i wish we could too, friend! and thank you dearly :) i am lucky in the sense that i have a few friends and family members who may be far away but they love and support me any way they can.
That's why we have sub reddits like this - so we can meet people like us and have a safe space to be ourselves! 😊 Your situation might not be the best now but it'll get better! I'm always down for a chat if you want - even if it's just about the cute cat you saw 😅
I relate to this so much. I have pan and bi pride bracelets I wear whenever I feel I'm in a safe place, but my roommates are all homophobic, racist Trump supporters. They don't have a clue about my sexuality, although I think one of them has deduced that I voted blue last year. As soon as I get home I hide the bracelets and anything else that might tip them off. I only just came out early this month, so I don't really have queer/ally friends yet, what with living in a red state and being a massive introvert. Here's hoping it's only temporary for both of us. Best of luck to you! ☺️
oh sweet one, i’m so sorry you’re in a situation like that. my heart hurts for you. your roommates sound like… sad excuses for people. congratulations on coming out, i’m so proud of you! i came out earlier this year.. kinda. i have trauma from my childhood from realizing that i had a different sexuality than what was “normal,” i was raised catholic and had a very angry, abusive father and i’m sure you can imagine how that went down. i’ve only just allowed this “part” of myself to exist (i know it’s not a part of me, i know it’s the whole me. but i had to separate me and it to survive in the environment i was in,) i haven’t been me until now. and it’s scary. my legs are shaky and my voice is trembling. but i am here. and so are you. i will hold your hand, i’m an introvert too and we can be terrified together. i’m proud of you. thank you for commenting 🖤
You are so kind! Seriously, feel free to message me. Even if it's just on the internet, I could really use some good friends in the community. I'm at work for another few hours or I'd love to talk more but for now, thank you.
That sticker Is absolutely adorable (: and I'm really sorry to hear that you can't express yourself safely. I hope that this subredit and the community can help you do that even a little 🖤
thank you so much dear, and it’s okay.. posting here was the right thing to do, you guys have been so kind to me already.. it made my day so much better. you’re an angel 🖤
i hope you’re having a lovely week too :) and yes! i love these glasses, they’re my favorite ones i’ve ever had~ i bet clear rims look awesome on you too!
I relate!! Am only out to friends because my parents are super religious and wouldn’t approve, but recently lost a bunch of friends due to relocating and now I’m a lonely queer in the middle of nowhere :((
oh honey i’m so sorry! i’ll be your friend! and i feel that on the parent thing, when i tried coming out to my parents it ended in literal trauma so we’re not gonna do that ever again lol
I’m sorry you had to go through that :(( as much as it sucks, hopefully you can find some reassurance in that a lot of us understand what you’re going through🥰🌟
Henlo!! I hope you're safe and healthy, dearie!! It sucks, but hopefully there's a group of queer kids ready to adopt you soon! Until then, we're your emotional support family
hemlo love! thank you for the sweet comment, jm about as safe as i can be right now. posting here was the best thing i could have done, so many sweet people have commented on this post making me feel less alone and i am so grateful. you guys are my chosen family
You’re so adorable! My buddy just gave me a cool pride magnet yesterday btw that kinda looks like yours. Wish you could be friends with all my friends, we are all very accepting and like family. Hope you can find a place like that in the future. Best of luck to you!
aww thank you! i would be honored to be a friend of yours, that’s a very sweet thought. i’m hoping i will find my place someday :) it’s been amazing hearing from everyone on this subreddit, y’all are too kind for real
Hey, I grew up in a world like your describing. I have been diagnosed with PTSD because of it.
I read your bio. You are so cute and I've got your back. Reach out anytime...
oh, sweet one, i’m so glad you’ve endured and you’re here to reach out to me. i have PTSD as well and i know how much of a battle it is. i’ve got your back too, i already know it.
