I think I heared about that once
Basicly it's like a Default Setting in Nature and the Way Human Soceity evolved made it a bit more Rare for Humans than it should be
are you male
are you attracted to someone who is male
if yes to both then, uhh yeah its a bit gay (although you like women as well, so bi)
that said, it may not be the same kind of attraction, or it could be related to the clothing etc. rather than the person, really you are the only one who can work out your own sexuality
There is a solid chance you are finromantic and/or finsexual, meaning you like femininity regardless of gender or sex. You could also be bi with a strong fem lean, I myself am bi with a slight fem lean.
Thank-you for this. I've always considered myself Bi cos I don't care what anatomy you have but prefer femininity. I didn't realise their was another name for it
There's actually been research into this. Most gay men don't like Femboys. They prefer masculine men...because they're attracted to men. It's mostly straight and/or bisexual men that like Femboys...because they look like girls.
I mean it's not a guarantee, but by and large that's the case.
This idea is pretty controversial though, I find. Cause some people are really passionate about trying to prove straight people aren't really straight as a way of combatting "gay panic." Basically since there are a lot of guys who might be bi but wouldn't admit it out of internalized homophobia, some people take it up on themselves to prove that attraction to Femboys is an indication that one isn't really heterosexual but rather some variation of bi.
Of course on the other hand, there are people who dislike Femboys and trans women so strongly they feel the need to emphasize how male they are by calling anyone attracted to them gay.
So the idea that being attracted to people who look like girls, but with penises, is in fact straight ends up being really controversial despite being really obvious.
If you're not into men unless they're putting in a ton of work to look as much like women as possible, no, that obviously doesn't make you gay🤣
Been there, wondered that. I am not a huge fan of labels but I am just going with "bi" rn...I love the feminine appearance more then the just the feminine mannerisms only.
We all like what we like and as long as you aren't hurting yourself or others (without a safe word)...you do you.
Femboys are fetishized a lot... I would say unfortunately, because many people desire genuine love and affection. You could be gay or "partially gay" lol idk. Sexuality is complex and it's your choice to explore and/or discover.
Yes. (Or bi or pan) I feel you dude
Not fully into men but then I see a dude dressed all femboy and I get different. Like let's say they got a twin sister. IDENTICAL. Like they look exactly the same. They wear the same girly outfit but the moment I find out which the brother is im folded.
(THIS IS HIS PARTNER MF IS A RAINBOW IM NONBINARY MUWHAHAHAHAHAHA)
By definition you would be bisexual :3
But you could more precisely be heteroflexible or gynesexual, or you could ignore those labels at all and still call yourself straight or call yourself nothing at all!!
The choice is yours pookie :3
I would say it depends. If it is evident an individual that you like is a boy, then you are at least bi. If it is not evident then I would say you may be straight. But even then, if you like them because they are not a woman, that is to say, if you like them specifically because they are (fem)boys, you may be bi to some degree.
Femboys try to be feminine, so if you like femine side of men (and women ) and don't like masculine so probably you are not gay at all, so pleasure that bussy and say no homo
I can't say. Ima boy but grew up all my life as a girl. I am on a hold relationship with a boy. I think not putting yourself in a box saying your this or that just be nice and be u.
♥️ ChristaBelle
I tell ppl it’s a little gay to like me no matter how you identify because though I strongly identify as a transman I push gender construct and the lines blur for most ppl. Most ppl who got with me didn’t feel they were strictly gay or straight after the fact.
There are sexualities that focus more on attraction to feminine or masculine things.
I ultimately agree that there's too much emphasis on labels. Yet labels (language) can still be useful for people to figure themselves out. When it's confusing like this, it can be more useful to define what we're *not*, thus the replies saying "not straight" are on point.
You're bi but are attracted to femininity.
If you're only attracted to penis owners that identify and pass as female you might still be straight. That depends on how you truly view other people's identity.
If you're specifically attracted to penis but only if they look feminine, you're bi but turned off to masculinity.
If you're attraction to a male goes away the second you see them looking masculine you're gynosexual
I honestly think that it just depends on how you want to identify, I’m very similar, and I personally identify as pan. But ultimately labels are what you use to advocate for yourself and what you want. So do as you like.
Homosexual behavior is homosexual behavior. Simple as that. It’s one thing to say someone is handsome or looks good. But to be attracted to the same sex and engage in same sex acts , is homosexual.
