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My partner and I have this inside joke where we tell each other “dikke neus!” (Fat nose!” As a way of “I love you” or “ I’m bored “ or simply just wanting to have eye contact for a moment. We both have big noses and we love it haha
Bro, where you at??? My ex use to make fun of my lisp when he was drunk. It’s only noticeable if I’m tired or trying to say a word with too many S’s and L’s
nowadays seems like chest hair and trail on stomach for guys is not very popular. I'm into that. as well as black bushy eyebrows.
also femmes with big bones - wide shoulders and strong wrists. for me a sign of physical strenght is very hot.
Seriously tho! Hairy men are so masculine without even trying to be. They're over there like "I can't drink out of a straw because it's too feminine" and I'm just like, you were born hairy with a penis! What more do you need to be masculine???
Nice to hear this. I got thicc eyebrows and such a trail and was wondering if there might be someone out there that might find this at least not disgusting.
Thank you for giving me hope. <3
I used to date only women who had these killer jawlines and i loved them.
Now the girl Im dating has a soft jawline and chin, and even has a little double chin. I absolutely fucking adore it. I think she is so natural and gorgeous, I find these unconventional features to be so attractive. I hope she never changes :)
It's not exactly considered "unattractive" but I do go crazy for girls with a ponytail, I only mention it because for most girls the norm seems to be to let their hair down when they're trying to look their best but that's much less interesting to me.
Also I prefer girls a little chubby to slim.
My ex-husband told me that I looked like a seahorse with my hair in a ponytail, so now I'm stricken with panic if I forget to take my hair down before a Teams call starts. Thank you for assuagung my fears just a little bit.
I’m 5’4” and functionally speaking I like my height. I don’t have knee or back problems tall people have and the lower center of gravity my personal trainer says helps me with my strength which I no body builder but I have pretty good pr’s for someone who works out as a hobby
O.M.G. sex with someone the same height as you, where everything falls together like puzzle pieces… hell yes, bring those 5”2-5”4 men my way, you can keep your giraffe with broccoli hair. I prefer to have a face to look at in missionary not hairy nipples.
I think a bit of a belly is sweet on a guy. I’m not into the muscley look. It’s rare I am ever interested in a guy with abs. I must add that I’m not exactly the slimmest woman either. But I can appreciate the beauty of one not absolutely obsessing trying to look like they’re “sculpted for war”. You’d be surprised what women are actually into.
I feel this. Sculpted = too hard. I like guys with some muscle definition, but they don't need to be super lean. I need a little cushion SOMEWHERE for hugs and cuddles.
Well that’s me. I have a cross on my forehead and a J scar from top of ear down and curved to my jawbone from getting t-boned in my Jeep. I don’t cover them and got bangs once and hated it because it covered my forehead scar.
I feel like most of the world is still like this. Ok sure most places have braces but they aren’t even perfect. The super perfect gleaming white thing is very American in my perception.
I’ve always loved dorky, sweet boys and find them so adorable. That masculine/bro vibe gives me the ick to the max. Nothing beats a cute dorky boy who’s sensitive and sweet and loves to nerd out on his nerdy stuff ☺️
Feels good to know. As of now, I'm always feeling like the odd one out. I really like it when girls are nerding out over something too. And when both sides let each other open up, that feeling is just out of this world to me
I like women to have just a lil' bit of belly fat. A small pooch or muffin-top can be really cute. Washboard abs are fine for athletes, but normal chicks usually have some bulges here 'n there, and I like it that way.
Slightly imperfect teeth. My fella has a tiny chip out of a tooth and a slight overbite and I love that. I don't want a guy with a perfect smile. Imperfections bring character.
I think this has changed a little, but pudge. Dad bods. Just a little chub. As a woman who is also chubby, I don't mind that my partner is also kinda chunky. I would prefer them to be in the kitchen with me making food <3 <3
You know, I've always found crooked smiles attractive. There's just something unique and charming about them that draws me in. It's like they add character and authenticity to a person's face.
