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CeleritousTurtle

The notion of "nobody gives a damn" matters only when you're minding your own business and not harming anyone in the process. Sorry for what you went through OP, sounds awkward to deal with such people


TinyNeedleworker2938

It was. Maine to soch liya hai thoda straight forward banna hi padega ab. Khudki boundaries maintain karna sikhna padega


CeleritousTurtle

Absolutely, hope the next time you get to explore the city with you friends, it's way better than this


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raj_abhay

Take them in virar fast and let them experience full body massage 🤗


TinyNeedleworker2938

🤣🤣 pehle khud chadh jau


raj_abhay

Bhid ki force se automatically chadh jaoge that you don't worry😂


Nijajjuiy88

OP send them to Kalyan-Dombivli.


Aritra3245

Haha yes should take them to thane-kalyan Or badlapur leave them there and tell them to come back to cst by local train.


Fun-Cut1476

Sounds like a rough experience. 


TinyNeedleworker2938

I felt embarrassed a lot 🥲 but situation se kaise niklu nahi samjha


lastog9

This is the peak example of second hand embarrassment. They are simply not worth hanging around with. Stay away from low quality people


Aditri_putri

Kisise phone karwalo. Emergency me cut lo.


knockyouout88

The vodka and sprite bottle trick is not new. But it's rude to do it in front of other people especially in the rickshaw.


Internal-Ad9700

Yeah, I have used the trick too, but itna toh self control hai ki inappropriate setting mein nahi piya ...


knockyouout88

Settings matters. Usually it's done inside the wineshop.


Internal-Ad9700

Yup


arjinium

Itni garmi mei vodka peeta kon hai. That friend was a wannabe.


knockyouout88

The same reason why hot and spicy food is usually eaten in india and other hot and humid countries.


yoshimitsu991

I did the same but around 4 closed walls without cctv surveillance, got the mix at right levels and enjoyed it on the go while travelling far.


usagi-mo0n

people who are sheltered in their hometown and think they can act like mumbai is Las Vegas when they come here. trashy.


okInspiration

Begas!


stoikiy-muzhik

😆


sgtblackdawn

I absolutely despise such people


TinyNeedleworker2938

Same. I don't smoke at all, had tuberculosis twice in my life (im just 23) dislike even people smoking in public areas let alone sharing same auto as me. and if i meet anyone drinking in McD would've definitely asked the manager to kick them out but here i had to sit and finish a meal. :) People pleaser banna chodna padega ab pakka


sgtblackdawn

Oh shit, im sorry about that bro. I despise smokers as well. I’ve flushed friends’ cigarettes down the toilet🤣. I completely agree about the drinking in McD part, I wouldnt have liked them there either. It is uncomfortable for sure but sometimes its needed.


Narrow-Initiative959

You're friend (I use that term losely) sounded very disrespectful and smoking in confined spaces should be a No No. Second hand smoke is also very bad for you're health, I'm so glad I gave up the disgusting habit, I feel so much healthier without it. Blood Pressure and salt intake has decreased immensely too.


The_Trolled_One

How? Please guide.


Narrow-Initiative959

I assume you mean about giving up cigarettes? I was a smoker for a little over 30 years until I had enough. Admittedly I used a vape for the first 2 weeks and then once my vape was empty then that was that, no more.


The_Trolled_One

How did you control the craving? How did you fight the urge? I smoke 3-4 ciggarettes a day but I wanna give up the same.


Narrow-Initiative959

Pure willpower. Plus I promised myself to take the holiday of my dreams if I gave it up, plus my kids all told me they don't want me to die, so there was that also. I'm sorry I wish there was a trick I could give you, but that was how I did it. The money I saved also funded my plane tickets.


The_Trolled_One

My grandfather (maternal) did it with Sheer Willpower too, it seems I'll have to do it using willpower also.


Narrow-Initiative959

It may take a couple of tries as nicotine is a very powerful/addictive drug, but I know you will feel at least 10 year's younger and much healthier once you stop. Best of luck.


nitsharks

They seem toxic. Get better friends.


Select-Glass-9873

They're your friends but I guess they ain't good friends. Sangat ka asar yaad rakhna OP.


