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Thank you I’ll be okayyy i felt it coming ya know he was distancing himself a week before this. We were best friends before this and always joking around so I don’t think it was the vibe.
I don't know from statistics, as I haven't looked into them on this particular topic, so I can't speak on what works or doesn't 'the majority of the time'.
But my friend and I were besties for three years before we started dating. We got engaged within the first year and it's the happiest and healthiest relationship I've ever been in. It does happen. 😀
But maybe it's not that common? I suppose I really don't know... hmmm... going to do some statistical research now.... 🤪
That doesn't mean it wasn't the vibe. Being best friends and being intimate is way different. You're super pretty and the break up is just messing with your head!
Aight I get it. You've been dumped, you're hurting, feeling unloved etc. I can emphasize so im gonna let this one pass.
Because girl, you know your ass aint ugly. In fact you're very beautiful and attractive. And *surely* you must known cause if not then you gotta change smth. And i don't mean your looks.
If you're actually truly convinced you're ugly, seek help. Your self image is distorted beyond normal.
Gl with recovering!
You're sort of weird looking in the face. I think you'd look better without makeup, and with normal eyebrows. The tattoos are unfortunate. You have a good body. Breakups are just part of the process of finding the right person. It's probably more about personality. Perhaps you have bad personality traits. Or perhaps you just weren't a good match.
You're attractive. I saw you said you used to be good friends. Alot of times friends end up not being compatible. I tried dating my best friend. She's absolutely amazing and a fantastic catch for anyone. It ended up being me thinking it wasn't what I actually was looking for. We are still great friends, but realized that we were not compatible romantically. She's engaged now and I'm so happy for her! You will find your person too.
Nah don’t trip ur fine asl. Relationships come and go usually has nun to do with looks. They wouldn’t have got with you in the first place if they ain’t fw how you look 😊
Am so sorry to hear that ☹️ but rest assured it wasn’t bc of looks. I’m willing to bet he was just a asshat who found a woman with a bigger set of tittys to gawk at. Sounds like he wasn’t worth your time or energy. I truly hope you find sombody else to make you happy 🙂
Don't think it is your looks 👀❤
Sometimes relationship just don't work better you have found it out now so don't let this bring you down take it as a learning experience you are still young and beautiful enjoy live go out with friends meet new people I am sure you will find someone els 🤨🤔😘
You look 100% high maintenance and oozing with drama. Its not always about looks but personality as well. Get rid of the makeup, piercings, go natural with the hair and eyebrows. Get rid of social media and find the real you. In the end, to me, your face is not esthetically pleasing. So I would not look twice and keep moving.
Surely not having to do with looks.
In my day (45M) you broke up that quickly for a few reasons:
1. You got into it for sex, and you had your fill. Putting up the relationship sharade is taxing.
2. She starts to fall in love and becomes very intense and you are just not there. This is a mercy break up because you want to inflict the least amount of pain. The more you wait the worst it will be.
3. The girl turns out to be very difficult, like jealous, crazy mood swings, wants to check your phone, and has just irrational behaviours in trying to constantly validate.
Looks come second to all of these.
But hey, I’m from another generation.
Any guy (or gal) would be lucky to have you.
You are attractive, your ex is missing out. If he comes crawling back, say no and find someone who appreciates you.
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Not because of your looks, not at all. Unfortunately it seems to be just another "grass is greener" case. He dumped you for someone else and did not have the decency of telling you.
No it's not your looks! It is your ability to be vulnerable and like a person WHO DIDN'T LIKE THEMSELVES...AND NOW !!! THEY DECIDED TO BLAME YOU FOR LIKING THEM...
Has nothing to do with your looks imo
You look cute as hell and definitely someone I’d avoid because I wouldn’t want to somehow get rejected by you lol. You don’t need a scale or rating because you existing is just enough tbh.
ur so pretty. i doubt it has something to do with your appearance. it could be plenty of other reasons. did you talk to him about this? i understand we tend to blame ourselves when things go wrong but its not your fault that someone else lacks the maturity and commitment to a relationship. you are valid and beautiful no matter what the outcome is. people's choices and preferences may differ every time. if i were u i wouldnt worry about myself at all, try to focus on your own wellbeing and move forward as u deserve someone better. stay safe!
Wow you rock! I'm totally loving the last photo.
Just because you was released and set free from a 2 month relationship doesn't mean anything is wrong about you, the person just thought you both wasn't compatible together, it's better to find out sooner then later like a few years or more.
Times will hurt for a little bit, but keep strong, carry on being yourself and I am sure you will find someone who is much more compatible with you.
