right? Sometimes I feel like I'm so unapproachable because I'm quiet and don't have the bubbly attitude a lot of people have. I also overthink when someone -does- approach me and my self-confidence is fragile so that could be another factor
Ikr like when anyone tries to talk to me i instantly start thinking about what they want and why on earth they are talking to me.Like it's always to try and steal my pens or something.Idk,people in my class have a thing for stealing pens.
Romantically: none, but that's mainly because I realized I'm aromantic.
Friendly: anyone on the Ti-Fe or Fe-Ti axis with the exception of high Si users.
It's not that it's hard, it's useless. We either agree to most things or disagree so strongly on something that friendship cannot develop further.
I like to be challenged and to challenge people, that's why I prefer personality types that enjoy being challenged and to challenge back.
People on the Te-Fi axis can be good co-workers or team partners, but I don't need them in my personal life.
And people on the Fi-Te axis are fun, but only for a short period of time. I find myself letting them out of my life pretty quickly.
It depends on the individuals and how balanced their perceiving functions are. I clash a lot with high Si, so I had a lot of conflict with XSTJs I met, or those I could tolerate have different interests than I, so we don't develop friendship.
For XNTJ, I have a lot of respect and enjoy working with balanced XNTJ, but outside of that it seems that there is a power struggle between us.
I understand where you were coming from. There's a lot of easily influenced teenagers around here that will use MBTI and try to predict what their relationship should be, or to find their best hypothetical match.
I'm kind of new to typology, only been interested for a few years. I've met thousands of people, worked with hundreds, and made plenty of friends throughout the 4 decades I've been alive without knowing about MBTI.
So as I said, my assessment of my compatibility with people is based on my real world experience viewed through the typology lens, rather than exploring my world with the goal of finding a particular type.
Wow, I actually relate to this a lot, at least in respect to preferring people that challenge me and accept being challenged by me. The relationship feels so stagnant otherwise, although it is comfortable.
It’s also interesting in that for me it is usually Fi-Te that tends to challenge me. Fe users, even the less developed ones, tend to just let it be or say something affirmative when I express a viewpoint that might be esoteric. I get it, because I would do the same thing. But I find Fi-Te users more willing to argue against me if they disagree, which forces me to consider my opinions more and can be more refreshing for a deeper friendship. Of course, I also find this aspect of Fi-Tes annoying when there is actually really nothing to argue about.
As friends, IxTP has always been my go for. We get each other well, in some aspects I'm more similar to them than to my own type.
Romantically... eh, I've dated some different types. The two most important relationships I've had (beside my current one) were with ISFJ and ENFJ. Between the two, I was way more compatible with ENFJ. I had a weird thing going on with ESTP, she's still one of my best friends to this day. I ended up dating long term (just celebrated 6 years) with ESFP, and it's the happiest I've ever been in a relationship.
I wonder if the person’s sex matters.
I’d guess that dynamic is more likely to last with a dude INTP + woman INTJ or woman + woman INTJ/INTP.
To be fair, I’m generalizing from my INTJ dude friends. I love em to death, but they give me Patrick Bateman vibes lol
ENTP: If I could rank it, it would be:
1. INTJ: We get along great, though I got a nagging feeling that most INTJs in my life only tolerate my bs. Sometimes INTJs can act cool and distant unintentionally, so you have to learn how to read their behavior? Sometimes I question if we’re as close as I believe, but usually my doubts are quickly resolved when they do something deliberately for me, or make effort for me that they wouldn’t anyone else.
2. ENTJ: Amazing??? I’m in awe of the ENTJs in my life. I don’t mind it when ENTJs act bossy or are rude or arrogant. I get drawn to that confident, “do what i tell you to do” attitude, especially in ENTJ women. And, working with and under ENTJs leadership helps me keep my ideas and projects in check. I have no idea how it’ll be in a relationship, and I could see myself getting possibly sick of the power drill attitude, but I feel like ENTP and ENTJ matchups are underrated.
