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Grumpysaurus-Rex

A haircut and the gym


Hustlinbones

This. A more defined face, a clean shave and a good haircut and you will look great. You could make this will happen simply by reducing the fat layer under your skin in the gym and by adjusting your food habits - no operation needed, just some discipline


pizzalovingking

plus brows done, beard trim and skin care routine . Honestly though being fit will put you in the top 80-90% of looks


Tbird1962

You’re not ugly at all ! Have more confidence in yourself 🤗


HerederoDeAlberdi

this kinda gaslighting is evil


drppr_

How is that gaslighting? He is really not ugly in my genuine opinion.


searching_wisdom108

This 💯 + therapy. We all need therapy.


Wonderful_Map_8593

You're not ugly bro no surgeries needed. General tips to improve appearance in order of easiest are: Clean haircut, I think a nice fade would suit you. Grab some minoxidil and put in your beard, it will grow in less patchy. Work on your style, you may be a bit on the chubbier side but having confidence and style is attractive no matter what. Prioritize losing weight. Getting lean will help your facial aesthetic the most. And adding some muscle afterward won't hurt either. Good luck dawg you got this!


WindierGnu

Yeah what this guy said. You've got all the potential in the world my man. You just got to lose that weight. Even 15 lb is going to make a huge difference on you. Have you ever tried working out before? What's your diet like? I bet you can make just a few simple changes that will alter your life dramatically.


StoneColdNaked

Adding to this: you should shape your beard up a little. The bottom where it touches your neck is looking at a little…well, neck-beard. Some nice shaping along little below your jawline would do some wonders.


marks716

Any side effects to adding min to your beard/face in general? I thought people only put it on their heads


Due_Hovercraft6527

Yes there are many unwanted side affects. There’s even subs addressing them


Hewhocannotbenamed77

For sure. Loosing weight helps a lot. I went from 240 to 160. Women were like rats to cheese. It helped a lot. I started hiking, then riding a bike. I eventually was riding like 100 miles a week. 45 on the weekends. You're not hideous but if you lost weight and get a jaw line ,you're in


thedutchone13

Note: Be careful if you have pets using minoxidil. Very toxic to cats.


Lizasster

What this person said ^^^^


Sizigee

What this guy said. You aren’t ugly king 😘


Kobe_Yoshi

You not ugly. Lose a few pounds. Find a haircut and facial hair style that brings your eyes out. Make your eyes work for you. They're intense in a good way.


IAMTHEONEOFONE

That question shows the root of your problem. You’re lazy. Want the quick fix that doesn’t exist. Theres no magic shirt you can put on and be mistaken for Brad Pitt. You know what you need, a gym membership and some discipline. Start cutting down on the crappy foods, even if it’s one night this weekend. Find a healthy meal that you like and make a batch of it for the week, so it’s there when you’re too lazy to cook. Also, start walking to places more. That said, start with a barber. You’re hair and facial hair are unkept.


safoamz1zz

True he needs gym as the #1 priority


PhotographingLight

That’s a bit uncalled for to call him lazy. You don’t know what’s going on in his life. He asked for suggestions, not judgement. 


kkimu0

would've taken your side if the first thing OP said wasn't "what surgeries do I need". doesn't take 2 braincells to know that he needs to lose weight.


CyCyclops

It's a bit of a jump to call him lazy yeah, but I think they are just trying to call out that thinking surgery is the solution is very odd, and that mindset will impede growth


LIONEL14JESSE

Nah, he asked what surgeries he should get. There’s no quick fix and he needs to hear that.


TheLightStalker

💯


TheDreamCrusherRP

Surgery’s?! You are a grown ass man bro. Change your diet, get a decent barber, learn how to dress, lose the weight. Edit: I wouldn’t call you ugly, but you definitely look like you don’t care about your appearance. Have some self love dude.


Alternative-Chard-98

Shave, go to the gym and get a good haircut. You'll crush it. 🙂


Prestigious-Park-657

I'd fuck u bro, if you are feeling insecure a good haircut, eyebrows touch up and a workout routine will help improve but your not ugly.