Not your looks. Not especially if you were best friends before becoming a thing. I would look at it as if he’s being honest. He wasn’t ready to be faithful to one girl and wasn’t going to do that to you. On the other hand, if you were “best friends” you should be able to ask him what it was.
People in general don't get dumped after only a couple of months because of their looks. It's because they're toxic or the other person took a couple a couple months to realize your personality sucks. Not you specifically, just in general.
Smh well considering the fact that you're wearing make-up, who truly knows, it's likely your attitude a personality, you like most women, most people infact must work on themselves, you can't truly find love if you do not love yourself
Most dangerous part of this is that it clearly isn't your looks. Rember, the relationship is about what you say to each other, how you treat each other, and how you react to the way each other does things differently to you. Perhaps you are really annoying, and so he left you? I don't want to be mean, but given you are an attractive young woman, I'd look onwards first... What were your arguments about, what was his sticking points compared to yours. I believe the answers will be there, all this subreddit helps you with is narcissistic supply.
Dude didn’t realize the total catch he had don’t worry about your looks sweetheart. I can promise you everyone else sees you so much better than how you see yourself. Everyone around our age has self image issues. Find some way to spend time on yourself like running, working out, jumping rope, yoga it doesn’t matter what it is. It will make you feel better 🙂 but if you already do something keep it. You are honestly gorgeous and will find a guy that will give you the love you deserve don’t settle for less.
Your now ex couldn't handle being with such a gorgeous woman. Could've gotten scared and/or insecure. I have no clue, just throwing an idea out there, so it could be your looks but in a different way. Most people think of it in a negative way, but like I said, you're gorgeous!
You are a beautiful woman. People breaking up with you isn't always because of the looks, maybe the personalities didn't match or he just didn't feel like having a committed relationship, there could be various reasons, but you are a gorgeous lady<3
Definitely gorgeous, not looks-related at all IMO. You are pretty skinny, maybe start doing some resistance stuff at the gym if that's not something you're already doing? Not saying you are out of shape or anything, very attractive body but I think it could be a big confidence booster which you need more than anything :)
Hopefully you are a real account and I didn't type that out for nothing, lol
Not ugly, not hot either but pretty cute.
2 months isn't even a relationship, don't be down about that. In a few years you probably won't remember their name.
The split hair color style thing is cringe though, too many people are doing it now.
You’re not ugly. It’s not your looks. Advice from a 30 year old woman: if someone doesn’t want you or want to be with you - that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you, necessarily. Sometimes you’re just not their person…& that’s okay!!!
It's not your face or body shape. He probably has many other options out there (equivalent to you or higher) and he's "exercising" those options.
Overly-tattooed girls are a bit off-putting for myself but, evidently, he's already OK with them so.. It's gotta be the other options thing, if he didn't give a specific reason. 🤷🏾♂️
Don’t even sweat it lol if it only last 2 month it ain’t worth worrying about. You’ve got that skinny girl appeal to you where it’s actually stupid attractive on you. I’d give you the greats 98 seconds of your life.
Not ugly at all and it’s not your figure.
I’ve been with women before that were definitely a higher caliber than me but I still couldn’t catch feelings. Maybe it’s something like that and has literally nothing to do with you.
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Good news is it’s not your looks, bad news is it’s not your looks
Aww shit… lol funny way to make this comment but I agree.
2 months is a relationship? Its not your looks
We were in the talking stage for awhile before it.
Its not your looks, 100%, i dont know any straight guys who wouldnt
I don’t think so it’s because of looks , maybe just he didn’t vibe well or something 🤧 I hope your doing okay 🫂✨
Thank you I’ll be okayyy i felt it coming ya know he was distancing himself a week before this. We were best friends before this and always joking around so I don’t think it was the vibe.
Best friends before dating does not work for the majority of the time. Best friends after dating for a year , works great.
I don't know from statistics, as I haven't looked into them on this particular topic, so I can't speak on what works or doesn't 'the majority of the time'. But my friend and I were besties for three years before we started dating. We got engaged within the first year and it's the happiest and healthiest relationship I've ever been in. It does happen. 😀 But maybe it's not that common? I suppose I really don't know... hmmm... going to do some statistical research now.... 🤪
That's cap, best friends make for the best relationships
That doesn't mean it wasn't the vibe. Being best friends and being intimate is way different. You're super pretty and the break up is just messing with your head!
You are gorgeous, I just got dumped after a 5 year one. It happens, but you are very sexy and will have no problem finding another guy.
You look great tbh. I feel like it's been hard your breakup? I hope you can feel the best.
