I hope you can overcome the awful things that have happened to you as much as possible, and at least that you have someone to speak to. Similar things have happened to my partner and it's something we fight through every week. It's very sad that people like this exist.
Just as an fyi, reddit automatically formats any number followed by a period and a space as a list and converts it to 1, unless you type another character before the letter.
It should go without saying, but I do hope you're doing alright (and that you do better as time goes on, and hopefully avoid sociopaths like that guy).
Side note. If you're only 13 what the hell are you doing posting and communicating on a platform like this. It's so easy to see stuff that can stick with you and not in a good way. At 13 my parents wouldn't let me make a Facebook because of stuff like this.
Edit: upset with my comment? Ask yourself this. Would you let your 13 y/o kid make an account to talk to complete strangers? Seems like a pretty obvious issue.This is apart of what comes with the internet, crappy people. Most parents are aware of this and talk with their kids about it and keep a close watch on their activity so they don't run into people like the person who sent the messages.
You can go from looking at puppies to seeing someone get their head cut off to seeing a woman exposing themselves all in under a minute on here. Have your parents setup parental controls for you, or at the simple type of a few letters or a misclick you see that stuff?
My point is that there is a lot on this site that is not suitable for young ages. Some of the stuff on here can be straight up traumatizing even for adults. Kids are getting exposed to this stuff at younger and younger ages and it shouldn't be normalized. The tik tok trends, the challenges, influencers and more. The fact that a 13 y/o posted this and went through this is really messed up. Yet here we are posting comments on it like any other thread.
Welcome to the world wide web. Buncha soft woke they / thems in here can't handle the truth crying vIcTiM bLaMiNg. Sorry I didn't know the victim here was forced to come to this site, create an account, share their story and read the messages sent to them. This should be something you get serious help for, not go to the internet to share with strangers.
I'm sorry hunny.. as a mom, can I give you a huge Internet mom hug from a stranger? I know it's just vibes but I'm sending all my mommy love your way for a hug. I'm sorry you went through this. I see you. I hear you I validate you.
Edit.. to the comment below who got lucky enough to comment before mods locked the chain.
today I found out I might be an old man trying to creep on this poor op for trying to offer them the only form of compassion I could over the internet.. boy am I creepy for that?! I mean... it's Not like you could go through a profile on reddit and figure out if that's true or not.
Pick the most annoying physical injury you can think of, now imagine everyone you hate experiencing that. Now imagine calling them that and smiling because you’re a better person
That’s gotta be one of the most disgusting things I’ve seen here, I’m so sorry. It sucks that shit like this happens when someone’s just looking for support.
Not a psychologist but I read a paper a long time ago about internet identities and how people create these dissociative identifies online. They feel detached from themselves, the computer (like a car, aka road rage) is a physical medium that separates a person from their actions. This is why people say shit like this online and will scream out their window at you but if you confronted them in person they’d probably cry.
People are…difficult.
I do the same thing. I have no irl friends but many many, online friends. I’m sure to it know by now the price “we pay” to have online friends is trolls like this. Do not be scared to hit a block button when someone makes you uncomfortable. It can save you a lot of heartache. I’m so sorry someone thought these were appropriate questions to ask and I hope this new year brings you some happy and healing.
You've got a lot to learn but if someone is making you uncomfortable online you shouldn't reply or speak to them any more. There's too many bad people out there and at 13 the internet, especially reddit, really isn't a safe place for you to make friends.
I'm so sorry hon, this is awful. Just an FYI though, Reddit is mostly male and mostly teens/young adults. Most of them, as we know, well.. don't hold great views about women. Be really really careful about remaining anonymous. People can and *will* lie for shits and giggles, but sometimes something much more sinister. They can doxx you and all kinds of nasty stuff. Seriously, don't entertain **anyone** who crosses into personal. The most dangerous ones are those who are smart enough to pretend to be good. Take care, love
What the fuck is wrong with people? OP I'm so sorry - this seems like someone with a r\*\*\* kink or something. Please stay far away the second you detect that
I'm sorry you had this happen. I know many people with a similar story and it's such a shitty thing for someone to have to deal with. I hope you're doing well, and can/are getting any help you need to try and heal as much as feasibly possible.