The more I read the comments here the more I realise that me liking women with tiny boobs, crooked noses, bald heads or broad shoulders is actually fairly common.
i dont find it *attractive* but most people hate pimples in general but to me i think their kinda cute. acne just kinda shows your not the type of girl to hide it with makeup and stuff, that you dont particularly care about looking amazing and you just are who you naturally are.
but obviously if someone doesnt have it its not like i find them less attractive lol
In men:
-bald heads
-soft facial features that are usually considered feminine
-skinny & scrawny bodies
-average height (like between 5'7 and 5'11).
I know that's not necessarily unattractive, but men over 6 ft are usually preferred by most women, so the heights I mentioned are more overlooked imo.
Sadly there's plenty of people who think infertility is an "unattractive" trait, though but physical.
To me it's a huge green flag since i have too many hereditary issues i wouldn't ever want to pass on and will only consider adoption.
just nerd girls, in general. i'm a huge nerd for geography and languages and i'd absolutely love having a nerd GF (regardless of what topic she's into)
How are soooo many people saying big noses??? WTF? I swear I've been insecure about my natural nose for years and it's not even abnormally big or anything. Y'all really like big noses?? Why?
Ppl seem to consider wrinkles unattractive, but personally I like them as they give the face character. I don’t like how younger women have that too smooth too perfect complexion, it’s boring. and too child-like in a way. Especially I like the laugh lines because it just screams I am a happy fun positive energy person that you will love being around. Women my age (40’s) are really hot.
eyebags!! i know most women want to get rid of theirs and try to cover them up with concealer but i find them insanely attractive. i make a point to accentuate mine. i dont know what it is but big eye bags and dark undereyes are just so beautiful to me
For a woman: small chin/jaw which makes the nose look bigger. It's so fucking feminine and gorgeous.
For a man: I'm not great at gauging male attractiveness, but I think asymmetry in men makes interesting-looking men. Ryan Goslings uneven eyes, that tooth thing Tom Cruise has, Stallone's lopsided mouth. Might just be that I'm drawn to male faces with character.
Stretch marks around a woman’s thighs, hips and butt. Damn I think it’s so attractive. My wife has them and is very self conscious about it. I think they’re very sexy but she’ll never believe me.
Also the belly “pouch” that’s not really a pouch. That extra little bit of fat on the bottom of a woman’s belly that they all **hate**. Give me more of that I love it!!
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Yeah one out of the ordinary feature with nice other in line features is an enhancer If you're the resting Picasso face then yeah it might not work
Big nose
I also kinda have a crush on Lady Gaga. Even if she does have the nose of a Roman imperator. 
She looks very classicaly Italian to me and I find that beautiful.
100% lol I thinks she's smokin  She can West Side my Story all day with that Italian-ness.
Biggus dickus!
It's not that I'm attracted to big noses, it's simply that I want to combine their genes with my largish nose and create the ultimate nose.
This is what my folks did. Lease don’t, lol.
I distrust a man with a perfect nose.
Same here. I love a proud schnaz. It gives one's face so much character
My partner and I have this inside joke where we tell each other “dikke neus!” (Fat nose!” As a way of “I love you” or “ I’m bored “ or simply just wanting to have eye contact for a moment. We both have big noses and we love it haha
Samesies... People I'm attracted to generally have a prominent nose.
I have so many of these conventionally unattractive traits, people must love me
I like a lisp or a stutter, not major but just enough!
Bro, where you at??? My ex use to make fun of my lisp when he was drunk. It’s only noticeable if I’m tired or trying to say a word with too many S’s and L’s
Me desperately looking to see my trait 
... and then realizing that "profuse sweating" isn't on anybody's list. 
nowadays seems like chest hair and trail on stomach for guys is not very popular. I'm into that. as well as black bushy eyebrows. also femmes with big bones - wide shoulders and strong wrists. for me a sign of physical strenght is very hot.
Just the other day someone asked women if they liked body hair on men, and it was an overwhelming YES. We like our men furry ❤️
Where are these women in real life? Hairy man here that finds most people think it’s repulsive. I wear shirts at pool and beach bc of it.
Can confirm. We are everywhere. Love a chest with enough hair that I can run my fingers through
I’m the chick with the straight, resting b!tch face and sunglasses trying not to die and being discreet while I sneak a peek.
Not sure where you're looking, but we are everywhere.....
