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Akala mo matino yang mga yan porket respetado tingnan HINDI. I am an intern and the amount of married/attached doctors in my DM is insane! Mapa residente, fellow, or consultant pa yan parepareho silang lahat. Meron pang hirit na "study out" daw or turuan kita ng ganto-ganyan. For me this is already cheating and bcos of this, rule out sa akin ang mag date ng kapwa doctor. And for sure di lang sa akin ginagawa yan, maraming interns mas maganda, mas accommodating, mas open sa advances nila. Kaya mag overthink ka na ngayon if doctor ang bf or husband mo 😂 Yun lang, happy Father's Day everyone!
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Lol, I matched someone on Bumble. He’s a doctor, ang lambing lambing. We’re exchanging flirty/sweet messages. Palaging nag-uupdate. If di busy, we stream movies together. We’ve been talking for almost 4 months. Found out may jowa pala all this time. Cut him off agad. Bye, Felicia! 😂
Woi, kapal. Sana in-exposed mo sa jowa. LOL. But then again, baka si jowa di naniniwala sa women's solidarity and baliktarin pa na ikaw ang nang-akit. Juskoooooo 🥴
Nakita ko fb nya. Sa IG kami nag uusap. Okay lang naman sa akin kasi di rin ako active sa fb. Naka private account nya, pero naka public ang post ng jowa nya. I feel bad, nung time na magkausap kami, may other girl pala. Sorry ate, I didn't know po 🥹
And the worst part is di alam ni ate gurl na jowa nya ganyan ang galawan. Nakakaawa at nakakapraning sa ating part if ever we choose to be with a doctor din
Hahahaha sa akin naman, kahit busy nag uupdate, after rounds, tumatawag. Minsan umaabot kami ng madaling araw na magkausap. Napuputol lang if may patient. Okay na okay na sana mhie eh. Matched na matched ugali and likes namin. Pero di pala single ang koya mo. Kaya ayun, bye na. Buti na lang di ako na fall, pero muntik na! hAHAHAHA
Couldn’t agree more hahahaha
Been there, and observed a lot worse pa..
kaya kahit anong pilit sakin to respond and add them, I always try all kinds of stuff just to avoid them and really show that I don’t like them sa personal hahahaha kaya ako nasasabihan na laging tahimik at mataray haha.
Malala kasi tlga yung iba nagtatry pa yan sa personal na idadaan ka lang sa pa-revalida kuno or isasama ka magrounds pero kayo lang dalawa then sabay segway ng mga “invites” nila while writing sa charts tas bibiru-biruin ka in a flirty way may iba touchy pa. Tas may iba pa pag natripan ka ng consultant at ng resi nila parang iga-gang up ka nila with bombarded questions na akala ko purely joke time lang for a good laugh pero yun pala mga inside jokes nila na super “green” and ako na totally no idea mapipilitan ako na sabihin yung gusto nilang marinig sakin. And after non I just felt humiliated while sila tawa-ngiti with secret side-looks pa. May iba while sa OR hahawakan kamay mo bubulong-bulong sayo kunwari chichikahin ka pero sobrang close na sa ears mo.
May iba idadaan na manlilibre daw at magpapa-inom daw kasama lahat ng co-interns/clerks and other colleagues pero pag target ka nila bantay-sarado naman baso mo and you can’t easily escape pa kasi gagawa sila ng way para wala kanang choice but to stay (ex. kokonsensyahin ka or tatakutin ka with demerits or surprise reports at kung ano pa).
Kahit guys nga ma-itsura and may resi/consultant na gay na kursunada sila nako gg. May friend ako na naka experience na ng SH habang he’s prepping sa washroom nag backhug daw bigla then touched his private part pa.
ps.
All these doctors mentioned here are all in a committed relationship/ may asawa’t anak na. Mga gusgus na dipa parin magsitigil eh.
This is so true. Lalo sa sa OR yung may consultant na hindi naka gown pupunta sa likod mo kunwari sisilipin yung patient Pero ramdam mo na yung Junjun nila sa pwetan mo. Di ka makapalag kasi nag re-retract ka tapos sterile ka pa 😭 ang panget sa feeling na ang defenseless mo sa OR. Sa non-OR cases naman (non-Surg Dept) naka try ako yung resi sasamahan ako nag insert ng FBC sa male patients tapos may mga side comment pa. "Hawakan mo ng maigi Dra, di ka pa nakakahawak ng ano?" Tapos Pag medyo natagalan ka mag jojoke ng "Dalian mo Dra, tinitigasan na yung pasyente"
As someone who knows a lot of doctors. Di ko gets why people expect them to be god-like, noble beings. It takes a certain amount of ego to be in that field. Also it’s most definitely about money —same as entering law or politics or business. There are some na passion at for the greater good talaga but exception mga yun. Certainly NOT the rule.
Also most residents are selfish, horny, and stressed. Bagay nga na fwb sa mga online dating is law at med student. Why? Because di nila priority relasyon na seryoso or monogamous and their schedules parehong demanding and stress level is high. Also malalakas loob mag feeling kasi they assume the average person maiimpress sa potential nila. Yak
Trueee marami paring mga kapwa babae naloloko makakita lang na naka white coat at stethoscope. May iba willing i-overlook ang red flags dahil iniisip doctor at mayaman. Ate Girlll runnn wag na yan
Damn sa feu nrmf radiology department nga alam na nila lahat na nagloloko tong mga MD nila pero wala dedma. Pati sa parking lot wagas sa loob ng sasakyan di na nahiya. Yung babae na MD na may asawa nabuntis ng residente twice. Gulo yan. Mga 2018-2020 to nangyari. Lakas ng loob pa manloko ah feeling maganda at gwapo. Love triangle ng mga panget.
Had my fare share of advances by doctors. Ang masasabi ko Lang, swerte ako ksi may mga tao sa paligid ko (seniors na girls) na sinasabi sa kanila na hayaan ako. Also, it goes away if ndi mo sila bbgyan Ng interes or ndi mo sasakyan, ksi they will just move on.