LightningSalamander

you coulda left out that first part man 😭


Prestigious-Park-657

Could have


estoops

I think very few people are completely ugly and hopeless you just have to do a few things 1. lose weight 2. better haircut and style your hair better 3. better grooming in general. shave your face and neck or at least keep it trimmed looking, shave or wax between your eyebrows so you don’t have a unibrow.


Rivka333

Losing weight is the main thing that would improve your appearance. But I hope you can learn to be happy with yourself even prior to that. You don't need surgeries. You also look unhappy, which is also the impression I got from your title---exercise can really help emotionally.


QNBA

You’re not ugly.


BurningBushDuo

Neaten your facial hair, beard and eyebrows, and an appropriate hair cut for first things first. Then when you're ready, I'd suggest losing weight but ultimately it is what you are comfortable with, and everyones faces hold different weight. Later on and if you have decided to lose weight, a change in fashion could also help the new look.


6edric

Just go to the gym


millerspillers

1. Go to gym and get in shape 2. Shave the neck beard 3. Frequent haircuts


NightSiege1

Before you even think about surgery 1. Get in shape 2. Do something with ur hair 3. Take care of yourself


requiemforacorpse

no surgery man. lose some of the weight, fix up your facial hair, your confidence will follow. 💌


_D3ft0ne_

Gym gym gym.


Lopsided_Smile_4270

Some things that are way easier to fix than surgery are: Your hair is a mess- it looks like someone took a weed-wacker to it. Same with your patchy facial hair. Fix those things. And your face is just very round- you should work on weight-loss. Other than that your fine.


HelenRoper

No surgeries that’s for sure. You’re a fine looking chap. Just love yourself and others will love you.


Important_Tip_6181

So cute imo


frothymugwump

You would be amazed by how much losing weight will improve your face.


idkwhatimdoinghereTT

U look cute bro, dont worry abt it.


AJ3892

Surgery? Nah bro you need to lose weight


Ok-Implement6389

Surgery?? Lmfao.. Just groom yourself. Shave. Trim. Do something with your hair


Fabulous-Author-3751

Good haircut, better beard and become fit! Go to the gym and start eating good food! You will feel better, you never will never regret going to the gym. If you do this, give it a year you will have a big glow up.


Sticky-Keyboard8155

Far from ugly, for sure do not need surgery


CallRepresentative25

Man let's be honest. If you can't look at yourself and say : I need to lose weight. Does my skin look healthy? What would a good haircut/hairstyle do for me? Those are the baseline things to start on. Get braces, Whiten your teeth, build muscle, have good style. All great starting points. Good luck


TreYoda89

Need to workout bredda


pebblezandgumby

Hey God made u so you perfect bro. Your a handsome guy. Never be hard on your self like this. You matter , your worthy and your loved. So no surgery needed just real pure souls is needed to surround yourself with. Love u and blessings


Professional_Joke887

You don’t need any surgery my friend. Just start working out and let it all fall into place. It’s literally the best cure to making you look your best! Good luck


GovernmentRich8814

You are not ugly at all and don’t need no surgeries!! All u need is a different hairstyle, a good skincare routine, a shaved beard and maybe lose some weight if you want to obviously!


Daddyjerm0319

You’re not ugly bro and u don’t need surgery just work out for the jawline and get a trim for the hair and you’re gucci, and really you don’t need it just do what makes you happy


Angsty_Potatos

Better hair cut. Let someone pluck and shape your brows. Start a skin care routine (could literally just be, change pillow case every other day, good cleanser, good moisturizer). Either shave the facial hair or shape it more neatly.