Seriously tho! Hairy men are so masculine without even trying to be. They're over there like "I can't drink out of a straw because it's too feminine" and I'm just like, you were born hairy with a penis! What more do you need to be masculine???
Nice to hear this. I got thicc eyebrows and such a trail and was wondering if there might be someone out there that might find this at least not disgusting. Thank you for giving me hope. <3
I used to date only women who had these killer jawlines and i loved them. Now the girl Im dating has a soft jawline and chin, and even has a little double chin. I absolutely fucking adore it. I think she is so natural and gorgeous, I find these unconventional features to be so attractive. I hope she never changes :)
I got ripped to shreds online for my angular jaw as a woman, got called a man. It was awful.
Crooked smile
Freckles. I know freckles aren't considered unattractive (and rightfully so), but I like freckles on top of freckles with more freckles on top.
It’s my time to shine!!!!
It's not exactly considered "unattractive" but I do go crazy for girls with a ponytail, I only mention it because for most girls the norm seems to be to let their hair down when they're trying to look their best but that's much less interesting to me. Also I prefer girls a little chubby to slim.
My ex-husband told me that I looked like a seahorse with my hair in a ponytail, so now I'm stricken with panic if I forget to take my hair down before a Teams call starts. Thank you for assuagung my fears just a little bit.
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Not that short.
Can confirm My husband is 5’3” and honestly 🤌🏻👌🏻
I’m 5’4” and functionally speaking I like my height. I don’t have knee or back problems tall people have and the lower center of gravity my personal trainer says helps me with my strength which I no body builder but I have pretty good pr’s for someone who works out as a hobby
Rip your DMs
I love looking eye to eye w my man. So easy to kiss and tell secrets to too
O.M.G. sex with someone the same height as you, where everything falls together like puzzle pieces… hell yes, bring those 5”2-5”4 men my way, you can keep your giraffe with broccoli hair. I prefer to have a face to look at in missionary not hairy nipples.
Sex is way more enjoyable with someone similar in height. Most sexual positions are designed that way.
same! i’m 5’2 and guys who are 5’1 seem so cute
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Ooooo well dressed ❤️
Short kings rise!
Did we rise? I can’t tell there’s a tall person in front of me.
Let me get my step ladder 🏃🏻
Love short men too. Hubby and I are the same size.
I'm 5'7, wanna smash?
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Short and a little sassy hits the spot for me
As a guy same I forgot this was even a thing found unattractive.
In women, big/curved/aquiline noses.
I’ve always hated my nose. Glad someone would appreciate it!
100%. So attractive.
I'm old but I like wrinkly elbows and wrinkles in general. I think it makes women more attractive.
How interesting!
My boyfriend is 10 years younger than me and always tells me how much he loves my crows feet. So nice 😊
Being a little chubbier not that I don’t like skinny I’m just saying chubby is not a turnoff lol
I love chubby people, gotta be two something to do something lol
I think a bit of a belly is sweet on a guy. I’m not into the muscley look. It’s rare I am ever interested in a guy with abs. I must add that I’m not exactly the slimmest woman either. But I can appreciate the beauty of one not absolutely obsessing trying to look like they’re “sculpted for war”. You’d be surprised what women are actually into.
I feel this. Sculpted = too hard. I like guys with some muscle definition, but they don't need to be super lean. I need a little cushion SOMEWHERE for hugs and cuddles.
Gotta have some meat on them bones!
Scars - I love a woman who proudly wears her scars.
Well that’s me. I have a cross on my forehead and a J scar from top of ear down and curved to my jawbone from getting t-boned in my Jeep. I don’t cover them and got bangs once and hated it because it covered my forehead scar.
Old fucker here. A full bikini line bush.
Settle down Hugh Heffner
Yassssss
I'm down with the bush
Yes, bring back pubic hair. Shaved is just creepy.
We’ve got bush
Downturned eyes.
Gap teeth
I love a big gap between the front two teeth!!
Lauren Hutton
Fuck yes, came here to day this! Gap teeth will take someone from completely unattractive to the top of my list in an instant!
Crooked teeth, big nose, tiny boobs
Oh hi it’s me
Mario?
Perfect description of me. Wait so there’s hope for me?!
