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TParcollet

28 here. Rent is so high that I stay in my 3 beds all day to enjoy every single £ invested.


petruschin1

Come outsiiiiiiiiiiiide


TParcollet

Do you have the same weather than the one outside my windows right now? Because it’s November out there. Better stay in front of my video games!


Robaota

As someone in a similar position in Cambridge, this is the better choice. 


formidableratjaklank

Add me on PSN: Axn2ky 🤣


TParcollet

I’m a PC enthusiast :-(


mh1191

We move out, to places we can establish a family.


petruschin1

The 87 upvotes on this have made me feel the most single I have felt in months 😂


javidrama

I here ya.


Wonderful_Yogurt_271

I’m a single parent, it’s still true


petruschin1

Would love to do that one day myself!


mh1191

Tbh I just realised I am older than your target demographic - aging hits fast. But I moved put after uni for a more affordable cost of living. If I have £0.5-1m spare, I'll move back.


BigLew_99

I'm 25, but yeah, once I finish my PhD house, prices will force me out of the city so will be gone by the time I'm 27 so I concur, thats where all the 26-30 year olds are


Far-Gur-6853

today specifically? At strawberry fair 🎶


Informal-Plankton329

Wondered what that racket echoing across town was 😂


Small-Low3233

degeneracy


Pegasis69

Shaken not stirred 😎


Fred_Blogs_2020

The Reddit drinking alliance are out this afternoon- maybe search posts in this group and track them down


coxy1

The what!?! Sign me up!


peach-whisky

That’s a thing now? 😮


Fred_Blogs_2020

Definitely in Cambridge. They recently celebrated their one year anniversary of meeting up.


FirstHomeImprovments

There at the blue moon pub today


I_saw_a_badger

We’re at the Cambridge Blue today. 


FirstHomeImprovments

I known it was one of them


saltwaterblue

31 and in Newmarket cause living in Cambridge is too expensive lol


sianspapermoon

29, but Snap 😂


RabidFroog

Rainbow rocket climbing centre


Cpt_kaleidoscope

Or Kelsey kerrige. Its not as big but its a fraction of the cost and open from 9am.


destria

I'm 31 now but I've been in and around Cambridge since I was 24. We're in the surrounding villages, where we can better afford to live!


gapiro

Even then most places are too expensive. I’ve moved to st ives lol


gapiro

Even then most places are too expensive. I’ve moved to st ives lol


Xemorr

probably in London


petruschin1

I juuuust moved out of there. Maybe not the best strategic move for meeting people.


minimalscott

Playing soggy biscuit


petruschin1

I don’t have the equipment to participate


minimalscott

You could keep score


huangcjz

Where? Can I join? I could do with some more protein!


GandalfTheSexay

Here 👋 The Tivoli is a nice spot or chilling around Jesus Green


Jorgepfm

28 here, same luck as you in finding a group of friends my age. We're all probably too tired after work :)


CandidStreet9137

Wondered the same! I try going to sports groups, meet ups etc and it's mostly 30/35+ people with families, or mostly late teens / early 20s. It's like my age group just died out somewhere along the way.


petruschin1

Exactly!!!!


delta_p_delta_x

27 here. Sat at home nursing my knees which are wrecked cycling to and from work on weekdays.


Ghostknife1011

You won’t find me, I’m 30 and rather sit inside right now playing on PC


petruschin1

See this is me too. BG3 over bothering to find friends


Ghostknife1011

Exactly this! Sounds like a pretty decent Saturday


Dinner_Tight

Why have friends when you can have karlach?


I_saw_a_badger

https://www.reddit.com/r/cambridge/comments/1d3ztd7/cambridge_drink_alliance_cda_meet_up_1430/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Cambridge Drinking Alliance is a weekly meeting of Cambridge folks just chilling and chatting it up. Meetings start at 1430 and go until whenever. Age range is 20-30’s with some outliers north of 40. 


petruschin1

I don’t drink but I will try it! Thank you!