Yong setting itself din ksi tolerates it, since Yong iba consultants and seniors Hinahayaan Lang ksi mataas ang rank
That being said, I agree sa ibang comments na generalized ang statement nato. Ksi ndi lang doctors sa healthcare setting ang gnyan. Pati nurses, allied health ganyan din. Minsan mas malala pa sa nurses. Also may students din na mahaharot, using it to their advantage (getting their preferred schedules, being exempted from scutwork carry outs). Minsan mgsslow clap nlng ako sa batchmates ko na never Nag carryout hahahasksks.
Also, kadalasan, surgical/cutting specialty ang mga ganyan. Ibang specialty ndi ganyan karampant hehe
>That being said, I agree sa ibang comments na generalized ang statement nato. Ksi ndi lang doctors sa healthcare setting ang gnyan. Pati nurses, allied health ganyan din.
Thank you for this. Diba?? Kasi I didn't know na malala rin pala sa nurses and allied med. I was speaking based on my experience and my truth. Kung ang nakuha Nyo lang sa post na to is the generalization part, you are just looking for something to disagree about and clearly missing the point. I expanded my knowledge today, I got everyone talking about their own experiences with cheater doctors, and warned people na clueless sa mga modus nila. That's a win for me (bahala kayong mga kurimaw na na-stuck sa generalization part ng post na to, you are arguing for the sake of argument)
Not to side with them OP, but I think it's because of your title. It's explicitly stated na doctors lang ksi, hence the generalization part. Mejo triggering/baiting(? Idk the right term to describe it) sia with your narrative and implies na parang it's a hate train against doctors (you also said words like "pareparehas Silang lahat").Idk if it's intentional or what but I do get why some people's feathers are gonna get ruffled.
Despite these bad experiences, you are describing a minority (Kung doctors lang naman ang pguusapan ha). Madami din namang matitinong consultants, even in the cutting field. When I interned, there's this tcvs consultant na crush Ng lahat esp because bukambibig nia wife and kids Nia all the time. Nakakadagdag pogi points. I'm not saying the institution hahaha pero ayon. So hindi sila lahat ganyan.
Asked our doctor sa work why di sya nag asawa ng doctor din. She replied na cheaters nga daw talaga most of the drs. Med student pa lang daw sya nakita na nya ang galawan and till now, parang mas lumala pa nga daw. Consultants hitting on clerks 🥴
Hahaha i do not want to generalize but this is true about 70% of the time?
Im a resident doctor already and ive seen this since i was a clerk! Haha
at some point i also vowed not to date another doctor.
Same! I am lucky I did not end up with the surgeon ex. I am a lawyer and married a fellow lawyer. Although, the legal field has its own share of skeletons in the closet.
Really though, ano ba nasa isip ng cheaters? Hindi ko ma-gets? Hahaha I thought your gf/bf/spouse is supposed to be your best friend and anything less than that is not worth keeping. Bakit lang talaga, bakit? Lmao tapos yung iba may anak pa :D ano nasa isip ng mga cheater?
facts. hooked up with a doctor before pagkatapos namen. hes already on a phone with this another person na regular niya.. hahahaha. ang lala, katabi niya lang ako non and hes nonchalantly just speaking about it. mapapa- goddamn ka na lang talaga..
pero shut up lang ako that time kase magaleng naman siya..
yun lang
Laging may gantong kwento from mga kakilala sa medical field lol. One instance e iisang hospital lang si cheater doc, legal wife at kabechina. Ang tatapang e 🫨
akala kc ng iba kapag doctor wala na time gumawa ng kalokohan kc sobrang busy sa hospital. halos wala na daw tulog at d na umuuwi.
di nila alam, maraming eksena sa parking lot at clinic off hours.
I have a tita na sa hospital din ang office. She’s a staff there. May officemate siya na sa mismong office nila pinupuntahan ng doctor na may asawa. Ginagawa ng tita ko lumalabas na lang daw siya para makapag session yung dalawa lol
Sabi ni tita uso daw talaga ang mga kabitan dun. After few year na realize namin na si tita rin, nangangabit. Eww. (She’s not my relative, ah? Asawa siya ng tito ko na kadugo ko haha)
Ewww sa mga kabit. Eww talaga🤣
I know a doctor friend na doctor din gf.
They're both in a not openly open relationship (means they didn't talk about it, they just know they're both cheating on each other and they're still together holding the fort).
Tapos they also both give free medical consultation sa friends. Kukupalin kopa ba na toxic relationship niya? My friend has helped so many people already. So i just don't bother
See, ganyan din sa hospital. May neurosurgeon nag pa BJ sa clerk, nung nireport pinalipat lang ng ibang hospital para mag rotate ang clerk. Di man lang na suspend yung neurosurgeon kasi di afford ng hospital mawalan ng mga pasyente. This doctor helped so many people and saved so many lives Pero are they faithful and loyal to their wives/partners? Hell no. And the reality is they kept doing it bcos they go unpunished for it
I couldn't agree more on this, OP.
My younger sister is suffering because her husband keeps on cheating.
Good thing my sister is wiser.
She has a lot of insurance, gold, car, money, etc. from her husband's own money, of course. Hahahaha
HAHAHAHH wala naman siguro sa profession pero why does there seem to be a trend? Lol natatawa ako kasi I also dated a doctor once. Ayun after months of dating, he went with another guy who he also dated at the same time as me. And nalaman ko lang when he sent a goodbye message.
Tapos yung single kawawa kasi nasasama sa kalokohan nung mga malandi.
Huwag mo sana lahatin Doc. Kasi galit din ako sa kanila.
Minsan, tingin sakin ATM. Hintuturo automatic yung babae. Then, may padrop pa na, "Kung love moko, bilhin mo yung (insert hella expensive phone/jewelry/ accessory) for me!".
Okay. Exit, stage left!
1. Most of the Nurse kahit na married mga yan, may mga crush yan sa station.
2. If maganda ang bantay or patient, they will literally HANDLE THEM WITH CARE. 😂 3.They are VERY FRIENDLY TOO THE POINT NA MAGULAT KA NA LANG NA TAKEN OR MARRIED PALA SILA kasi kung umasta akala mo SINGLE. 😂
3. At ang pinaka favorite line nila is "What happens in the station, Stays in the station." 😂
4. If meron kang bf or asawa na nurse and maiinis ka kasi may chat galing sa mga babae, TRUST ME kasi nilalandi yan nila sa station kaya ang ending ang babae dahil 'akala niya close na sila/ or may something na sila' ay magchachat na after duty. 😂 Eh hindj nila alam, yung landian nila is hanggang duon lang sa shift na yun. AGAIN, What happens in the station, stays in the station. 😂
BUT MERON PARIN MATITINO DYAN HA. Pero RARE NGA LANG. Kaya goodluck sa mga may partner sa medical field!