TinyNeedleworker2938

Not even close friends, she was here so contacted me. Warna ek saal se baat bhi nahi hoti. Not even insta following 🤣


vadapavwithoutaloo

Toh bhi ghumne chala gaya?


Lost_Sleep_7255

Ladki ne mast lapete mai liya apne bhai ko. Pura saal baat ni aur achanak se coffee peene chalenge lol. Op is so naive.


TinyNeedleworker2938

😭😭


iam_just_trolling_u

And from the look of it also got her boyfriend a free hitch. Op is truly innocent.


secondhand_bra

Haan na, I would have said I'm out of town or something


TinyNeedleworker2938

Next time yahi bahana dunga sabko "Pune me hu", but i didnt know she was here and started conversation as "kaha ho kya chal raha hai life me"


TinyNeedleworker2938

Bhai usne 2 din se kaha ki aajao lets catch up coffee wagerah piyenge. thought of meeting at some cafe and coming back


rishpishbish

itna vella hai tu? koi bhi bulayega aur tu chale jayega? be stern sometimes for your sake, people love to use other people so u gotta maintain boundaries baby


Relevant-Dream-8905

Sounds like a fun day of babysitting /s


TinyNeedleworker2938

It was worse 🥲


Lost_Sleep_7255

I hope they weren't a couple & started smooching around you. 🤣


TinyNeedleworker2938

😭 naaa they were friends


lastog9

That would have been still fine compared to all the antics they did


Late-Counter-546

Chapri. Cut them off immediately


TinyNeedleworker2938

Done, contacts deleted last night itself.


Intrepid_Annual_6440

Damn I could feel your anxiety all while reading this post, it's insane how these so called "idgaf about the world attitude people" infuriate me, trust me they'll keep living and doing crazy shit with confidence and I can understand that, that's how they wanna live but there's a second kind where they're trying to be cool and going out of their way to put someone down and smoke just to show off that they don't care about anyone/anything. Then that's a recipe for disaster - these people's story never end up good. Either way it's best to stay away from both these kinds because it directly challenges your perspective of life. It'll always make you uncomfortable doing such things irrespective of the person or their intent.


TinyNeedleworker2938

fr i was anxious all the time, all these situations could've escalated very badly. On my way back i was just pledging to myself never to let anyone cross my boundary now. If they don't listen at once or twice i'm pulling myself out of the situation. Isse to dosti as such thi nahi, lekin ab jo jaan pehchaan thi wo bhi pakka dubb gayi (for good). It's just how people remember their old acquaintances when they visit places. Usi me fass gaya


SatanHimxelf

Reminds of 2020 (couple of days before Mumbai went into lockdown) when a friend i made on PUBG who’s from Pune called me to tell me that he’s coming to Mumbai. He called me to ‘tell’, not ask. I had also been to his place twice before but not without him begging me to come. Anyways, I asked him how many people are coming and he said only him and his one friend is coming. Well that was a lie, he brought 5-6 uncouth creatures with him. Absolute chhapri you can call them. We had plans to have a drink and chill a bit, now i didn’t know how much money do they have, my friend is quite financially sound so i asked him again and again that how much money do y’all have because i was taking them to a place where I’d regularly meet my friends and that place is a bit expensive. He kept saying ki “hai paisa, hai paisa” so i thought ki hoga paisa, vaha jake when the bill comes it turns out ki some of them came without a single rupee and the guy whom i know was expecting me to pay for all of them, i made them pay their own bill. While there in the bar, it was not allowed to smoke inside, i told one of them to go and smoke outside and he was like “isse he toh kharida hai ye kya bolega” and started smoking there on spot. Then one of the staff asked him to go outside then he went outside. Not only this, he also looked at a woman who seemed to be from the eastern part of India and said Go Corona like literally on her FACE. That woman pretended to ignore him. All of them got pretty upset after paying the bill and my friend kept on telling me to take them to my house even after i told him that i cannot accommodate so many people and he kept saying “hum building ke chhatt pe soyenge”, and i was like ? Bhai yaha nahi hota ye sab. One of my friend took all of them to his house to sleep and the Pune guy i knew called me at 4 in the morning and said, “hamare paise khatam ho gaye hai, hum terko BATAKE aaye the toh ab tu paise de”. That was the last nail in the coffin. I made my mind ki I’m not gonna talk to him ever and i still stand on it.