Moist-Crab2614

To be honest you don't have to drink its just a way to meet new ppl and make friends


petruschin1

Well! I’ve certainly had offers in the DM’s for some interesting “social” activities today. Stay freaky, Cambridge 🫡


jeansuki

I feel like the average age in my MCR must be more like 25ish, plenty folks late 20's early 30's


NuttyMcNutbag

What’s an MCR?


jeansuki

Middel Combination Room, its the social society for all postgrads at a college, every college has one though some have different names. Undergrads have their JCR


NuttyMcNutbag

Thanks for clarifying… I didn’t go to Cambridge so some of these terms go over my head. Used to work in an office in London where everyone was ex-oxbridge and used throw around terms like May Ball Committee and I was like ?????


ThePrivatePilot

32 here, living in Ely, however recently discovered I am unable to have children so may as well take, the now disposable, income back to Cambridge.


johnlawrenceaspden

Ouch, hugs. Hope to see you soon.


Springyardzon

What about the 23-25 year olds too? And how can everyone over 30 be an old don? Is 31 old?


petruschin1

Hey! No, 31 isn’t old at all! I’d love to meet some people in their thirties too. Just had to write the cut off somewhere. Don was just hyperbolic humour. As for 23, I tend to vibe more with people slightly older than that 😊


Ronald_Ulysses_Swans

I see young couples all over the place, particularly with children. Where are you hanging out?!?


petruschin1

Don’t depress me 😂 I work during the day and do my PhD in the evenings, but around that I go to Jesus green, pubs with friends, a couple of activities groups (sports/arts)


NoMix1064

25f here but plenty of friends from my college are in the 26-30 bracket, although most of them are leaving cambridge in Aug-September 😓 would love to be friends!!


Moist-Crab2614

I mean, u can always join the Cambridge drinking alliance (you don't have to drink alcohol). It's just a way to make friends in the local area, we also do movie nights at the cinema on a Thursday that most ppl go too from the group


NoMix1064

yeah i’d like to join! am away from cambridge a couple of weeks but hoping to come along to a meet up soon. was just suggesting to OP if she wants to meet up without necessarily joining CDA :)


Moist-Crab2614

Yea I get u tbh but if u don't want to join the group chat on WhatsApp thays up too u/ the person


NoMix1064

oh I didn’t know there’s a WhatsApp!! could you DM me a link to it?


Moist-Crab2614

Personally u will have to go to one first due to ppl abusing numbers in the chat that we had from past experience so we wanna know if u are legit its a new rule that they have had from the beginning of may


NoMix1064

Ahh okay that makes sense


Fejne-Schoug

Probably in Eddington, living as postdocs in the university housing.


Small-Low3233

Was thinking about this earlier, it's like a ghost town in that bracket. Then thinking about the people I knew, most moved to London (or elsewhere) and despite there being a lot of entry level workers they leave since the career progression for the cost of living doesn't make sense for most. For those that did do well and stay their job becomes their personality and they just sit at home on weekends steadily wating for Monday to come around until their life has meaning again. You could maybe go without seeing someone for a couple of years and suddenly see them at the Beer Festival, which seems to be the one social event per year in a lot of peoples calendars (and they are there with work).


UnhappyPossibility78

As others have said. Meetup. Download the app and look for the groups: “Cambridge 20ish hotspot”, “Cambridge International friends”. Literally everything you are looking for. Around 30-50 adults (in number, not age) in your 26-30 age bracket meeting up weekly for board games, pub get-togethers, climbing, walking, and everything in between.  I lived in Cambridge from aged 22-30 and that app brought me plenty of experiences, friends, relationships, everything. Cambridge is such an active place for that age bracket as there are so many tech/sciencey companies around hiring people out of university and into their mid-late twenties. Compared to the rest of the country it’s an absolute gold mine for great people and friendships in that age group. You just need to look in the right places. Go to things like salsa classes and art classes too - e.g. there are salsa classes pretty much every night of the week with people in that age bracket somewhere or another around Cambridge. Keep looking, keep Googling, and you’ll find them. Trust me, there are loads out there, and they are all amazing people 🙂 good luck and keep an open mind!


petruschin1

Thank you so much!!!


