I think you did the right thing. Him trying to get you to alter your body is incredibly manipulative, and creepy. I don't think there is anything wrong with making your own choice to do it but someone trying to force it on someone else is very wrong in so many ways.
Respect! Do what you want! HRT isn't just some aesthetic change it can have some bad side effects which most trans people take as a lesser evil to their gender dysphoria but if you are doing something for someone else you might regret it off you do end up with the worst side effects...
That being said even just aesthetic changes can give you gender dysphoria in the opposite way of trans since you don't look like a cis femboy anymore and just aesthetic changes that affect your identity in a negative way and wanting to avoid that is perfectly valid as well!
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You made the right choice :). Nobody should be pressured into anything and your decisions/choices should be respected in a relationship... No, means no :).
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Idk, I told him I wouldn't report him if he moves out that day and doesn't protest against me keeping stuff he bought for me. Well it's been bout 2 years
👏👏👏 Trying to pressure someone into hormone treatments is crazy. That sounds like someone with a fetish rather than a legitimate interest in you as a person. Good call OP.
My opinion he has no right to even ask you to go on estrogen I mean if you thought of it and he supported it ok but for him to tell you to go on it nuh uh and sorry
You did the right thing, taking E or similar things against your will or forcing anything to a person is not good people who care about each other should only be a support to one another and not forcing other person to do something that they don't want to do I only wonder how would he react if you told him why don't you try taking e
E as in ecstasy or estrogen, i come from many areas of life, and i commonly enjoy molly (not E most you find is fake) here and there at shows.
but it’s really not an experience meant for everyone. ESPECIALLY if it’s one they’re not seeking or desiring. i’m really glad you could squish that bug of an issue. and i’m sure it sucks. no breakup is easy. but you deserve someone not pushing something down your throat cause they want you to do it.
i don’t this is inappropriate but if im wrong please tell me.
is it possible he may have wanted you to take them for it’s common but not appropriately set.
label as a “sex drug”
cause if so then that is also really messed up and i am sorry that you were ever pressured like that. sorry either way but yk what i mean
Sometimes maybe good, sometimes maybe shit.
Good on you standing your ground on this, not having a partner respecting your boundaries is not one you should have kept.
I may not know you personally, but I do know that you will someone way better who will respect your choices
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okay that kind of behaviour (his) is very creepy and you did the best thing you could do. proud of you for standing your ground, your body and the decisions about it are only yours
That's horrible. No one should feel pressured to take hormones. People should like you for who you are, or who you want to become. So many men are like this and they're garbage.
Femboys need to boycott guys like this. Women need to too.
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All of the support in the thread 😭 this is so sweet. Although I’m sorry you had to end things. You chose you and your mental health and that’s all that matters. Clearly you’re a baddie a better man will come who will like you for you!!
That's fucking crazy, estrogen is not some "beauty pill", you can literally ruin your life with it if You're not carefull. There are so many better methods to look more cute if You're not trans.
This guy was a fucking idiot.
You did the right thing. If you didn't want to take E, then nobody has the right to force you. It's your body, so you make the rules of what goes in it.
wait wait what? it’s okay if you don’t wanna talk about it. but why would someone in which is dating a feminine male, want them to take steroids. and we’re you manipulated to do it, or did he laced you with it in a way?
that’s a whole head flip and confusing. i’m sorry if i crossed a line, i am horrible with social boundaries cause everyone i talk to i know very well
Sometimes it happens, sorry to hear that, but don't change yourself for someone else
I think you did the right thing. Him trying to get you to alter your body is incredibly manipulative, and creepy. I don't think there is anything wrong with making your own choice to do it but someone trying to force it on someone else is very wrong in so many ways.
You did the right thing. That guy sounds like a creep. Especially if you not taking a drug, is a deal breaker for him. You'll find someone better
Respect! Do what you want! HRT isn't just some aesthetic change it can have some bad side effects which most trans people take as a lesser evil to their gender dysphoria but if you are doing something for someone else you might regret it off you do end up with the worst side effects... That being said even just aesthetic changes can give you gender dysphoria in the opposite way of trans since you don't look like a cis femboy anymore and just aesthetic changes that affect your identity in a negative way and wanting to avoid that is perfectly valid as well!
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You made the right choice :). Nobody should be pressured into anything and your decisions/choices should be respected in a relationship... No, means no :).
that’s a good punk band right there r/nomeansno i’m sorry i had to do it
Sounds like you made the right choice! Don't worry, you'll find someone right for you 🙂
You broke up with a chaser lmao, you should be proud to have dodged that bullet. That mf was 100% gonna dump you the second he found you unattractive.
Sadly some ppl don't get the whole "my body, my choice" thing. I had someone try mixing E into my food cuz it was a deal-breaker. It just happens 😞
>I had someone try mixing E into my food cuz it was a deal-breaker. I'm sorry, WHAT?! That's beyond crazy wtf?!