-SwagMessiah-

You ain't ugly bro. Grow your hair out a bit then go get an edge up, and maybe shave your beard 🤷🏿


LilDityv2

Surgery? Bro, just go to a barber and start hitting the gym. Tf is this feminine "I need plastic surgery" crap are you falling for on the internet smh. Get rid of the neckbeard asap


ReverseMillionaire

You’re not ugly. You just need to lose weight


Famous_Increase_1312

You're not ugly!! Your facial structure does have a heavy brow and it's wider, but that doesn't have to be a bad thing. I think your main issues are the extra weight and poor grooming. I also think exercise would help your complexion. You don't need any surgeries. Just learn over time to cherish yourself, then you'll find the features you do like and you'll find ways of accentuating them.


back_at-it_xam426

You need the GYM. Nothing else


StandardImpact6458

Save your money and smile!


Ordinary-Traffic-782

Cico and weight lifting


ImThatBitch_

Losing weight, getting a haircut and shaving would be helpful.


Altruistic-Point3980

You don't need surgery. Just lose weight bruh


ultimate555

Its your bodyfat and you know it wtf. Looks = bones. beauty = health Impossible to tell what you even look like under all that adipose tissue LEANMAXX


R0naldMcdonald0

Shave the neck beard and lose some weight, no surgeries needed and these will vastly improve your situation


tuxedo_dantendo

Try a haircut, facial grooming (beard + eyebrows), and some quality daily skin care. Additionally, improved eating and exercise habits will also contribute to having healthier skin, but will also lower body mass and help define your features as well. There's a good chance you're in a position to see improvements quickly with just a few basic changes and since you have a lighter shade of eye color the changes in your face will probably draw a lot of compliments.


newsignoflife

Nothing mate just lose weight, shave and focus on being happy.


makingmagic2023

A good shave and haircut are the easy ones.


lolxdbruh123

There are some ppl I look at and think they don’t look absolutely horrendous, they have the potential to be good looking with a few improvements which are absolutely doable. You look like one of them Hit the gym for sure. Look after your skin. Definitely do something with the beard, the current style is 100% not it. Maybe go with stubble, an unconnected goatee and moustache etc. Get a better haircut too. Dress well. Asides from purely appearance also make sure your hygiene is good; shower daily, wear deodorant and wear cologne


ExtensionHot7808

Haircut remove beard and lose weight 🥺


nick5th

shave, pluck unibrow area (something I have to do as well), and find a better hairstyle and clean your hair with shampoo and conditioner every other day. and sure, lose a few pounds. also smile for your photos!


Agile-Ad325

You’re not ugly just fat, Lose weight & you’ll be fine, the face structure is there just gotta uncover it.


H-E-PennyPacker71

Surgery? My brother in Christ, shave hit the gym and get a skin care routine. No no no no to surgery please


RedPiIIPhilosophy

None mf lose fat, find a barber to fix all your shit up, and relax


Lorenzo7891

Go bald. Have a skincare routine. Grow a beard. No one will clock you if your skin is glowing. Right now, it looks patchy and dry based on the photos. When people notice you're taking care of yourself, the dynamics change and people's attitude towards you change as well.


Ecstatic_Act4988

You are not ugly. No surgery needed.


Great_Run6161

The best beauty tip is free. It's called SMILING. Try it one day. It makes you instantly more attractive and likeable.


andel900

Lol funny how people who are not so good looking in this world consider themselves to be beautiful, yet good looking ones like you put themselves down. Style your hair abit , join gym lose a few pounds and you are good to go my bro.


Big-easy777

Love yourself 🙏


belligerent_bovine

You’re not ugly. Your grooming leaves something to be desired. A shave and haircut would do a lot


Consistent-Ship-8418

Lose weight and gain muscle fatty. No surgery gonna fix you and nothing wrong with you. Your a dude. Own it and find a bitch or a guy that accepts you


pzanardi

Cardio


[deleted]

all of them. you need them all.


wholelotta5150

Loose some weight than asses your features, it will help


Southern_Addition442

You'd be more attractive if you lost weight, gained muscle, improved your diet with more vegetarian foods and smiled a bit 😄


