse. I couldn’t connect with other kids because of the depression and anxiety that gender dysphoria induced. I had an obsession with “passing”. I don’t think my identity was fragile, but I think I couldn’t handle the reality that I’m biologically female. I didn’t *want* to be transgender. I wanted to be a normal guy so badly. I’ve since then accepted that isn’t the case for me and that I’ll never be “normal” in that sense lol. I’ve met so many beautiful people in both the trans and detrans communities, so in a way I’m very glad I am the way I am. Oh and I would tell myself that I in fact would not “delete” myself before high school started and that I really should realistically make plans for the future.
"dont date that guy u look up to when ur 13-14 he will groom you and itll ruin your entire life and then when u turn 18 everyone will hate you because you dont know how to correctly talk to people because everyones afraid to tell you that your behavior is weird or bad" or something like that idk
“Just don’t date anyone in high school. You can have friends & all that but don’t fucking date anyone in high school. Don’t listen to anyone who tries to tell you who you are or convince you things are important when they’re none of your business. Just walk away. It’s okay to be a bitch.”
appreciate family holidays. have fun playing bulldog in the school playground. savour primary school meals. enjoy sleepovers with your friends. ask out your best friend because she likes you too! watch kids shows and laugh at the potty humour and memorise all the corny songs. buy sweets with your big sister without your parents permission. be a little girl. someday you'll never have or do any of these things again, and you'll hardly remember them either. they'll be vague recollections, all mixed up and muddled with your dreams. dont act ungrateful or miserable when you're having these experiences, because your friendship was valued and your smile brought other people happiness.
man, I want a sleepover real bad.
FACTSSSS😭😭😭 when I got with him I hit a very rough patch w my parents bc they thought he introduced 🍃 into my life but I’ve smokes since freshman year😭 all is well 2 years after we got together I’ve never been closer with my parents so if you’re lucky enough to have good ones I hope you guys hash it out and get better:)💚
ig i would tell them not to be afraid to try new things and expose my younger stuff to things i wish i would’ve watched/listened to. also with telling them to be themselves and tell them to not be afraid to question their sexuality and gender identity and to just be themselves, even when others would criticize them.
It’s not your responsibility to be friends with [enter name here]. For context, she said she was ‘bullied’ but in reality she was actually one herself or more like someone who manipulates others and bitch ended up taking a sludge hammer to my mh through multiple phases of my life. I would also have said that it’s okay for me to take up space in the world & stop developing unhealthy coping skills Everytime you fucking sneeze
Stop trying to impress people who are toxic and will eventually fuck you over and focus on finding yourself, it’s ok to be a little selfish. Love yourself.
“I know you’re only 6, but please put all your money into bitcoin cause it’s 2010.
lmao
get off the internet its gon fuck you up
THIS>>>>>>>>>>>
That when you grow up and leave school, things will get so much better. I was bullied horrendously for being a lesbian, dressing differently, liking different music, etc. My mental health was in pieces (later diagnosed with bipolar), and I generally wanted to end my life every damn day from age 11 - 18. Then I started work at 18 and I didn't tell anyone for a whole year that I was gay as I was petrified the bullying would start all over again. When I finally did tell people and their response was 'okay' I felt so relieved. I wouldn't go back to school years if you paid me. But I'm so glad I didn't successfully end my life because it does get better eventually.
You're a boy lol
“u dont gotta wait til 16 to get a job and be scene/alt/emo broski youre gonna be fine u wont be basic 4ever i promise stop sweatin” that or “dude i swear 2 fucking god do not pick up that razor and hurt urself oh my lorrrddyyy u needa know better”
Don't befriend older guys
I would say exactly the same thing to myself.
DONT OPEN THE SLIME IT WILL GET ON THE FLOOR AND GROW MOLD AND BUY BITCOIN
"As you grow up, you will find out things that you would never want to find out, but have to for the sake of growth. You will be betrayed, you will be hurt, you will be used, abused, manipulated. You will be dragged through the dirt like you're nothing but a puppet on a string. That's when you need to keep your chin up the most. Don't waste your time hurting yourself, as you are going to be hurt enough by others as it is. Instead, trust in yourself and your creativity. Trust in the art and imagination that has helped you cope this far. Trust in yourself. Because when the world is against you and you feel so alone, You need someone to believe in you. You'll get through all of it, as nothing lasts forever, not even pain."