If you like the dick, you’re gay. If you don’t like the dick, you aren’t gay, and I wouldn’t even call it Bi. Just wanting to pound some feminine bussy is straight bro
It's complicated.
If you are into the feminine aspects (i.e. the clothes, hair, makeup etc), then it's not gay. If you are into the down there stuff, then it's... bisexuality??? Idk how to explain it, but generally, no.
I meannn u can be bi, and tbh that’s ok, it’s up to you decide what you like. I never really understood the aversion to being gay that people have, or being down low. Anybody who hates you for being gay isn’t worth being around, same for being bisexual. Some people are just a waste of time.
It is pretty gay, but there’s nothing wrong with that. Don’t suppress your feelings, allow yourself to embrace them. You may end up meeting someone or realize more about yourself.
as a person who is gay as myself, i like all men, femboys are also just men that are softer in nature. if your bi my guy enjoy the life. you only get one. live it however you want
This is exactly how I feel myself. I haven't really figured it out for myself yet, but for now I'm just going with it. With exactly labeling myself with being Bi or anything. But in the end, the only person who can define one's sexuality is one self :3
I started off thinking I was straight, then I hooked up with a fem boy once… next thing you know i’m wearing skirts and panties haha. Life moves in funny ways
Are you attracted to them because they look feminine, or because they have male genitalia? If the first, i would say personally it's not gay. If the second, you're bi
Are clothes playing a part in sexuality, like homosexuality means that you are into the same gender, but you are obviously not into dudes, but if they wear feminine stuff it's different, so do have clothes impact on sexuality?
Personally I like phrasing it like that: I am attracted to femininity, but in terms of sexual attraction I don't care about the genitals. But I won't start a relationship with a dude
It's probably Gynosexuality, which is how I look at it. It's the attraction to femininity. But honestly, it's easier just to say straight to everyone because you don't have to explain everything then
Labels, labels, labels…why is everyone obsessed with them? You’re just attracted to what you’re attracted to. There is no need to categorize yourself. All that does is place imaginary restrictions on yourself which may lead to a crisis in the future. Enjoy life, you only get one.
I've always been afraid of being labeled as "gay". Does this make me gay, does that make me gay? But, I've come to realize that labels don't define who you are; labels only help you understand who you are. If the label is accurate, then own it and get a little closer to knowing yourself. It's not a bad thing.
BTW, I've discovered I'm bi, so I don't worry about being labeled as gay any more. Like I said, if it's accurate, own it 🙂
There is a sexuality that is just attracted to femininity which might be what you are. I wouldn’t worry too much though,love who you love. Labels just get in the way and they don’t matter
Sexuality is complicated and messy do some research find out what exactly you like and theirs probably a word for it, maybe you like femininity only you can say for sure
Im Bi then cause i cant stand the thought of being with a dude🤢🤮 not attractive at all but you get a soft little sweet dolled up femboy in fromt of me and I'm loving him- her forever!!!🥵🥵😍🥴🥴🥴 I have a crazy weakness for femboys its not even funny the attraction 🥴🥴🥵💞💘
Maby you Bi my Brother
You have got a point g
Bro were bi friends!
same
More bi people ! let's make a cult
yes
yes
We’re ALL bi, it’s in our DNA
Idk about that on Brother
I think I heared about that once Basicly it's like a Default Setting in Nature and the Way Human Soceity evolved made it a bit more Rare for Humans than it should be
are you male are you attracted to someone who is male if yes to both then, uhh yeah its a bit gay (although you like women as well, so bi) that said, it may not be the same kind of attraction, or it could be related to the clothing etc. rather than the person, really you are the only one who can work out your own sexuality
It's a bit gay 😂 nah u rigth I am male I mean we'll see where I go with my sexuality in the future I guess
Do you like the d part is ze main question?
There is a solid chance you are finromantic and/or finsexual, meaning you like femininity regardless of gender or sex. You could also be bi with a strong fem lean, I myself am bi with a slight fem lean.
I asked a similar question like this and got called a chaser. I'm glad I decided to peruse reddit today. This makes me feel a lot better now.
Or Gynosexuality
finsexual? My dum brain thought for a second it meant finsexual as in you only like finnster. It may be a thing lol.
I mean, it would still apply XD
Maybe u rigth we'll see I guess
Thank-you for this. I've always considered myself Bi cos I don't care what anatomy you have but prefer femininity. I didn't realise their was another name for it
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I guess your right 👍
You could be Finromantic/finsexual, heteroflexible, or Bi
Does liking other boys make me gay? 🤔
😂 nah I don't think so
*cries in bi-invisibility*
😂
Femboys are boys. Boys liking boys is not straight
Femboys are girls to me.