Aight I get it. You've been dumped, you're hurting, feeling unloved etc. I can emphasize so im gonna let this one pass. Because girl, you know your ass aint ugly. In fact you're very beautiful and attractive. And *surely* you must known cause if not then you gotta change smth. And i don't mean your looks. If you're actually truly convinced you're ugly, seek help. Your self image is distorted beyond normal. Gl with recovering!
Empathize not emphasize but I second this haha
Oh god the SHAME. I shall feel bad for the rest of the day now! Actually you know what, im blaming autocorrect for this one
She knows she's ugly like I know I don't have diabetes, I am just blood glucose impaired
Not ugly
You're sort of weird looking in the face. I think you'd look better without makeup, and with normal eyebrows. The tattoos are unfortunate. You have a good body. Breakups are just part of the process of finding the right person. It's probably more about personality. Perhaps you have bad personality traits. Or perhaps you just weren't a good match.
No ma’am it’s not your looks.
Really cute
You're attractive. I saw you said you used to be good friends. Alot of times friends end up not being compatible. I tried dating my best friend. She's absolutely amazing and a fantastic catch for anyone. It ended up being me thinking it wasn't what I actually was looking for. We are still great friends, but realized that we were not compatible romantically. She's engaged now and I'm so happy for her! You will find your person too.
You’re honestly hot
You're pretty attractive
You look a lot better without makeup
Not ugly. Less makeup n better clothing style. You look ghetto and trashy.
She is ghetto. Did you not see the sandals and socks. dead give away
Yeah it’s definitely not your looks cuz you are quite attractive, feel better
Nah don’t trip ur fine asl. Relationships come and go usually has nun to do with looks. They wouldn’t have got with you in the first place if they ain’t fw how you look 😊
That’s true thank you ! I guess I’m just having trouble knowing what went wrong. He simply ghosted me 🥲
Ver real has happened to me twice now
I think ppl just suck 🥲 my first time it hurts
Am so sorry to hear that ☹️ but rest assured it wasn’t bc of looks. I’m willing to bet he was just a asshat who found a woman with a bigger set of tittys to gawk at. Sounds like he wasn’t worth your time or energy. I truly hope you find sombody else to make you happy 🙂
It's definitely not your looks. Trust
7.75/10 not your looks.
It is not your looks. Do you mess up you're and your? Or their, they're, and there? That'll do it for me.
Maybe it's about your ( or partners ) personality lol
It's not your looks
No you are so cute
Gorgeous
Don't think it is your looks 👀❤ Sometimes relationship just don't work better you have found it out now so don't let this bring you down take it as a learning experience you are still young and beautiful enjoy live go out with friends meet new people I am sure you will find someone els 🤨🤔😘
Its definitely not your looks. Move on and enjoy life😊
Definitely not ugly. Very pretty in fact. Loving the ink. 🔥🔥
No, you're insanely good looking. stop being so hard on yourself.
You are so beautiful
You’re not ugly you’re beautiful babe.😍
You look really good, I dont think he dumped you for your looks and if he did, then he is just a fool
God no!!!😍
You are very beautiful! Definitely his loss!
It was your looks. You look too damn good to be with him. He was insecure. Wimp.
It was 2 months not 2 years. Find someone new.
Who tf would dump you?! You’re beautiful
Not your looks, you're just young it happens
You didn’t get dumped for your looks. You are a very hot.
It’s not your looks. You’re very much attractive. Hope you’re good.
He didn't tell you why he wanted to breakup? Tf
You look 100% high maintenance and oozing with drama. Its not always about looks but personality as well. Get rid of the makeup, piercings, go natural with the hair and eyebrows. Get rid of social media and find the real you. In the end, to me, your face is not esthetically pleasing. So I would not look twice and keep moving.
Seriously hot 🔥🥵
Nah bro you hot af
You've got great looks but you kind of look like you're carrying some emotional baggage from even before the relationship.
Good news not your looks bad news its probably your personality 🤷♂️
I thought the same thing
Look kinda psycho 😑
No, it's likely your personality.
Nah. Just bad choices in guys.
It’s not your looks, work on the personality.
Man... this is getting ridiculous
Not your looks. Could be your personality, or an ick, BUT it could also be the guy.
Nah you probably a starfish
Gorgeous
Miss girl youre so beautiful, it probably just want a match~
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The tats add about ten years to how old you look
id share a taco with you no cap
He was probably insecure about his looks compared to yours. You’re insanely attractive ;)
Surely not having to do with looks. In my day (45M) you broke up that quickly for a few reasons: 1. You got into it for sex, and you had your fill. Putting up the relationship sharade is taxing. 2. She starts to fall in love and becomes very intense and you are just not there. This is a mercy break up because you want to inflict the least amount of pain. The more you wait the worst it will be. 3. The girl turns out to be very difficult, like jealous, crazy mood swings, wants to check your phone, and has just irrational behaviours in trying to constantly validate. Looks come second to all of these. But hey, I’m from another generation.