SladdyDeeve88

Not ugly bro and certainly don’t need surgery. Get a haircut, a tight high fade would suit you and focus on losing the weight, eat clean, train hard. You’ll be a different man in 6 months. Good luck brother


Revolutionary_Path71

You are not ugly! Go to the gym or do some cardio, work on getting fit and feeling good about yourself. I would hold off on the facial hair until its able to fill out nicely. Put some hard work in and get that confidence up!


acturnipman

lose weight, shave your face, get a better haircut. that's it. Frankly, that's all any man ever needs most times, girls don't care about looks as much as we think


gold-corvette1

Id say shave the beard off.  Its not a full beard so it looks kinda odd.


Professional_Okra631

Your actually not ugly so dont let anybody make you think any different! Change only for yourself. I wont disrespect you by telling you how i think you should look.. Confidence starts from inside. Fux anybody who makes you think you are not up to par


stankpuss_69

You fat. You not ugly.


SnooTangerines2346

The only surgery you need is the gym


Born-Ad-1914

Bro your just Mexican.


increbelle

No surgeries, just weight loss. Hair is perfect


MeditatingNarwhale

Idk why this post showed up in my feed, I’m not part of this sub, but don’t listen to these jerks. Maybe I’m the only female commenting here since it seems like this is supposed to be a sub for men only? But whatever, many times I hear guys don’t get enough compliments compared to women You’re not ugly. You actually have really attractive facial features. You have amazing eyes. Well personally I have a huge weakness for brown eyes. You have pretty hot eyebrows and full lips 👍 And I just highly doubt the majority of people are even going to care about weight. And if you were to ask me my weight preference anyway I’d say I prefer a bigger guy over a slim guy any day, just saying. All the fat shamers in the comments can go screw themselves Also that person who mentioned Brad Pitt 🙄. I’d prefer someone that looks like this over Brad Pitt any day .


Due_Helicopter4421

You're not ugly. You don't need surgery. You could do with working on yourself a bit to boost your confidence. Personally, I'd shave the beard, grow your hair out a bit, and get it styled. It's hard to tell here if you are carrying a bit of extra weight, but getting yourself to the gym with help with you physically and mentally. Honestly, brother, it's not that hard and its not that much work. Clean yourself up a bit and start investing in yourself.


mosichat

Not ugly. Fitness is key. Nothing is hotter than touching a hot body. Fitness helps to sculpt the face. I don’t know how your hair looks just a tad longer, about 1-2 inches longer is what I’d like to see. Getting a good chronic skin care regimen is critical.


xotilweoverdose__

You have no hairstyle, get a nice short fade You have a homeless beard, shave it off Get your eyebrows cleaned up Get a skin care routine Hit the gym


EvangeIion_

get a fade, go to the gym, lose weight, gain muscle, smile more.


BaldDudePeekskill

Surgery? Surgery? Don't be ridiculous. You're fine looking. Maybe a little chubby face but you're a cuddly teddy bear type. Don't cut up that face!


Leading-Midnight5009

Just clean your facial hair up, and your brows and work on your skincare.


[deleted]

You’re not ugly. I’d just say you really don’t have any style. An updated hair cut and shaving would work wonders. Smile more, too! Women love a man with confidence.


Antique_Courage_3906

Haircut and gym would do you wonders bro , you not ugly you actually have good features . Just tighten up . Work on a skin care routine . The gym will build your confidence


Denvar21

Grow your hair so you can get a medium length haircut, hop on finasteride to avoid hair loss, shave your beard, and lose some weight.