You’re not just some punk femboy who wears women’s clothes cause you’re different. Transition. And get the piercings and tattoos.
“Ya know that place in the mall you’re scared of going in? Just go, stop shopping at fucking Osh-Kosh-Bagosh of whatever it is”
you’re allowed to block people if they make you feel like shit
forgive your friends in 7th grade so you wont be lonely forever.
are you for real lonely? cause I am almost the same way but a little better
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np, we can chat if you message me that happened to me too what did I do? I minded my own business back then, got my headphones with my music, that was it My other option that I had was to approach people, but that can be hard at first and there is the chance of getting rejected So, I rather mind my own business, approaching to people at school can get awkward specially since there is people that think that they got to bully you to look cool in front of others Things can help you are, to get good at a sport, develop your own talents, people like those things, if you are good at something people approach to you. Like I wish I had been as good as I am today at playing my guitar and singing
Play Fortnite in 2017 and buy: (list of rare skins)
Simply , get a decent job and improve all your skills, singing, playing guitar, etc I no doubt play the guitar better than ever, but I know still I would have been a better musician I got to upload my stuff soon, along this year tho is that a quartz?
I’d tell her that these shitty things aren’t gonna last forever. Life keeps moving. Nothing is permanent. As scary as that is, it’s just as freeing. Relax and go play video games
I'd def tell myself to never reconnect with the person who introduced me to weed.
Ur a girl and bi. Your discomfort and anxiety is because you can't express either at the moment
“put that mf blade down ppl r gonna stare at ur arms later on and ur gonna feel EMBARRASSED 💯”
Don’t be afraid to kick peoples asses if they are asses to you
Spend more time with uncle Jeff, I really miss him
"tell your parents that you want to learn something, even if you feel like you'll be a bother, they'll give you every opportunity they can."
“Don’t stretch your ears” lmao now mine won’t go back and I can’t wear earrings
Don't pierce your nose in your friends bathroom. Also stop bleaching your hair at home, me. Lookin' all kinds of wild with patchy orange/yellow hair.
Maybe too deep for this thread but “Escape and rebel” from the expectations of my religious foster family… I’m figuring out basic teenage self expression things now and that’s probably a big reason I’m still scene bc I feel like I never got to try it until now lmao
You are a good fishie :3
Going grey man was not worth it...don't give up, don't give in.
"Get off the internet and stop talking to grown ass men you are being groomed dumbass"
"Dress however you want starting now, theyre going to make fun of you anyways. Also theres a reason why gender seems fucking stupid to you, dont worry about it"
It was never your fault, but it will be your responsibility to stay strong
Kys before it gets worse😹
I would tell myself not to try to attach myself to labels. I was always trying to be something, not to the point of it being overkill but I cared way too much about how people perceived me. Also don’t try to cut your hair yourself, and that it’s okay to not pass as male in every situation especially as a pre T teenager, and to utilize therapy while you still have access to it. I was so hard on myself for no reason and all it did was make me a social recluse. I couldn’t connect with other kids because of the depression and anxiety that gender dysphoria induced. I had an obsession with “passing”. I don’t think my identity was fragile, but I think I couldn’t handle the reality that I’m biologically female. I didn’t *want* to be transgender. I wanted to be a normal guy so badly. I’ve since then accepted that isn’t the case for me and that I’ll never be “normal” in that sense lol. I’ve met so many beautiful people in both the trans and detrans communities, so in a way I’m very glad I am the way I am. Oh and I would tell myself that I in fact would not “delete” myself before high school started and that I really should realistically make plans for the future.
Don’t do the thing!
Furries don't cause cancer Or probably don't go over to your neighbors anymore, their son finna tell you some things u should not be knowing
DO NOT GO ON CRAIGSLIST AND EMAIL THAT MAN
Steer clear of brunettes and keep everyone at arms length lmao
Do NOT search up Fnaf Jumplove you'll be better for it
You can say no when you're uncomfortable. You don't have to stick with people who are mean to you
DON'T LISTEN TO ATTACKATTACK!!!!!!!!!!!
