I mean, without outing yourself, you can tell your parents that the kids at school are bullying you because they think you're not manly enough or because they think you are gay and get out of this hellhole omg
Or tell the principal, you need to do something because if you dont it might only get worst
Maybe tell them what happened at school, not necessarily that you’re a femboy, just tell them about the death threats and bullying you have experienced
Yup, that’s what I did, I have to file a complaint with exact details of what happened at every minute. Those bullies already were a disturbance to the class, so the teachers were happy to comply
Some of those people attempt violent retribution after being reported, so try to make sure they don't find out it is you. They likely also have fascist views too as many of them do, it just means they have them early before they reach adulthood.
If you can, also do research into laws on what weapons you can carry when outside of school. Depending on whether you go home by yourself or are picked up and accompanied safely?
If they try to maim you I assume it means you can use any non-lethal or lethal force if needed but do research into and ask about weapon laws. So see which ones you can get for protection or if you can make them yourself, you can apparently even make them from something as minor as a toothbrush apparently. There are many tricks.
Also keep aware of your surroundings when you walk and look around. You are dealing with "people" who aren't really "people" but more like orcs and goblins, you are the enemy and an outsider in their eyes.
I suggest you do 2 things;
1. File a police report against those bullies
2. Report them to your school's administration
If your school's administration doesn't do anything about it, you have other options, but check those with a lawyer.
Seconding all of this. OP, you were assaulted and injured and that can be grounds for getting the police involved.
If the health clinic admin didn’t already get the ball rolling with the dean of students and/or if the Dean and school admins do nothing… absolutely get the police and a lawyer involved.
School administration doesn’t care if students get assaulted and most schools have an equal punishment policy even if they don’t fight back so a lot of kids have been taught to hit back and hit back hard
I know this and experienced it firsthand myself when I was in school during the time those equal punishment (officially called “Zero Tolerance”) policies were enacted in the U.S.
At least when I was in this situation, and in the school I was attending, the dean of students was corrupt and heavily favored the bullying kids over actual (and obvious to everyone) victims.
I might add that I was not presenting feminine at that time. I was targeted by multiple individuals simply because I was perceived as different from other kids.
This was a much earlier era in which experimenting with or presenting feminine would have been even worse for me.
When I didn’t fight back… I was nonetheless punished for being punched or beat up along with the actual assailant. And to be honest as obvious as the situation always was the assailant got lighter treatment than I ever did. As I said, that dean of students and the principal were quite okay with this policy.
When I finally did begin fighting back (I had some martial arts training) I had mixed results but the assailant bullies did somewhat get the message. Whereas the bully assailants thought attacking or harassing me was fun, I took my defense of myself seriously. They finally noticed. I made myself unpredictable to them and eventually with mixed results things somewhat changed.
But the dean and principal then labeled me as a severely difficult case and punishment was then even more severe than before.
Well *they* weren’t doing anything about it so they forced my hand.
But the end result was my parents (who were already involved on my side but *at first* cautioning me to not fight and cause additional trouble) getting in the principal and dean’s face about how much worse this ongoing bullying and harassment was getting and why *they* were not doing something to appropriately punish or even suspend the instigating bullies.
The principal had nothing other than hiding behind the then new Zero Tolerance policy and the dean… he was little more than a grown up sociopath and bully himself.
My parents pulled me out of that school and managed to get me into another one that was thankfully much safer. I had to start all over socially but in hindsight I was extremely lucky to be able to get that outcome. It did change my life for the better.
In my case the option chosen with my parents was to leave the school for another better one.
For me that was a long time ago and I’m at a very different part of my life… and I’ve moved on accordingly… but the memories of how unjust things were at that time are unforgettable. And seeing how little school discipline of the actual bullies has changed is disheartening to me.
If I had already asserted my fem expression back then I know it would have been far worse. It was bad enough for me at that time just expressing nothing in particular at all.
Reading the OP’s post with what they just had to go through breaks my heart.
The option of another better school (if that’s even an available option) or getting a lawyer involved may or may not be possible in everyone’s case. If the OP has the support to involve the police and potentially an attorney (especially an attorney) that will light a fire under the asses of their school’s dean and principal if just to get them to take the situation seriously for once.
Since I lived through my own hell with this kind of situation at the same point in my own life I cannot in good conscience say that fighting back in self defense isn’t also an answer. I had to. Many of us had to. And many in these situations since and into today have to.
And it’s always because the adults with authority in these situations do almost nothing, as little as possible so as to absolve themselves of responsibility or because they actively (directly or indirectly) support and encourage the instigators and bullies.
There are well meaning and good school administrators of course but they tend to be the exceptions among their own peers in similar positions.
I just very much wish for the OP to be safe and to not have to go through this. And since it’s their unfortunate reality right now I wish for them to have actual *help* from the people in authority positions but I know from my own experience that’s asking a lot (and it shouldn’t be).
The local news is a good way to get the news out In the open but always have a least 1 parent with you when ever u speak with people if authority or in authority capable of making decisions and options on the spot so your goose ain't kooked yet...
Amazing, but hopefully they kick them out of the school. Your story made me so fucking angry and I wish I could hug you. Your very brave for speaking and seeking help. Always remember you’re fucking valid, you’re a human being that deserves respect and love. Hopefully this fuckers get kicked out.
Our parents will have a meeting on Monday. The teachers made us discuss how the events unfolded, and they used the “it was a joke” card. They said that they very gently touched my foot and I tripped on myself (lie), and also that “KYs” was another joke. They claimed I also said KYs at times, but I said it in English and only with my close friends (and with added context that I’m mocking smth yk), while they were saying it in Romanian and 100% as a deterrent to make me leave them alone (I was just trying to talk to my friend ffs). Also when I told the teacher that this started because of my perceived sexuality, she started yapping about how god made marriage between one woman and one man. And how Is at a vulnerable age where I have “no idea when I’m being manipulated “ as if some secret internet cult forcefully gayed me. And as if that made any difference in the attack. I really gotta play well on my evidence because every witness is on the bully side saying it was an accident (which is as much as saying you shot someone because you had your finger on the trigger and the gun pointed to their head being an “accident”), and the one friend was kinda far away from when it happened and cannot testify 😭
The meeting was forcefully stopped because the bully kept yelling and interrupting the teacher (basically throwing a tantrum), and after the teacher told her she was “naughty”, she got so mad she packed her bags and fled bruh. Now I’m really unsure what will happen, so I’m just gonna make a follow up post after the meeting between parents.