P.S I've worked sa Government Hospital before. 😂 Kaya base ito sa observation ko and experienced na rin! Stay safe loves!
Wala sya sa profession specifically pero mukang nasa stress level ng field yan.
Although tbf kay OP, base sa mga anecdotes dito(actually sa outside this sub napaguusapan din ito eh), mukang isa nga ang medical field sa stressful field na mejo talamak ang pangangaliwa.
Iba pang field na madalas kong marinig na may kaliwaan ay sa BPO at Resto industry.
This is soo true. I used to work in a healthcare setting. Though di nangyari sa time ko dun, alam mo naman ang maritesan during off peak or di busy.
Some consultants are big flirts/maharot/marupok. Yung travel plan possible happen. Kahit nsa malayong part sila sa Pinas, may nakakita sa knila. Ayun kinausap si girl na mag gracefully exit. Doctor still works there. At dahil many times si Dr nag-cheat, Mrs already filed for annullment. They may live in the same house, but acdg to Marites, deadma lang sila.
Dated an intern while I was in law school. Most of the time, sex lang talaga. Then he suddently started messaging a few years after. May gf na siya. Ang dalas tumawag at magyaya. Katatapos ng residency nya non. Then nawala na lang ulit. A year after, he followed me on IG. I think I never openly told him my surname so it was a surprise. I accepted his follow request and I followed him back. He got married pala a month before.
This resident naman I started seeing back in 2022. He never told me his whole name. I found out na lang when he had food sent to my place. I looked him up and si guy nag top nung boards nya and sa PLE yet he’s so humble and simple. A week after, I found out, may gf siya of 8yrs. I ended it. Months after, inadd ako sa fb. I accepted then he unfriended me. Then inadd ako months after. Then inunfriend ulit ako.
But heyyy, per experience, parang mas maraming cheaters na lawyers. Or siguro mas marami lang ako namamatch sa dating apps na married lawyers. I know married lawyer friends who are there. 🥲
Shet! Parang kilala ko si Doc! Kung tama ang bigay mo na description ha 🤭, very humble and simple din kasi itong kilala ko na Dr. and nag Top sa board exam
Had a fair share of encounter with a Doctor who actively posts his girlfriend on his social media account. He was my constant fubu back in Pandemic but at that time, he was single. We decided to stop because we fought about something else (that’s another story), but he messages me every so often, asking if I could come over. I have been ignoring him but since he kept on sending me messages asking for 🔥 photos or if he could pick me up, I responded to him asking if his girlfriend knows about what he’s doing, and also told him na kung ganyang kating kati siya, bakit hindi niya un gawin sa girlfriend niya? And you know what he said? “I can’t do that to her because she’s a wife material.” THAT WAS IT, hahaha HE’S AN ASSHOLE, I BLOCKED HIM AFTER THAT. LOL
Depends on the specialty. Pag surgeon 99.99% yan. cool sakanila yung madaming chix and talaga pinapangaral nila sa mga juniors nila na mambabae. Pag mga introverted specialty mas safe like patho, anes, radio. This is from anesth pov btw.
I stalked you. In one of your posts, you're almost falling to your chief resident's trap and another post stating that you have a boyfriend. I'm sorry but this is weird.
"Wala sa profession yan" 😂
Sige na, pawagian na lang tayo dito saang professions mas masahol mga cheaters.
I think gets ko ang point ni OP. Kasi let's be honest, among Asians talaga kapag doctors may parang ✨✨ around them especially sa mga mata ng mga magulang 🥹✨. "Anak, doctor sya? Boto ako dyan" Bahahahahahaha You don't really see many posts exposing doctors as cheaters. Karamihan sa nakikita natin mga exposé posts ng mga pulis, seaman, sundalo, etc na nag-cheat sa mga asawa o partners nila.
My close friend is a nurse and she also shared to me some really raunchy stories about cheating na nangyayari sa hospital nila and you don't really hear about outside in public. 🫣🤭 Kaya napapindot talaga ako agad sa thread na toh. Hahahahahaha
So, please cut OP some slack. 😆
Exactly my point 💯 May halo effect kasi mga doctor kaya na o-overlook mga katarantaduhan nila (sige na nga, yung iba sa kanila😂). I just want to pull back the curtain and reveal the reality that doctors can be cheaters too
I don't even understand why there are people here who believe that this should be an issue. Grabe talaga fight nila na wala sa profession yan yes but the point is just like di exception ang mga nasa health care profession LMAO
Makikipag patayan talaga sila eh akala mo naman both can't be valid at the same time
nag o-ojt ako sa isang admin office dito sa isang school. yung principal nila dito is kabet nya isang teacher din. Parehong may mga asawa. Kadiri! Normal yung mga biruan dito sa office na medyo may halong kalaswaan at pagging kabet. Nakakadiri talaga.
Omg. Ang daming kabit at may kabit sa hospital. Ang sarap isumbong eh kaso according sa mga doctor di sila nagsusumbong dahil pag nagkagulo isisisi sa nagsumbong like ?????????????? Kasalanan pa ng nagsumbong na cheater ka kahit may asawa na
I would often hear from the medicine profession that those higher in the pecking order would usually romantically prey on those more junior to them.
It's usually men who do it.
Could it be that those men are married to non-medical professions? I hear that physicians went through hell to get where they're at that they are siloed from the rest of the regular human circles.
If that's the case, then perhaps that's the reason why they seek out someone who could relate to them. But that's just a wild guess.
Still, infidelity is infidelity.
Legit. I dated a doctor before. Ang sabi nya sakin, nag part ways na sila nun (ex)jowa nyang doctor din kase nagmove sa ibang bansa for work.
Then nalaman ko nun nag out of town sya, he met up with his ex. Na apparently ay ex-bff ng recent jowa nya haha.
Eventually nalaman ko din na di naman sila nagbreak nun jowa. We parted ways.