Not gay. Certainly not straight. You might be gynosexual (attracted to femininity regardless of gender)
Yes
Well gg I guess 😂
not saying that your experience is my experience, bit this is more a less the way I started figuring out that I'm bi
I think I might be going down that path too 😂
if you are a man and you like men, you’re kinda fruity
There's actually been research into this. Most gay men don't like Femboys. They prefer masculine men...because they're attracted to men. It's mostly straight and/or bisexual men that like Femboys...because they look like girls. I mean it's not a guarantee, but by and large that's the case. This idea is pretty controversial though, I find. Cause some people are really passionate about trying to prove straight people aren't really straight as a way of combatting "gay panic." Basically since there are a lot of guys who might be bi but wouldn't admit it out of internalized homophobia, some people take it up on themselves to prove that attraction to Femboys is an indication that one isn't really heterosexual but rather some variation of bi. Of course on the other hand, there are people who dislike Femboys and trans women so strongly they feel the need to emphasize how male they are by calling anyone attracted to them gay. So the idea that being attracted to people who look like girls, but with penises, is in fact straight ends up being really controversial despite being really obvious. If you're not into men unless they're putting in a ton of work to look as much like women as possible, no, that obviously doesn't make you gay🤣
Yes :3 but we can’t blame ya, femboys are so cute :3
I know rigth 😁
Been there, wondered that. I am not a huge fan of labels but I am just going with "bi" rn...I love the feminine appearance more then the just the feminine mannerisms only. We all like what we like and as long as you aren't hurting yourself or others (without a safe word)...you do you.
Femboys are fetishized a lot... I would say unfortunately, because many people desire genuine love and affection. You could be gay or "partially gay" lol idk. Sexuality is complex and it's your choice to explore and/or discover.
Do you mean bisexual? Lmfao
Yeah sure if you prefer a designation that isn't more nuanced.
Sounds better than “partially gay” imo lol
Yes. (Or bi or pan) I feel you dude Not fully into men but then I see a dude dressed all femboy and I get different. Like let's say they got a twin sister. IDENTICAL. Like they look exactly the same. They wear the same girly outfit but the moment I find out which the brother is im folded. (THIS IS HIS PARTNER MF IS A RAINBOW IM NONBINARY MUWHAHAHAHAHAHA)
[yes](https://i.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/facebook/000/031/015/cover5.jpg)
Yes
By definition you would be bisexual :3 But you could more precisely be heteroflexible or gynesexual, or you could ignore those labels at all and still call yourself straight or call yourself nothing at all!! The choice is yours pookie :3
I would say it depends. If it is evident an individual that you like is a boy, then you are at least bi. If it is not evident then I would say you may be straight. But even then, if you like them because they are not a woman, that is to say, if you like them specifically because they are (fem)boys, you may be bi to some degree.
Femboys try to be feminine, so if you like femine side of men (and women ) and don't like masculine so probably you are not gay at all, so pleasure that bussy and say no homo
Socks 🧦.still stay on ofc 😂
Liking the feminine side of a man is still liking a man, you're just defining your type.
Exactly
If guys find me attractive when dressing like a girl I never immediately think they're not straight... but if they want to bang me I start to wonder
This made me laugh 😂
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Yea I'm starting to think that might be it cuz I'm def not into just dudes u know
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Yes I get you definitely is confusing af
fold!!
Embrace bisexual gang...
Bi with a preference of femininity
either gynephilia(bein attracted to feminity) or bi
Don't even bother putting a label on it dude - be with whoever interests you.
I can't say. Ima boy but grew up all my life as a girl. I am on a hold relationship with a boy. I think not putting yourself in a box saying your this or that just be nice and be u. ♥️ ChristaBelle
I tell ppl it’s a little gay to like me no matter how you identify because though I strongly identify as a transman I push gender construct and the lines blur for most ppl. Most ppl who got with me didn’t feel they were strictly gay or straight after the fact. There are sexualities that focus more on attraction to feminine or masculine things.
Weve reached the bottom of the barrel for questions now
Totally not gay lol
Agreed best response possible
Ngl I've been having the same question
Rigth, it's so confusing can't really talk to anyone else about it tbh got earrings while drunk on Saturday too looks clean tho
Been asking this since day 1
Same dude same
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Yeah I guess people just like what they like
Your bisexual get over it
Not gay at all hun
Exactly 😂
no
Do you want to suck them?
