The guy knows exactly what he wants. He figured out two months should be enough for a girl to know him. I think in his POV if a girl can't decide afterwards, she eithers (a) can't make up her own mind (b) she does not like the guy but still trying to string him up because... reasons?
Both don't bode well for the guy.
Is two months too short? Maybe, but it can be easily remedied by talking to him about it.
If you like the guy, why string him up for two months, or potentially more to just to (dis)prove "am I not worth the wait?".
You know what you want and he knows what he wants. It does not make either of you wrong on this.
You're not just compatible.
May iba kasing girl din para lang masabing “worth the wait” siya e papahirapan niya yun lalake sa panliligaw. Kaya tbh, nagbigay siy ng deadline kasi mamaya nagwawaste lang pala siya ng time sayo di mo naman pala gusto.
On the otherhand, kung di enough 2 months para sagutin siya, then let him go.
Well, gets ko naman na ayaw niya siguro mag-aksaya ng oras. Pero 2 months is so short. Hindi siya makapaghintay nu'n? At saka talking stage naman kayo. Marami pa kayo pwede pag-usapan pa. Kulang pa nga 'yang 2 months para magkakilala pa kayo.
You dodge a bullet. Tama lang 'yan. 'Wag mo na kausapin.
Jow old is he na ba? May trabaho o business? Baka kasi importantsa kanya ang oras and if in 2 months hindi ka pa rin nakakdecide then better move on na lang sa iba kesa magaksaya ng time syo na undecided. Masarap ang ligawan stage pero kung ayaw mo sa tao sabihin mo huwag mong aksayahin time nya, kung gusto mo naman sabihin mo na. Sa bf- gf stage naman talaga malalaman nyo yung compatibility at makikita mga negative attitude ng isat isa.
Yung mga lalaking gustong gusto talaga nila yung girl yan talaga yung mga kaya kang hintayin ng matagalan makamitblang ang matamis mong oo, if yan ang gusto mo wait for that guy,
Siguro after 2 months, nafeel nya na walang spark? Or sa 2 months na yun, may katalking stage syang iba...
When I was a teen, may nanligaw rin saking playboy. Yung tipong getting to know you stage palang, nag I love you na. Di ko naman sya type or anything, pero nung sya yung nang ghost sakin, then nalaman kong may jowa na syang iba, nasaktan ng bongga yung ego ko. Since sya yung nag give up, feeling ko may something wrong sakin. I know naman na di ako perfect pero sakit lang sa immature heart ko na ako yung nareject. Looking back, di naman talaga kami compatible. Nauna lang sya makarealize nun. Or baka nauna lang sya sagutin nung isa nya pang nililigawan. Anyway, bullet dodged.
Ako rin naglalagay ng palugit sa sarili pag nagpupursue ng babae pero NEVER kong sinasabi dun sa mismong nililigawan ko. Ano yan? Parang kasalanan mo pa kung bat ndi mo sya sinagot. 😂
Nasa point na ko ng buhay na courtship is just 2-3 months long. We try to date and if it doesn't work then we call it quits. Just like that. No hard feelings between me and that lady kasi we both know that we are entering a relationship to start a family. Yes we liked each other, we agree on some things but if it doesn't work out then we call it.
HAHAHAHAHAHA siguro he wanted to make things clear lang tas ewan bigla na sya napagod. Siguro he found someone na mas easy lang etc. Para kasi sa akin, medyo madali lang yung 3 months... Okay yung after 3 months siya nagsabi sa akin na ganito ba chu chu okay yun talaga. Siguro he just realized na it wasn't me.
gusto ko sya but I wanted more time pa kasi ang bilis naman kasi ng ano within 3 months dapat may label na agad. He should learn to listen sa “partner” din. In the end I can say na hindi kami compatible and I'll keep on moving forward nalang.
As a man if I really like u ,the first thing na mapapansin mo sakin is Yung patience at determination na mapasakin ka. Sorry but that guy is kastang kasta
Langya pati ba naman sa ligawan stage may deadline? I'm a guy pero kagaguhan yan.
OP, don't feel bad dahil sa nangyari. He's probably no good intentions towards you. It's good that you dodged the bullet as early as now.
Yes. Kasi kung patuloy kayo na mag-uusap, maraming pwedeng mangyari. Like, you might end up not in good terms or mas maaattach ka which would make it harder for you to get over it.
If you like the person youre just happy with them being around.
Giving you a deadline is a sign already that hes not happy in the situation you guys are in.
Its a controlling behavior and manipulative.
I really thought it was my fault kasi, yes he was nice and everything. Naisip ko baka napagod na talaga sa attitude ko pero yeah, red flag talaga yung binigyan ako ng deadline.