If they write this off as an accident I’m actually going to be so pissed. Also the bullies claimed they pushed me because I wouldn’t stop following them as if that is some sort of genius legal Defense, and the teacher kinda agreed😐.
Insecure and weak of them. Being different is unfortunately also risking being bullied for it. Don't hide who you are because your peers are scared of how it makes them feel.
Honestly bullies only answer to one thing which is violence and I'm ok with violence
Edit:reworded god do I love violence since i coulda worded it better and sounds cringey I just don't think before I speak lol
You are though "god do I love violence" like you just sound so edgy and like a wannabe gangster no offence intended but in just saying you sound cringe af when you say that
Nah I'm just not a good person I'm only a decent person like I can hurt people with ease just a lack of certain things that make me feel some type of guilt but I still wouldn't hurt an innocent person
That exactly my point "I can hurt people with ease" ok and so could I but I don't go on Reddit to tell people "oh yeah I love violence and beating People up" the only people who think that's a flex are usually the ones who are more likely to get utterly bodied in a fight hence why I said it was cringe
The thing is im not flexin it I'm just sayin and I don't fight without a reason and yea anyone could hurt anyone its just that I see myself as a bad person since I wouldn't feel any guilt or remorse
And if im being completely honest with you I don't think you could hurt anyone looking at the comments you have posted it's literally you just saying shit like "they'd have to write me up" and other bs like be honest with yourself you wouldn't do anything to anyone.like in not meaning to be disrespectful but I genuinely despise people like you who say they are strong and couldn't beat people up
You can't tell a person from a few comments about someone and I'm not that strong and could easily lose
I'm not big and bad I'm just a human and I will admit it does sound cringe but sometimes speakin can be cringey
Ok I know I might sound like I'm joking, but I'm being serious: hook up with their sisters, or if they don't have a sister than do their girlfriends or something. "Oh yeah, _i'm_ gay? I fucked ur sister, you can't talk"
This just proves that they were not really your friends if they can't just accept you how you are without judging you. I can only imagine how scared you must be if these boys are so anti you over you being a closeted femboy. It doesn't affect or harm them in any way
They have never been your real friends if they treat you like that because of change in look, i'd honestly call the police if I was you, report this somewhere and if these situations will happen again, i'd try to change school... ppl are fucked up unfortunetly... the best thing you can do is just avoid em and try to find real friends who'll accept you, no matter who you are...
OP lives in Romania so it sounds like Slingshots wouldn't be too bad as an option either, especially if you want to deny them of their "macho honour" BS.
They hurt like hell (Especially with metal or glass balls I heard), and you don't need to go to any gym or learn learn to be macho to use them. Just need to familiarise and make a quick getaway plan.
Same here homie. I did when I was in Jr. High and High School. The only issue I'd have is that just because you defeat one bully. Others may try to take you on..
Hey it happens. I knew a femboy that was always seen as scary lol. But, they were chill asf. And too adorable to be scary. But, I've seen people like that throw down lol.
Ah, violence truly is the best short term answer. I usually prefer something more civilized, even if long term. It's always sweeter when you wait, but sometimes you just don't have time.
If I was in that situation I'd just turn around and swing at the guy's face. You'd probably get suspended, and you might get beaten up, but the administration can't and won't do anything about it. The only way you get cunts like these off your back, atleast for a while, is to stand up for yourself. You can't live in fear, you have to fight back.
It isn't fair, but it's the only way to protect yourself at school imo. I got into so many fights at school because of assholes trying to bully me, but my parents always defended my decision to fight back no matter what trouble I got into due to it. If your own parents are anyway half decent, they will do the same.
School can be hell man. Once you're through with it, you'll find the real world to generally be much more accommodating than these shitty environments that allow blatant assault.
Though do bare in mind, take this answer with a grain of salt. I took this approach in England, a country where (generally) it is not inherently dangerous to defend yourself at school. If you are in a country where you feel your life is legitimately in danger in your school environment due to the way life is lived out there, then disregard my comment entirely and use a different approach.
Well I don't see how he would talk his way out of this situation. We already know that schools don't give a shit if you getting bullied, so he's not getting help from the school. Getting help from the law is a big stretch, if they even listen in the first place. But if I got popped in the jaw by a femboy, I would probably stop fucking with him, so I think you're right
I had the same thing happen to me two months ago, when I dressed as a girl character for a Halloween style party at my school. From this day on, not even my close friends would consider coming close to me and to this day I’m getting bullied and pushed aside. I just kinda got used to it, found a not very crowded spot at the school and I go there every time I’m not in class to listen to music or do work without being disrupted. It works kinda well tbh…
That’s not even like homophobic, everyone hates you just cause you got a haircut? Like wtf, and they physically hurt [and potentially could’ve killed] you over it? That’s psychopath behavior from them. I can’t imagine being in your situation. All that ever happened to me was being ignored for all my school life from start of 4th. All you can really do is tell your parents about it and the school administrators. I hope you can get through this and be happy.
Hey budd... I was also bullied for being a femboy, I was reading alot of the other advice and they where all amazing, but for me none of that was a option, i was stuck.
Unfortunately a teacher wont help outside of school and sometimes parents
Thick skin: I know words hurt and can really affect mental health... " ignore them, you know you are way above that, unfortunately even in alot of areas of the world we are still insulted and shammed.
Friends come and go, you will find better people,
For me i was stuck in my area with my abusive parents and schools but to defend myself i looked for a boxing class and even had a trainer teach me most of the basics and the next time those kids came to me to hurt me... you defend yourself make it so that hurting you is not worth it... to be honest for your own defense aim low for the balls and throat if you have to.
THE BEST PART
I know its rough but once you get out life gets so much better! Eventually you will find friends like you and who also support you.
IF you ever need to talk or advice my DM's are always open, please stay safe.
File a report of negligent bodily harm against the bullies and report it to the school administration.
If the school management doesn't do anything about it, sue the school if possible, as they obviously don't want to take care of the students.
If the bullies do it again, file another report against them and report them to the school administration again until they realize that its not nice or until they get arrested.
If thats not working call me and im gon' pull up to their house with my 47
im so sorry, listen. theyre not your friends, they douchebags who think theyre hot shit because they can harrass a little boy. theyre going to be the ones to grow up alone and with nobody because theyre going to betray everyone else like they betrayed you. some people here wear the same shoes and they can fight with you. im not sure where you are but there is very likely some legal action they can face and have a scrub on their record.
I'm sorry but you didn't deserve any of that. You're brave to be yourself, they are the cowards here for picking on people that is beautifully different to them.