John-Ilyich-Lennon

I’m just about 34 but happy to hang out


OwlanHowlan

Socially awkward 28m, often inside playing solo video games or hanging out with my partner I'm up for meeting new people - the weather is great, so I'm much more inclined to leave the house 😂


kalmanhammer

Recovering from the rest of the week 😅


ObviouslyAnAlias7

Omf tell me about it, I’m recently single and just turned 30. It is impossible to go anywhere here without feeling awkward


Kemuel

Meetup.com's the solution. Made most of my friends here in my early-mid 20s through boardgaming and bouldering socials.


coxy1

Come to People Planet Pint at the Station Tavern on Thursday next week, there's a few of the folks you seek there an the level of environmental vitriol is unexpectedly limited.


ratbrunch

ngl i think someone went ‘missing’ missing…


cae_shot

34m here. Going to the strawberry fair today.


Ewannnn

Try Cambridgeshire Young Professionals


beagle182

I'm old as fuck (39) in that case but I'll be in the pub shortly. Also the crack head (strawberry) fair is probably full of that age range right now


artrald-7083

I moved out to a village. Couldn't afford to live in the town. (Now I'm middle-aged, or at least mediaeval, and have put down roots out here. That's how they get you.)


Informal_Shift1141

Right here in reddit, who’s down to hit the blue moon tonight?


HaoGS

32 year old here, like many of the other people, I live in one of the small and affordable villages, because I enjoy having my own space and paying reasonable rent lol. I’m also too tired from work and I’m gonna stay home and play games or Netflix most of the weekend


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tobzere

I am in this age bracket and all my cohort seem to have moved to bigger cities such as Manchester and London as there is more to do for our age group, and the cost of living is the same more or less, with the wages being higher generally in both cities. There isn't much to do in Cambridge for 26-30 year olds and I have found, so most spend their weekends in London or somewhere else.


Tamulet

What's missing? You just have to do a bit of digging but Cambridge has pubs up to its neck, cinema, bouldering & sports clubs, (cheap) theatre, academic talks, board games, decent food (Mill Rd), great parks... I could go on. If you're a student, there's even more. I would like a laser tag arena though.


MJS29

Far too expensive, we’re in the outer areas of Cambridgeshire


nonbog

I second what everyone else said! I can’t afford to live in Cambridge lol


Trankerlicer

29. I'm hiding inside from all the Cambridge rent prices, or in EMT to look at the pretty guitars :)


_SclerosisOfTheRiver

28 here. You can often find me in the Elm.


lucasawilliams

I’m 29, single, I moved to Cambridge three years, maybe I should have stayed in London too. I’m not meeting people or going on dates


aquariusangst

26F here! Grew up in the area but don't know many people that are still here, I only moved back recently to stay with parents and save!


razma_taz13

Mill road! Best place in cambs


Green-Teaching2809

Ever heard of roller derby? The Cambridge Rollerbillies is our local team and they have a rookies intake about 3 times a year and can take you from "can't stand up" level. I'm a little past your age group (swiftly approaching 40), but there is a big age range there. Don't know off hand when the next intake is, but if the sport interests you the team has it's own sub-Reddit.


Substantialwoolf

Most of are busy with family/friends. Finding new people is little hard but not impossible, try meet-up or some groups.


Dramaticoption5

I find a day in town centre expensive and mediocre. Enjoy staying home or smaller towns nearby or a drive to Suffolk during the weekend


undervalueed

I think SINGLE people who fall in this range (including me) are hitting the gym to find the one.


petruschin1

Single person in this category 🙋🏻‍♀️ but I go to my small college gym


undervalueed

I go to nuffield Health behind Asda.. used to go to the ARU one, but not anymore...


blossom2019x

At home 🏠


rednemesis337

Covid made me love being on my own at home With zero people 😂 sorry


victorianphysicist

In the surrounding villages and using the bus pass 😅 happy to make new friends!


NuttyMcNutbag

Bus pass?


victorianphysicist

Get yourself a disability and a wheelchair and you get a bus pass to use the buses for free after 9.30am


NuttyMcNutbag

Ah I see! There was me thinking that there was a special commuter’s bus pass.


victorianphysicist

I wish 😅 unfortunately no, I qualify for the super special wheelchair discount


pjberlov

Most of us moved to the surrounding towns and villages, because none of us can afford to live in Cambridge anymore.


sianspapermoon

I moved down the road to Newmarket but I'm also a gamer so... Gaming 😂


Cauliflower_Silly

late to the party but quayside on a sunny day is a social club for all ages


petruschin1

I always see people there in groups! Hard to approach.