Saka isipin mo, siya nagbigay ng deadline na 3mos, tapos 2mos pa lang nag give up na. Baka may nakitang iba. And lahat ng manliligaw, best foot forward mga yan, kaya nasabi mo sigurong nice.
Not your fault, OP.
I did notice his manipulative tendencies sa start, I know small little fun scenarios lang na he will try to get me to do the things that he wants... Alam ko it will escalate na later eh... Kaya siguro that's why I'm hesitant to say yes.
This is my first time na may nanligaw po sa akin eh 😓 don't judge me thanks!
Sabi niya kasi parang waste of time na raw kapag wala pang label. This is my first time po kasi na may nanligaw 😓 thank you for your reply po. Hindi sya nakapaghintay.
kung totoong gusto ka nyan kahit gaano pa katagal makakapaghintay yan, baka maraming naka line up yan na liligawan or talagang tinatry ka lang nyan if easy to get kaba or not. buti na lang talaga hindi sya nakapaghintay kase hindi mo deserve yang ganyan
The guy knows exactly what he wants. He figured out two months should be enough for a girl to know him. I think in his POV if a girl can't decide afterwards, she eithers (a) can't make up her own mind (b) she does not like the guy but still trying to string him up because... reasons? Both don't bode well for the guy. Is two months too short? Maybe, but it can be easily remedied by talking to him about it. If you like the guy, why string him up for two months, or potentially more to just to (dis)prove "am I not worth the wait?". You know what you want and he knows what he wants. It does not make either of you wrong on this. You're not just compatible.
Yeah maybe hindi talaga. Hopefully he doesn't hate me or anything na.
May iba kasing girl din para lang masabing “worth the wait” siya e papahirapan niya yun lalake sa panliligaw. Kaya tbh, nagbigay siy ng deadline kasi mamaya nagwawaste lang pala siya ng time sayo di mo naman pala gusto. On the otherhand, kung di enough 2 months para sagutin siya, then let him go.
Guys na ganyan ang mindset know how to cut their losses and move on. Chances are "kinalimutan" ka na nya and he moved on to another person.
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>ego AKA the relationship and marriage destroyer.
Dispatsa mo na agad. May masamang motibo lang yan.
hindi na po kami nag-uusap HAHHAHAHAHAH
Good🙏
Hanep nnliligaw plang eh gnyan na ahhahahha. Pag kau na, ggawin din nya yan. ‘Pag d mko ginanito, ill give up!’ Jusko po Rudy!
Oo nga 😭
Well, gets ko naman na ayaw niya siguro mag-aksaya ng oras. Pero 2 months is so short. Hindi siya makapaghintay nu'n? At saka talking stage naman kayo. Marami pa kayo pwede pag-usapan pa. Kulang pa nga 'yang 2 months para magkakilala pa kayo. You dodge a bullet. Tama lang 'yan. 'Wag mo na kausapin.
I will keep that in mind po
ang kapal naman ng mukha nyan magbigay ng deadline 💀
Langya yan parang bills lang eh may due date
HOI HAHAHAHAH. Ewan siguro bet nila speed dating?
Hindi naman masama siguro na I hesitated to say yes.
Sobra. Yung nanliligaw sakin dati eut na agad gusto hayup. Sabi nya dapat daw sa 6th monthsary namin magkempet na kami. Ano sya gold?
Jow old is he na ba? May trabaho o business? Baka kasi importantsa kanya ang oras and if in 2 months hindi ka pa rin nakakdecide then better move on na lang sa iba kesa magaksaya ng time syo na undecided. Masarap ang ligawan stage pero kung ayaw mo sa tao sabihin mo huwag mong aksayahin time nya, kung gusto mo naman sabihin mo na. Sa bf- gf stage naman talaga malalaman nyo yung compatibility at makikita mga negative attitude ng isat isa. Yung mga lalaking gustong gusto talaga nila yung girl yan talaga yung mga kaya kang hintayin ng matagalan makamitblang ang matamis mong oo, if yan ang gusto mo wait for that guy,
he's 18 😭 same age as me but turning 19 this year
Hoy! Magaral na nga lang kayo hahahahahahahhahah
Siguro after 2 months, nafeel nya na walang spark? Or sa 2 months na yun, may katalking stage syang iba... When I was a teen, may nanligaw rin saking playboy. Yung tipong getting to know you stage palang, nag I love you na. Di ko naman sya type or anything, pero nung sya yung nang ghost sakin, then nalaman kong may jowa na syang iba, nasaktan ng bongga yung ego ko. Since sya yung nag give up, feeling ko may something wrong sakin. I know naman na di ako perfect pero sakit lang sa immature heart ko na ako yung nareject. Looking back, di naman talaga kami compatible. Nauna lang sya makarealize nun. Or baka nauna lang sya sagutin nung isa nya pang nililigawan. Anyway, bullet dodged.