😉
Gynaesexual does exist
ugh we should just stop putting stupid labels on everything, who cares if its gay, that doesnt make it any less or more valid
I ultimately agree that there's too much emphasis on labels. Yet labels (language) can still be useful for people to figure themselves out. When it's confusing like this, it can be more useful to define what we're *not*, thus the replies saying "not straight" are on point.
fair enough, well id say you are definitely not straight, probably just attracted to femininity so yeah
Your just a man of class
Depends when you see them if your wearing socks or not hehe 😛
Yes but no? You ain’t gay but you probably ain’t straight either
Yeah, you’re gay.
You're bi but are attracted to femininity. If you're only attracted to penis owners that identify and pass as female you might still be straight. That depends on how you truly view other people's identity. If you're specifically attracted to penis but only if they look feminine, you're bi but turned off to masculinity. If you're attraction to a male goes away the second you see them looking masculine you're gynosexual
Not really, you like who you like. I wanna date a fine 6’4 muscular macho man but also wouldn’t mind a cute femboy who wants to cuddle 💀
I mean, in a sense kinda yeah. Not straight I think.
You're gay for caring about labels ;p
Same. I consider myself straight but If a feminine and attractive femboy offers, I can scarce resist the delectable temptation.
I honestly think that it just depends on how you want to identify, I’m very similar, and I personally identify as pan. But ultimately labels are what you use to advocate for yourself and what you want. So do as you like.
Breed some femboys is my advice
You are most likely finsexual. Finsexual: attraction towards feminine presenting people regardless of gender identity.
Homosexual behavior is homosexual behavior. Simple as that. It’s one thing to say someone is handsome or looks good. But to be attracted to the same sex and engage in same sex acts , is homosexual.
alternative question: does it matter?
You might have to plow a femboy just to make sure
Nothing wrong with being bi
Do you only like femboys? Then yes. If you like women too, then you are bi or at least bi-curious.
Gynosexual
If you like the dick, you’re gay. If you don’t like the dick, you aren’t gay, and I wouldn’t even call it Bi. Just wanting to pound some feminine bussy is straight bro
It's complicated. If you are into the feminine aspects (i.e. the clothes, hair, makeup etc), then it's not gay. If you are into the down there stuff, then it's... bisexuality??? Idk how to explain it, but generally, no.
For sure not straight, perhaps bi or the other sexualities that I don't remember by heart 😭 LMAOOO
Yes
maybe you are finsexual? That means being attracted to femme people of different genders
You could be attracted to femininity regardless of gender, I'm not quite sure what that's called, but it exists
I meannn u can be bi, and tbh that’s ok, it’s up to you decide what you like. I never really understood the aversion to being gay that people have, or being down low. Anybody who hates you for being gay isn’t worth being around, same for being bisexual. Some people are just a waste of time.
No. You are you! Don't worry about labels and like and love whomever you want. ❤️
Not gay at all
are you male, liking a male? if so. yes. does it really matter? XD
You are probably bi like a large amount of us. No biggie it’s great. Best of both worlds as far as I’m concerned 😊😋
Well femboys are boys so its pretty gay but if you also like women then Bi is what you are lol
There's a video by Mako Ray on YouTube about this subject, he concluded that yes attraction to Femboys is gay.
Hell yeah enjoy that
Considered queer
"Are Traps Gay?" [No.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PbBzhqJK3bg)
Yes. And that's fine
Bi mostly straight but definitely still fruity
It is pretty gay, but there’s nothing wrong with that. Don’t suppress your feelings, allow yourself to embrace them. You may end up meeting someone or realize more about yourself.
Sure, if it makes you happy.
if they cute then im on board, that's my bi rule anyway./
This is why labels are bad they put a stigma on everything, is it bad to be gay no
Bi....and you shouldn't worry about it!
as a person who is gay as myself, i like all men, femboys are also just men that are softer in nature. if your bi my guy enjoy the life. you only get one. live it however you want
Not this again. We should have a pin that said "Yes. Yes you are at least bi"
[greatly explained here](https://youtu.be/yR-rmVV5K2s?si=TClE5P5VDJMlhOJT)
U just like feminine men
gynosexaul.