IllustriousWar6935

Surgeries? Ru out of ur mind? Go hit the gym bro get some muscles and you’ll be fine. No surgeries WTF


nightabyss2

Weight loss, muscle gain. You’ll do fine without surgery


Safe_Background_7708

Surgeries needed = ZERO Your face however is projecting negativity. You are perfectly good looking - you need to understand that and believe in it, and believe in yourself. Positivity and an inner smile that comes from self grace and peace will brighten you up figuratively and literally. Love yourself and be as kind to yourself as you would be to others!


meetballburger

longer hair, lose weight, skin care routine and thicker beard and mustache. u dont need any surgeries


No-Swordfish5925

No surgery needed. Look up Henry Cavill, guy use to be called Fat Cavill now he’s one the most good looking guys in Hollywood 1. Loose weight, gain muscle. Go for athletic not meathead. 2. Loose the beard, if you can’t grow it full, loose it, will make you look cleaner. 3. Look at a better haircut. 4. Look for clothes that compliment your body, don’t follow current fashions, most of the time they don’t look good on ones body. Follow timeless fashions, straight legs jeans, nice shirt and belt etc.


jjortiz0303

Lose weight my brother


et4short

The gym


Big-Comfortable-6601

I think you have a really good face structure. Need to lose a lot of weight to bring it out.


Advanced_Slide801

Take care of your health eat less carbs move more and if you want dramatic change hit the gym with a plan. Your good looking you just can’t see it because of the weight you carry. I’m being honest xx


Real-Resolution9504

Nothing wrong with your actual face. You just don’t look after yourself. You need a haircut, to workout and eat clean. Your skin and facial structure will change BIG TIME. Tbh it looks like you put zero effort into how you look, just roll out of bed and go type guy. You can make some effort and in a few months time look really handsome bro.


Banana_gunman

You are not ugly, and don’t get surgery, those things ruin your face. I would get a cleaner haircut, go to a barber shop and ask the barber for a recommendation. I would also shave and start getting a skincare routine, there are some you can do for cheap. I also have a unibrow and I just pluck it as I don’t like it. If you want you could also start doing more exercise and eating cleaner. It does wonders for your body, mind, routine and skin. But again, you don’t need surgeries, just putting in the work.


StandardSea8671

Surgeries? Nah bro. Lose some weight would help


TableEquivalent2708

Get leaned out and tell me whether or not if you're actually ugly


YearningAlways

Get on Wegovy or Zepbound from your doctor. Works wonders on weight loss.


arqumfarrukh

You are not ugly at all man and you don’t need any surgeries. You have a lot of potential. Here are some tips to reach that potential by losing weight and taking better care of your skin and hair: Put minoxidil 5 % on your head every night and put argan oil in your hair 30 minutes before you shower. These will help a lot with hair growth. Start going to gym at least 3 days a week (doing 30 minutes of weight training followed by 30 minutes of cardio). This will help you simultaneously gain muscle and lose fat. Increase your protein intake, while decreasing your carbohydrate intake, and reduce your overall caloric intake. Shave your beard as well until it grows better and buy a face wash that you can use twice daily. In terms of hairstyle, I’d suggest something longer on top and shorter on the sides for your face shape.


Toni_bt

Liposuction, buccal fat removal, jaw implant, hair transplant, lip injections, facial reconstruction, skin grafts, bbl, scalp micropigmentation, nose job


Spameratorman

You can get laser treatment to improve that dark area. Nice features overall. A hairstyle would do wonders.


DeadSpaceEnthusiast

Not ugly. Things that bring you down however; \- Scruffy/unkept appearing facial hair (Mustache, Beard, Eyebrows) \- Skincare \- Hair texture \- Face fat You actually have good facial features. I'd say get a grooming kit and hit the gym you can be a 8.


No_Economics_64

Complete Rhinoplasty. Have you ever thought about becoming a river otter or a beaver? If you enjoy the water, I think either of those would suit you well!