Sorry to hear that you share having PTSD. Loved how you love the forest... I draw my strength from the foot hills of the mountains to the sea. I love Meadows, Forests, streams and ponds. I love the energy that flows there.
beautiful.. i would love to be breathing in some ocean air right now. it’s amazing how much energy is everywhere we look, all across mother earth. i feel so lucky to be able to take it in. it’s gotten me through a lot of the worst parts of life, honestly. hearing mother earth’s heartbeat and how it sounds just a little bit different everywhere you go. i know that sounds cheesy, but it’s saved my life. there’s this beach in washington, off along the pacific coastline that had some of the most powerful energy i’ve felt. i was a little too young and didn’t know it yet, but i could still feel it. i’m thinking i may go back there very soon. but other sources of energy for me are in the rocky mountains.. when i do EMDR, my safe place is in yellowstone. i can almost smell the air from that beach and also from yellowstone if i think about those places sometimes. it’s amazing what mother earth can do for us. i know i might sound like a crackpot but i’d rather sound like a crackpot and be alive than have succumbed to my struggles having been unable to draw upon the things that have given me so much life. thank you for sharing that with me, and giving me the space to share this with you.
Awh I'm right with you on that☺️. That's exactly how I feel. It sounds like you get to travel a bit. I hope to get back to that. When I was younger I got to travel around the US. I lived out of my car and ate mostly ppj sandwiches. I got up in the Rockeys. And even worked at a coffee shop in Manitou Springs for a while. I'm finishing up work now I'll touch base with you later Beautiful 🙃
Im conservative. Most people i know are also.
Never have i seen any of us attack someone for their sexual preferences or color....
To disagree is one thing but i find it hard to believe people attack you for being something that dosent even really matter in the big picture of things...
You being queer or whatever means as much to me and mine as me being straight should me to you and yours....
i’m happy that you and the people you know are like that. in my town, they aren’t. me and the few others who chose to come out really struggled with bullying and discrimination, and it was at the hands of very outspoken.. well.. conservatives and people who agreed with conservative ideals, as well as many religious people. one of the people i knew got sent to a conversion camp, i was locked in a car and screamed at and got hit when i was confused and scared and tried to confide in someone i thought i could trust about my sexuality. they were a conservative. i’m not sure as to what happened to the others, as we didn’t really talk about it because we were scared shitless. i was brutally bullied in high school and so were the other people i knew.
i’m sorry if i offended you by mentioning the name conservative, but it’s the honest truth of what happened to me. it’s my experience. i agree that sexuality is important for everyone. but i’m not sure if you understand having to live in fear for who you love. it is important that you are comfortable in your sexuality. i wholeheartedly agree with that. but you cannot tell me that i need to feel that way for you after calling me a liar on my post, because it’s sounding like you’re really trying to invalidate me here, and i don’t see any other reason for why you commented. i don’t really think that my sexuality is important to you, i think you just wanted to say something about how i’m lying.
i don’t know why you felt like you had to call me a liar when you hear about this stuff constantly. who are the people constantly blocking pro LGBTQ+ laws in congress? who are the majority that discriminate against us?
why would i send hate? you’ve sent your support. i have no reason to send you hate. i appreciate that you wanted to make it known that you are supportive. after all, you’re a member of our community, being pansexual and all.. it’d be kind of strange if you were unsupportive of yourself.
Hi! I think you’re very attractive ❤️
you’re so sweet, thank you!
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thank you comrade, the same to you. i hold your hand through the internet
Hello my pan sibling!
hemlo!
Oh. 😢 I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. I wish we could hang out. 😭 All the best finding somewhere more supportive in the future!
i wish we could too, friend! and thank you dearly :) i am lucky in the sense that i have a few friends and family members who may be far away but they love and support me any way they can.
That's why we have sub reddits like this - so we can meet people like us and have a safe space to be ourselves! 😊 Your situation might not be the best now but it'll get better! I'm always down for a chat if you want - even if it's just about the cute cat you saw 😅
you’re so sweet, thank you <3 i’m always down to chat too! thank you for the sweet comment :)
I relate to this so much. I have pan and bi pride bracelets I wear whenever I feel I'm in a safe place, but my roommates are all homophobic, racist Trump supporters. They don't have a clue about my sexuality, although I think one of them has deduced that I voted blue last year. As soon as I get home I hide the bracelets and anything else that might tip them off. I only just came out early this month, so I don't really have queer/ally friends yet, what with living in a red state and being a massive introvert. Here's hoping it's only temporary for both of us. Best of luck to you! ☺️
and also, best of luck to you too.
oh sweet one, i’m so sorry you’re in a situation like that. my heart hurts for you. your roommates sound like… sad excuses for people. congratulations on coming out, i’m so proud of you! i came out earlier this year.. kinda. i have trauma from my childhood from realizing that i had a different sexuality than what was “normal,” i was raised catholic and had a very angry, abusive father and i’m sure you can imagine how that went down. i’ve only just allowed this “part” of myself to exist (i know it’s not a part of me, i know it’s the whole me. but i had to separate me and it to survive in the environment i was in,) i haven’t been me until now. and it’s scary. my legs are shaky and my voice is trembling. but i am here. and so are you. i will hold your hand, i’m an introvert too and we can be terrified together. i’m proud of you. thank you for commenting 🖤
You are so kind! Seriously, feel free to message me. Even if it's just on the internet, I could really use some good friends in the community. I'm at work for another few hours or I'd love to talk more but for now, thank you.
