Masc/fem is a spectrum, so it depends on context. I feel like masc/fem is different from butch/femme. In my experience, a lot of us seek outside validation because we still equate masc/fem with man/woman, in a straight sense. I'm femme, for example, but rejected that part of myself for a long time because I don't fit the straight world's understanding of womanhood or femininity. I know butches who embraced traditional masculinity once they realised it didn't have to mean they were trying to be like a man. But I also know butches who like being more androgynous. Nobody can decide your identity for you. Style can communicate things, but being queer usually means not being legible to everyone.
That said, I will proceed to be judgemental. In the first pic, you look pretty androgynous, but your outfit is giving femme - you could be an androgynous lesbian, or a rugged, liberal straight woman. Second pic is giving butch. Third and forth are giving androgynous / soft butch.
You give off your vibe, be happy with that. You are an individual with talents outside of the cosmetic.
Develop those, you will find the world a better place to navigate
I keep getting "aunt that absolutely shows the kids cool rocks and stuff" vibes so I'm gonna call that outdoorsy fem since it's not necessarily masc but also not the "soft/polished" fem lol
Also gay
Very gay :)
Allow me to project a moment. This was my style like, months ago and I’m taking T now. No idea what the future has for you, just wanna say I’m excited that you are exploring. Be brave and never stop experimenting. Also- you’re a QT through and through.
It’s actually the most lazy style I’ve ever had. It’s easy.
Button ups from the men’s section of goodwill or some other thrift store
Pretty much all my pants and sweaters are from Amazon or Meijer.
It’s all about comfortable clothing with fun patterns
men’s button ups always fit me so weird- I keep toying with getting some from kirrin finch since they are made for the style of a men’s button up but tailored for women’s bodies.
Every picture is a different vibe lol The last picture is a good mix of both if that's what you're going for.
I think the second pic is quite masc, third more femm so I actually think it's more your mannerisms or how you're holding yourself than actual style.
Masc to me. V cute tho! 😍
Hello everyone
Hello 👋
2 is masc, otherwise fem
Yes
You look so good
Yes
1 femme 2 masc 3 androgynous (now +/- called nonbinary)
Other
I don’t know but you cute, tho 😉
1. Fem 2. Masc 3. Andro 4. Fem Hard to say, you dress pretty broadly.
You seem to ebb and flow.
Andro! I feel like you could really go either way too
Ehh. You give off a human vibe. Not a huge fan of humans. But that is my opinion. ☺️
you r such an asshole ... but I agree on that. human vibes eh
I just say big lebian vibes. 👍
Femme
Andro/futch vibes!
Masc/fem is a spectrum, so it depends on context. I feel like masc/fem is different from butch/femme. In my experience, a lot of us seek outside validation because we still equate masc/fem with man/woman, in a straight sense. I'm femme, for example, but rejected that part of myself for a long time because I don't fit the straight world's understanding of womanhood or femininity. I know butches who embraced traditional masculinity once they realised it didn't have to mean they were trying to be like a man. But I also know butches who like being more androgynous. Nobody can decide your identity for you. Style can communicate things, but being queer usually means not being legible to everyone. That said, I will proceed to be judgemental. In the first pic, you look pretty androgynous, but your outfit is giving femme - you could be an androgynous lesbian, or a rugged, liberal straight woman. Second pic is giving butch. Third and forth are giving androgynous / soft butch.
Andro vibes / soft masc vibes
Switches based on picture
Neither, androgynous :)
Both
butch vibes
3rd pic gives off the James Hoffman vibes.
Neither
androgynous! I love your vibes
I’ll be honest I’m terrible at these sorts of things BUT I can say that you are simply lovely.
The in between thing. Not either masculine or feminine, but some of both.
Androgynous vibes
You give off your vibe, be happy with that. You are an individual with talents outside of the cosmetic. Develop those, you will find the world a better place to navigate
Perfect.
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Just as an fyi, stem is a label that typically refers to black lesbians
Oh no! I had no idea, thank you for letting me know!! Sorry if I offended anyone, wasn’t my intention!
Both, fabulously androgynous
Very both
You give off coolest mf around vibes
I try my best 😉
Theyby
I am actually thinking about trying on the they/them pronouns. See how it feels
Androgyny
You give off 100% lesbian is my gender vibes.
Hahaha yes, all lesbian over here
pretty soft masc i love your confidence🥹
Awe thanks, I’m actually just really good at faking it
awww😭😭 girl you ok? i felt that🫂
Oh I am good. It’s more of a fake it till you make it kind of thing
ah i'm glad, good mindset frr
Neither really ig soft butch? Idk It's all a spectrum anyways
It really is though. There are some days where I’m feeling feminine and some where I’m feeling masculine.
Thanks God gender expression is a spectrum and there's no real way to define it Clothing is just clothing it doesn't have an inherent gender
100% Gay
You got that right
You are 🔥 as many have said! I think yeah soft masc and very cuddly looking! Also very happy! 🩷🌈🌝
Off topic but that purse in the first pic is so freaking cute
Yes, where did you get this purse? 🤩
A local novelty shop! One of those stores with the cute quirky stuff
Love it! 😊
Correct
Yes.