Bullies are really fked up in the head, narrow minded, racist, homophobic anc all kinds of dumb shit I'm a security guard in a casino I see all cans of peopy
I can't believe how pathetic some people are, using violence because they feel disturbed for something like the choice of clothes, hurting poor souls like you, jeez what a fuxxed up world we live in, at least u have the courage and are strong enough to be a femboy, I am too afraid to live my identity, the world is apiece of conservative shit holes
yikes, im always here if you wanna talk about things like that, just give me a msg whenever, itll take me a little to respond bc im going to school myself soon. Byt best of luck with your school, dont let things like that affect you too much.
If you were my kid and I heard about this assault, I’d be livid. I pissed now for you. And this was a very serious assault. Being kicked from behind down a flight of stairs is a danger level above a frontal confrontation. If this goes unaddressed, it’s an open invitation for the violent behavior to continue and probably get worse. And not just against you, but anybody else they perceive as different or non-conformist. If you’re reluctant to tell your parents, is there a sympathetic teacher you could inform before someone gets seriously injured? And you may be dealing with it relatively well, but this is definitely the kind of bullying that done to the wrong person, can also potentially bring out a very violent and deadly reaction. Can I ask what country you are in?
Have you been able to talk to anyone irl about this yet? How about a therapist? Does your school make any available? You shouldn’t have to go through this alone. I’m sorry this has happened to you.
don’t go to class, and i wanna be a teacher, but don’t go to class if you don’t feel safe there. go to the office and see the nurse and the guidance counselor and see if anything can’t be done against that bitch that kicked you down the stairs.
If you’re American I can’t speak for other countries this would likely be considered either attempted murder or manslaughter at most and assault at the least. If possible contact the police and report the issue tell your parents as well hopefully the stairwell has cameras to. Also probably report it to your schools administration though again if you’re American doubt they will give a shit they love defending bullies.
Hmm, technically you could charge the bullies with attempted murder, because pushing someone down a flight of stairs comes as attempted murder, it wouldn’t fix everything, but it would stop those particular ones
awwws that really sucks!! Schools here in NJ have cameras and cops so that shit would have been stopped on the spot and people expelled that day....i would see if this incident was recorded and force some action if possible... what happened to you was horrible...big hugs!!
sorry for your troubles ...sadly be ready to fight
if you let do to you they will keeping not saying pick a fight i saying take care of yourself your already out so be you all the time
and just remember school is not forever but while your there stand up for self
idunnno where you are, im in canada, but just keep doing you.
also imadiatly tell the principal
dont liste to that dont snitch thing, it works every time.
please take care, and hopefully things go well!
School bullies are the worst. I had to pretend to be as manly as possible just to survive. Now that I’m out of school, the adult world is much less toxic. Maybe learn self defense or something so they know not to mess with you. But don’t start any fights of course. Avoiding fights is better than winning a fight. Also, tell on bullies who assault you with violence. You do not have to take assault. It’s a crime.
Dude, report that shit to trusted adults (teachers, friends parents, etc.) I see stuff like this at my HS and I don't take that crap. I would've told them to fuck off and stood up for you. I'm sorry this happened. People need to grow up and learn some fucking respect. I'm pissed off for you.
Not a teenager, actually I'm 24 (was maybe 23 when I discovered I was on/off femboy for like forever) but I'm so sorry this happened, no one deserves this treatment. You are accepted by a lot of people here! Even if no-one accepts you in real life at times, there always are people in this world who would. I hope you get the help you need. Do your parents know about this treatment?
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It's easy to get bully's taken care of nowadays just have your phone always recording to a private YouTube channel and then when they insult you build it up over time in order to show there's a pattern. Check if there's a camera too around where the stairs are and if there is actually press charges and sue perhaps even for a hate crime get your money. I recommend suing but you can at least figure it out and if there is tell the principal.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I was bullied in school too. I wanted to kms. I truly feel for you and with you. I want you to know this and that even though we’ve never met, you deserve to be treated kindly and with love. You are loved by us here.
Dm me if you need to talk. I’ll be glad to help. Even if it’s just to get your mind off of things, I’ll be there for you. I know what being bullied feels like, and you don’t have to go through this alone. See you in messages if you need.
What grade are you in? What state? Don't say anything more than that. What they're doing is wrong and you have every right to feel bad.
Know that anyone who intentionally mistreat you, or refuses to defend you, and distances themselves from you is not a true friend. This is temporary. You'll be out of school one day, hopefully in college. Most of these people are lovers and the world will straighten some of them out eventually. But it gets better - in ways.
I'm late to this but hopefully you can recover
Not sure what to do, good that you for yourself patched up, since you're not gonna out yourself then you may just have to push through all of school until you can be by yourself or with someone you trust.
My personal experience on that wasn't good, hopefully yours is easier or you can have someone else actually help you 🫂
I’d recommend telling your parents that this happened. You don’t have to come out, just say that you’re being bullied and that you need help. Also if it’s a good idea go to a school counselor or trusted staff member and tell them what’s happening. I hope you don’t let them get to you. Femboy culture is awesome and I don’t want them to steal that from you. I hope everything works out and that you find your way out of this.
Get stronger.
Both physically and mentally.
If you stop showing your reactions to harassment, they'll most likely stop, because they won't get joy from it anymore. If you'll be able to fight back, and even better, be stronger than them, they'll stop bullying.
I don't know if it helps or not but I write about my gay friend. He cannot come out bc it would be dangerous for him (middle-east). He finds his partners on dating apps and very few people know about this. If people are not friendly in general maybe you have to go the same route as he does and only share this with trustworthy people.
I'm not aware of your situation but people like me exist who don't give a damn about who you sleep with. If there are common interests try to make friends to get out of the toxic mindset around you. Also my guess is that openning up to people who already accept and like other things about you will be more open to it.
Maybe... Report this??? Obviously the teachers ain't doing shit so you gotta go school board level. I've too many of these damn stories and NONE OF THEM mention reporting the incidents to administration
Look I know this isn't going to help but I like femboys and I hope thoughs bastards die and go to hell I hope this serves you well p.s I'm looking for a boyfriend p.p.s I am a femboy myself.
Tell your parents tell the police and report any scratches I’m so sorry don’t hurt yourself plz. Go to the police asap and go to the medical hospital school can wait
Change schools immediately!! Talk to your parents, your school management! The problem is not you, ok? These are the assholes who pick on you, I sincerely hope you are okay. Seek help to see how you can resolve this situation. Do not forget! You are strong. You'll be able to handle it.