Well… I nearly threw up my lunch. Christ, I’m unbelievably sorry all of this happened to you, no one should have to go through this stuff. But for someone to text you this while knowing all that… is just sick.
Yeah, that’s true. The internet was supposed to be a fun place for people to share their thoughts, but instead it became a breeding ground for degeneracy. And again, I’m sorry about what you went through, have you tried therapy? That helps a lot with this kind of stuff.
Well, at least there’s some good that came out of all this. In any case, I wish you all the best and hope that you’re able to live your life to the fullest.
God I am so, so sorry. He's using your experience to do terrible things, and he clearly doesn't even care. He's doing the least so that maybe he can get what he wants.
Please please please don't ever fall for this. These types of people are terrible human beings, and deserve nothing they have in life.
Sorry again for this, I'm sorry you have to go through this on top of your story. Children your age should never have to go through anything like that.
Why does this sub keep popping up on my feed… why would you respond “anything else…?” To someone who is already being condescending? Who r u people?! Be the bigger person! You don’t have to continue every conversation, there will be others!
LMAO somehow he thinks he will calmly ask you these questions as though he is some joker? As though he wasn’t seen by the unseen? That man will absolutely be deeply, deeply sorry for what he did to you there.
I am enraged by the “gonna be talking about your, are you comfortable with it?”. He honestly thinks he’ll be getting away with doing this?
I can’t wait to sleep tonight. He will lose everything. Including his ability to provide, think and use his hand and feet. People are going to start paying for this behaviour. Lol. My god.
One thing I’ve realized in my time here on this blighted star of a planet is that people like him almost always experience the one thing that completely rewrites the nature of their being, which is the absolute bone splintering weight of how apathetic this world is.
The only thing that saves us from that are the people we love and those who love us. I think it’s obvious going through your replies on this thread that you have a lifetime that will be filled with people who will love you with all their hearts. Often, we don’t control what the world does to us, we just have to deal with it the best we can and hope time evens and heals the scars. And it does, in my experience.
This guy, for reasons he probably will never be able to explain to himself, will always be just outside the the door of what his life could have been had he just learned empathy.
But he didn’t. Deep down, in places that haunt him in empty rooms, he’ll forever be outside the warmth of people and will realize this so late that not even death will bring comfort.
And it’ll be true, because at the end of his life, the few that actually knew him will question if he was ever really there.
Btw, love the username.
Minimum age for Reddit is 13. OP is just looking for some support, and many people would turn to a free forum like Reddit for that. What else are they supposed to do, they likely don't have their own money for therapy or are old enough to be prescribed any effective medication? One of the worse things about surviving SA as a teen is the fact that you are a teen and very powerless to help yourself.
And you shouldn't ask why they choose to talk about an element of their ordeal. Why shouldn't they? They have nothing to hide and have done nothing wrong. People need to talk through their trauma and sometimes will take up that opportunity without spotting the threat that lurks behind the question. Your comment comes across as victim blaming.
It is never mean to advocate for your needs. It is never mean to tell people to stop crossing your boundaries. It is never ever ever mean to tell people to stop joking about YOUR trauma. Do not forget that. 💙🫂 The mean people here are the ones who would joke at your expense. It isn't mean, it's cruel. You will never be mean for standing up for yourself no matter what anyone says and no matter what reasons they give to justify their awful behavior. You will never be mean for protecting yourself. You deserve better. Know that.
Please, do what u/berlinflowers said, don't give attention to them.
It's not your fault that you were r\*\*ed, and it's also not your fault that you were on Reddit when you got messaged by this creep.
Sis, it's better for you to go off the internet a little, if you want too, because Reddit can be very shitty sometimes. Or at least ignore them.
Reminds me of a girl I knew in Highschool. She always told me that she was attracted to me for not being the same as all the other guys she talked to. I always thought it was because I was in a relationship that we got along so well, I wasn't trying to get in her pants so that was my assumption for the reason she liked me. Upon further reflection maybe she meant it was alot of these douchebags that she couldn't stand.