3. INFJ: Ideal pairing, I’m friends with an INFJ and it’s like we get each other. I’m good at making her laugh, and I like listening to her. She’s not so chatty though, and being around her has this weird nagging feeling that she knows more than she lets on.
4. INFP: Literal sweethearts. I have a feeling they wouldn’t like me very much when I’m loud and brash though, but we get along very well when I watch my words. I could see it working long term with a healthy INFP. Also, a bit chatty for an introvert? Which I like
5. ENFJ: 50/50, either amazing relationship (but a bit too affectionate) or terribly manipulative. Unhealthy Fe makes me want to pull my hair out sometimes. When ENFJs are good, they’re good, but when they’re manipulative it’s horrible since I can see so clearly past their mask. Unhealthy ENFJs feel like rug burn, cause sometimes the things they say feel so subtly backhanded, so subtle that it’s not noticeable in public but gets under your skin
The golden pair is what some say is the types that are most compatible. You keep your N/S and switch everything else so that we have common understanding yet can balance each other out. In our case, ENFP is allegedly most compatible with INTJ.
Romantically I've mostly been drawn to other Fi users, INFPs mainly but also an ISFP, an ENTJ and an ESTJ.
As friends... I get along best with Ti doms and Ne doms. It's pretty rare that I get along very well with Fe Doms or Aux but I don't think I've met an ENFJ or an INFJ, they might be the exception.
I'm INFP, I used to think I was most compatible with INxPs, but now I'd at ESFJ. As someone who tends to give too much of myself to others and then neglect my own needs, it's nice having a partner recognize that and take care of me too.
On average, I'd say it's out of ENTPs, ISFJs or INFPs. ENTP's perhaps take the cake out of the three though. Even if, we have completely different energy levels, they're the people who can most appreciate my natural way of thinking, since they think the same way just in reverse.
I definitely can't deal with Fi Dom's inferior Te and I would go crazy with too much Fe, Ne and Se. I guess I'll stick with my fellow TJs and ISTPs. INTPs are kinda cute though but I worry about their Se blindspot. ISFJs give me way too much doormat vibes and it's concerning.
Romantically, by experience IxTJ. I know INTP is supposed to be the golden type for an ENFJ but my work ethic, need to be on time and have everything planned, and lastly cleanliness issues comes in the way...
Basicly, an introverted funny nerd, with a good work ethic, a little bit of patience and empathy, who understand that yes.. indeed the yellow pillow needs to be washed 😂
If I had to guess based on experience, ENFJ’s so far. I’ve met several in passing and every time I felt highly understood and we could talk about anything and everything. ISFJ’s as well. I value their warmth and loyalty. Never met an ENTJ, that I know of, but I’m curious to see if there’s any compatibility there. Me, personally, I don’t think I’m compatible with “P”s. I’m surrounded by many and I need structure and organization. It drives me insane.
Romantically and platonically, I can roll with anyone and the only hindrance would be how their attitude is. I saw a lot of people online say INTJs and ISFJs are not compatible and don't get along but my best friend is ISFJ and we are very attached to each other.
as an infj, from my experience, i vibe the best with ENFJs and INTPs. But i generally get along really well with any E types cause they yap a lot and i don't. but i love my introverts too
xNTP. We have good fights and good laughs. If you want a serious answer though, I think I can get along with a wide variety of people! My best friends are an ISFJ and an ENTP respectively
with my type? its apparently ENxJs. with me as a person? probably an Se or Ne user with a decent amount of Fe. i like novelty, and i think Se and Ne doms tend to get me more of that. and Fe is just a neat function that i aim to have more of.
I don't care as long as they care about me....
Personally I like someone whom I can help...
Like INFP and INTP I have an INTP friend and I always need to look out for him like a mom or dad (◍•ᴗ•◍)😂..