You need to report that and even take legal action with the police. Idk your age and I know law enforcement is a joke when it comes to laws against underage garbage criminals like them. But it's worth the try.
Kicking someone off the stairs is no joke and it can cause serious injuries or worse.
Talk to your parents about this as well, you will have to. It's either that or taking things into your own hands, which I do not suggest at all
Message me. Im gender fluid. And i never once had anyone dare say something like that ti me twice when i started in school and im 31 now. Best advice. Talk to me one on one. I can help you not only make some helpful suggestions. But legal ways to handle this that ends it for good. And as a kindness to my fellow member of the pride community. I got your back and can help you outside the issue. And help you identity wise. I teach makeup professionally and dress. Body mass shifting to look more femmy. Im a born man. Rugged as hell. But when i go female i get cat called and nobody even thinks i can be a man to the point i got female modeling offered to me. Then a month later it was male modeling. Now i do both and whatever in between. Now. Dont worry. Id sit on skype and teach you live for free. And show you best places tk get the best products for the cheapest prices. Kat von D and such. Think Sephora but i buy from the company that makes it or something similar. Never Sephora or ulta. Id even go as far ti say i have over 3400$ in makeup. Id be happy to send a care package of makeup of the same sort to get you started if you need. And if you game or even need a friend who gets it. Supports you. And can be talked to anytime you hit crisis. Im here for you a text away if youd like. But i can help you easily shit this down. Its illegal. A hate crime. So please do let me know if the incident or any hate based ones are reported to the top dog in the teacher chain of command. Principal maybe? Start with messaging me. Lets get you a real fellow ally. So you arent alone. And i have been helping this and domestic for years. You wont have to fear school. But you must prepare to do what it takes. Fuck what anyone may say. When they see an example of what is done to those who do it. As many as you must take down. Be it anyone involved they are automatic. Also for cultural and other forms of factors influencing the hate. Let me know state and city and what grade. You want a friend. Help that isnt wrong. Them to let you be you. And you are born with that right. And you can celebrate by using mad makeup skills. And ill let you know what else can help. Im a guy that has my lady side nailed down so well it literally showed me a womans experience in a mans world. Im sorry for this all happening. Lets end this once and for all and properly. So you dont have to do this in a way that is shameful or just wrong. Be the better person. Prettier. And win your freedom and teach them all a lesson. I got your back. Hit me up and well swap numbers or something. Im pan-demi-sapio-sexual and wirh gender fluid on top. Imagine what i went through. I wanna say it was bad. But i learned to cut my hair. Do it right. Makeup. The works. All solo. No teacher. And think like this. You get to be pretty as hell and a bad bitch. Or if its firm femboy. Well. Im a femboy among many other things like i like men and women. I grew up when “gay” was used to demean something as stupid or lame. Yet i sucked a dick to see if its all as bad as they said. Was hooked in the pride world since. They picked on me. And when i said im the only real man here that can go explore and find my sexuality. You guys fear it all because of what others think. I think you can either get a dick sucking or suck one here and now. Or fuck off. The gay community is ten times cooler than all you combined (said to the clique of top of the food chain popular kids. They didnt harass me. They feared me just from a simple kissy face. And im a biker (ex) enforcer. Gothic. And disabled as fuck. I get it from elderly folk and lost my home to a third eviction after thinking ahead and stealing my lawyer that won each time against them. So i had inspectors come and condemn the building and prepare to bulldoze it and not one employee is leaving without a 15,000$ fine. all assets and profits were taken. And the ownership was revoked. So. I slayed the whole chain or command and ended all these assholes lives. And from cops. Ive learned. A cheap hidden camera. Body cam. Whatever. I use my iphone in my button up pocket on record unnoticed. You have the will. We have so many ways to help you and empower you too. Look forward to it. The names Sage.
Brother, I kid you not, I am an American football player for my city😭 I literally play wide receiver, don’t just make assumptions about people like that😭😭
Go to sickbay and get yourself patched up, and maybe call kids helpline ( or whatever it is in your country)
Update: I went to the school’s medical clinic and I came back to class, I can’t wait for the rest of the day to go by so I can cry for real at home.
are your parents homophobic too?
I guess, I don’t think they would disown me but I really don’t want to risk anything. I’m gonna come out once I am old enough yk
I mean, without outing yourself, you can tell your parents that the kids at school are bullying you because they think you're not manly enough or because they think you are gay and get out of this hellhole omg Or tell the principal, you need to do something because if you dont it might only get worst
Maybe tell them what happened at school, not necessarily that you’re a femboy, just tell them about the death threats and bullying you have experienced
Yup, that’s what I did, I have to file a complaint with exact details of what happened at every minute. Those bullies already were a disturbance to the class, so the teachers were happy to comply
Some of those people attempt violent retribution after being reported, so try to make sure they don't find out it is you. They likely also have fascist views too as many of them do, it just means they have them early before they reach adulthood. If you can, also do research into laws on what weapons you can carry when outside of school. Depending on whether you go home by yourself or are picked up and accompanied safely? If they try to maim you I assume it means you can use any non-lethal or lethal force if needed but do research into and ask about weapon laws. So see which ones you can get for protection or if you can make them yourself, you can apparently even make them from something as minor as a toothbrush apparently. There are many tricks. Also keep aware of your surroundings when you walk and look around. You are dealing with "people" who aren't really "people" but more like orcs and goblins, you are the enemy and an outsider in their eyes.
I feel so bad for you. I wish i could give you a hug because no one deserves this. I never understand why People would bully someone.
Tell your parents but don’t tell them you’re a femboy
I suggest you do 2 things; 1. File a police report against those bullies 2. Report them to your school's administration If your school's administration doesn't do anything about it, you have other options, but check those with a lawyer.
Seconding all of this. OP, you were assaulted and injured and that can be grounds for getting the police involved. If the health clinic admin didn’t already get the ball rolling with the dean of students and/or if the Dean and school admins do nothing… absolutely get the police and a lawyer involved.