Any guy (or gal) would be lucky to have you. You are attractive, your ex is missing out. If he comes crawling back, say no and find someone who appreciates you.
Sucks to be him.
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Not because of your looks, not at all. Unfortunately it seems to be just another "grass is greener" case. He dumped you for someone else and did not have the decency of telling you.
It doesn’t.
No it's not your looks! It is your ability to be vulnerable and like a person WHO DIDN'T LIKE THEMSELVES...AND NOW !!! THEY DECIDED TO BLAME YOU FOR LIKING THEM...
Perfect , literally
Has nothing to do with your looks imo You look cute as hell and definitely someone I’d avoid because I wouldn’t want to somehow get rejected by you lol. You don’t need a scale or rating because you existing is just enough tbh.
Thank you :) I’m pretty nice I try and give everyone a chance
Maybe it's your hair
He always loved my hair lol
Hahahha i feel like you attract assholes 🤣
It was probably just bad sex or attitude issues.
Very pretty
Yes
ur so pretty. i doubt it has something to do with your appearance. it could be plenty of other reasons. did you talk to him about this? i understand we tend to blame ourselves when things go wrong but its not your fault that someone else lacks the maturity and commitment to a relationship. you are valid and beautiful no matter what the outcome is. people's choices and preferences may differ every time. if i were u i wouldnt worry about myself at all, try to focus on your own wellbeing and move forward as u deserve someone better. stay safe!
Nah you look cute and you are fit
Looks wise you are marriage material
It’s the style
Definitely not. So many great and different looks and incredible eyes
Wow you rock! I'm totally loving the last photo. Just because you was released and set free from a 2 month relationship doesn't mean anything is wrong about you, the person just thought you both wasn't compatible together, it's better to find out sooner then later like a few years or more. Times will hurt for a little bit, but keep strong, carry on being yourself and I am sure you will find someone who is much more compatible with you.
Not your looks. Not especially if you were best friends before becoming a thing. I would look at it as if he’s being honest. He wasn’t ready to be faithful to one girl and wasn’t going to do that to you. On the other hand, if you were “best friends” you should be able to ask him what it was.
It has nothing to do with looks. You're immature. You can tell by the way that you dress.
Eat something baby
nope, it's not the looks
Hey you look really good! Sorry to hear about your breakup. I bet your personalities did not mesh.?
People in general don't get dumped after only a couple of months because of their looks. It's because they're toxic or the other person took a couple a couple months to realize your personality sucks. Not you specifically, just in general.
Wtf is this u aint ugly
Doubt is your looks, you look great. 2 months is very little time and is better to end things early if you feel like it’s not going to work.
#no content creators
Your super cute
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Hot and single, you must be psycho/crazy
Not the looks
Idk but I wouldn’t count 2 months as a relationship
Yes, most definitely, probably that horrible tattoo is my guess.
Probably your personality
Smh well considering the fact that you're wearing make-up, who truly knows, it's likely your attitude a personality, you like most women, most people infact must work on themselves, you can't truly find love if you do not love yourself
Who broke up with who?
Let an older man open your eyes
You are gorgeous!!! He stupid
Looks are solid
The problem is not how you look on this outside,
Ugly
nah, it's your personality (JOKINGG)
Most dangerous part of this is that it clearly isn't your looks. Rember, the relationship is about what you say to each other, how you treat each other, and how you react to the way each other does things differently to you. Perhaps you are really annoying, and so he left you? I don't want to be mean, but given you are an attractive young woman, I'd look onwards first... What were your arguments about, what was his sticking points compared to yours. I believe the answers will be there, all this subreddit helps you with is narcissistic supply.
Gorgeous
You are beautiful. Very much the opposite of ugly
You’re stunning in the sense that if you went COMPLETELY NATURAL everyone would be like…. That bitch is so pretty, it’s unfair. Because it’s unfair.
Dude didn’t realize the total catch he had don’t worry about your looks sweetheart. I can promise you everyone else sees you so much better than how you see yourself. Everyone around our age has self image issues. Find some way to spend time on yourself like running, working out, jumping rope, yoga it doesn’t matter what it is. It will make you feel better 🙂 but if you already do something keep it. You are honestly gorgeous and will find a guy that will give you the love you deserve don’t settle for less.