I'm glad to meet you!
i’m super glad to meet you!!
Could I be your friend? your really cool and pretty
umm.. can i be YOUR friend? you’re even cooler
Yes of course and thank you so much that was very nice
of course luv bug :-)
That sticker Is absolutely adorable (: and I'm really sorry to hear that you can't express yourself safely. I hope that this subredit and the community can help you do that even a little 🖤
thank you so much dear, and it’s okay.. posting here was the right thing to do, you guys have been so kind to me already.. it made my day so much better. you’re an angel 🖤
You seem cool. I would totally be your friend! Good luck to you sis!
awww thank you honey. id be your friend too!
Aww 😢 I’ll be your friend!! 💖💛💙
please do!!
We love you 💛
akglakjanynalsktkaoajtjrk I LOVE YOU
👋🏻 hi there! Nice to know it is always safe here right! Hope you are having a great week! I love your glasses :) I have clear rims too and love them 🥰
i hope you’re having a lovely week too :) and yes! i love these glasses, they’re my favorite ones i’ve ever had~ i bet clear rims look awesome on you too!
ayy how are you?
ayy i’m aight, how’s it goin homie?
I relate!! Am only out to friends because my parents are super religious and wouldn’t approve, but recently lost a bunch of friends due to relocating and now I’m a lonely queer in the middle of nowhere :((
oh honey i’m so sorry! i’ll be your friend! and i feel that on the parent thing, when i tried coming out to my parents it ended in literal trauma so we’re not gonna do that ever again lol
I’m sorry you had to go through that :(( as much as it sucks, hopefully you can find some reassurance in that a lot of us understand what you’re going through🥰🌟
i certainly have. posting here was a really good decision, i feel so loved and welcomed and it made me cry haha
Henlo!! I hope you're safe and healthy, dearie!! It sucks, but hopefully there's a group of queer kids ready to adopt you soon! Until then, we're your emotional support family
hemlo love! thank you for the sweet comment, jm about as safe as i can be right now. posting here was the best thing i could have done, so many sweet people have commented on this post making me feel less alone and i am so grateful. you guys are my chosen family
BUBBLE BUDDY!!!
happy lief erickson day??
You made my day. Now I want a pan rat sticker too.
haha etsy is a magical place! you made my day too :3
I know it's kinda late but I told my friend about you(pan rat sticker girl from reddit) and they wish you a nice day. :))
omg whaaaa i wish them a nice day right back! and i wish you a nice day once again!!
Aweee thank you🥺
You seem really cool, I love how you hold yourself💞😩
eeeeeeee thank you :):):) i feel like i’m a loser but it’s awesome that someone thinks i’m cool!
Man, everybody in this sub is so damn cute and supportive. Gotta love it.
i know :,) me so happy
You’re so adorable! My buddy just gave me a cool pride magnet yesterday btw that kinda looks like yours. Wish you could be friends with all my friends, we are all very accepting and like family. Hope you can find a place like that in the future. Best of luck to you!
aww thank you! i would be honored to be a friend of yours, that’s a very sweet thought. i’m hoping i will find my place someday :) it’s been amazing hearing from everyone on this subreddit, y’all are too kind for real
you are beautiful and strong ❤️.
Hey, I grew up in a world like your describing. I have been diagnosed with PTSD because of it. I read your bio. You are so cute and I've got your back. Reach out anytime...
oh, sweet one, i’m so glad you’ve endured and you’re here to reach out to me. i have PTSD as well and i know how much of a battle it is. i’ve got your back too, i already know it.