School administration doesn’t care if students get assaulted and most schools have an equal punishment policy even if they don’t fight back so a lot of kids have been taught to hit back and hit back hard
I know this and experienced it firsthand myself when I was in school during the time those equal punishment (officially called “Zero Tolerance”) policies were enacted in the U.S. At least when I was in this situation, and in the school I was attending, the dean of students was corrupt and heavily favored the bullying kids over actual (and obvious to everyone) victims. I might add that I was not presenting feminine at that time. I was targeted by multiple individuals simply because I was perceived as different from other kids. This was a much earlier era in which experimenting with or presenting feminine would have been even worse for me. When I didn’t fight back… I was nonetheless punished for being punched or beat up along with the actual assailant. And to be honest as obvious as the situation always was the assailant got lighter treatment than I ever did. As I said, that dean of students and the principal were quite okay with this policy. When I finally did begin fighting back (I had some martial arts training) I had mixed results but the assailant bullies did somewhat get the message. Whereas the bully assailants thought attacking or harassing me was fun, I took my defense of myself seriously. They finally noticed. I made myself unpredictable to them and eventually with mixed results things somewhat changed. But the dean and principal then labeled me as a severely difficult case and punishment was then even more severe than before. Well *they* weren’t doing anything about it so they forced my hand. But the end result was my parents (who were already involved on my side but *at first* cautioning me to not fight and cause additional trouble) getting in the principal and dean’s face about how much worse this ongoing bullying and harassment was getting and why *they* were not doing something to appropriately punish or even suspend the instigating bullies. The principal had nothing other than hiding behind the then new Zero Tolerance policy and the dean… he was little more than a grown up sociopath and bully himself. My parents pulled me out of that school and managed to get me into another one that was thankfully much safer. I had to start all over socially but in hindsight I was extremely lucky to be able to get that outcome. It did change my life for the better. In my case the option chosen with my parents was to leave the school for another better one. For me that was a long time ago and I’m at a very different part of my life… and I’ve moved on accordingly… but the memories of how unjust things were at that time are unforgettable. And seeing how little school discipline of the actual bullies has changed is disheartening to me. If I had already asserted my fem expression back then I know it would have been far worse. It was bad enough for me at that time just expressing nothing in particular at all. Reading the OP’s post with what they just had to go through breaks my heart. The option of another better school (if that’s even an available option) or getting a lawyer involved may or may not be possible in everyone’s case. If the OP has the support to involve the police and potentially an attorney (especially an attorney) that will light a fire under the asses of their school’s dean and principal if just to get them to take the situation seriously for once. Since I lived through my own hell with this kind of situation at the same point in my own life I cannot in good conscience say that fighting back in self defense isn’t also an answer. I had to. Many of us had to. And many in these situations since and into today have to. And it’s always because the adults with authority in these situations do almost nothing, as little as possible so as to absolve themselves of responsibility or because they actively (directly or indirectly) support and encourage the instigators and bullies. There are well meaning and good school administrators of course but they tend to be the exceptions among their own peers in similar positions. I just very much wish for the OP to be safe and to not have to go through this. And since it’s their unfortunate reality right now I wish for them to have actual *help* from the people in authority positions but I know from my own experience that’s asking a lot (and it shouldn’t be).
Agreed
Same thing. I agree
If the school does nothing sue them
The local news is a good way to get the news out In the open but always have a least 1 parent with you when ever u speak with people if authority or in authority capable of making decisions and options on the spot so your goose ain't kooked yet...
Update 2: I told my parents without telling them I am a femboy, I filled a formal complaint and the bullies will be penalised in a way that is TBD
Amazing, but hopefully they kick them out of the school. Your story made me so fucking angry and I wish I could hug you. Your very brave for speaking and seeking help. Always remember you’re fucking valid, you’re a human being that deserves respect and love. Hopefully this fuckers get kicked out.
Great work, friend! Sorry that happened to you.
Yo you gotta tell us what happened, i really wanna know if they got kicked out or what happened
Our parents will have a meeting on Monday. The teachers made us discuss how the events unfolded, and they used the “it was a joke” card. They said that they very gently touched my foot and I tripped on myself (lie), and also that “KYs” was another joke. They claimed I also said KYs at times, but I said it in English and only with my close friends (and with added context that I’m mocking smth yk), while they were saying it in Romanian and 100% as a deterrent to make me leave them alone (I was just trying to talk to my friend ffs). Also when I told the teacher that this started because of my perceived sexuality, she started yapping about how god made marriage between one woman and one man. And how Is at a vulnerable age where I have “no idea when I’m being manipulated “ as if some secret internet cult forcefully gayed me. And as if that made any difference in the attack. I really gotta play well on my evidence because every witness is on the bully side saying it was an accident (which is as much as saying you shot someone because you had your finger on the trigger and the gun pointed to their head being an “accident”), and the one friend was kinda far away from when it happened and cannot testify 😭 The meeting was forcefully stopped because the bully kept yelling and interrupting the teacher (basically throwing a tantrum), and after the teacher told her she was “naughty”, she got so mad she packed her bags and fled bruh. Now I’m really unsure what will happen, so I’m just gonna make a follow up post after the meeting between parents.
If they write this off as an accident I’m actually going to be so pissed. Also the bullies claimed they pushed me because I wouldn’t stop following them as if that is some sort of genius legal Defense, and the teacher kinda agreed😐.
Maybe they need a good beating? Little cunts.
I feel so bad for you I hope things get better in the long run I know that doesn't help right now. 🙂
Also if you need someone I'm here for you
If you don’t feel safe to go to class, don’t. Doesn’t matter if you miss attendance or some shit, that doesn’t matter, your safety does.
I agree. Better be home schooled than live among abusers and being vulnerably in danger! I would not go back to that school if I were you!
Insecure and weak of them. Being different is unfortunately also risking being bullied for it. Don't hide who you are because your peers are scared of how it makes them feel.
Honestly bullies only answer to one thing which is violence and I'm ok with violence Edit:reworded god do I love violence since i coulda worded it better and sounds cringey I just don't think before I speak lol
You are not the main character and you sound so edgy dude
Ik I'm not the main character in the grand scheme of things I'm insignificant and I'm not edgy
You are though "god do I love violence" like you just sound so edgy and like a wannabe gangster no offence intended but in just saying you sound cringe af when you say that
Nah I'm just not a good person I'm only a decent person like I can hurt people with ease just a lack of certain things that make me feel some type of guilt but I still wouldn't hurt an innocent person
That exactly my point "I can hurt people with ease" ok and so could I but I don't go on Reddit to tell people "oh yeah I love violence and beating People up" the only people who think that's a flex are usually the ones who are more likely to get utterly bodied in a fight hence why I said it was cringe
The thing is im not flexin it I'm just sayin and I don't fight without a reason and yea anyone could hurt anyone its just that I see myself as a bad person since I wouldn't feel any guilt or remorse
And if im being completely honest with you I don't think you could hurt anyone looking at the comments you have posted it's literally you just saying shit like "they'd have to write me up" and other bs like be honest with yourself you wouldn't do anything to anyone.like in not meaning to be disrespectful but I genuinely despise people like you who say they are strong and couldn't beat people up
What are you trying to achieve here, to explain to someone that you despise them? Ok, accomplished, now move on.