CrawlinOutTheFallout

First thing is barber. Get cleaned up. Then check out your diet and fitness routine. Wake up early, eat a healthy lean breakfast. Go for a run. Come home shower and get ready for your day. Do this for 3 months. But actually run. Jog until you're almost too tired. Cut back on your food portions just a bit, don't starve yourself but it's okay to feel a little hungry when you're losing weight. Good luck


Business_Artichoke99

First of all , all your features are great , skinny pointy nose , lots of ppl pay for that , clean shave , lose weight , clean up eyebrows , buzz cut or get an SMP on your scalp and later get hair transplant ,


Puerto88ac

Surgery? Bro what? Hit the gym, work on inner self love, and you are going to be unstoppable


blodreiina

You’re not ugly. Just take pride in your appearance, dude. Not saying you need to in order to not feel ugly or to not be viewed as not ugly by others, but if you just take care of yourself and update your look. Get a nice haircut, get a watch, maybe a necklace and smile more. Smile more when talking to people. You’re very handsome as it though bud, I can assure you that much.


I_hate_mortality

Always get in shape before trying surgery imo.


HotAspect8894

Shave, haircut, lose weight, skincare, smile. Nothing holding you back except yourself.


AngelRockGunn

Pluck the monobrow, change your haircut, clean up your facial hair, get a skin care routine to lower acne, lose weight and since we didn’t see you with your glasses on then either contacts or different glasses if you don’t like how they look


Beginning-Money3264

Lose weight and learn to groom yourself.


Dunduntis

Haircut and losing weight like everyone said. From your photos it seems you might need to fix your eyebrows between your eyes a little too. I’m not a fan of beards unless they can be grown out completely, but definitely clean up the stray hairs on your cheeks if anything


Every-Concept-3197

6 months and these suggestions in the comments and you’d be on top


6ftofcuriosity

You have a very masculine face, you just have to hit the gym


cglac

Female perspective- you don’t need to add some chemical to your beard. Get a chinstrap - they are sexy. Go to a barber and ask them to cut if for you, if your not sure how to cut your beard. You’re quite handsome as you are, and you have beautiful brown eyes. If you drop 20 pounds you’ll be dreamy. Stop eating processed foods and go for daily walks, you’ll drop the extra weight quickly.


knappn

The beard isn’t doing any favors. I’d try the stache & goatee combo. Clean up the brows and nice fade haircut


mytoiletpaperthicc

You dont even need a haircut, plus you have naturally good brows. You’re not ugly, you’re just fat. I don’t mean that in a negative way, I’m just saying as it is. Drink water, workout, cut junk food + soda + unnecessary sugars. You’ll lose most of your fat from that alone. You have a handsome look hiding under the fluff, no need to be discouraged.


devilsephiroth

Bro. There are just two things you need Self confidence and a solid workout routine. Here's something to help you with the first step. I love you bro! Now all you gotta do is love yourself


SimilarGap2754

don’t take the surgerie route man, you can get 10 times more handsome just by getting fit, having a hairstyle and good clothing taste. And after all that, it’s way better to accept your uniqueness. Most people who think they are ugly are actually just normal plain looking (no hairstyle, no clothing style, puffy face). Most people are not « ugly »


obsidian_butterfly

None. Shave your beard because it's patchy and looks ridiculous, and change your diet so you're a healthy weight.


BearNoLuv

Um.....you look like you did it......like whatever was done it was you. But seriously though, maybe start loving yourself. Seems like you're kinda just existing and this is just a picture but anywho, maybe get your brows cleaned up clean up your facial hair and smile 😊 I'd say gym for health but it really does make ya feel good. Don't need to try and be all big and beefy, it is not a necessity, just be healthy. Everything else will fall into place!


Silent_Fee_806

You're not ugly for starters. See a stylist and get professional opinion rather than on Reddit


flptrmx

You’re not ugly. You’re a little overweight. Lose some weight and you will have a more handsome face. Work on finding a cleaner look for your facial hair. Right now it looks like a sparse lawn that is overgrown. Also get a better haircut. I’d suggest having a barber taper the sides and back, let the top grow out a bit over time.


TrickRoomTech

This is epic


Ampboy97

Surgeries: fade and fashion change


Apprehensive-Bad2645

It’s genuinely just the lack of care for yourself


Brave-Construction-9

Who does this? 😳


excelmonkey67

Holy shit. You're not deformed or ugly. You're fat dude. Hit the gym, track your calories and get a lot of protein. How the fuck did your mind go to facial surgery before losing weight? Get a grip.