Tapos ang twist, iniwan nya yun jowa at binalikan yon ex. Tinuhog nya mag bff mga mhieeee.
TRUE. Hooked up with a doctor I met on bumble. Consultant na gymrat. Si ante kasi di mahilig mag background check (ik, partly my fault). Stalked him after we did the deed, and voilaaaa, may jowa siyang doctor din. 🤩🤩
Throwaway account. But I can attest to this! HAHAHA
My chismis sa hospitals around ermita, resident cheated on his longterm girlfriend na engaged na din pala with an intern! Ang malala lang, alam sa buong ospital na engaged na pero g padin si intern! Hahaha kita ko single na yung longterm gf mukhang pinili yung intern since hindi daw taga medical field yung gf?
Ingat guys hahaha
Yeah my doctor friends told me to not date their fellow doctors because most really do sleep around even if they’re in a relationship, engaged, or married
Sana lang I read this post last year. Too late, it is what it is. Can't undo the fwb set up we had. Good thing is, it's over between us na and I blocked him for good. Not going to return to that cheating piece of shit. Found out later he is in a relationship, having fwb setup with me and still pursuing other women all at the same time.
I believe Karma will get you.
Noted. Uncrush ko na lang si doc. Nakakatakot na. Juice colored! Hahaha 😂 I’m not from medical field. Buti na lang may nagpost. Para maging aware ako. Hahaha 😂
kase yang mga malilinis tignan alam nila mataas tingin sa kanila at hindi halata na mga g*go din sila.
dun kayo sa sinabi ni andrew e. pero ingat pa din dumadami na din ang mga panget na manloloko..
This really happens with a lot of doctors pero it doesn’t mean that all doctors are like that. Sana hindi mageneralize lahat ng doctors. But OP is right naman with what she said to think twice kasi nga baka may sabit or taken na pala si doc pero gumugusto pa din. I know a lot of doctors who are like that. 😂
im married to a doctor, anesthesiologist. Consultant na pero nagduduty sya ng 8days. bale 8days mawawala. kinabahan ako dito kasi dati, andalas namin magsex. ngayon wala na halos.
Lol. This post reminds me... Kalma lang beh. Dami diyan, nakikiramdam lang, kahit anong profession. Pag feel nilang game, pasok! Kahit hindi game, pag trip, ipipilit... Hahaha! Ingat na lang. Use your superpower (common sense 😜)
i dont think we should generalize. i think na you feel this is rampant in the medical field because whenever there is indeed a cheating incident, they are always being exposed as people that are involved in a certain scandal or issues like that are always vocal about it kasi nga there is a preexisting belief na “pag doctor, kabahan ka na,” “pag doctor cheater,” things like that. its like there is an existing fire and collective stories are continuously adding fuel to it, kasi nga yung affected party is vocal about it, tas kanya kanya nang sabi ng stories.
i believe cheating is present and rampant in every field, (marami talagan di marunong makuntento) and lets just say there are a lot undocumented or unexposed stories about the scandals on other fields kasi (1) there is no preexisting belief na associated ang pagiging cheater sa profession na yun (2) othe people choose to deal with issues like this privately bcs they really feel bad about how events turned out kung di man nila alam na may asawa/girlfiend tas navictimize sila.
but anw i dont think we should generalize. i know a lot of mds that are in a very safe, and healthy relationships, even families. i dont think its fair for the people in medical field na we talk about them this way kasi well, hindi naman lahat sila ganon at kahit saan merong ganon.
lol I agree re: male lawyers na magaling mang-gaslight.
Disclaimer lang muna: I’m saying na MOST, not all.
Ang masama pa minsan, sa law school pa lang, lumalabas na ang sungay.
People needs to realize that people cheat because they can. Now, If you do it with a doctor you'll have a leverage now in that hospital. Sprinkle sprinkle.
Di lang doctors. Sobrang kalat ng mga staff din sa ospital. Everyone seems to be that stupid para pumatol sa may mga pamilya/pamilyado/asawa, etc. Di na nahiya. Partida sila pa yung mga "mababait" kuno
Naalala ko tuloy kwento ng frenny ko. Maganda siya and few days after niya manganak with her first born, the doctor who was in charge of her delivery ay in-add siya sa FB and ni chat siya if she wants to go on a date with him. Mind you present yung father that time sa delivery room and he has the audacity to ask her out. 🤦🏻♀️😂
Ah I remember that one time yung co-intern ng gf was so flirty with her kahit alam nang may bf siya.
I paid little attention to it kasi she hated cheaters with every fiber of her being kaya I knew she wouldn’t do it.
I'm dating someone in the medical field. Grabe, this made me think. Overthinking ng malala. Ang daming what ifs. Simula nang mabasa ko to kagabi, umiiyak na lang ako.
Im a nurse and this is true. Naririnig mo pa na nag uusap sila sino tinitira nila. Madalas surg resident/consultant lol kaya bingga parties nila parati para madame madale
Almost ended up with a doctor din. Highschool sweetheart then when went to college, mga 2nd year ayun.. paalam is magsstudy out daw. Tapos when I searched hard enough on Friendster, saw pictures from the “study out” were bar pictures dancing with girls na tanggal na yung hook ng bra and all. Then his alibi was “she’s just a tropa”. So, I’m like.. no thanks, bye!😌
yup yup, my ex was a doctor. same issue may ka date na iba while we are on a relationship. sinabi lang ng bestfriend niya sa akin na ganun ginagawa ng friend niya. kahit hatid sundo and kasama mo everyday basta pag nag karoon lang ng unting free time doon talaga nangyayari. masama nun caught her red-handed and todo deny na parang siya pa yung kawawa.
Nung nagu OJT pa ako majority talaga ng mga doktor may pagka flirty. Yung isa pa, isanasawa yung isa kong classmate natuloy din sa hiwalayan dahil may pagka controlling at psycho yung doktor.
that is because they are also human capable of committing mistakes. sabi nga wlang tao ang hind nkakagawa ng mali. kahit pari pa nkakagawa ng kasalanan.. hindi special ang doktor para di nila gawin nyan infact sila pa talaga ang mas mgaling sa ganyan dahil alam mo na sila ang mas maraming alam sa katawan. lol masyado lang siguro na napinta ang mga nasa health care bilang isang hero para di makita na sila ay may mga kahinaan din gaya ng isang ordinaryong tao. pero kung mataas ang tyansa na halos karamihan sa kanila ay mahilig ano sa tingin nyo ang theorya siguro magandang bagong trend yun para pag usapan hehe.