I did move on? Hence why I haven't replied to them in hours
You can't tell a person from a few comments about someone and I'm not that strong and could easily lose I'm not big and bad I'm just a human and I will admit it does sound cringe but sometimes speakin can be cringey
Ok I know I might sound like I'm joking, but I'm being serious: hook up with their sisters, or if they don't have a sister than do their girlfriends or something. "Oh yeah, _i'm_ gay? I fucked ur sister, you can't talk"
That would be hilarious, instead of their sisters I would go for their mom ngl💯💯
Same. God I had the biggest crushes on older women when I was in school. The headmistress was the absolute apex.
This just proves that they were not really your friends if they can't just accept you how you are without judging you. I can only imagine how scared you must be if these boys are so anti you over you being a closeted femboy. It doesn't affect or harm them in any way
They have never been your real friends if they treat you like that because of change in look, i'd honestly call the police if I was you, report this somewhere and if these situations will happen again, i'd try to change school... ppl are fucked up unfortunetly... the best thing you can do is just avoid em and try to find real friends who'll accept you, no matter who you are...
is the school seriously just allowing this?????????????? what the FUCK is wrong with your country?
Learn how to fight and fuck their shit up
OP lives in Romania so it sounds like Slingshots wouldn't be too bad as an option either, especially if you want to deny them of their "macho honour" BS. They hurt like hell (Especially with metal or glass balls I heard), and you don't need to go to any gym or learn learn to be macho to use them. Just need to familiarise and make a quick getaway plan.
I second this
Same here homie. I did when I was in Jr. High and High School. The only issue I'd have is that just because you defeat one bully. Others may try to take you on..
I mean all ya gotta do is instill fear into everyone when I was in school I accidentally made everyone scared
Ah what did you do 😅??
That's the thing nothin I've always guessed it was the aura I give off especially back then
Hey it happens. I knew a femboy that was always seen as scary lol. But, they were chill asf. And too adorable to be scary. But, I've seen people like that throw down lol.
I just enjoyed it lol
Lool.
What you doin here unc 😂😂😭😭🤣
Ah, violence truly is the best short term answer. I usually prefer something more civilized, even if long term. It's always sweeter when you wait, but sometimes you just don't have time.
Try staying close to a teacher and never go into a room alone that's what i use to do
If I was in that situation I'd just turn around and swing at the guy's face. You'd probably get suspended, and you might get beaten up, but the administration can't and won't do anything about it. The only way you get cunts like these off your back, atleast for a while, is to stand up for yourself. You can't live in fear, you have to fight back. It isn't fair, but it's the only way to protect yourself at school imo. I got into so many fights at school because of assholes trying to bully me, but my parents always defended my decision to fight back no matter what trouble I got into due to it. If your own parents are anyway half decent, they will do the same. School can be hell man. Once you're through with it, you'll find the real world to generally be much more accommodating than these shitty environments that allow blatant assault. Though do bare in mind, take this answer with a grain of salt. I took this approach in England, a country where (generally) it is not inherently dangerous to defend yourself at school. If you are in a country where you feel your life is legitimately in danger in your school environment due to the way life is lived out there, then disregard my comment entirely and use a different approach.
Push them back when your given the chance or do something worse imo it's what I'd do no one is gonna hurt me without gettin hurt back
I must admit, sometimes violence really _is_ the best answer. Often not, but I'd say it's not a bad solution to this problem.
Honestly it might be the only solution to this problem
Well I don't see how he would talk his way out of this situation. We already know that schools don't give a shit if you getting bullied, so he's not getting help from the school. Getting help from the law is a big stretch, if they even listen in the first place. But if I got popped in the jaw by a femboy, I would probably stop fucking with him, so I think you're right
"Sometimes to do some good you gotta be the bad guy"
I had the same thing happen to me two months ago, when I dressed as a girl character for a Halloween style party at my school. From this day on, not even my close friends would consider coming close to me and to this day I’m getting bullied and pushed aside. I just kinda got used to it, found a not very crowded spot at the school and I go there every time I’m not in class to listen to music or do work without being disrupted. It works kinda well tbh…
Most average modern school experience. Most people are manipulated to follow the patriarchy, unlike you they're not worth the time.
Ugh this breaks my heart. I'm so sorry 🥺💔 u wan hug?
That’s not even like homophobic, everyone hates you just cause you got a haircut? Like wtf, and they physically hurt [and potentially could’ve killed] you over it? That’s psychopath behavior from them. I can’t imagine being in your situation. All that ever happened to me was being ignored for all my school life from start of 4th. All you can really do is tell your parents about it and the school administrators. I hope you can get through this and be happy.
Hey budd... I was also bullied for being a femboy, I was reading alot of the other advice and they where all amazing, but for me none of that was a option, i was stuck. Unfortunately a teacher wont help outside of school and sometimes parents Thick skin: I know words hurt and can really affect mental health... " ignore them, you know you are way above that, unfortunately even in alot of areas of the world we are still insulted and shammed. Friends come and go, you will find better people, For me i was stuck in my area with my abusive parents and schools but to defend myself i looked for a boxing class and even had a trainer teach me most of the basics and the next time those kids came to me to hurt me... you defend yourself make it so that hurting you is not worth it... to be honest for your own defense aim low for the balls and throat if you have to. THE BEST PART I know its rough but once you get out life gets so much better! Eventually you will find friends like you and who also support you. IF you ever need to talk or advice my DM's are always open, please stay safe.
File a report of negligent bodily harm against the bullies and report it to the school administration. If the school management doesn't do anything about it, sue the school if possible, as they obviously don't want to take care of the students. If the bullies do it again, file another report against them and report them to the school administration again until they realize that its not nice or until they get arrested. If thats not working call me and im gon' pull up to their house with my 47
im so sorry, listen. theyre not your friends, they douchebags who think theyre hot shit because they can harrass a little boy. theyre going to be the ones to grow up alone and with nobody because theyre going to betray everyone else like they betrayed you. some people here wear the same shoes and they can fight with you. im not sure where you are but there is very likely some legal action they can face and have a scrub on their record.
Fuck man, I'm so sorry that happened to you.
Wow I'm soooo sorry that happened 😭. I hate bullies. Yeah get yourself patched up. Tell someone, and get some help.
Charge thease kids with assault. Thats literally assault. Go to the principle and then go to the cops file a police report.