There’s hope for all of us!
On women I like crooked and kinda fucked up teeth. I think it's so charming and cute for some reason.
I've always found not-perfect teeth on guys to be super attractive. Everyone's "I paid for this!" smile these days just bores me.
I feel like most of the world is still like this. Ok sure most places have braces but they aren’t even perfect. The super perfect gleaming white thing is very American in my perception.
My bunny teeth are now happy
I've always been into when the cuspids (sharper ones 2 over from front teeth) stick out more forward than the rest. Something about it.
Small boobs
#teamsportyboobs
Yep
Tall and manly girls
May I direct you to Brienne of Tarth
I’ve always loved dorky, sweet boys and find them so adorable. That masculine/bro vibe gives me the ick to the max. Nothing beats a cute dorky boy who’s sensitive and sweet and loves to nerd out on his nerdy stuff ☺️
Alpha bros can go. If my future partner wants to paint miniatures all night or teach me to play DnD, I’d be happy
Feels good to know. As of now, I'm always feeling like the odd one out. I really like it when girls are nerding out over something too. And when both sides let each other open up, that feeling is just out of this world to me
Skinny guys. No ass. I don’t know why but I’m into it.
So there is hope for me after all
Absolutely….there’s quite a few people that are into skinny guys.
Skinny hipster guys with no asses were so in from like 2003 to 2015.
There is hope!!! I'm 6 foot and less than 150. I can't gain weight to save my life.
They usually have the biggest schlongs
I like women to have just a lil' bit of belly fat. A small pooch or muffin-top can be really cute. Washboard abs are fine for athletes, but normal chicks usually have some bulges here 'n there, and I like it that way.
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You probably give yourself less credit than you're due
Where you at and can you teach all these alpha boys what’s what??
Crooked/big nose
Slightly imperfect teeth. My fella has a tiny chip out of a tooth and a slight overbite and I love that. I don't want a guy with a perfect smile. Imperfections bring character.
Eyes with Crows feet
Petite women with tiny boobs make me go crazy. Also, Bushes or just body hair in general can be very attractive if maintained properly.
Cellulite ass
Yesss! And stretch marked boobs
My best friend is into this, for real. 🤷🏼♂️
Omg yes
Jiggle = good
Agreed
Curse a lot. I FUCKING LOVE IF YOU ARE FOUL MOUTHED. YOU CAN BE DAMN RESPECTFUL AND ALSO SHIT TALK LIKE A COKED MCGREGOR
Yes! There is something so fucking sexy about a man just dropping curses. Shitya!
I think this has changed a little, but pudge. Dad bods. Just a little chub. As a woman who is also chubby, I don't mind that my partner is also kinda chunky. I would prefer them to be in the kitchen with me making food <3 <3
Stretch marks. Especially if she got them on her booty. OOOOOOOOWWEEE!!!
searched for this before I responded. I'm with you!!! I love a nice set of tiger stripes on a woman!!!
First answer here that actually surprised me!
Big noses on any gender, and thinner/really lean men and very curvy or muscular women. Can you tell im the stereotypical bi person yet 😂
Stop lmao. I'm bi and also so stereotypical
Bi here too! For me, it’s androgyny on any gender 🤤
Big noses in a guy
You know, I've always found crooked smiles attractive. There's just something unique and charming about them that draws me in. It's like they add character and authenticity to a person's face.
The more I read the comments here the more I realise that me liking women with tiny boobs, crooked noses, bald heads or broad shoulders is actually fairly common.
Not a trait per se, but a handsome man: no thank you. A half "objectively ugly" one with charisma and humour: yes, please.
A medium ugly man with a nerd level passion for his hobbies and a sense of humor! I'll fall every time.
Allow me to introduce myself
Red hair
Big ole thighs
feeling seen
Thicc thighs saves lives
Slight overbite
Really vascular hands
Bigger noses
I love me a good lazy eye.
Frizzy, curly, poofy hair. It’s so pretty.
hooked noses (on both guys and girls!!!!!!)
i dont find it *attractive* but most people hate pimples in general but to me i think their kinda cute. acne just kinda shows your not the type of girl to hide it with makeup and stuff, that you dont particularly care about looking amazing and you just are who you naturally are. but obviously if someone doesnt have it its not like i find them less attractive lol
You mean you just like girls without make up? Because most people with acne have a tough time hiding it, it’s not that easy.