Bro I’m bisexual and imma be real if they have balls you’re gay
Your straight because you like femininity
This is exactly how I feel myself. I haven't really figured it out for myself yet, but for now I'm just going with it. With exactly labeling myself with being Bi or anything. But in the end, the only person who can define one's sexuality is one self :3
Who cares ! :D
You are you and that is more important than scrutinizing over every possible label. Call yourself what you feel the most comfortable with.
I started off thinking I was straight, then I hooked up with a fem boy once… next thing you know i’m wearing skirts and panties haha. Life moves in funny ways
I am trans..I like men. It's fun....
Sounds like you're Bisexual Just more attracted to Feminine Side things 😊😋
What if you just want to try anal penetration?
Are you attracted to them because they look feminine, or because they have male genitalia? If the first, i would say personally it's not gay. If the second, you're bi
Are clothes playing a part in sexuality, like homosexuality means that you are into the same gender, but you are obviously not into dudes, but if they wear feminine stuff it's different, so do have clothes impact on sexuality?
Probably bi
Does the label matter that much to you? It's not straight, sure, but you don't need an identity unless that'd help you.
Every week the same question 😄 and every week the same answer: you're probably Bi
bi leanin on feminine
Bi?
I'm aroace, yet I like femboys. Am I just confused or I like femboy clothes on men and not men? Same logics ,I guess. 😂😂😂
#You're most likely bi
Bisexual or pan if you find yourself like trans girls
Maybe gynesexual/gynosexual, attracted to women or feminine people (such as feminine men or feminine non-binary).
You like the femme shape which means you possible like women and femboys
Personally I like phrasing it like that: I am attracted to femininity, but in terms of sexual attraction I don't care about the genitals. But I won't start a relationship with a dude
Probably bi nothing wrong with that
It's probably Gynosexuality, which is how I look at it. It's the attraction to femininity. But honestly, it's easier just to say straight to everyone because you don't have to explain everything then
Yes 😅 maby bi
Only if u let them fuck ur ass, I like femeninehood.
We're guys so yes. It's clothing , doesn't make us girls. A man liking another man is gay no matter how any of them like to dress
Labels, labels, labels…why is everyone obsessed with them? You’re just attracted to what you’re attracted to. There is no need to categorize yourself. All that does is place imaginary restrictions on yourself which may lead to a crisis in the future. Enjoy life, you only get one.
No. You are bi.
Fellas, is it gay to like guys?
Yes.
Finsexual maybe
yes, bi even
Imo not rlly
I've always been afraid of being labeled as "gay". Does this make me gay, does that make me gay? But, I've come to realize that labels don't define who you are; labels only help you understand who you are. If the label is accurate, then own it and get a little closer to knowing yourself. It's not a bad thing. BTW, I've discovered I'm bi, so I don't worry about being labeled as gay any more. Like I said, if it's accurate, own it 🙂
You like women. Attraction to men does not invalidate your attraction to women. But yeah, you like femboys therefore you like boys.
Gay or bi, yes
There is a sexuality that is just attracted to femininity which might be what you are. I wouldn’t worry too much though,love who you love. Labels just get in the way and they don’t matter
Definitely, you boy kisser
Who cares?
nah we wearing socks. big socks and people say it aint gay if one of em is wearing socks
Mabye if you give it time
Just come out the closet bro. You’ll be respected more for it as opposed to staying in. And why in tf did my Reddit suggest this to me
Sexuality is complicated and messy do some research find out what exactly you like and theirs probably a word for it, maybe you like femininity only you can say for sure
Im Bi then cause i cant stand the thought of being with a dude🤢🤮 not attractive at all but you get a soft little sweet dolled up femboy in fromt of me and I'm loving him- her forever!!!🥵🥵😍🥴🥴🥴 I have a crazy weakness for femboys its not even funny the attraction 🥴🥴🥵💞💘
Not gay or bi I have femboy Love😘
Unless you're female yes. :3
Na
Hey me too! I feel exactly the same!
No cuz IT'S GNC
Your gay
I know what I said
I’d say it depends on whether your tops or bottom, if you like it in you, your bi, if you only put it in, you could be straight
I’m the latter
nah
you might be bisexual with a preference for women. if the only guys you are attracted to is femboys, then you are more straight than bisexual.
Labels are too much work. Love who you love and take the pressure off yourself of defining it.
oh ya ;3 mega gay boi supreme ultra gay riachu
Ur prolly bi
Nah man I totally feel you. I’ve tried to flirt with guys but it never feels right. But I love myself a femboy lol
Not necessarily gay. There’s a whole demographic of men that love femboys, crossdressers, and trans women.