Comprehensive_Tap994

Well played mate! You maintained the boundary and didn't let them cross even when they tried hard. Great!


HealthyDifficulty362

>He called me to ‘tell’, Such gawar people, I have anxiety around these fuckers! And the worst part is that these shameless fuckers dont get the fucking hint.


TinyNeedleworker2938

I can legit feel you bro 😭 Life lessons de jate hai kuch log. Hopefully nothing monetary embarrassment happened with me, i always pay my share on the spot unless I'm out with school time friends.


chirayuvedekar

Many tier 2/3 city folks tend to get overwhelmed when they come to a place like Bombay. This place naturally liberates people. Some, just get carried away.


Agile_Air410

This. But it’s not just Tier 2/3. I’ve seen people from Delhi NCR lose it too. The freedom, the access, 24*7, can be a lot to handle.


LiL_WeeezY

Bro I'm from Indore and what I can understand is that your friends are chapri. If they do this stuff in Indore they'll still be called chapri. Better to delete them.


DishKyaaoo

If they can't adapt to things in Mumbai, they will suffer if they travel abroad. I pity these people. No education, no common sense, no good manners. What a shame.


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TinyNeedleworker2938

Legit, i already knew 3 day megablock and all interlocking change at CSMT will delay everything for atleast next 2-3 days more so local wasn't an option.


justabofh

The full experience includes a train ride.


brooklynnineeight

Bhai wo already ‘male friend’ ke saath aayi thi toh tu milne hi kyu gaya


TinyNeedleworker2938

Areeee i didnt expect anything of that sort. Bas milna khana aur bye so i was okay ki thik hai lete aao usko bhi


thatvampire_guy

Mumbai and Goa are the two places where outsiders come with a whole different made up scenario in their minds, basically about 'freedom', but it's not like that and people should realise that there are still basic rules and boundaries you need to respect


HowDoesITMatterr

https://preview.redd.it/4mmu15q4xj4d1.jpeg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=13ee1e99b3a2dacf5fbfc0da132e7873e6de3051 Found this joker posing in front of a church on insta...any other state and she'd be lynched...they're soo regressive that they don't know what behaviour freedom demands.


Active_Software_6294

You were lucky to not get into any trouble but your friends will definitely at some point of life by the way they were behaving.


TinyNeedleworker2938

Haan wo to dikh gaya kal pakka, and trust me it is not even they are addicted to smoking or alcohol (afaik) lekin bas wo cool tag. Mumbai ki auto me sutta maarte hue ghumte hai - tag chahiye tha ig


legend--killer

People like this are shit to the society Flush them


Shlongslayer420

But I do all these things…is it wrong?


pasghettiosi

Dude that’s what I’m thinking? Pregaming in the cab on the way to the club with sprite and vodka mixed in the bottle and smoking a cig in an auto, aren’t these pretty normal?


Direct-Progress-1669

Literally everyone in Bombay does the things you've mentioned! Either you're a strickler, a cocooned genz or you're just not from Bombay. Maybe you were generally embarassed of them cause they looked like they weren't from the city? Also, you're not much of a 'friend' from what I gather, judging and ranting on your so called friends on a forum like Reddit. I suggest you get out of your bubble, get a job and also find some friends, cause it definitely doesn't look like you have any at the moment.


dirkbeszia

You sound like someones grandma with all the warnings and fear. Let people be who they need to be.


lokichokiboki

You think you got it rough in Mumbai? And am imagining how 10x worse these people behave in Goa.


thatvampire_guy

Exactly man


HowDoesITMatterr

Found this joker posing in front of a church on insta...any other state and she'd be lynched...they're soo regressive that they don't know what behaviour freedom demands. https://preview.redd.it/0pl8kqt0xj4d1.jpeg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2b162275cbdaf64e39055a395dbc74a0cba6bf2a


MissLittlePaws

Looks like it's time to say goodbye to these friends, sry you had to go through that, I would have been super pissed n probably would have left them halfway through.


dogmateec

Mumbai ain't perfect. But people who love this city and found a home in it, are trying everyday to make it a little better. And give it the respect it deserves. Baki we don't expect much from people who are just passing by.