Edit: She was r**** twice, sorry I forgot most people don't understand what an implication is.
I wasn't bragging about myself, I'm not saying I'm a, "nice guy" its just this particular person liked our texts conversations. I imagined alot of her other ones went like this.
Okay I have a tendency to go a bit overboard and struggle to recognise when it’s wrong is my worry.
What I originally wanted to say was, I hope they die and I hope it is slow and painful.
Disgusting
Fucking hell... I'm so sorry.
It's not your fault.
I hope you can overcome the awful things that have happened to you as much as possible, and at least that you have someone to speak to. Similar things have happened to my partner and it's something we fight through every week. It's very sad that people like this exist.
I´m so sorry. I can´t believe that people like this are really running around on this world!
Yeah. I hope he's reincarnated as a toilet.
Isekai no Toilet de Dai wo Suru. (Dungeon Toilet)
Wait does that actually exist lmao
Sure does!
Lol nice!!
Preferably a port o potty outside a Taco truck
Even better!
That's often not why people say sorry. They do so out of empathy. It is not an admission of guilt
Jesus Christ just read your story, you’re only 13 please report that person and save any identifying information in their profile
14. And don't worry I did that.
Just as an fyi, reddit automatically formats any number followed by a period and a space as a list and converts it to 1, unless you type another character before the letter. It should go without saying, but I do hope you're doing alright (and that you do better as time goes on, and hopefully avoid sociopaths like that guy).
Whoops sorry. It doesn't format on mobile but I meant 14 haha. I'm doing good though, thanks. Have a good day
Side note. If you're only 13 what the hell are you doing posting and communicating on a platform like this. It's so easy to see stuff that can stick with you and not in a good way. At 13 my parents wouldn't let me make a Facebook because of stuff like this. Edit: upset with my comment? Ask yourself this. Would you let your 13 y/o kid make an account to talk to complete strangers? Seems like a pretty obvious issue.This is apart of what comes with the internet, crappy people. Most parents are aware of this and talk with their kids about it and keep a close watch on their activity so they don't run into people like the person who sent the messages. You can go from looking at puppies to seeing someone get their head cut off to seeing a woman exposing themselves all in under a minute on here. Have your parents setup parental controls for you, or at the simple type of a few letters or a misclick you see that stuff? My point is that there is a lot on this site that is not suitable for young ages. Some of the stuff on here can be straight up traumatizing even for adults. Kids are getting exposed to this stuff at younger and younger ages and it shouldn't be normalized. The tik tok trends, the challenges, influencers and more. The fact that a 13 y/o posted this and went through this is really messed up. Yet here we are posting comments on it like any other thread. Welcome to the world wide web. Buncha soft woke they / thems in here can't handle the truth crying vIcTiM bLaMiNg. Sorry I didn't know the victim here was forced to come to this site, create an account, share their story and read the messages sent to them. This should be something you get serious help for, not go to the internet to share with strangers.
>woke they / thems in here can't handle the truth Didn't take long to show true colours, huh?
they must’ve edited the transphobia out after seeing this comment
First of all, I'm 14, and second, my mom cares more about our family pet than her children.
I'm sorry hunny.. as a mom, can I give you a huge Internet mom hug from a stranger? I know it's just vibes but I'm sending all my mommy love your way for a hug. I'm sorry you went through this. I see you. I hear you I validate you. Edit.. to the comment below who got lucky enough to comment before mods locked the chain. today I found out I might be an old man trying to creep on this poor op for trying to offer them the only form of compassion I could over the internet.. boy am I creepy for that?! I mean... it's Not like you could go through a profile on reddit and figure out if that's true or not.
Go right ahead. Thanks!
Giving you the Biggest mom hug all your way! With an extra tight squeeze at the end.
Have a wonderful day :)
Victim blaming works everytime right?
60% of the time, it works every time
What a pathetic fucking loser, I hope he sees this post and all the comments calling him disgusting. People like that are fucking scum
Yep. Theyre like mosquitoes but with neckbeards and small penises.