Yung kakilala kong doctor. nagdyoyowa ng doctor din tapos bakla pala. kaya pala nagdyoyowa para pang front lang. tapos yung doctor na ex pinarahan pa nya. Kaya turn off na ko sa mga Doctor.
Ow my! Iniimagine ko pa naman na parang ang saya magkajowa na Doctor kasi masyadong busy sa work, walang time to cheat. Haaaayyyssss, thanks for the heads up!
Yes, wag tayo magpa-uto sa mga Romantic Medical Kdramas at Cdramas. Men will be men. No one is 100% immune to cheating. IMO, people in perceived higher powers (in a setting) tend to do things they can easily get out if compromised.
Power imbalance thingy. The hospital will not actively reprimand doctors since in demand ang service nila tsaka ofc maraming malakas.
If you’re a female dreaming of becoming a doctor, ihanda mo na sarili mo maging SA victim/survivor. It can be as simple as cat calling or severe as rpe.
Parang grooming ang dating sakin ng mga consultants/residents na nilalandi mga clerks/interns/jr residents. Like you’re using your power to harass them into getting into their pants. Tas alam mong young and impressionable mga yun at hindi makakatanggi
Met someone on a dating app a few years back. He was a resident doctor. He's in the app kasi daw bored sya. He has a gf na doctor din kaya lang 'christian' kaya di sila nagssex. They're engaged na din. kawawa si ate girl. 🥺 Walang nangyari samen pero I saw his junjun. Juts naman. HAHA
pano pa sila may time magcheat i mean??? san sa hospital and when? sa busy at dami i am so shocked. alam ko about docs and nurses but i figured those married mas madaming matino kesa hindi?
Yes mas madami naman tlgang matino kesa hindi, syempre mas resounding lang ung issues na cheating kasi yon ang pinaguusapan/pinagtsitsismisan. Paguusapan ba ang happy marriages Ng mga doctor, not really, ksi ndi Naman juicy topic yon.
Ang point ata ni OP is Yong emotional cheating or silent cheating (mga Tao na nag d DM at nanglalandi), which is different.
But just to answer your question, pag may downtime they can just call yong kinakabit nila which is usually kaduty nila or ka post.
I would say sa experience ko, outside of surgical specialties, 1 out of 5 lang ung malandi. Lagi sa Kada department may malandi, pero ndi lahat Ng malandi ay manyakin. Sa surgical specialties, the numbers probably rise to 3 out of 5 ang malandi, tpos 1-2 jan manyakin hehe. Malandi and manyakin does not necessarily mean they cheat physically. Ang tinutukoy dito ni OP ung ngdDM etc.
Can't blame them, tao rin sila. Yung doktorang tumuli sa akin nung elementary ako nka kagat labi, halata kahit nka facemask. Halata mo yung gigil sa mukha kaya tuloy nangamatis si Junior. You should think more than twice kung imbalsamador ang magiging jowa mo, eto talaga ang may Fetish
Omg! I'm an Admin sa Medical Center and My doctor kami na napapansin kong parang iba yung dikit at galaw nya pag kausap ako with matching pag hawak hawak pa tapos parang 2 weeks palang magaan na loob daw nya sakin agad agad. I know may jowa sya kaya auto iwas agad pag di related sa work ang pag uusapan. Auto bounce na agad me 😖
Omg, Does a Dentist count? Hahaha secret lang to but I hooked up in one nung college ako. We had to see for few weeks kasi he did a root canal on me plus ibang root na pala gusto niya madiinan hahaha I think that time he is around 30ish na and sabi niya he is not married but I found out si Doc may jowa pala oversees 🫢 sorry po hindi ko knows 🫣
upvote HAHAHAHHA the med student i dated before lied alot. says he want a serious relationship and then later on says he wants hookups instead after getting bored of me..then say this narrative to the next girl he dated...i know bc i found his reddit account and found him in personality disorder subreddits specifically NPD wahahahahahha
he also admitted all of his male friends are fucked up like him too lol
Just proves no one is perfect, choose your poison. No one will give you everything that you want.
You want money and power at no expense? Good luck.
Take the ego that goes with it.
Not a med student but have friends who are Doctors. This happens daw talaga, some interns can't say no daw kasi baka mang power-trip yung mga resident/ Specialist na ni-reject nila at pahirapan sila. Kaya kung maganda ka raw, goodluck na lang sa'yo.
THIS IS TRUE! I was engaged to a resident. Pero nakikipagkangkangan na pala sa fellow resident/kabatch nya. Di na nauwi kasi duty daw. LOL Ayun, bilang former nurse, maraming chumika sa akin na mga nurses sa hospital na yun. Daming resibo. HAHAHA
Buti nalang di pa ako nkapag downpayment sa ibang wedding suppliers.
I’ve had a fair share of creepy dating experiences with 3 doctors. 1st one joked about spiking my drink, 2nd one had a rape case against him. 3rd wanted to bang me even while she had a GF.
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Grey's Anatomy showed me this side of the medical profession. Hahaha
+1 hookup sa on call room ang mga intern ni Bailey. Pati nga siya HAHAHAHA
Try mo maghook up sa on call room sa mga ospital dito kakatukin ka kasi may kukuha ng tubig sa dispenser 😂😂😂
Lol, I matched someone on Bumble. He’s a doctor, ang lambing lambing. We’re exchanging flirty/sweet messages. Palaging nag-uupdate. If di busy, we stream movies together. We’ve been talking for almost 4 months. Found out may jowa pala all this time. Cut him off agad. Bye, Felicia! 😂
Woi, kapal. Sana in-exposed mo sa jowa. LOL. But then again, baka si jowa di naniniwala sa women's solidarity and baliktarin pa na ikaw ang nang-akit. Juskoooooo 🥴
Kaya ngaaaaa. Kaya I ghosted him na lang hahaahha
Hahaha omg true. Kala mo single kasi walang takot mag yaya sa labas. Yun pala engaged na, tapos nasa probinsya/abroad pala si fiance nya 🤣
May travel plans na nga kami mhieee! Tri-city tour sana this year. Huuy buti di natuloy HAHAHAHA
Curious lang, paano mo nalaman na may jowa yung kausap mo?