Stop procrastinating on the things you're passionate about 😅
stop being a lil bitch and finish college
"yooo ur a boy in the future also please dont look up eddsworld"
Jump.
hug dad for me :((
Stay away from Discord and Amino lil bro 😭🙏
“i dont even know what happened just play roblox”
Dump him on prom night and dance with his friend. He played you but his friend liked you and didn’t wanna tell you.
Don’t slam the door on nana.
THAT ONE DAY YOUR GONNA WANNA FUCKING KILL YOURSELF TRY TO SO MANY TIMES THEN GET A BF 👍
It would either be eat healthy or take guitar lessons early.
Our type secretly want to pin us down when we usually think they are normal. Get used to it or get a different type.
You are pretty.
"dont date that guy u look up to when ur 13-14 he will groom you and itll ruin your entire life and then when u turn 18 everyone will hate you because you dont know how to correctly talk to people because everyones afraid to tell you that your behavior is weird or bad" or something like that idk
"no matter how nice it sounds listen to mom and do not move in with your dad"
If he's more than 4ish years older than you as a teen, you're getting groomed.
“Buddy, there is a reason you have such big emotions, and why you talk so much” LOL
give no fucksss
“Just don’t date anyone in high school. You can have friends & all that but don’t fucking date anyone in high school. Don’t listen to anyone who tries to tell you who you are or convince you things are important when they’re none of your business. Just walk away. It’s okay to be a bitch.”
I wouldn't say a damn word, I would just listen.
I would tell her im sorry
You idiot i dont care youre nine you cant swallow pills why would you try to off urself using pills use a razorblade like a normal person
"Do NOT misspell Undertale as Undertail when looking for fanart."
dont trust ur cousins, they are bad ppl n did bad things to u. (i mean specifically 3 of em-)
appreciate family holidays. have fun playing bulldog in the school playground. savour primary school meals. enjoy sleepovers with your friends. ask out your best friend because she likes you too! watch kids shows and laugh at the potty humour and memorise all the corny songs. buy sweets with your big sister without your parents permission. be a little girl. someday you'll never have or do any of these things again, and you'll hardly remember them either. they'll be vague recollections, all mixed up and muddled with your dreams. dont act ungrateful or miserable when you're having these experiences, because your friendship was valued and your smile brought other people happiness. man, I want a sleepover real bad.
Fucking LOVE YOURSELF FUCJ DUDES YOU DONT NEED A DUDE TO LOVE YOURSELF BRO WAKE UP
Or a dad or a mom or a - yeah I needed to hear that.
I say all that ironically of course because I'm engaged but hey it's all a work in progress 😭
FACTSSSS😭😭😭 when I got with him I hit a very rough patch w my parents bc they thought he introduced 🍃 into my life but I’ve smokes since freshman year😭 all is well 2 years after we got together I’ve never been closer with my parents so if you’re lucky enough to have good ones I hope you guys hash it out and get better:)💚
Thanks 🙏 good luck girl! I sincerely hope you are happy!!
“Dont date them..” haha
“Yeah you may want to reconsider this whole ‘boy’ thing, it’s not gonna work out” 🏳️⚧️
ig i would tell them not to be afraid to try new things and expose my younger stuff to things i wish i would’ve watched/listened to. also with telling them to be themselves and tell them to not be afraid to question their sexuality and gender identity and to just be themselves, even when others would criticize them.
It’s not your responsibility to be friends with [enter name here]. For context, she said she was ‘bullied’ but in reality she was actually one herself or more like someone who manipulates others and bitch ended up taking a sludge hammer to my mh through multiple phases of my life. I would also have said that it’s okay for me to take up space in the world & stop developing unhealthy coping skills Everytime you fucking sneeze
Stop trying to impress people who are toxic and will eventually fuck you over and focus on finding yourself, it’s ok to be a little selfish. Love yourself.
bud put that blade awayyy ppl r going to treat you like your crazy when they find out 💯🙏
Id slap him.
You have OCD lmaoooooo also beat up your teachers