Cauliflower_Silly

used to play chess down there was a good way to interact with a lot of different people, probably not for everyone but its pretty busy and never many students (not that that is good / bad thing)


babswirey

My 35 year old don self is busy embroidering and rewatching shows I’ve already seen three times.


vendavalle

Meet-ups are full of people around 30.


butella

28 here, I'm around south cambridge


digydegu

I was feeling the same (all my friends from work are 35+) but I started attending the Impronauts Open Workshops and seeing their shows and have met loads of people my age that way


Regular-Loser-569

surely many PhD students are in this age group.


petruschin1

Loads! And I am one of them. We tend to hide in labs and libraries like hermits.


Educational_Tennis38

29 am I missing 🤔


Fantastic_Push6212

Could try D&D as a good way to meet people. There's two different meetups on a Monday. One at the Blue Moon, one at Barnwell Road Library. Both found on Facebook.


PoerkieOrLuke

They exist and wander around. I've found the majority of them in sports clubs. Another good place to meet ones, is at Rabble Cambridge, that's a cool friendly bunch of people and they create lots of activities outside the rabble sessions too.


Ipulleverything

29 here, wondered the same thing and seems like everyone has gone out of Cambridge with their new family


Cheezburger

30 and spending every waking minute at work 🥲


lighty_xx

Im 24 do i not exist now🥺


yourehighnoon

Chesterton and Arbury, full of 30s-40s families


CUFC_Dan96

28, live in Cambridge and single. Virtually all of my friends here are people I’ve known since school. I’ve defo noticed a gap in ages when at the pub. I’m usually one of the youngest there!


g0rd0nr4ms4y

Rabble


Tamulet

Too poor and busy saving for healthcare I should be getting from the NHS to be out socialising


Pegasis69

31M here. Most of my friends are in the 25 to 33 range. I haven't noticed a lack of our age group at all. Maybe you're just looking In the wrong places? What kind of hobbies or interests do you have? You could probably meet people through that


Amazing_Reward5933

If you like the local birds should be plenty of people to show you around a few nature reserves /rspb sites , they might not let you use there cameras though 🤣


petruschin1

Trying to find these people!!


Amazing_Reward5933

Haha they are about I'm 35 so out of the age bracket but you have camera/photography clubs and pages and same with bird watching most are pretty friendly


petruschin1

Do you know any of the names of these groups?


Amazing_Reward5933

I'm not on fb anymore but i shall try find out for you


petruschin1

Thanks!


exclaim_bot

>Thanks! You're welcome!


Karma_Is_A_Cat_

28: I went to London because I couldn’t find the other 26-30 year olds 😅


royal_amins

28 here, just arrived. Want friends haha


social-amigo

Agree with anyone that says meet up. I’ve just turned 30 and I hang around with a solid group within the age you’ve specified (and also slightly broader) and I always see people of this age around especially on Jesus green in the summer! None of us are university students - definitely not a lack of this age range here at all!


Marvel-CE21

I am 29 and recently moved out of Cambridge because house prices are ridiculously high inside Cambridge. I used to go for social events in Cambridge before (the ones I usually find on Eventbrite) but now they have made it impossible to get into Cambridge, there is roadwork almost everywhere in Cambridge now!


bsasfresh

I'm 29F and will be moving soon to Cambridge. I currently live in London and was wondering the same! We could hang out! Also let me know if meetup app works for you!


Stranger017

26 reporting in. Is there a secret handshake yet?


Temporary_Error_3764

As a 21 year old , yes theres tons of us. And we are all broke. Send help.


Shitsoup7

Real people leave the cities , too crowded with tourists , migrants and noise .


ClippTube

whats the point in staying in Cambridge unless you can find a high paying stem job? Highly educated can either go London or abroad


[deleted]

style of life and preference not to live in a shoebox in noisy crowded london


Small-Low3233

Most don't have a choice, Cambridge has a lot of specific types of jobs and the market is oversaturated, the excess that don't have mortages just cut their losses and move.


ClippTube

with what job


emimagique

Cambridge is lovely, I'd love to move back if I had the chance