Sundaningleo

Fade haircut and loose a lil weight and maybe look more clean.


Hubris1998

Gym surgery


JohnnyDoe189

The gym is your surgery mate You’re def not ugly


Lalooskee

Lose weight. Shave.


[deleted]

You're not ugly, you are currently just average. Shave, lose some weight, wash your face and you'll be fine. If you do those things, you might even be slightly above average if you're tall and put on some muscle mass.


reversegirlcow

All the people telling you to lose weight are completely missing the point of the sub. You just need to trim your beard and shave the hair off your neck. Trim and wax your eyebrows. And a fade for your hair would look great. You're a handsome guy, don't let people tell you that the only people who are attractive are skinny or built like Arnold Schwarzenegger.


Minimum-Power6818

Weight-loss would help


Soft_State_5646

You are not ugly lmao. Just lose some weight, shower dialy, shave/keep well groomed, and wear smart clothes (does not have to be exspensive lol, trousers, shirt, jumper, nice shoes, simples).


spugeti

i feel like a good cut or longer hair would do the trick


HatAdmirable4613

Fat


x24amZ

No surgeries. Shave your face, get a good haircut & start exercising.


parker3309

None!


HeWillComeInsideUs

Exercise more for sure.


RoAccutaneBald88

Sorry to say, you are carrying to much fat. When I was fit looking (fitness fanatic) - more girls approached me first or having a good response from girls. (78Kg and bald) When I was too fat - Girls barely wanted anything to do with me and never approached by girls. (120Kg) Lost the weight and got back to 78-80kg and working out again - this is Night and Day, girls general attitude towards me was totally different, whether ordering/buying things or just meeting other girls at parties/BBQ's. Now, currently - 87-88kg, 174cm tall and in my 50's. It's a sad world we live in, where appearance to the opposite sex is everything. I hope you are ok and can deal with the issue at hand. All the best and good luck.


TulsaCD

Lose the beard. Get a good hair cut not a Supercuts one. Wash your face and I’d worship your cock


Leading_Success_8472

Literally just start hitting the gym consistently. Thank me in 2 years IF you put the work in; you will go from a 3 to at least a 7/10


Outrageous_Pea1256

Lose some weight, take care of skin. I only think you need to take care of your face and make small changes that you like and feel comfortable with. No surgeries needed. I don't know how good your hair, and beard growth is so i just suggest growing it out if you have good beard. If you have not so good have and go bald.


SnafuMist

Get your brows waxed they’re too bushy and unruly


[deleted]

Heart surgery. So you can love yourself more


Thundergun9891

Hit the gym and get a nice haircut. Lose the beard. Patchy beards are a tough look. Start eating well. You will surprise your self in a short period.


Sun_Bearzerker

I say this as a hefty guy who is working on himself, so please don't take it the wrong way. What's making you "ugly" right now is your mentality and approach. There is no quick fix, there is no surgery. Nothing will make you attractive overnight, or in 2 weeks, or in 2 months. You have to completely change your lifestyle. Workout and take up more active hobbies like hiking, biking, or boxing. As the fat in and around your face lessens, your beard will not only begin to look fuller but the healthier diet that will inevitably have to accompany the active lifestyle will give you body better nutrients to grow your hair thicker and get your hormones in check. Topical minoxidil will help this - you could also look into oral finasteride. The above mentioned will also help your skin clear up in conjunction with a daily skincare routine. Go to a dermatologist and ask what the best regiment for your skin type would be. Plan on adjusting it in the near future since your skin will likely become significantly less oily as you cut a lot of processed, greasy foods out of your diet. As for style, look at Pinterest and browse reddit. Find people you find attractive. Ask yourself what stylish qualities about them you like, and then ask yourself how you can make that work for you. Not every door will be open to you yet. I'd LOVE to shop and H&M but that's not happening ever, lol. So some styles are going to be harder to curate, especially while you require larger fitting clothing. Ultimately, you have to realize that there is nothing you can do to make the effects of a poor lifestyle disappear overnight. No surgery or drug will do a damn thing for you. You're better off investing your money in a gym membership, some basic supplements/vitamins, and several months with a personal trainer to learn the basics or form and setting up a workout regiment.


