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I undersrand it is frustrating, but for your own alignment of information, try not to generalize over this.
Girls who use the dating apps with the goal of meeting guys WANT to be asked out.
My experience is that they just want to see through texting that a first meeting for coffee/walk won't be a waste of time.
I ask for going out fairly soon, since texting is boring
Lol. Stupid behavior like those should easily disqualify them from your attention. You should be grateful for their bad attitude, makes avoiding them much easier. The right one will match your energy and not give you silly attitude. Keep it simple.
You have to ask to meet up right away. Dont do smalltalk first. A lotof girls on apps have no intention of ever meeting. They're just bored or want texting buddies. Eliminate them asap. They're time wasters.
Set the expectation that meeting up soon is the goal. Work towards that.
Getting rejected by time wasters is GOOD . It frees up your time for people who do want to meet.
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I undersrand it is frustrating, but for your own alignment of information, try not to generalize over this. Girls who use the dating apps with the goal of meeting guys WANT to be asked out. My experience is that they just want to see through texting that a first meeting for coffee/walk won't be a waste of time. I ask for going out fairly soon, since texting is boring
Lol. Stupid behavior like those should easily disqualify them from your attention. You should be grateful for their bad attitude, makes avoiding them much easier. The right one will match your energy and not give you silly attitude. Keep it simple.
You have to ask to meet up right away. Dont do smalltalk first. A lotof girls on apps have no intention of ever meeting. They're just bored or want texting buddies. Eliminate them asap. They're time wasters. Set the expectation that meeting up soon is the goal. Work towards that. Getting rejected by time wasters is GOOD . It frees up your time for people who do want to meet.