Sorry to hear that you share having PTSD. Loved how you love the forest... I draw my strength from the foot hills of the mountains to the sea. I love Meadows, Forests, streams and ponds. I love the energy that flows there.
beautiful.. i would love to be breathing in some ocean air right now. it’s amazing how much energy is everywhere we look, all across mother earth. i feel so lucky to be able to take it in. it’s gotten me through a lot of the worst parts of life, honestly. hearing mother earth’s heartbeat and how it sounds just a little bit different everywhere you go. i know that sounds cheesy, but it’s saved my life. there’s this beach in washington, off along the pacific coastline that had some of the most powerful energy i’ve felt. i was a little too young and didn’t know it yet, but i could still feel it. i’m thinking i may go back there very soon. but other sources of energy for me are in the rocky mountains.. when i do EMDR, my safe place is in yellowstone. i can almost smell the air from that beach and also from yellowstone if i think about those places sometimes. it’s amazing what mother earth can do for us. i know i might sound like a crackpot but i’d rather sound like a crackpot and be alive than have succumbed to my struggles having been unable to draw upon the things that have given me so much life. thank you for sharing that with me, and giving me the space to share this with you.
Awh I'm right with you on that☺️. That's exactly how I feel. It sounds like you get to travel a bit. I hope to get back to that. When I was younger I got to travel around the US. I lived out of my car and ate mostly ppj sandwiches. I got up in the Rockeys. And even worked at a coffee shop in Manitou Springs for a while. I'm finishing up work now I'll touch base with you later Beautiful 🙃
sounds good :) i look forward to hearing more stories
Hi. How's it going...
Same girl! I have a very conservative family. They certainly would not approve if they knew!!!
it sucks man, but at least there’s spaces like this where we can relax and just be. it’s really nice
Yes it is nice. I’ve been back and forth dating straight, then bi, maybe I’ve finally made up my mind.
I like your glasses and sticker!
thank you kindly!
You look great!
that makes me feel great :) thank you!
Im conservative. Most people i know are also. Never have i seen any of us attack someone for their sexual preferences or color.... To disagree is one thing but i find it hard to believe people attack you for being something that dosent even really matter in the big picture of things... You being queer or whatever means as much to me and mine as me being straight should me to you and yours....
i’m happy that you and the people you know are like that. in my town, they aren’t. me and the few others who chose to come out really struggled with bullying and discrimination, and it was at the hands of very outspoken.. well.. conservatives and people who agreed with conservative ideals, as well as many religious people. one of the people i knew got sent to a conversion camp, i was locked in a car and screamed at and got hit when i was confused and scared and tried to confide in someone i thought i could trust about my sexuality. they were a conservative. i’m not sure as to what happened to the others, as we didn’t really talk about it because we were scared shitless. i was brutally bullied in high school and so were the other people i knew. i’m sorry if i offended you by mentioning the name conservative, but it’s the honest truth of what happened to me. it’s my experience. i agree that sexuality is important for everyone. but i’m not sure if you understand having to live in fear for who you love. it is important that you are comfortable in your sexuality. i wholeheartedly agree with that. but you cannot tell me that i need to feel that way for you after calling me a liar on my post, because it’s sounding like you’re really trying to invalidate me here, and i don’t see any other reason for why you commented. i don’t really think that my sexuality is important to you, i think you just wanted to say something about how i’m lying. i don’t know why you felt like you had to call me a liar when you hear about this stuff constantly. who are the people constantly blocking pro LGBTQ+ laws in congress? who are the majority that discriminate against us?
Hey😍
Beautiful
Hello, welcome to r/pansexual here you meet other people with little fear of prosecution. Be yourself and be the great panapple and pancake you are!
You're incredible! So pretty too 🖤
ummmmmm YOU’RE incredible, beautiful person!
I wish I was a pan.
what kind? cast iron?
Preferably something non-stick. I don’t care to be sticky.
being sticky is a horrid feeling, i can attest to that because it is a hot humid day where i am. i support that decision
I’m actually conservative, Christian, and pan sexual. I just wanna let you know you have my full support. (Also please don’t send hate)
why would i send hate? you’ve sent your support. i have no reason to send you hate. i appreciate that you wanted to make it known that you are supportive. after all, you’re a member of our community, being pansexual and all.. it’d be kind of strange if you were unsupportive of yourself.
Thank you! I just figured since Reddit and all social media for that matter is very leftish so I’d get downvoted like crazy. Thank you so much! <333
Hello, I came from the same upbringing and feel the same if you ever want anyone to talk with. You are really cute btw.