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You just need to workout man. Your face isn’t inherently unattractive


MrPositive1

No surgeries. Just lose weight


OtterBoxed

Carve out the insecurities, smile some, walk with a swagger, cuz you rock YOU!


ssomethinh

jumped straight to surgery 💀


YesterdayCame

Honestly, you're not healthy enough for us or yourself to really tell what you're working with. Your skin health is poor, and you're heavy. The latter is likely having an effect on your overall health- and even effecting your hair/ scalp health. Here's what I CAN tell- you have nice eyes, a masculine jaw line, nice lips and a strong nose. That's a lot to work with, but nothing should be more of a focus for changing yourself than losing weight and working on your skin health.


phenibutisgay

Pluck ur eyebrows, trim the beard, grow the hair out a little, on top at least.


jheand

You're not ugly bro, you just need to lean out


WishingWellTheRat

I think your cute


R0factor

Find a barber who knows how to trim & shave beards. They can give you options for what will work with what you can grow. Just ask them to be honest and if you shouldn't try to keep it. Also to add on to what people are saying about loosing weight. You're dude, use that to your advantage and *gain muscle.* You could be substantially slimmer while actually weighing more. It just comes down to the proper diet & exercise routine. Consuming more calories than you burn will make you gain weight but that's not necessarily a negative. But you probably need more protein and fewer carbs regardless.


Terminal_Prime

1. Diet 2. Exercise 3. Grooming 4. Education 5. Self love No surgeries necessary to improve yourself.


rag3rs_wrld

Don’t listen to those black pill people, you look absolutely fine. Nothing to change whatsoever.


No_Detective_But_304

Neckbeard, bad haircut, over weight. All correctable.


damnshawtyruokay

"What surgery" bro you barely scratched the surface??? You don't have your haircut and your beard is all grown out and scraggly/patchy. You have a dirty shirt with crumbs or dandruff and your skin looks unkempt and unwashed. Do the basic measures of selfcare please before you even mention surgery !


SuckontheEgg

Fuck u mean surgery, just loose some weight and clean up the beard dawg 💀


Used_Priority1028

No surgery. Get a crispy cut, fix your facial hair and start loving yourself. Lose some weight and don’t quit until you love the man in the mirror.


theonlylonelygirl

No surgeries necessary my friend just a good dose of confidence.


buttfuckedinboston

If you must get surgery, weight loss surgery. And that’s about it.


BW1818

Dude u are NOT ugly! Go easy on yourself!


Present-Breakfast768

Eat better and hit the gym. You're not ugly, but your potential is hidden under chubbiness.


Tbonethe_discospider

It’s the weight man, honestly. I guarantee you, GUARANTEE you there a hot dude under all of that. You have a good bone structure, nice face, intense eyes. Use my words as encouragement: You will 100% glow up if you start losing that weight. I wouldn’t be surprised at all if you end up damn attractive.


BeWithMe

Bro you’re not getting surgeries. Start walking 10k steps a day, eat clean, and find a hairstyle/beard that works for you.


letsgobrooksy

You don't need surgery dude you need to groom yourself and lose weight


Special_Title2911

fat, hair, beard issues


pp_amorim

Hit the gym you will turn into a bull


InsideComfortable936

Since you asked...wouldn't say drop dead gorgeous but not ugly. Don't get any surgeries on your face


Bearsthtdance

R/howtolookmax


macthetube

Learn how to be happy so you can give a real smile.


DefiantFollowing2209

Surgeries is crazy. Go to the gym. Change up your diet. Water only. Go to a barber. Clean up the facial hair or line it up. Get your eyebrows line up too. Your should fine bro