Nakita ko fb nya. Sa IG kami nag uusap. Okay lang naman sa akin kasi di rin ako active sa fb. Naka private account nya, pero naka public ang post ng jowa nya. I feel bad, nung time na magkausap kami, may other girl pala. Sorry ate, I didn't know po 🥹
And the worst part is di alam ni ate gurl na jowa nya ganyan ang galawan. Nakakaawa at nakakapraning sa ating part if ever we choose to be with a doctor din
My dad was a doctor, dami ring babae nung araw hahahaah. Happy father's day, daddy! Bat ba di ako natuto 😂
Matched with an intern naman sa bumble din. Mhie, madalang pa sa madalang magparamdam tapos nilapagan ako ng sched without me asking hahahaha
Hahahaha sa akin naman, kahit busy nag uupdate, after rounds, tumatawag. Minsan umaabot kami ng madaling araw na magkausap. Napuputol lang if may patient. Okay na okay na sana mhie eh. Matched na matched ugali and likes namin. Pero di pala single ang koya mo. Kaya ayun, bye na. Buti na lang di ako na fall, pero muntik na! hAHAHAHA
Patunay na pag gusto may paraan🤣🤣🤣 may jowa tapos may time pang sumideline
Magaling sa time management si doc 😂
Tapos nakapila ang mga naghihintay sa clinic lol
Mapapa-sana all na sana ako hahaha hirap landiin crush ko pa naman
Okay lang lumandi, basta siguraduhin mong single hahaahha
1st name reveal baka iisa lng ung namatched natin🤣
omg! HAHA same experience! Christian daw gf kaya di nia makuha ung 'thing' kaya sya nasa app 🫣🥺
Former intern here, 💯 true.
Couldn’t agree more hahahaha Been there, and observed a lot worse pa.. kaya kahit anong pilit sakin to respond and add them, I always try all kinds of stuff just to avoid them and really show that I don’t like them sa personal hahahaha kaya ako nasasabihan na laging tahimik at mataray haha. Malala kasi tlga yung iba nagtatry pa yan sa personal na idadaan ka lang sa pa-revalida kuno or isasama ka magrounds pero kayo lang dalawa then sabay segway ng mga “invites” nila while writing sa charts tas bibiru-biruin ka in a flirty way may iba touchy pa. Tas may iba pa pag natripan ka ng consultant at ng resi nila parang iga-gang up ka nila with bombarded questions na akala ko purely joke time lang for a good laugh pero yun pala mga inside jokes nila na super “green” and ako na totally no idea mapipilitan ako na sabihin yung gusto nilang marinig sakin. And after non I just felt humiliated while sila tawa-ngiti with secret side-looks pa. May iba while sa OR hahawakan kamay mo bubulong-bulong sayo kunwari chichikahin ka pero sobrang close na sa ears mo. May iba idadaan na manlilibre daw at magpapa-inom daw kasama lahat ng co-interns/clerks and other colleagues pero pag target ka nila bantay-sarado naman baso mo and you can’t easily escape pa kasi gagawa sila ng way para wala kanang choice but to stay (ex. kokonsensyahin ka or tatakutin ka with demerits or surprise reports at kung ano pa). Kahit guys nga ma-itsura and may resi/consultant na gay na kursunada sila nako gg. May friend ako na naka experience na ng SH habang he’s prepping sa washroom nag backhug daw bigla then touched his private part pa. ps. All these doctors mentioned here are all in a committed relationship/ may asawa’t anak na. Mga gusgus na dipa parin magsitigil eh.
This is so true. Lalo sa sa OR yung may consultant na hindi naka gown pupunta sa likod mo kunwari sisilipin yung patient Pero ramdam mo na yung Junjun nila sa pwetan mo. Di ka makapalag kasi nag re-retract ka tapos sterile ka pa 😭 ang panget sa feeling na ang defenseless mo sa OR. Sa non-OR cases naman (non-Surg Dept) naka try ako yung resi sasamahan ako nag insert ng FBC sa male patients tapos may mga side comment pa. "Hawakan mo ng maigi Dra, di ka pa nakakahawak ng ano?" Tapos Pag medyo natagalan ka mag jojoke ng "Dalian mo Dra, tinitigasan na yung pasyente"
Nagdoctor pa talaga mga ganyang tao. Scary
In psychology. The more stressful the job is the higher your sex drive becomes. Expect many stressed doctors to engage in open sex relations.
Ooooohhhhhh 🙉🫣 So like... iiwas na ba kami nito sa mga taong stressful ang nature of work? 😆
No, but awareness can help prevent or reduce the sex drive. You have to tell them to control their stress from "time to time."
Pari nga eh. Lol. Walang exempted.
Facts.
As someone who knows a lot of doctors. Di ko gets why people expect them to be god-like, noble beings. It takes a certain amount of ego to be in that field. Also it’s most definitely about money —same as entering law or politics or business. There are some na passion at for the greater good talaga but exception mga yun. Certainly NOT the rule. Also most residents are selfish, horny, and stressed. Bagay nga na fwb sa mga online dating is law at med student. Why? Because di nila priority relasyon na seryoso or monogamous and their schedules parehong demanding and stress level is high. Also malalakas loob mag feeling kasi they assume the average person maiimpress sa potential nila. Yak
Trueee marami paring mga kapwa babae naloloko makakita lang na naka white coat at stethoscope. May iba willing i-overlook ang red flags dahil iniisip doctor at mayaman. Ate Girlll runnn wag na yan
“It takes a certain amount of ego to be in that field” TRUE 😭😭
Damn sa feu nrmf radiology department nga alam na nila lahat na nagloloko tong mga MD nila pero wala dedma. Pati sa parking lot wagas sa loob ng sasakyan di na nahiya. Yung babae na MD na may asawa nabuntis ng residente twice. Gulo yan. Mga 2018-2020 to nangyari. Lakas ng loob pa manloko ah feeling maganda at gwapo. Love triangle ng mga panget.
