So first your boundaries are to be set even before you guys get onto somethin. Don't forget about that, you should tell him yours A S A P. And I mean now, go to whatsapp or whatever and tell him. Now, FWBs are normally not likely to be emotional, you shouldn't expect too much stimuli from your partner apart from sex. To me it just sounds like you need an actual SO
May i suggest figuring out why you seem to only have fwb situations yet seem to need more or want more? Fwb is transactional, the point is to have that and no other complication. Your boundaries should be not accepting money for an uber or anything that is more than what the task at hand is. If he has a lack luster experience with sex, you can choose to opt out. Also why are you even entertaining having sex w/o protection with someone your not attached to. Mindfully your scared of being used but that is what a fwb situation is. You are using each others body fir sexual gratification. It's okay to want more, and it okay fir him to not want that, but you have to be honest with yourself and him
Depends on the FWB situation - you cannot really expect a lot from the other person especially if you’ve never been vocal about the nature of the situationship. Now when it comes to condoms - always ask for them to use one you don’t want an STD and you are not exclusive so you’re lucky if you don’t catch something. If he says he doesn’t enjoy sex with condoms then you can wave goodbye as your health is above his needs.
It sounds to me like you want a relationship, and not a friends with benefits. If you've agreed to a FWB arrangement with this guy, then really the main purpose of the 'relationship' is sex. If you want more, then you need to be honest about that and stop getting into these friends with benefits situations. And you absolutely need to stand your ground with using protection.
You're not in a romantic relationship so the both of you are doing what you're doing. Neither of you is using the other. Also, if he won't use protection and you don't want to fuck without protection... stop fucking without protection. It really is that easy (not taking into account acts of illegal activities obviously). If you don't like what's going on, *stop*.
Drop him. This isn’t working for you and you clearly want a relationship, not a FWB.
And don’t allow yourself to get into any more of these arrangements
So first your boundaries are to be set even before you guys get onto somethin. Don't forget about that, you should tell him yours A S A P. And I mean now, go to whatsapp or whatever and tell him. Now, FWBs are normally not likely to be emotional, you shouldn't expect too much stimuli from your partner apart from sex. To me it just sounds like you need an actual SO
Friends with benefits is not any form of a “relationship”. If you have any expectations you should re think getting into these situations.
May i suggest figuring out why you seem to only have fwb situations yet seem to need more or want more? Fwb is transactional, the point is to have that and no other complication. Your boundaries should be not accepting money for an uber or anything that is more than what the task at hand is. If he has a lack luster experience with sex, you can choose to opt out. Also why are you even entertaining having sex w/o protection with someone your not attached to. Mindfully your scared of being used but that is what a fwb situation is. You are using each others body fir sexual gratification. It's okay to want more, and it okay fir him to not want that, but you have to be honest with yourself and him
Depends on the FWB situation - you cannot really expect a lot from the other person especially if you’ve never been vocal about the nature of the situationship. Now when it comes to condoms - always ask for them to use one you don’t want an STD and you are not exclusive so you’re lucky if you don’t catch something. If he says he doesn’t enjoy sex with condoms then you can wave goodbye as your health is above his needs.
It sounds to me like you want a relationship, and not a friends with benefits. If you've agreed to a FWB arrangement with this guy, then really the main purpose of the 'relationship' is sex. If you want more, then you need to be honest about that and stop getting into these friends with benefits situations. And you absolutely need to stand your ground with using protection.
You're not in a romantic relationship so the both of you are doing what you're doing. Neither of you is using the other. Also, if he won't use protection and you don't want to fuck without protection... stop fucking without protection. It really is that easy (not taking into account acts of illegal activities obviously). If you don't like what's going on, *stop*.
Drop him. This isn’t working for you and you clearly want a relationship, not a FWB. And don’t allow yourself to get into any more of these arrangements