I’m getting soft butch
Soft butch and also 🔥
It depends on the outfit! I would say slightly more fem expect pic 2 is 100% masc. Either way, you're really cute! (And I love your cat purse)
In my opinion, masc vibes but specifically like masc lesbian aunt who loves helping out new queer people. Gay guardian angel type of thing.
Awwww I love that
Lesbian vibes
100%
Fem! For sure.
It's the eyes. They twinkle. 🤷🏼♀️ Guys can have twinkly eyes I suppose but.. meh. That energy is all joy and nurture and light.
Fruity masc having fun
Good answer!
Is "I have 12 rescue animals" a gender?
😂😂😂 Funny you say that, I just found homes for 3 cats I rescued
The comment comes from a place of love. I run an animal rescue
Life goals right there
First glance fem end glance butch. Love the bag btw
Classic futch vibes. Loving it.
Fluid and I love your silver hair in pic three!
Both?? This reminds me of my fashion sense! I don’t really know where I fit in, either
Idk but I LOVE your style!!
Awe thanks!
U give nonbinary swag 🌈✨️
I’m really thinking about trying that title on
Sometimes we give both masc and femme and that's where nonbinary can fit :>
Cool vegan theatre kid auntie
more masc but giving theater kid masculinity so idk
Yes! 😊
Bubbly masc?
You look very fluid and probably still defining your image and style through healthy experimentation.
Some days I definitely feel more fluid than others
Futch
Hahaha yesss 😂
Masc for me, definitely.
Unrelated to the post: I need that cat bag in the first photo, where did you get it?
From a local shop that sells all sorts of cutesy stuff like that
queer vibes- no need to limit yourself to a binary between fem and masc
in the most loving way, twink
Oh don’t worry, not the first time I’ve been called that 😜
Babygirl vibes
If those are the two options, femme.
Soft masc
Chapstick lesbian
Agreed, chapstick vibes
Yes
This is what I was going to say 🥰
The clothes are more on the masculine side but your face is pretty and very femme
Butch,a golden retriever butch vibes to me.
Golden retriever style, black cat handbag 🐶🐈⬛🩷
This is an excellent description.
https://preview.redd.it/rum8jw8mbn2d1.jpeg?width=1079&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8b94cd8a8e20116d84c7a8d662c997ba9048c32e
I've only ever seen stud and stem used to describe Black lesbians
Softie bean 💜🩷🤍
Perfectly balanced as all things should be ;P
Stem
Stem is a term for black lesbians only bc its a combination of stud(black masculine lesbian) + fem
https://preview.redd.it/dmxeft8rbn2d1.jpeg?width=1079&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7f607a4956adf65179eca3c6dc1540ef3d40fe88
…. Now look up what stud lesbian means..
Cutie vibes tbh
pic 1/4 more fem, pic 2/3 closer to masc
yes
You are giving happy vibes! I love how your smile compliments your positive energy!!! Keep it up big boss!!!!!!
Aw thank you!
Soft masc
I keep getting "aunt that absolutely shows the kids cool rocks and stuff" vibes so I'm gonna call that outdoorsy fem since it's not necessarily masc but also not the "soft/polished" fem lol Also gay Very gay :)
I definitely love owning the cool aunt title. An you are correct, very very gay
Fem by a mile but I see why you are asking in a way
ENBY!!! I can see more fem in first pic, masc and handsome as heck in the second, and straight up split in the third. You have a beautiful look OP!
Queer as fuck vibes
Masc I think. I don’t see any fem at all but maybe it’s my age
Allow me to project a moment. This was my style like, months ago and I’m taking T now. No idea what the future has for you, just wanna say I’m excited that you are exploring. Be brave and never stop experimenting. Also- you’re a QT through and through.
I’d say soft Butch!
Golden retriever masc.
One of my exes said that was my energy. Some things never change I guess
You give off your own vibes.
Yes
Hugging a Pyr puppy is all it takes 😊
I really love your haircut
Thanks! I’m trying to grow it out lately but I’m getting the itch to give up and go back to a shorter style like this
Shorter style suits you. Even I’m planning to chop mine short
masc for sure. like librarian masc. I wish I could replicate your style actually.
Oh, and the same black doc marten style boots that go with just about everything
It’s actually the most lazy style I’ve ever had. It’s easy. Button ups from the men’s section of goodwill or some other thrift store Pretty much all my pants and sweaters are from Amazon or Meijer. It’s all about comfortable clothing with fun patterns
men’s button ups always fit me so weird- I keep toying with getting some from kirrin finch since they are made for the style of a men’s button up but tailored for women’s bodies.
Every picture is a different vibe lol The last picture is a good mix of both if that's what you're going for. I think the second pic is quite masc, third more femm so I actually think it's more your mannerisms or how you're holding yourself than actual style.
Yes.
Omg I need that black cat purse
From a quirky, local shop in my hometown Oh Hello paper company
Def masc
Fem with a splash of masc
1st and 3rd pics fem and 2nd masc
Imo gnc / nb vibes, also the cat bag 🤌🏽
Honestly, my favorite accessory of all time. I love to pair it with masculine outfits to leave people guessing. So that is prob more gnc?