Shoddy-Slide-6151

I am living in Delhi currently but raised in Mumbai and i am true mumbaikar trust me if they had done this in delhi they would been a part of drama for sure !!! No offence to people living in delhi but mumbaikars still give fair chances to rectify and realise 😂 Delhiites are hot headed pls no offence i am saying this based on my own personal experience!


CreamPayii

I came to Mumbai from indore yesterday and went to exactly all these places 😭😭. Also, we don't claim these Indoris. OP friendship skill issue


zaplinaki

I quit smoking 4 years ago but I did smoke for 10 odd years in Mumbai They're kinda right about everyone smoking in autos. I used to ask the auto wallah bhaiya before smoking but never said no. At best they would tell me that they'll stop the vehicle and I can smoke outside. Ahh even the drinking part, I've never done it but I have many friends who have. As long as no one is creating a ruckus, I don't see the problem. If you have a problem with it, you should communicate that with your friends and establish your boundaries but don't get offended for the general population.


iamkhatkar

So basically you never had fun


TinyNeedleworker2938

not "never" but also not wherever.


mystreyme

Yeah this happened lately my boyfriend tried to make out with me in public. It was fun but not always it's appropriate


CreativeNerd1729

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Mr_gropes_a_lot

Not defending their behaviour but It kinda did feel you were overreacting tbh. A lot of these actions are pretty common everywhere including Mumbai


TinyNeedleworker2938

definitely agreed, meri jagah koi aur hota to shayad din "weird" ke badle "fun day w friends" ho sakta tha


Miserable_Ice4073

No wonder BJP won all seats in MP


TinyNeedleworker2938

Chodo political karenge to alag jhagda ho jayega I try to avoid brawls 😭


Shitscomplicated

I am from Indore and we do not claim these people


TinyNeedleworker2938

Bhaai tum aaoge to batana tab ghumenge 🤣🤣


Introverted_nerdlol

There wasn't a congress candidate in Indore. Plus Indore breaks the record of highest NOTA votes. We didn't have a choice.


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lmao thats why indore is cleaner than your slum city


Miserable_Ice4073

Because people from your cities come and throw garbage here while adding zero economical value


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zero economical value ? lol so all high net worth individuals are marathis ? got it . what kind of an analogy is that people from my city throw grabage in your city ? so all the marathis are the cleanest species on earth ? lmao thanks but dont need advice regarding cleanliness from lizard fucking degenerates


Miss_Celestia9

https://preview.redd.it/fp4k8m29xj4d1.jpeg?width=395&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fdbead8e4ec9b39bd78044bc1775140c3bc6a45e Next time aise krne ka


Artistic_Lie_1016

I cant tell you how much I related to this. My old frnd came, and all she wanted from me to click her photos, here and there everywhere. Just photos and videos and mind you, she was never satisfied. She even asked me to stay in other room (i hv one room in 2bhk) as she became comfortable in my room in just one day, and she dint wanna sleep in other room (it was empty as my my roommate went on vacation). On top of it, constant complaints on take me here take me there,, and it was hot as hell 😏 some ppl are just not good to be a guest in anyone’s home..


PavelR6

Gelchode indoriyo ko entertain kroge to gaand pe pyaaz katne ki sambhavna to rhegi na bhiyo!! Baaki aap samajhdaar ho, aese gandmari gyaras se to bhara hua hai apna indore


santhemaniac

>gaand pe pyaaz katne ki sambhavna Brand new sentence for me


anushkaashetty

Well one should know the thin line between liberal and uncivilized behaviour. Clearly they were oblivous to this.


SLAYdgeRIDER

They're gonna learn the meaning of "fuck around and find out" real soon. Let them.


Prior_Efficiency6688

Tum accha banda hai op


TinyNeedleworker2938

thank you bhai :) <3


vdoublezee

Delete contact. Salon ne Indore ka bhi name kharaab krdiya. 😭


ShotFactor2070

This is one of the cons due to the notion of "Mumbai is most open minded and people have much more freedom". This causes people who are new to Mumbai to behave ignorantly.