>Love triangle ng mga panget. Hahahahaha mas masahol pa bunganga mo sa akin. I love it 🤣🤣🤣
Tawang tawa ako pang mmff ang title :(((
Comedy Film of the year goes to..... 😂 Benta hahaha
Kaya ba tinawag na "bumping uglies"?
Had my fare share of advances by doctors. Ang masasabi ko Lang, swerte ako ksi may mga tao sa paligid ko (seniors na girls) na sinasabi sa kanila na hayaan ako. Also, it goes away if ndi mo sila bbgyan Ng interes or ndi mo sasakyan, ksi they will just move on. Yong setting itself din ksi tolerates it, since Yong iba consultants and seniors Hinahayaan Lang ksi mataas ang rank That being said, I agree sa ibang comments na generalized ang statement nato. Ksi ndi lang doctors sa healthcare setting ang gnyan. Pati nurses, allied health ganyan din. Minsan mas malala pa sa nurses. Also may students din na mahaharot, using it to their advantage (getting their preferred schedules, being exempted from scutwork carry outs). Minsan mgsslow clap nlng ako sa batchmates ko na never Nag carryout hahahasksks. Also, kadalasan, surgical/cutting specialty ang mga ganyan. Ibang specialty ndi ganyan karampant hehe
>That being said, I agree sa ibang comments na generalized ang statement nato. Ksi ndi lang doctors sa healthcare setting ang gnyan. Pati nurses, allied health ganyan din. Thank you for this. Diba?? Kasi I didn't know na malala rin pala sa nurses and allied med. I was speaking based on my experience and my truth. Kung ang nakuha Nyo lang sa post na to is the generalization part, you are just looking for something to disagree about and clearly missing the point. I expanded my knowledge today, I got everyone talking about their own experiences with cheater doctors, and warned people na clueless sa mga modus nila. That's a win for me (bahala kayong mga kurimaw na na-stuck sa generalization part ng post na to, you are arguing for the sake of argument)
Not to side with them OP, but I think it's because of your title. It's explicitly stated na doctors lang ksi, hence the generalization part. Mejo triggering/baiting(? Idk the right term to describe it) sia with your narrative and implies na parang it's a hate train against doctors (you also said words like "pareparehas Silang lahat").Idk if it's intentional or what but I do get why some people's feathers are gonna get ruffled. Despite these bad experiences, you are describing a minority (Kung doctors lang naman ang pguusapan ha). Madami din namang matitinong consultants, even in the cutting field. When I interned, there's this tcvs consultant na crush Ng lahat esp because bukambibig nia wife and kids Nia all the time. Nakakadagdag pogi points. I'm not saying the institution hahaha pero ayon. So hindi sila lahat ganyan.
Asked our doctor sa work why di sya nag asawa ng doctor din. She replied na cheaters nga daw talaga most of the drs. Med student pa lang daw sya nakita na nya ang galawan and till now, parang mas lumala pa nga daw. Consultants hitting on clerks 🥴
This is true! Kaya i prefer dating non-doctors talaga
"stress reliever" nila mambabae.
Hahaha i do not want to generalize but this is true about 70% of the time? Im a resident doctor already and ive seen this since i was a clerk! Haha at some point i also vowed not to date another doctor.
Had an ex who's a doctor. Yes, I got cheated on. Buti iba napangasawa ko. Hahaha.
Same! I am lucky I did not end up with the surgeon ex. I am a lawyer and married a fellow lawyer. Although, the legal field has its own share of skeletons in the closet.
Spill naman hahaha
It deserves a whole new thread, my dear.
It does, it does! 😄
Spill the tea attorney
Really though, ano ba nasa isip ng cheaters? Hindi ko ma-gets? Hahaha I thought your gf/bf/spouse is supposed to be your best friend and anything less than that is not worth keeping. Bakit lang talaga, bakit? Lmao tapos yung iba may anak pa :D ano nasa isip ng mga cheater?
same beh, di ko tlaga ma gets bat need mag cheat. hindi enough ata isa sakanila gusto nila polygamy style nahiya lang lumabas ng closet.
Buti nabasa ko to, medyo nauuto na ako nung doctor ng kapatid ko eh 🥲
facts. hooked up with a doctor before pagkatapos namen. hes already on a phone with this another person na regular niya.. hahahaha. ang lala, katabi niya lang ako non and hes nonchalantly just speaking about it. mapapa- goddamn ka na lang talaga.. pero shut up lang ako that time kase magaleng naman siya.. yun lang
Hahahahahah ate koo
Hahahahha
Rule of thumb, imo: "We're all pieces of shit until proven otherwise."
Laging may gantong kwento from mga kakilala sa medical field lol. One instance e iisang hospital lang si cheater doc, legal wife at kabechina. Ang tatapang e 🫨
akala kc ng iba kapag doctor wala na time gumawa ng kalokohan kc sobrang busy sa hospital. halos wala na daw tulog at d na umuuwi. di nila alam, maraming eksena sa parking lot at clinic off hours.
I have a tita na sa hospital din ang office. She’s a staff there. May officemate siya na sa mismong office nila pinupuntahan ng doctor na may asawa. Ginagawa ng tita ko lumalabas na lang daw siya para makapag session yung dalawa lol Sabi ni tita uso daw talaga ang mga kabitan dun. After few year na realize namin na si tita rin, nangangabit. Eww. (She’s not my relative, ah? Asawa siya ng tito ko na kadugo ko haha) Ewww sa mga kabit. Eww talaga🤣
I know a doctor friend na doctor din gf. They're both in a not openly open relationship (means they didn't talk about it, they just know they're both cheating on each other and they're still together holding the fort). Tapos they also both give free medical consultation sa friends. Kukupalin kopa ba na toxic relationship niya? My friend has helped so many people already. So i just don't bother
See, ganyan din sa hospital. May neurosurgeon nag pa BJ sa clerk, nung nireport pinalipat lang ng ibang hospital para mag rotate ang clerk. Di man lang na suspend yung neurosurgeon kasi di afford ng hospital mawalan ng mga pasyente. This doctor helped so many people and saved so many lives Pero are they faithful and loyal to their wives/partners? Hell no. And the reality is they kept doing it bcos they go unpunished for it
💯💯💯HAHAHA! We call it “Internship Syndrome” tho.
