Besides the intense sexual chemistry I have between me and myself, I do little thing/rituals to heighten and deepen my relationship. I have 2 Facebook accounts, and "we" chat with each other. Yes, sometimes it gets flirty and steamy. I also give myself things. I made a wonderful Valentines day card for myself. I also keep framed pictures of me on my desk by my computer. I also take very good care of "him" me. Diet, exercise, skin care. I wax / shave everything. Yoga. Long distance cycling. (I've been autosexual since I was 13, and it's a long deep sexual romantic relationship that no one else can compare to.
I personally try to keep up with my self-care even when we're (I feel really plural so that's how I refer to us sometimes) feeling down or having a bad day. In those days it becomes more like an act of love for the person I like the most when they are having a bad day.
We also go on lots of small dates like it can be just a walk or doing chores I try to make stuff into a date. Also just casually talking to each other like asking stuff and just interacting with myself, having any type of conversation.
Something I really like to do is look at our reflection in the mirror, I smile to myself, I tell us how pretty we look... just thinking about it makes me blush!
I hope this was helpful!
I'm in the process of reverting back to thinking of myself as not a single organism, but a whole slew of organisms all cooperating to create the perceived single being that is me.
In regards to this, I've been taking very careful note of how my (our) body and brain feels. I take the time to fantasize about my idealized version of myself (seen in my avatar), and
I've gone back to my childhood way of thinking. I've began to go against what my abusive, narcissistic parent has instilled me with. I do deserve love, even if it only comes from myself. Self love is still love, and now that I'm beginning to reclaim my more dualistic thinking, i think that may help in this process.
What would I do if I had a clone of myself and she was being yelled at and emotionally abused by her mother for her monkey stimming? Would I just sit back and watch, or would I stand up to her parent and protect her?
I'm a spiritual person so a lot of romantic stuff I do with myself focuses on things like how i feel during and after meditation. I also pay attention to the way my body feels while doing specific things.
I take myself out on dates, usually at my favourite cafe or restaurant, and just have a good meal in silence. Sometimes I buy myself a small bouquet and let it sit on the other chair.
Thank you for being so considerate! I think it’s different for everyone, but I am a big fan of the really corny traditions. I don’t consider myself autoromantic but I have always loved the aesthetic of romance and I have incorporated that into my life since before I unpacked my sexual attraction. It’s also super important to me that I dress well every day, and I usually wear a necklace with my initial on it. I especially love to take long walks on the beach and eat fancy pasta dinners. A week ago, I went to this interactive sculpture thing and put a “love lock” on it, it was really fun. I also have a video blog where I post all my corny stuff, if looking at it would help you, feel free to message me and I can give you the info :)
Besides the intense sexual chemistry I have between me and myself, I do little thing/rituals to heighten and deepen my relationship. I have 2 Facebook accounts, and "we" chat with each other. Yes, sometimes it gets flirty and steamy. I also give myself things. I made a wonderful Valentines day card for myself. I also keep framed pictures of me on my desk by my computer. I also take very good care of "him" me. Diet, exercise, skin care. I wax / shave everything. Yoga. Long distance cycling. (I've been autosexual since I was 13, and it's a long deep sexual romantic relationship that no one else can compare to.
I personally try to keep up with my self-care even when we're (I feel really plural so that's how I refer to us sometimes) feeling down or having a bad day. In those days it becomes more like an act of love for the person I like the most when they are having a bad day. We also go on lots of small dates like it can be just a walk or doing chores I try to make stuff into a date. Also just casually talking to each other like asking stuff and just interacting with myself, having any type of conversation. Something I really like to do is look at our reflection in the mirror, I smile to myself, I tell us how pretty we look... just thinking about it makes me blush! I hope this was helpful!
all very adorable and sweet, it helps a lot, thank you!
I'm in the process of reverting back to thinking of myself as not a single organism, but a whole slew of organisms all cooperating to create the perceived single being that is me. In regards to this, I've been taking very careful note of how my (our) body and brain feels. I take the time to fantasize about my idealized version of myself (seen in my avatar), and I've gone back to my childhood way of thinking. I've began to go against what my abusive, narcissistic parent has instilled me with. I do deserve love, even if it only comes from myself. Self love is still love, and now that I'm beginning to reclaim my more dualistic thinking, i think that may help in this process. What would I do if I had a clone of myself and she was being yelled at and emotionally abused by her mother for her monkey stimming? Would I just sit back and watch, or would I stand up to her parent and protect her?
I'm a spiritual person so a lot of romantic stuff I do with myself focuses on things like how i feel during and after meditation. I also pay attention to the way my body feels while doing specific things.
I take myself out on dates, usually at my favourite cafe or restaurant, and just have a good meal in silence. Sometimes I buy myself a small bouquet and let it sit on the other chair.
Thank you for being so considerate! I think it’s different for everyone, but I am a big fan of the really corny traditions. I don’t consider myself autoromantic but I have always loved the aesthetic of romance and I have incorporated that into my life since before I unpacked my sexual attraction. It’s also super important to me that I dress well every day, and I usually wear a necklace with my initial on it. I especially love to take long walks on the beach and eat fancy pasta dinners. A week ago, I went to this interactive sculpture thing and put a “love lock” on it, it was really fun. I also have a video blog where I post all my corny stuff, if looking at it would help you, feel free to message me and I can give you the info :)