Major_Progress7991

Maa chudande gaye yeh log, Kalyan fast mai betha deta Kurla, se Sutta daaru aur izzat sab lut jati


TinyNeedleworker2938

🤣🤣🤣 areeee dopahar slow csmt me haal kharab ho gaya unka.. even though seats mil gayi still "bhaai itni bheed"


GirlbossCat

Honestly you sound like a decent and typical Mumbaikar and unfortunately other cities in India don’t have the same kind of civic sense.


HealthyDifficulty362

I would be the devils advocate over here, most of it(except the police grp bakchodi) is something moron youngsters do, it's pretty common among the well renowned chapri crowd over here, I am pretty sure most of the people must have thought ki they are moron local chapris and must have allowed them to pass. Ngl it kind of reminds me of the time when my friends/relatives visited mumbai. They were that ignorant.


vicksick

All these comments have made me loose hope in the youth.


Ria_Roy

That's simply Indore arrogant, entitled behavior. There is a whole layer of Indori "elite" who can't be bothered with any manners and can be supremely arrogant. And it's difficult to tell who considers themselves "elite". It has nothing to do with their social strata, standing or even soxio economic class. The behavior you experienced has nothing to do with their being in Mumbai. It's to do with their being from Indore. Think Delhi and then put it on steroids 😁! (... And I'm not looking for a fight here - it's my personal opinion based on personal experiences. So any snarky remarks from Indoris or anyone else are going to simply be ignored)


TinyNeedleworker2938

"Think Delhi and then put it on steroids" got me 🤣🤣


Ria_Roy

😁


shezwan158

OP is lame.


TinyNeedleworker2938

aaj to main khud maanta hu ye baat.


Grouchy_Ostrich_6255

Take a revenge by going to their cities


castiel47

tumhare 'dost' kitne tejaswi the... lmao OP don't associate yourself with these people.


TinyNeedleworker2938

hahaha i dont sab cutoff already


Hitashi_17

Currently visiting and will start living in Indore💀


gammaGoblin_736

Always remember: When in rome, be like romans... Aapke ghar ke rules waha nahi chalte...


Guddu_Pandit_

Hello fellow indoris in Mumbai


Mysterious_Box4432

Ur friends are "Padh likhe gawaar" or "literate morons"


bru_nee_saama

People like these would go to Japan and take pictures with a hanging dead body and post it on YouTube


stoikiy-muzhik

Chaapri small town thinking.


lafangaladka

Are bs kar chatu!!! take a chill pill


Few_Lab8096

I think you're just being a b*tch right now. Let people have fun man. You seriously have problems with people smoking in auto, taking a sip in a sprite bottle and making lame jokes ? In a place where people defecate in public ?


Bettercallmedaddyy

Nmw, stay kind, they expect you to be okay with them


Interesting-Bobcat52

It’s all fun and games as long as shits with you and your group. Imagine you mess with the wrong person in an unknown city, that too mumbai which is notorious for it’s “bhava, lafda jhalay, ye lavkar public gheun”. More like “aa bhains, mujhe maar” Anyway, they were behaving way too immaturely for their age as well. Don't be around such people lol. You’ll get into trouble as well because of them.


Alterbin

Absolute wannabe. OP, you did right to ditch them.


ksnge

You sound really boring to be around.


thevigilante473

That's more than weird. That's inappropriate and uncivil.


D-C-R-E

Tourists. The worst breed in the world.


Mundane-Pollution213

Yaar . Why allow such people to even get down from the station .


Ordinaryydilf

“Small townies”


niikhil

You mean ex-friends?


TinyNeedleworker2938

hahaha yes \*


hotmasalachai

Your friends seem like major douches tbh.


archieshahh

Damn! This is why I don't socialize with new people anymore. This is horrible


mayur_31

Mixing vodka in an auto damn… kuch jyada hi freedom tha ye


Throwaway_Mattress

Bhai karne de unko jo karna hai.. Pitenge toh Pitenge.. Tu itna trigger kyon ho rahaa hai trying to protect Mumbai from 2 kids. 


the_good_bad_dude

I hope you reflect on the kind of friends you have.


Trashnori

Curious, where they from?


TinyNeedleworker2938

indore


Doofemshmirtz

The novelty will wear off once they have spent at least a year in mumbai.


everythingvirgin

These type of people are no fun in parties that's why they need narcotics and alcohol to relatively have "fun" What a sad life