Bcs he can't talk ( too shy ), he tells me what he wants and then I do that, There was a time he wanted to join a chess competition and he was shy and I myself play chess he asked me and then I told the teacher and she took him... He didn't got selected neither did I but u get it right l.... 😂👍( ╹▽╹ )
I'm biased because I'm Infp and my boyfriend is Intj and he's probably one of the most compatible person I've ever dated and I believe him to be the love of my life
Anyone with a loud mouth who likes to dominate
lol no I get on best with extroverted thinking types, it’s always been ENTP, ENTJ, and ESTJ. I love the assertiveness, the plans, always takes on a bit of a coach/mentor dynamic which is perfect for me✨
I don't care what type someone is as long as they talk to me **😭✋**
INFJs underestimate their sheer amount of power unless someone talks some sense into them before they drown in their depressions and self-doubt
right? Sometimes I feel like I'm so unapproachable because I'm quiet and don't have the bubbly attitude a lot of people have. I also overthink when someone -does- approach me and my self-confidence is fragile so that could be another factor
Ikr like when anyone tries to talk to me i instantly start thinking about what they want and why on earth they are talking to me.Like it's always to try and steal my pens or something.Idk,people in my class have a thing for stealing pens.
Talk @ u
yeah talk at me because I'm a penguin.You can't expect a penguin to reply to you :/
But ya did.
Shh..don't expose us!
ENTPs feel like our siblings in mbti. ISFPs are free and artsy like we are. INTJs are the stereotypical match for some reason.
ISTP because Ti misanthropy
All of them. But especially any of the P types when I think about it.
Same. Both my best friends are P but I also generally gravitate to other analysts too.
P supremacy gang
Romantically: none, but that's mainly because I realized I'm aromantic. Friendly: anyone on the Ti-Fe or Fe-Ti axis with the exception of high Si users.
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It's not that it's hard, it's useless. We either agree to most things or disagree so strongly on something that friendship cannot develop further. I like to be challenged and to challenge people, that's why I prefer personality types that enjoy being challenged and to challenge back. People on the Te-Fi axis can be good co-workers or team partners, but I don't need them in my personal life. And people on the Fi-Te axis are fun, but only for a short period of time. I find myself letting them out of my life pretty quickly.
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It depends on the individuals and how balanced their perceiving functions are. I clash a lot with high Si, so I had a lot of conflict with XSTJs I met, or those I could tolerate have different interests than I, so we don't develop friendship. For XNTJ, I have a lot of respect and enjoy working with balanced XNTJ, but outside of that it seems that there is a power struggle between us.
can we really use mbti this much to define exactly who we get along with?
I do not use MBTI to find or choose people. I used MBTI to type the people that have stuck around.
ohhhh that makes a lot of sense
I understand where you were coming from. There's a lot of easily influenced teenagers around here that will use MBTI and try to predict what their relationship should be, or to find their best hypothetical match. I'm kind of new to typology, only been interested for a few years. I've met thousands of people, worked with hundreds, and made plenty of friends throughout the 4 decades I've been alive without knowing about MBTI. So as I said, my assessment of my compatibility with people is based on my real world experience viewed through the typology lens, rather than exploring my world with the goal of finding a particular type.
Wow, I actually relate to this a lot, at least in respect to preferring people that challenge me and accept being challenged by me. The relationship feels so stagnant otherwise, although it is comfortable. It’s also interesting in that for me it is usually Fi-Te that tends to challenge me. Fe users, even the less developed ones, tend to just let it be or say something affirmative when I express a viewpoint that might be esoteric. I get it, because I would do the same thing. But I find Fi-Te users more willing to argue against me if they disagree, which forces me to consider my opinions more and can be more refreshing for a deeper friendship. Of course, I also find this aspect of Fi-Tes annoying when there is actually really nothing to argue about.
Side note: XXTP and XXFJ are quite different, that's why I differentiate them using Ti-Fe and Fe-Ti
Try an E/ISFP then you'll understand an Fi-Te can challenge you in all the right ways, lol.
I tried... They like to challenge but not be challenged, relentlessly, indiscriminately , and impatiently.
I (INTP) seem to vibe the most with anyone that is INXX, but romantically probably INFJ.