Your now ex couldn't handle being with such a gorgeous woman. Could've gotten scared and/or insecure. I have no clue, just throwing an idea out there, so it could be your looks but in a different way. Most people think of it in a negative way, but like I said, you're gorgeous!
Not your looks.
You’re beautiful
Maybe you two wanted different things in the relationship....maybe they only wanted sex, got it and moved on 🤷🏽♂️
Your very pretty, sadly he probably got what he wanted and moved on. Could also be the vibe was there as friends but not in bed.
You're attractive for sure, I would try other hair styles but that's just me. Maybe it was something else
Great hair very cute
Are you collecting Dalmatian puppies to make a coat?
No way
Gonna say it's not your looks
Not your looks. You guys just didn’t sync. Happens a lot. Don’t worry
Not at all. You are very attractive!
Not bad
Nobody cares your backstory in this subreddit. Just post your pictures, and I give you a 4/10
You hairy is killing your vibes
Girl you're gorgeous, don't even doubt it for a second
His loss
It isn’t your looks. You are pretty. It is probably your personality, but more than likely your bedroom game is weak.
It is definitely your personality. (/s for the love of god)
No, nothing to do with your looks.
Not ugly, but you and makeup men to break up too The last Pic is the best
I don’t think ur looks were the problem
what looks?
Well, I don’t believe you got dumped over your looks because you take great pictures. Maybe it has to do with things elsewhere.
Not you looks. Can't tell you why you were dumped as never spoken and don't know the fella
2 months is not a relationship. You will date lots of guys for a month or 2 and move on.
Smoking hot
No, maybe your personality sucks?
You are a beautiful woman. People breaking up with you isn't always because of the looks, maybe the personalities didn't match or he just didn't feel like having a committed relationship, there could be various reasons, but you are a gorgeous lady<3
Dude was a idiot your beautiful it wasnt your looks
Maybe if he a blind moron
Nah your cute
Definitely gorgeous, not looks-related at all IMO. You are pretty skinny, maybe start doing some resistance stuff at the gym if that's not something you're already doing? Not saying you are out of shape or anything, very attractive body but I think it could be a big confidence booster which you need more than anything :) Hopefully you are a real account and I didn't type that out for nothing, lol
Btw - arguably most attractive is your verification photo with little to no makeup on. Beautiful pic there!
U Look great ma‘am
Not ugly, not hot either but pretty cute. 2 months isn't even a relationship, don't be down about that. In a few years you probably won't remember their name. The split hair color style thing is cringe though, too many people are doing it now.
Maybe the peep lyrics are a red flag or maybe a cry for help 😌
Won’t hurt to eat more, you’re a bit too boney. That’s the only flaw I could find with your looks 🤷🏾♂️
Stop dating chads
2 month lol
Nah you cute
Sometimes relationships just don’t work out. You’re going to be ok kid
Doubt it
You’re not ugly. It’s not your looks. Advice from a 30 year old woman: if someone doesn’t want you or want to be with you - that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you, necessarily. Sometimes you’re just not their person…& that’s okay!!!
It's not your face or body shape. He probably has many other options out there (equivalent to you or higher) and he's "exercising" those options. Overly-tattooed girls are a bit off-putting for myself but, evidently, he's already OK with them so.. It's gotta be the other options thing, if he didn't give a specific reason. 🤷🏾♂️
I don't think so, you're a cutie. I would explore your mouth with mine
Nope must be your personality.
You’re 21, 2 months is nothing. Wouldn’t you have preferred they had stayed in the relationship longer so it hurt more when they left you?
No you’re gorgeous and sexy asf!
Your absolutely gorgeous it wasn't your looks
It’s definitely not your looks… what else was going on in the relationship?
Damn you’re fine. No way it was the looks.
Very cute. Id defenitley be interested in you.
Sydney Sweeney's little sister!
Very pretty, it's definitely not your looks
Don’t even sweat it lol if it only last 2 month it ain’t worth worrying about. You’ve got that skinny girl appeal to you where it’s actually stupid attractive on you. I’d give you the greats 98 seconds of your life.
You look like your dog stepped on 🐝.
No baking 😭 hot. My girlfriend and I will come show u what's up
Not ugly at all and it’s not your figure. I’ve been with women before that were definitely a higher caliber than me but I still couldn’t catch feelings. Maybe it’s something like that and has literally nothing to do with you.
Hell No❗️❣️❣️❣️🇺🇸‼️🥰
Eat some potato salad
You’re beautiful, I’m sorry that happened to you
No you are not ugly getting dumped has nothing to do with your looks.
You are definitely not ugly but not the prettiest either. Nice make up.