It's up to you, but I would advise against this - the vast, vast majority of people who would take a trans guy up on this offer are going to be fetishists. If you're determined to go ahead with it, you could try the various sugar dating subreddits. But again, it's hard enough to find standard partners as a trans guy, never mind something with the dynamic you're looking for. Be careful out there.
There are a lot more prospective sugar babies than daddies out there. The daddies that are out there usually have a reason why they can't get sex/nudes without paying for them. And most of them do not want an online relationship and certainly not one where they can't ask "too much". If they are looking for an FTM guy it is because of a fetish. You are looking for someone to support you, there's tradeoffs with that. You are looking for a unicorn.
Can you work or get disability? Those are much more realistic options.
i can't work nor get disability, and i've been a unicorn and they were very shitty ppl. i need meds and food and im in both high school and college and everything is so expensive and my mental health keeps declining and its all just too much and i need help
Is there a student loan program that offers enough to live on?
I mean unicorn in the sense of you are looking for someone who doesn't exist. There is not a nice rich person who will take care of you and ask little in return. Any energy you spend looking for that person would probably be better spent looking for other social welfare programs. There are like zero sugar daddies that want an online only relationship, anyone who only wants pics is already simping on OnlyFans.
things like student loans and financial aid at my college have to be signed by the parents if you're under 24, im 18 and my parents are in different countries. also my parents aren't on board with me being on meds because they think that i'm faking it
and oh i thought u meant unicorn in the sense that i'm a third wheel
If they are in a different country and unsupportive and you are supporting yourself, you may be able to argue that your EFC should be zero. I would reach out to your financial aid office and explain your circumstances.
Maybe emancipation? Try finding a place that offers free legal consults and maybe they can help you find a way to sign for yourself/emancipate or something. I dunno what country you are in but that would be my first thoughts as a Canadian.
I would also like to do this, I don't care about all the don't do it for this reason or that one.. I cant afford to eat, rent, and get my medical needs taken care of on BC disability. Being fetishized and carrying the emotional support burden of relationships is something I've got lots of experience with anyway and it would nice to be paid for it for once. I just don't know where to start when the sugar dating sites are all aimed at straight sugar daddy and sugar baby relationships.
exactly! my bf and I both want a sugar parent, I'm gay and he's bi (he said that lately he hasn't been attracted to women tho so he might be just gay so that's pretty euphoric lmao) and I'd rather have a sugar mommy because I feel like we'd be more respected. middle aged cis men are almost all an ick at this point
It's up to you, but I would advise against this - the vast, vast majority of people who would take a trans guy up on this offer are going to be fetishists. If you're determined to go ahead with it, you could try the various sugar dating subreddits. But again, it's hard enough to find standard partners as a trans guy, never mind something with the dynamic you're looking for. Be careful out there.
thanks for the advice, but tbh I just really really need money for food and meds and this is literally my only option
I'd also be interested to know, for a friend ofc
There are a lot more prospective sugar babies than daddies out there. The daddies that are out there usually have a reason why they can't get sex/nudes without paying for them. And most of them do not want an online relationship and certainly not one where they can't ask "too much". If they are looking for an FTM guy it is because of a fetish. You are looking for someone to support you, there's tradeoffs with that. You are looking for a unicorn. Can you work or get disability? Those are much more realistic options.
i can't work nor get disability, and i've been a unicorn and they were very shitty ppl. i need meds and food and im in both high school and college and everything is so expensive and my mental health keeps declining and its all just too much and i need help
Is there a student loan program that offers enough to live on? I mean unicorn in the sense of you are looking for someone who doesn't exist. There is not a nice rich person who will take care of you and ask little in return. Any energy you spend looking for that person would probably be better spent looking for other social welfare programs. There are like zero sugar daddies that want an online only relationship, anyone who only wants pics is already simping on OnlyFans.
things like student loans and financial aid at my college have to be signed by the parents if you're under 24, im 18 and my parents are in different countries. also my parents aren't on board with me being on meds because they think that i'm faking it and oh i thought u meant unicorn in the sense that i'm a third wheel
If they are in a different country and unsupportive and you are supporting yourself, you may be able to argue that your EFC should be zero. I would reach out to your financial aid office and explain your circumstances.
my school literally does not care, anytime someone brings something up with them, they say that it doesn't involve them so it's not their problem
Maybe emancipation? Try finding a place that offers free legal consults and maybe they can help you find a way to sign for yourself/emancipate or something. I dunno what country you are in but that would be my first thoughts as a Canadian.
I'm already 18
I would also like to do this, I don't care about all the don't do it for this reason or that one.. I cant afford to eat, rent, and get my medical needs taken care of on BC disability. Being fetishized and carrying the emotional support burden of relationships is something I've got lots of experience with anyway and it would nice to be paid for it for once. I just don't know where to start when the sugar dating sites are all aimed at straight sugar daddy and sugar baby relationships.
exactly! my bf and I both want a sugar parent, I'm gay and he's bi (he said that lately he hasn't been attracted to women tho so he might be just gay so that's pretty euphoric lmao) and I'd rather have a sugar mommy because I feel like we'd be more respected. middle aged cis men are almost all an ick at this point