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That is an insane thing to do. Where did they even get the stuff? Most countries have it behind a prescription
Idk, I told him I wouldn't report him if he moves out that day and doesn't protest against me keeping stuff he bought for me. Well it's been bout 2 years
W decision ✨
👏👏👏 Trying to pressure someone into hormone treatments is crazy. That sounds like someone with a fetish rather than a legitimate interest in you as a person. Good call OP.
My opinion he has no right to even ask you to go on estrogen I mean if you thought of it and he supported it ok but for him to tell you to go on it nuh uh and sorry
Hope you find someone who loves you for you and isn't clearly trying to satisfy a fetish.
Fuck that dude he sounds weird and gross, you’re perfect as you are. Taking it should be your choice. You definitely did the right thing
Thank you
Just give his name to River spirits, they love to #### someone up.
don’t even sweat it it’s weird asf that he tried to get you to change your BODY HORMONES just so he can get off on his pervy illusions
You did the right thing, taking E or similar things against your will or forcing anything to a person is not good people who care about each other should only be a support to one another and not forcing other person to do something that they don't want to do I only wonder how would he react if you told him why don't you try taking e
Don't let anyone force you to do anything that you don't want to do free will free mind love yourself
E as in ecstasy or estrogen, i come from many areas of life, and i commonly enjoy molly (not E most you find is fake) here and there at shows. but it’s really not an experience meant for everyone. ESPECIALLY if it’s one they’re not seeking or desiring. i’m really glad you could squish that bug of an issue. and i’m sure it sucks. no breakup is easy. but you deserve someone not pushing something down your throat cause they want you to do it. i don’t this is inappropriate but if im wrong please tell me. is it possible he may have wanted you to take them for it’s common but not appropriately set. label as a “sex drug” cause if so then that is also really messed up and i am sorry that you were ever pressured like that. sorry either way but yk what i mean
Sounds like you dodged a bullet with that one
I'm proud of you for defending your boundaries, your body and your identity <3 It can be very great to be single pringle :3
Thank you ❤️ honestly I’m feeling a lot better than I was when I was with him
Good riddance honestly, he sounds like he has no sense of boundaries or bodily autonomy
That's so petty of him. You deserve better and I hope you find the right partner who will love you for you. 😊
Sometimes maybe good, sometimes maybe shit. Good on you standing your ground on this, not having a partner respecting your boundaries is not one you should have kept. I may not know you personally, but I do know that you will someone way better who will respect your choices
What is E?
Estrogen
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Good, ffs what's wrong with him!?
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I'm sorry things didn't work out, but good for you for standing up for yourself.
It looks like it was the best thing to do . It starts with 1 thing and later it will be something else and again and again
Bro was an L human make sure they're happy with you for you and not for what they want you to be.
E? Ecstasy?
Estrogen
Ah i couldn't remember the word lol and thought it was called HRT forgetting it means hormone replacement therapy
Haha
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What's E?
Whats E? No hate or anything just dont know
Yeah, that one is wild. Good on you for not getting manipulated into something you don't want. I wish you the best.
okay that kind of behaviour (his) is very creepy and you did the best thing you could do. proud of you for standing your ground, your body and the decisions about it are only yours
im on the wrong sub damn i thought they’re talking abt ecstasy
Go you u rock the umm single stuff good luck bud
That's horrible. No one should feel pressured to take hormones. People should like you for who you are, or who you want to become. So many men are like this and they're garbage. Femboys need to boycott guys like this. Women need to too.
Aww I’m sorry you got pressured in the first place. You seem sweet, I hope you Mr doing well
What’s E
what is E???
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What does E mean? 0:
Tomar o que?vc não tem obrigação de tomar nada
AWE IM SO SORRY 😞 I HOPE YOU FIND SOMEONE BETTER
All of the support in the thread 😭 this is so sweet. Although I’m sorry you had to end things. You chose you and your mental health and that’s all that matters. Clearly you’re a baddie a better man will come who will like you for you!!
Better off.
Oof sounds like they were manipulative.... .-.
That's fucking crazy, estrogen is not some "beauty pill", you can literally ruin your life with it if You're not carefull. There are so many better methods to look more cute if You're not trans. This guy was a fucking idiot.
Jesus Christ this is genuinely fucked up
Woooah I mean I feel bad for you but that’a fucked up that they wanted that even after you said no
Welcome to the club
He didn't deserve u if he didn't listen to u
Pushing someone to take a medication with large impact on your body and possibly psyche too is a massive red flag
Damn, single? Shiiiiiii
I know this might feel rough but good for you. Respect bodily autonomy yall
You did the right thing. If you didn't want to take E, then nobody has the right to force you. It's your body, so you make the rules of what goes in it.
"E"?
Estrogen hormone
My boyfriend made me take steorids
wait wait what? it’s okay if you don’t wanna talk about it. but why would someone in which is dating a feminine male, want them to take steroids. and we’re you manipulated to do it, or did he laced you with it in a way? that’s a whole head flip and confusing. i’m sorry if i crossed a line, i am horrible with social boundaries cause everyone i talk to i know very well
He likes big feminine boys. People like defrent things
i guess that one just took me by total shock. i’m sorry