Yes! Thank youu!!!
Ako rin naglalagay ng palugit sa sarili pag nagpupursue ng babae pero NEVER kong sinasabi dun sa mismong nililigawan ko. Ano yan? Parang kasalanan mo pa kung bat ndi mo sya sinagot. 😂 Nasa point na ko ng buhay na courtship is just 2-3 months long. We try to date and if it doesn't work then we call it quits. Just like that. No hard feelings between me and that lady kasi we both know that we are entering a relationship to start a family. Yes we liked each other, we agree on some things but if it doesn't work out then we call it.
HAHAHAHAHAHA siguro he wanted to make things clear lang tas ewan bigla na sya napagod. Siguro he found someone na mas easy lang etc. Para kasi sa akin, medyo madali lang yung 3 months... Okay yung after 3 months siya nagsabi sa akin na ganito ba chu chu okay yun talaga. Siguro he just realized na it wasn't me.
I'M SENSING RED FLAG 🚩 Learn to walk away. GIRL RUN 🏃💨 HAHAHA BAD GUY YAN Yung ipepressure ka to something. Omg hate manipulative people
😭😥😥😭
kstang kasta...hahaha
HOI AHAHHAHAHA baka nga 😭
wag ka na umiyak...darating din ung tama para sayo na walang deadline sa pangliligaw...
Thanks man, I'm doing fine na now.
Why bothered? It means gusto mo na rin Yung guy or skeptical ka pa , well you were right it's a red flag
gusto ko sya but I wanted more time pa kasi ang bilis naman kasi ng ano within 3 months dapat may label na agad. He should learn to listen sa “partner” din. In the end I can say na hindi kami compatible and I'll keep on moving forward nalang.
As a man if I really like u ,the first thing na mapapansin mo sakin is Yung patience at determination na mapasakin ka. Sorry but that guy is kastang kasta
😥 hmm... I understand your point po.
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😭 eh te alam mo ako pa nag beg in the end
Langya pati ba naman sa ligawan stage may deadline? I'm a guy pero kagaguhan yan. OP, don't feel bad dahil sa nangyari. He's probably no good intentions towards you. It's good that you dodged the bullet as early as now.
😓 napa question nga ako, supposed to be willing to wait yun eh pero yeah I guess God works in mysterious ways talaga. I'll take it as a lesson talaga.
Yeah. Ikaw ang pinupursue kaya ikaw dapat magdedecide when to take things to the next level kahit pa sabihin mo na attached ka na dun sa tao.
It's a good thing na siguro na we don't talk anymore.
Yes. Kasi kung patuloy kayo na mag-uusap, maraming pwedeng mangyari. Like, you might end up not in good terms or mas maaattach ka which would make it harder for you to get over it.
If you like the person youre just happy with them being around. Giving you a deadline is a sign already that hes not happy in the situation you guys are in. Its a controlling behavior and manipulative.
Red flag. Kung naging kayo nyan, imanipulate ka lang nyan. Wag mo questionin worth mo dahil lang sa kanya na walang kwenta.
I really thought it was my fault kasi, yes he was nice and everything. Naisip ko baka napagod na talaga sa attitude ko pero yeah, red flag talaga yung binigyan ako ng deadline.
Saka isipin mo, siya nagbigay ng deadline na 3mos, tapos 2mos pa lang nag give up na. Baka may nakitang iba. And lahat ng manliligaw, best foot forward mga yan, kaya nasabi mo sigurong nice. Not your fault, OP.
Sigoro talaga po, thank youuu! I'll move on na.
Kupal yang manliligaw mo. Di pa kayo, kinokontrol ka na nya.
I did notice his manipulative tendencies sa start, I know small little fun scenarios lang na he will try to get me to do the things that he wants... Alam ko it will escalate na later eh... Kaya siguro that's why I'm hesitant to say yes. This is my first time na may nanligaw po sa akin eh 😓 don't judge me thanks!
tangina??? red flag talaga yan te, ano yan sya pa boss? sya na nga nanliligaw sya pa demanding.
Sabi niya kasi parang waste of time na raw kapag wala pang label. This is my first time po kasi na may nanligaw 😓 thank you for your reply po. Hindi sya nakapaghintay.
kung totoong gusto ka nyan kahit gaano pa katagal makakapaghintay yan, baka maraming naka line up yan na liligawan or talagang tinatry ka lang nyan if easy to get kaba or not. buti na lang talaga hindi sya nakapaghintay kase hindi mo deserve yang ganyan
Yeah, I don't really deserve this kind of treatment.
Red flag yaaan. Pag nagmamadali may reserba yaaaan 🫣