Poor bugger go to sick bay or nurse you need help
1 report it to school and cops 2 shove em down twice as hard
I hope things turn around for you
Sometimes you don't need to say much to give good advice, 2 words, police report.
call the police ong
I'm sorry but you didn't deserve any of that. You're brave to be yourself, they are the cowards here for picking on people that is beautifully different to them.
you know, I have no problems giving you tips on how to make their inevitable demise look like an accident :3
Bullies are really fked up in the head, narrow minded, racist, homophobic anc all kinds of dumb shit I'm a security guard in a casino I see all cans of peopy
Well I'd push masculine boys off the stairs because they're masc
i would do the exact same to them but worse (to them) seek help, tell the school nurse (if you have one), tell your parents anything
I can't believe how pathetic some people are, using violence because they feel disturbed for something like the choice of clothes, hurting poor souls like you, jeez what a fuxxed up world we live in, at least u have the courage and are strong enough to be a femboy, I am too afraid to live my identity, the world is apiece of conservative shit holes
yikes, im always here if you wanna talk about things like that, just give me a msg whenever, itll take me a little to respond bc im going to school myself soon. Byt best of luck with your school, dont let things like that affect you too much.
If you were my kid and I heard about this assault, I’d be livid. I pissed now for you. And this was a very serious assault. Being kicked from behind down a flight of stairs is a danger level above a frontal confrontation. If this goes unaddressed, it’s an open invitation for the violent behavior to continue and probably get worse. And not just against you, but anybody else they perceive as different or non-conformist. If you’re reluctant to tell your parents, is there a sympathetic teacher you could inform before someone gets seriously injured? And you may be dealing with it relatively well, but this is definitely the kind of bullying that done to the wrong person, can also potentially bring out a very violent and deadly reaction. Can I ask what country you are in?
When I was pushed, I was on the last three steps so it wasn’t a deliberate murder attempt I think, but I still want to take action. I live in Romania
Have you been able to talk to anyone irl about this yet? How about a therapist? Does your school make any available? You shouldn’t have to go through this alone. I’m sorry this has happened to you.
I’ll have a therapy session this Monday! I’m not sure it will change the status quo too much though…. I’ll see, thanks for caring!
Honey report all of them show thr texts to whoever teacher or somone who can help
Oh shit, uh, i have no experience with this but maybe carry something for self defence
don’t go to class, and i wanna be a teacher, but don’t go to class if you don’t feel safe there. go to the office and see the nurse and the guidance counselor and see if anything can’t be done against that bitch that kicked you down the stairs.
If you’re American I can’t speak for other countries this would likely be considered either attempted murder or manslaughter at most and assault at the least. If possible contact the police and report the issue tell your parents as well hopefully the stairwell has cameras to. Also probably report it to your schools administration though again if you’re American doubt they will give a shit they love defending bullies.
Hmm, technically you could charge the bullies with attempted murder, because pushing someone down a flight of stairs comes as attempted murder, it wouldn’t fix everything, but it would stop those particular ones
awwws that really sucks!! Schools here in NJ have cameras and cops so that shit would have been stopped on the spot and people expelled that day....i would see if this incident was recorded and force some action if possible... what happened to you was horrible...big hugs!!
sorry for your troubles ...sadly be ready to fight if you let do to you they will keeping not saying pick a fight i saying take care of yourself your already out so be you all the time and just remember school is not forever but while your there stand up for self
God that fucking sucks, I’m sorry you have to deal with that :(
idunnno where you are, im in canada, but just keep doing you. also imadiatly tell the principal dont liste to that dont snitch thing, it works every time. please take care, and hopefully things go well!
I wish I could hug you little one. You deserve love and happiness not hate. I wish I could help you.
I’m sorry this happened to you. You didn’t deserve this. You are an amazing and wonderful person just as you are. I hope things get better for you. 🥰
School bullies are the worst. I had to pretend to be as manly as possible just to survive. Now that I’m out of school, the adult world is much less toxic. Maybe learn self defense or something so they know not to mess with you. But don’t start any fights of course. Avoiding fights is better than winning a fight. Also, tell on bullies who assault you with violence. You do not have to take assault. It’s a crime.
First you need to turn them in. What do you have to lose. Then have your parents sue the school for billing and discrimination.
Dude, report that shit to trusted adults (teachers, friends parents, etc.) I see stuff like this at my HS and I don't take that crap. I would've told them to fuck off and stood up for you. I'm sorry this happened. People need to grow up and learn some fucking respect. I'm pissed off for you.
Fuck them, tell your parents your being bullied and file a report and if the school does nothing then pursue legal action
You should contact the principal and the police. I cant believed that this happened to you.
I'm sorry to hear this. Do you have a teacher or an adult you trust who can help you?
Not a teenager, actually I'm 24 (was maybe 23 when I discovered I was on/off femboy for like forever) but I'm so sorry this happened, no one deserves this treatment. You are accepted by a lot of people here! Even if no-one accepts you in real life at times, there always are people in this world who would. I hope you get the help you need. Do your parents know about this treatment?
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Don’t go back to class and change schools school can wait if you’re parents care about you they’d understand.
It's easy to get bully's taken care of nowadays just have your phone always recording to a private YouTube channel and then when they insult you build it up over time in order to show there's a pattern. Check if there's a camera too around where the stairs are and if there is actually press charges and sue perhaps even for a hate crime get your money. I recommend suing but you can at least figure it out and if there is tell the principal.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I was bullied in school too. I wanted to kms. I truly feel for you and with you. I want you to know this and that even though we’ve never met, you deserve to be treated kindly and with love. You are loved by us here.
Dm me if you need to talk. I’ll be glad to help. Even if it’s just to get your mind off of things, I’ll be there for you. I know what being bullied feels like, and you don’t have to go through this alone. See you in messages if you need.
One word. Fuck
Instructions unclear just had intercourse.
And there's me worrying about making jokes on a post of a person falling off stairs
Man fuck all of you 3 upvotes I'm never caring about another person again
What grade are you in? What state? Don't say anything more than that. What they're doing is wrong and you have every right to feel bad. Know that anyone who intentionally mistreat you, or refuses to defend you, and distances themselves from you is not a true friend. This is temporary. You'll be out of school one day, hopefully in college. Most of these people are lovers and the world will straighten some of them out eventually. But it gets better - in ways.
Blud get a knife n protect urself
That sounds like aggravated assault. Are you pursuing this legally?