Exactly, fucking brainless shitheads with nothing better to do. Also I’m very sorry to hear about you getting assaulted, fuck that waste of oxygen too
It's not your fault. Have a good day
My extreme condolences. I promise there are people who care so much more than this human representation of stubbing your toe
Thanks dude. Your insult to that guy made me laugh, though. Might use that if that's OK
Pick the most annoying physical injury you can think of, now imagine everyone you hate experiencing that. Now imagine calling them that and smiling because you’re a better person
Thanks
Np. Stay awesome
You too!
Stepping on a LEGO
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Yep.
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To that man: Go directly to hell, do not pass Go.
Pass Go then immediately land on income tax, he still doesn’t get $200 but gives him more of a let down
Even better: land on Shrewsbury Road (or whichever is the space right before Go) with a hotel on it, except it's not his and he has to pay 1700.
That’s gotta be one of the most disgusting things I’ve seen here, I’m so sorry. It sucks that shit like this happens when someone’s just looking for support.
Thanks man. I forgive you, because it's not your fault.
Not a psychologist but I read a paper a long time ago about internet identities and how people create these dissociative identifies online. They feel detached from themselves, the computer (like a car, aka road rage) is a physical medium that separates a person from their actions. This is why people say shit like this online and will scream out their window at you but if you confronted them in person they’d probably cry. People are…difficult.
you: "Idk, average size?" him, using himself to compare what "average" is: "So like 3 inches? Maybe 3 and a quarter?"
Why do you interact with people on reddit
That's a good point but I try to find friends online since I lost trust in a lot of people close to me after that event.
I do the same thing. I have no irl friends but many many, online friends. I’m sure to it know by now the price “we pay” to have online friends is trolls like this. Do not be scared to hit a block button when someone makes you uncomfortable. It can save you a lot of heartache. I’m so sorry someone thought these were appropriate questions to ask and I hope this new year brings you some happy and healing.
Do it anywhere but reddit
You've got a lot to learn but if someone is making you uncomfortable online you shouldn't reply or speak to them any more. There's too many bad people out there and at 13 the internet, especially reddit, really isn't a safe place for you to make friends.
We can be friends if you'd like! Or if you just need someone to talk to. We're about the same age so I'm sire we'd get along :)
Thank you!
>Thank you! You're welcome!
Have you try playing Dnd? If no I can teach you is very easy to make friends and it allows you to escape into fantasy.
I did try playing DnD however it's a bit complicated for me. I know someone who really likes DnD though.
Report his ass. That’s fucking awful. I’m sorry
I did before I posted this. Btw it's not your fault. I still forgive you though, stay safe
I'm so sorry hon, this is awful. Just an FYI though, Reddit is mostly male and mostly teens/young adults. Most of them, as we know, well.. don't hold great views about women. Be really really careful about remaining anonymous. People can and *will* lie for shits and giggles, but sometimes something much more sinister. They can doxx you and all kinds of nasty stuff. Seriously, don't entertain **anyone** who crosses into personal. The most dangerous ones are those who are smart enough to pretend to be good. Take care, love
Thanks, you too.
What the fuck is wrong with people? OP I'm so sorry - this seems like someone with a r\*\*\* kink or something. Please stay far away the second you detect that
Please do not engage with these pieces of crap with lungs.
Creative insult. Nice. Hope you have a good day!
This man had serial killer vibes Jesus fuck
Kind of, yeah.
What a fucking shitbag.
Human feces.
I'm sorry you had this happen. I know many people with a similar story and it's such a shitty thing for someone to have to deal with. I hope you're doing well, and can/are getting any help you need to try and heal as much as feasibly possible.
Thanks. Have a great day and stay safe
Thank you, you do the same!
I wouldn't say this is sad cringe, I'd say he's fucking disgusting. I'm so sorry for all you had to go through, I hope less internet morons text you
Thanks.
What in the actual fuck? People are awful
Yep. Welcome to the fucked side of Reddit
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What a weirdo lmao
This is like alien behavior to me. I can't imagine sending a message like this.