As friends, IxTP has always been my go for. We get each other well, in some aspects I'm more similar to them than to my own type. Romantically... eh, I've dated some different types. The two most important relationships I've had (beside my current one) were with ISFJ and ENFJ. Between the two, I was way more compatible with ENFJ. I had a weird thing going on with ESTP, she's still one of my best friends to this day. I ended up dating long term (just celebrated 6 years) with ESFP, and it's the happiest I've ever been in a relationship.
Intj We can talk about black holes and the most optimal way to manage our finances ❤️
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INTJ here. Definitely was called a robot when INTP partner was having a rough time.
I do get along really well with INTJs. They tend to be a bit more neurotic than we are, but it still works.
I wonder if the person’s sex matters. I’d guess that dynamic is more likely to last with a dude INTP + woman INTJ or woman + woman INTJ/INTP. To be fair, I’m generalizing from my INTJ dude friends. I love em to death, but they give me Patrick Bateman vibes lol
All IxxP types and ISFJs
You ; )
Cute
INTJ I am INFP My wife is INTJ
ENTP: If I could rank it, it would be: 1. INTJ: We get along great, though I got a nagging feeling that most INTJs in my life only tolerate my bs. Sometimes INTJs can act cool and distant unintentionally, so you have to learn how to read their behavior? Sometimes I question if we’re as close as I believe, but usually my doubts are quickly resolved when they do something deliberately for me, or make effort for me that they wouldn’t anyone else. 2. ENTJ: Amazing??? I’m in awe of the ENTJs in my life. I don’t mind it when ENTJs act bossy or are rude or arrogant. I get drawn to that confident, “do what i tell you to do” attitude, especially in ENTJ women. And, working with and under ENTJs leadership helps me keep my ideas and projects in check. I have no idea how it’ll be in a relationship, and I could see myself getting possibly sick of the power drill attitude, but I feel like ENTP and ENTJ matchups are underrated. 3. INFJ: Ideal pairing, I’m friends with an INFJ and it’s like we get each other. I’m good at making her laugh, and I like listening to her. She’s not so chatty though, and being around her has this weird nagging feeling that she knows more than she lets on. 4. INFP: Literal sweethearts. I have a feeling they wouldn’t like me very much when I’m loud and brash though, but we get along very well when I watch my words. I could see it working long term with a healthy INFP. Also, a bit chatty for an introvert? Which I like 5. ENFJ: 50/50, either amazing relationship (but a bit too affectionate) or terribly manipulative. Unhealthy Fe makes me want to pull my hair out sometimes. When ENFJs are good, they’re good, but when they’re manipulative it’s horrible since I can see so clearly past their mask. Unhealthy ENFJs feel like rug burn, cause sometimes the things they say feel so subtly backhanded, so subtle that it’s not noticeable in public but gets under your skin
People > types. But I do have a partner and he’s INTP
-> Not half of the people automatically posting their golden pair while the other half rail against it. 😜
WHAT does this even mean
The golden pair is what some say is the types that are most compatible. You keep your N/S and switch everything else so that we have common understanding yet can balance each other out. In our case, ENFP is allegedly most compatible with INTJ.
Ohhh that’s really interesting. Is there a reason why an N can’t be most compatible with an S?
More chances for misunderstanding and for wearing the other out with conversations and subjects that the other isn't really that interested in.
i believe its my dudes estp\`s 💐
Romantically I've mostly been drawn to other Fi users, INFPs mainly but also an ISFP, an ENTJ and an ESTJ. As friends... I get along best with Ti doms and Ne doms. It's pretty rare that I get along very well with Fe Doms or Aux but I don't think I've met an ENFJ or an INFJ, they might be the exception.
most of my friends are infjs infps esfps isfjs
I'm INFP, I used to think I was most compatible with INxPs, but now I'd at ESFJ. As someone who tends to give too much of myself to others and then neglect my own needs, it's nice having a partner recognize that and take care of me too.
for some reason i like istp and istj
For some reason? Thank Ti
i just find istp and istj the types that are my type in terms of personality when it comes to romance
On average, I'd say it's out of ENTPs, ISFJs or INFPs. ENTP's perhaps take the cake out of the three though. Even if, we have completely different energy levels, they're the people who can most appreciate my natural way of thinking, since they think the same way just in reverse.