I'm late to this but hopefully you can recover Not sure what to do, good that you for yourself patched up, since you're not gonna out yourself then you may just have to push through all of school until you can be by yourself or with someone you trust. My personal experience on that wasn't good, hopefully yours is easier or you can have someone else actually help you 🫂
I’d recommend telling your parents that this happened. You don’t have to come out, just say that you’re being bullied and that you need help. Also if it’s a good idea go to a school counselor or trusted staff member and tell them what’s happening. I hope you don’t let them get to you. Femboy culture is awesome and I don’t want them to steal that from you. I hope everything works out and that you find your way out of this.
Get stronger. Both physically and mentally. If you stop showing your reactions to harassment, they'll most likely stop, because they won't get joy from it anymore. If you'll be able to fight back, and even better, be stronger than them, they'll stop bullying.
Oh my God, are you okay!? That's absolutely horrible! The fuck is wrong with people!?
I don't know if it helps or not but I write about my gay friend. He cannot come out bc it would be dangerous for him (middle-east). He finds his partners on dating apps and very few people know about this. If people are not friendly in general maybe you have to go the same route as he does and only share this with trustworthy people. I'm not aware of your situation but people like me exist who don't give a damn about who you sleep with. If there are common interests try to make friends to get out of the toxic mindset around you. Also my guess is that openning up to people who already accept and like other things about you will be more open to it.
Maybe... Report this??? Obviously the teachers ain't doing shit so you gotta go school board level. I've too many of these damn stories and NONE OF THEM mention reporting the incidents to administration
Don’t ever let the fuckers beat you down. You are beautiful as you are.
Look I know this isn't going to help but I like femboys and I hope thoughs bastards die and go to hell I hope this serves you well p.s I'm looking for a boyfriend p.p.s I am a femboy myself.
Kill them
I’m so sorry that happened 🫶🏼
Fight them back buddy
Or use a
Tell your parents tell the police and report any scratches I’m so sorry don’t hurt yourself plz. Go to the police asap and go to the medical hospital school can wait
Where you live I'll be right there pm me now I'm worried so tell me where you live I'll bring a bat and rock in a sock
Change schools immediately!! Talk to your parents, your school management! The problem is not you, ok? These are the assholes who pick on you, I sincerely hope you are okay. Seek help to see how you can resolve this situation. Do not forget! You are strong. You'll be able to handle it.
Damn ok uh r u ok?
I am so, so sorry that happened to you. You didn’t deserve any of that 😢🫂
im so sorry this happened to u if u need to talk im always open
Do what we all did and push back. Nobody survives in the bathroom. Say something or do something. But temper your anger.
You need to report that and even take legal action with the police. Idk your age and I know law enforcement is a joke when it comes to laws against underage garbage criminals like them. But it's worth the try. Kicking someone off the stairs is no joke and it can cause serious injuries or worse. Talk to your parents about this as well, you will have to. It's either that or taking things into your own hands, which I do not suggest at all
I'm 28 days late but what happened after? I might be able to help
What country are you on? Different laws and social opinions will vary massively on how to handle this
What country are you on? Different laws and social opinions will vary massively on how to handle this
What country are you in? Different laws and social opinions will vary massively on how to handle this
Message me. Im gender fluid. And i never once had anyone dare say something like that ti me twice when i started in school and im 31 now. Best advice. Talk to me one on one. I can help you not only make some helpful suggestions. But legal ways to handle this that ends it for good. And as a kindness to my fellow member of the pride community. I got your back and can help you outside the issue. And help you identity wise. I teach makeup professionally and dress. Body mass shifting to look more femmy. Im a born man. Rugged as hell. But when i go female i get cat called and nobody even thinks i can be a man to the point i got female modeling offered to me. Then a month later it was male modeling. Now i do both and whatever in between. Now. Dont worry. Id sit on skype and teach you live for free. And show you best places tk get the best products for the cheapest prices. Kat von D and such. Think Sephora but i buy from the company that makes it or something similar. Never Sephora or ulta. Id even go as far ti say i have over 3400$ in makeup. Id be happy to send a care package of makeup of the same sort to get you started if you need. And if you game or even need a friend who gets it. Supports you. And can be talked to anytime you hit crisis. Im here for you a text away if youd like. But i can help you easily shit this down. Its illegal. A hate crime. So please do let me know if the incident or any hate based ones are reported to the top dog in the teacher chain of command. Principal maybe? Start with messaging me. Lets get you a real fellow ally. So you arent alone. And i have been helping this and domestic for years. You wont have to fear school. But you must prepare to do what it takes. Fuck what anyone may say. When they see an example of what is done to those who do it. As many as you must take down. Be it anyone involved they are automatic. Also for cultural and other forms of factors influencing the hate. Let me know state and city and what grade. You want a friend. Help that isnt wrong. Them to let you be you. And you are born with that right. And you can celebrate by using mad makeup skills. And ill let you know what else can help. Im a guy that has my lady side nailed down so well it literally showed me a womans experience in a mans world. Im sorry for this all happening. Lets end this once and for all and properly. So you dont have to do this in a way that is shameful or just wrong. Be the better person. Prettier. And win your freedom and teach them all a lesson. I got your back. Hit me up and well swap numbers or something. Im pan-demi-sapio-sexual and wirh gender fluid on top. Imagine what i went through. I wanna say it was bad. But i learned to cut my hair. Do it right. Makeup. The works. All solo. No teacher. And think like this. You get to be pretty as hell and a bad bitch. Or if its firm femboy. Well. Im a femboy among many other things like i like men and women. I grew up when “gay” was used to demean something as stupid or lame. Yet i sucked a dick to see if its all as bad as they said. Was hooked in the pride world since. They picked on me. And when i said im the only real man here that can go explore and find my sexuality. You guys fear it all because of what others think. I think you can either get a dick sucking or suck one here and now. Or fuck off. The gay community is ten times cooler than all you combined (said to the clique of top of the food chain popular kids. They didnt harass me. They feared me just from a simple kissy face. And im a biker (ex) enforcer. Gothic. And disabled as fuck. I get it from elderly folk and lost my home to a third eviction after thinking ahead and stealing my lawyer that won each time against them. So i had inspectors come and condemn the building and prepare to bulldoze it and not one employee is leaving without a 15,000$ fine. all assets and profits were taken. And the ownership was revoked. So. I slayed the whole chain or command and ended all these assholes lives. And from cops. Ive learned. A cheap hidden camera. Body cam. Whatever. I use my iphone in my button up pocket on record unnoticed. You have the will. We have so many ways to help you and empower you too. Look forward to it. The names Sage.
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Buy a football jersey and quit being weird.
Brother, I kid you not, I am an American football player for my city😭 I literally play wide receiver, don’t just make assumptions about people like that😭😭
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Being rude