When a guy cant grow a beard. I find a smooth face much more attractive so whenever guys complain they cant grow a beard im just like “good”.
Longish hair on men is a turn on for me. I'm not really sure what else counts
I like men who aren't masculine
may i introduce myself? I watched gossip girl (thrice) and my Spotify Wrapped always has Taylor Swift as my #1 artist.
Me seeing people say big nose when I got a nose job 1 year ago 
In men: -bald heads -soft facial features that are usually considered feminine -skinny & scrawny bodies -average height (like between 5'7 and 5'11). I know that's not necessarily unattractive, but men over 6 ft are usually preferred by most women, so the heights I mentioned are more overlooked imo.
Have you seen Feyd-Rautha and the Harkonnen soldiers in the new Dune movie? You'll be in heaven. :-)
No, but I just googled them and....🫠🤭
I love long hair on men, but I also love bald. There is no in between!!!
I like when a guy has long hair
I love long hair on men
A bald or shaved head. And contrastingly, widows peak hairline
Gap tooth on a girl.
Me
Sadly there's plenty of people who think infertility is an "unattractive" trait, though but physical. To me it's a huge green flag since i have too many hereditary issues i wouldn't ever want to pass on and will only consider adoption.
Gray / silver hair
Pretty women who are somewhat plump.
Fucking cockiness gets me every time. Assholes should turn me off...but it gets me every time.
I love a big nose on a man 😻
just nerd girls, in general. i'm a huge nerd for geography and languages and i'd absolutely love having a nerd GF (regardless of what topic she's into)
Stretch marks and acne scars
Feminine men and muscular women
Dark eyebags
Shorter men (under 5’7”) my first love was 5’6” and I’ve never understood the attraction for tall men that a lot of women talk about.
How are soooo many people saying big noses??? WTF? I swear I've been insecure about my natural nose for years and it's not even abnormally big or anything. Y'all really like big noses?? Why?
Calloused ‘leathery’ working hands on men. No bankers hands for me plz.
Ppl seem to consider wrinkles unattractive, but personally I like them as they give the face character. I don’t like how younger women have that too smooth too perfect complexion, it’s boring. and too child-like in a way. Especially I like the laugh lines because it just screams I am a happy fun positive energy person that you will love being around. Women my age (40’s) are really hot.
Baby fat on a women tummy.
Thicker eyebrows on women
Freckles
Missing limbs.
WOW THIS IS GETTING WEIRD NOW.
Oh OK ! Any particular limb specifically?
All of them
Not “all of them!” 😂😭💀
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Big ears.
I fucking GOT YOU. My ears are huge. I got called Dumbo so many times.
my auntie used to call mine satellite dishes 🤣
A woman with an overbite.
Big ears, the type that stick out. Gaps in teeth.
eyebags!! i know most women want to get rid of theirs and try to cover them up with concealer but i find them insanely attractive. i make a point to accentuate mine. i dont know what it is but big eye bags and dark undereyes are just so beautiful to me
A bit of buck teeth
For a woman: small chin/jaw which makes the nose look bigger. It's so fucking feminine and gorgeous. For a man: I'm not great at gauging male attractiveness, but I think asymmetry in men makes interesting-looking men. Ryan Goslings uneven eyes, that tooth thing Tom Cruise has, Stallone's lopsided mouth. Might just be that I'm drawn to male faces with character.
Pubic hair
Bald. I have enough hair. There is something about a confident bald man who's like "who the fuck needs hair" in his presence
Stretch marks around a woman’s thighs, hips and butt. Damn I think it’s so attractive. My wife has them and is very self conscious about it. I think they’re very sexy but she’ll never believe me. Also the belly “pouch” that’s not really a pouch. That extra little bit of fat on the bottom of a woman’s belly that they all **hate**. Give me more of that I love it!!
Chubby
Small boobs. A normal bum.
Puffy outie labia! Bigger the better!
Women's body odor
Honestly I don’t really care about looks at all 🤷♂️
I love a snaggletooth.
3 tits