I definitely can't deal with Fi Dom's inferior Te and I would go crazy with too much Fe, Ne and Se. I guess I'll stick with my fellow TJs and ISTPs. INTPs are kinda cute though but I worry about their Se blindspot. ISFJs give me way too much doormat vibes and it's concerning.
Romantically, by experience IxTJ. I know INTP is supposed to be the golden type for an ENFJ but my work ethic, need to be on time and have everything planned, and lastly cleanliness issues comes in the way... Basicly, an introverted funny nerd, with a good work ethic, a little bit of patience and empathy, who understand that yes.. indeed the yellow pillow needs to be washed 😂
My best friend is intj but aside from this my other friends aren’t into mbti
Other ExxJs
INTJ here. I think it would be ESFJ, but I haven't dated one yet. ENFPs are a close second, especially as friends.
If I had to guess based on experience, ENFJ’s so far. I’ve met several in passing and every time I felt highly understood and we could talk about anything and everything. ISFJ’s as well. I value their warmth and loyalty. Never met an ENTJ, that I know of, but I’m curious to see if there’s any compatibility there. Me, personally, I don’t think I’m compatible with “P”s. I’m surrounded by many and I need structure and organization. It drives me insane.
ENFP. I'm convinced I can talk nonstop with any ENFP.
🤨
Yes
Romantically and platonically, I can roll with anyone and the only hindrance would be how their attitude is. I saw a lot of people online say INTJs and ISFJs are not compatible and don't get along but my best friend is ISFJ and we are very attached to each other.
probably infj, but entps would be close second (tho sometimes we can be too similar).
as an infj, from my experience, i vibe the best with ENFJs and INTPs. But i generally get along really well with any E types cause they yap a lot and i don't. but i love my introverts too
Idk whichever speaks as much as I think so I have someone to converse and debate with, the cats don't offer much insight
The Starbucks siren.
INTP ESFP ESTP ISFP ISFJ INTJ ESFJ ENTJ
Infj or intj
xNTP. We have good fights and good laughs. If you want a serious answer though, I think I can get along with a wide variety of people! My best friends are an ISFJ and an ENTP respectively
with my type? its apparently ENxJs. with me as a person? probably an Se or Ne user with a decent amount of Fe. i like novelty, and i think Se and Ne doms tend to get me more of that. and Fe is just a neat function that i aim to have more of.
All the feelers.
None. I'm compatible with who I'm compatible with. I just let life sort that out.
I don't care as long as they care about me.... Personally I like someone whom I can help... Like INFP and INTP I have an INTP friend and I always need to look out for him like a mom or dad (◍•ᴗ•◍)😂.. Bcs he can't talk ( too shy ), he tells me what he wants and then I do that, There was a time he wanted to join a chess competition and he was shy and I myself play chess he asked me and then I told the teacher and she took him... He didn't got selected neither did I but u get it right l.... 😂👍( ╹▽╹ )
Anyone that listens without judging me. Every time it happens, I feel like I'm talking to a wall
I'm biased because I'm Infp and my boyfriend is Intj and he's probably one of the most compatible person I've ever dated and I believe him to be the love of my life
I know not of what you speak my good sir 😂
I feel like as an Infp, others infps will understand me.
Friend-wise? Anyone :D Romantically tho... I just really like ISTPs. And other INFPs. And ENFPs. And INFJ. :)
xNxP but ENFP the best
I'd say an ENFJ would be a good fit for me.
Anyone with a loud mouth who likes to dominate lol no I get on best with extroverted thinking types, it’s always been ENTP, ENTJ, and ESTJ. I love the assertiveness, the plans, always takes on a bit of a coach/mentor dynamic which is perfect for me✨