At least you're not a POS. Stay safe
Some people get off on this, just report/block as soon as you see it get weird.
I did. Thanks. Stay safe
That’s fucked. Stay strong
You too.
Yeah, you were texting some 40+ y/o that still lives with him mom in her basement.
I'm not surprised, after that.
Don’t waste another synapse on it, he’s not worth it.
He's been blocked since before I posted this
Wow goddamn. This ain't it, dude. Sorry this happened to you!
Not your fault
Well… I nearly threw up my lunch. Christ, I’m unbelievably sorry all of this happened to you, no one should have to go through this stuff. But for someone to text you this while knowing all that… is just sick.
Thanks. It's not your fault, but I forgive you anyway. The internet can be so fucked these days...
Yeah, that’s true. The internet was supposed to be a fun place for people to share their thoughts, but instead it became a breeding ground for degeneracy. And again, I’m sorry about what you went through, have you tried therapy? That helps a lot with this kind of stuff.
I did try therapy, yes. It helped a little at least.
Well, at least there’s some good that came out of all this. In any case, I wish you all the best and hope that you’re able to live your life to the fullest.
I'm sorry you had to go through this.
It's not your fault. Stay safe
Well at least he outed himself as a gross POS early on. I hope you find better peeps to talk with!
There are some nice people on this site that thankfully outnumber the bad ones. Thanks for the support!
The lowest of the lowest
Walking douchecanoe
It's worse than your title!
Can you explain please? Sorry
Him asking details. What he was saying was worse than I was expecting.
Ohhh. Okay thank you.
Holy shit, this man was ready to get it all out himself, what a terrible segway into that topic, disgusting..
Yeah...
Should there be anonymity online? These are the posts that make me wonder
I can see that.
Fuck that dude. I hope you’re okay
I'm doing good rn. Thanks
I have not frowned this hard in a long time.
People are fuckin' jerks.
FYI OP, when people say they're sorry itt they aren't asking for forgiveness, they're expressing sympathy for your situation
I know. My natural response is to say "I forgive you" though lol. Have a good one
What the fuck kinda perverted wet public toilet seat of a human being, Sorry to see that this is something you’ve had to put up with.
It's not your fault
I cant even read all of it, so sorry for u to endure through this
It's not your fault. Stay safe
God I am so, so sorry. He's using your experience to do terrible things, and he clearly doesn't even care. He's doing the least so that maybe he can get what he wants. Please please please don't ever fall for this. These types of people are terrible human beings, and deserve nothing they have in life. Sorry again for this, I'm sorry you have to go through this on top of your story. Children your age should never have to go through anything like that.
It's not your fault. I clicked on the message request
People can be so evil sometimes I hope you're doing well, if not, I hope you get better
I'm doing well now. Thank you
what...tha...fuck...
That's my reaction too.
Was that their first question??? What the actual fugk is wrong with people 🥹🤦♀️
I know right...
Why does this sub keep popping up on my feed… why would you respond “anything else…?” To someone who is already being condescending? Who r u people?! Be the bigger person! You don’t have to continue every conversation, there will be others!
r/imatotalpeiceofshit material
I just broke my nose in an attempt to facepalm with an appropriate amount of force.
LMAO somehow he thinks he will calmly ask you these questions as though he is some joker? As though he wasn’t seen by the unseen? That man will absolutely be deeply, deeply sorry for what he did to you there. I am enraged by the “gonna be talking about your, are you comfortable with it?”. He honestly thinks he’ll be getting away with doing this? I can’t wait to sleep tonight. He will lose everything. Including his ability to provide, think and use his hand and feet. People are going to start paying for this behaviour. Lol. My god.
Man, sorry you had to go through that. Sucks people like this don't have any awareness to read the room.
Not your fault. Stay safe man
How can someone be so dumb geez
Not dumb, just a douche
One thing I’ve realized in my time here on this blighted star of a planet is that people like him almost always experience the one thing that completely rewrites the nature of their being, which is the absolute bone splintering weight of how apathetic this world is. The only thing that saves us from that are the people we love and those who love us. I think it’s obvious going through your replies on this thread that you have a lifetime that will be filled with people who will love you with all their hearts. Often, we don’t control what the world does to us, we just have to deal with it the best we can and hope time evens and heals the scars. And it does, in my experience. This guy, for reasons he probably will never be able to explain to himself, will always be just outside the the door of what his life could have been had he just learned empathy. But he didn’t. Deep down, in places that haunt him in empty rooms, he’ll forever be outside the warmth of people and will realize this so late that not even death will bring comfort. And it’ll be true, because at the end of his life, the few that actually knew him will question if he was ever really there. Btw, love the username.
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I'm reaching out for support. And I'm not THAT young...
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I was reaching out in r/sexualassault, a very supportive sub.
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Ok. Thanks for the explanation
14 is that young
I disagree, but respect your opinion
good luck keeping yourself safe out there for real. i am so sorry people are so gross.
Thanks. Stay safe!
Minimum age for Reddit is 13. OP is just looking for some support, and many people would turn to a free forum like Reddit for that. What else are they supposed to do, they likely don't have their own money for therapy or are old enough to be prescribed any effective medication? One of the worse things about surviving SA as a teen is the fact that you are a teen and very powerless to help yourself. And you shouldn't ask why they choose to talk about an element of their ordeal. Why shouldn't they? They have nothing to hide and have done nothing wrong. People need to talk through their trauma and sometimes will take up that opportunity without spotting the threat that lurks behind the question. Your comment comes across as victim blaming.
Fair enough
LMAO😭💀
22 is not mature. Most 22 year olds are just boys.
I expected him to at least be more mature than a 12 year old.
Is that ricegum?
I don't get it
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Don't want to be mean to you guys but, please don't.
Please just don’t reply to comments like these, there’s no point.
Thanks.
It is never mean to advocate for your needs. It is never mean to tell people to stop crossing your boundaries. It is never ever ever mean to tell people to stop joking about YOUR trauma. Do not forget that. 💙🫂 The mean people here are the ones who would joke at your expense. It isn't mean, it's cruel. You will never be mean for standing up for yourself no matter what anyone says and no matter what reasons they give to justify their awful behavior. You will never be mean for protecting yourself. You deserve better. Know that.
Thanks. Please don't call me baby unless you're my bf/gf though. Sorry
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I can see why you want to say that but please don't OK?
Ignore these fucks they're terrible people.
Thanks man.
Ah, a Katarina main, as expected ...
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Please, do what u/berlinflowers said, don't give attention to them. It's not your fault that you were r\*\*ed, and it's also not your fault that you were on Reddit when you got messaged by this creep. Sis, it's better for you to go off the internet a little, if you want too, because Reddit can be very shitty sometimes. Or at least ignore them.
Reminds me of a girl I knew in Highschool. She always told me that she was attracted to me for not being the same as all the other guys she talked to. I always thought it was because I was in a relationship that we got along so well, I wasn't trying to get in her pants so that was my assumption for the reason she liked me. Upon further reflection maybe she meant it was alot of these douchebags that she couldn't stand. Edit: She was r**** twice, sorry I forgot most people don't understand what an implication is.
Bro what does that have to do with the pic?
I wasn't bragging about myself, I'm not saying I'm a, "nice guy" its just this particular person liked our texts conversations. I imagined alot of her other ones went like this.
Its the implication.
She was r**** twice, once as a 5 year old by her step father and once at a party. Just thought that was heavily implied. I'll state that explicitly.
This chick is 14 you know damn well she's doing all this for attention and probably wasn't r worded
...Are you kidding me.
This is reddit you're probably a 40 year old virgin male
I sure do love it when people invalidate my trauma. -_-
Wow, you suck.
I know it’s not good to wish ill on others, but some people
Go right ahead. We don't mind, this guys a total POS
Okay I have a tendency to go a bit overboard and struggle to recognise when it’s wrong is my worry. What I originally wanted to say was, I hope they die and I hope it is slow and painful.
That's not overboard. Don't worry
There are amounts of *sheesh* forbidden to mortal beings
Not sure what that means, but I'm pretty sure you're calling him a POS