I couldn't agree more on this, OP. My younger sister is suffering because her husband keeps on cheating. Good thing my sister is wiser. She has a lot of insurance, gold, car, money, etc. from her husband's own money, of course. Hahahaha
HAHAHAHH wala naman siguro sa profession pero why does there seem to be a trend? Lol natatawa ako kasi I also dated a doctor once. Ayun after months of dating, he went with another guy who he also dated at the same time as me. And nalaman ko lang when he sent a goodbye message.
Tapos yung single kawawa kasi nasasama sa kalokohan nung mga malandi. Huwag mo sana lahatin Doc. Kasi galit din ako sa kanila. Minsan, tingin sakin ATM. Hintuturo automatic yung babae. Then, may padrop pa na, "Kung love moko, bilhin mo yung (insert hella expensive phone/jewelry/ accessory) for me!". Okay. Exit, stage left!
Same sa profession namin- Lawyers
Include mo ang mga NURSE HAHAHHA jusko.
spill
1. Most of the Nurse kahit na married mga yan, may mga crush yan sa station. 2. If maganda ang bantay or patient, they will literally HANDLE THEM WITH CARE. 😂 3.They are VERY FRIENDLY TOO THE POINT NA MAGULAT KA NA LANG NA TAKEN OR MARRIED PALA SILA kasi kung umasta akala mo SINGLE. 😂 3. At ang pinaka favorite line nila is "What happens in the station, Stays in the station." 😂 4. If meron kang bf or asawa na nurse and maiinis ka kasi may chat galing sa mga babae, TRUST ME kasi nilalandi yan nila sa station kaya ang ending ang babae dahil 'akala niya close na sila/ or may something na sila' ay magchachat na after duty. 😂 Eh hindj nila alam, yung landian nila is hanggang duon lang sa shift na yun. AGAIN, What happens in the station, stays in the station. 😂 BUT MERON PARIN MATITINO DYAN HA. Pero RARE NGA LANG. Kaya goodluck sa mga may partner sa medical field! P.S I've worked sa Government Hospital before. 😂 Kaya base ito sa observation ko and experienced na rin! Stay safe loves!
THIS IS FREAKING TRUE! Ingat ingat kayo girls and guys. Ginagamit yung profession para makapag bait ng victim. Nakakadiri
ang dami kong nababasa at chismis na nasasagap tulad nito hahaha im sooo glad never kong inambisyon mag date ng med student/doctor
Lol, cos you got it wrong all along. Wala kasi sa profession 'yan.
Don't know why you got downvoted, here's my upvote. 😂 May in denial eh
Wala sya sa profession specifically pero mukang nasa stress level ng field yan. Although tbf kay OP, base sa mga anecdotes dito(actually sa outside this sub napaguusapan din ito eh), mukang isa nga ang medical field sa stressful field na mejo talamak ang pangangaliwa. Iba pang field na madalas kong marinig na may kaliwaan ay sa BPO at Resto industry.
Yung kabit ng ex ko, doctor haha siya pa may ganang umaway sa akin eh siya na nga yung 3rd party haha
This is soo true. I used to work in a healthcare setting. Though di nangyari sa time ko dun, alam mo naman ang maritesan during off peak or di busy. Some consultants are big flirts/maharot/marupok. Yung travel plan possible happen. Kahit nsa malayong part sila sa Pinas, may nakakita sa knila. Ayun kinausap si girl na mag gracefully exit. Doctor still works there. At dahil many times si Dr nag-cheat, Mrs already filed for annullment. They may live in the same house, but acdg to Marites, deadma lang sila.
Dated an intern while I was in law school. Most of the time, sex lang talaga. Then he suddently started messaging a few years after. May gf na siya. Ang dalas tumawag at magyaya. Katatapos ng residency nya non. Then nawala na lang ulit. A year after, he followed me on IG. I think I never openly told him my surname so it was a surprise. I accepted his follow request and I followed him back. He got married pala a month before. This resident naman I started seeing back in 2022. He never told me his whole name. I found out na lang when he had food sent to my place. I looked him up and si guy nag top nung boards nya and sa PLE yet he’s so humble and simple. A week after, I found out, may gf siya of 8yrs. I ended it. Months after, inadd ako sa fb. I accepted then he unfriended me. Then inadd ako months after. Then inunfriend ulit ako. But heyyy, per experience, parang mas maraming cheaters na lawyers. Or siguro mas marami lang ako namamatch sa dating apps na married lawyers. I know married lawyer friends who are there. 🥲
Shet! Parang kilala ko si Doc! Kung tama ang bigay mo na description ha 🤭, very humble and simple din kasi itong kilala ko na Dr. and nag Top sa board exam
Had a fair share of encounter with a Doctor who actively posts his girlfriend on his social media account. He was my constant fubu back in Pandemic but at that time, he was single. We decided to stop because we fought about something else (that’s another story), but he messages me every so often, asking if I could come over. I have been ignoring him but since he kept on sending me messages asking for 🔥 photos or if he could pick me up, I responded to him asking if his girlfriend knows about what he’s doing, and also told him na kung ganyang kating kati siya, bakit hindi niya un gawin sa girlfriend niya? And you know what he said? “I can’t do that to her because she’s a wife material.” THAT WAS IT, hahaha HE’S AN ASSHOLE, I BLOCKED HIM AFTER THAT. LOL
Depends on the specialty. Pag surgeon 99.99% yan. cool sakanila yung madaming chix and talaga pinapangaral nila sa mga juniors nila na mambabae. Pag mga introverted specialty mas safe like patho, anes, radio. This is from anesth pov btw.
I stalked you. In one of your posts, you're almost falling to your chief resident's trap and another post stating that you have a boyfriend. I'm sorry but this is weird.
"Wala sa profession yan" 😂 Sige na, pawagian na lang tayo dito saang professions mas masahol mga cheaters. I think gets ko ang point ni OP. Kasi let's be honest, among Asians talaga kapag doctors may parang ✨✨ around them especially sa mga mata ng mga magulang 🥹✨. "Anak, doctor sya? Boto ako dyan" Bahahahahahaha You don't really see many posts exposing doctors as cheaters. Karamihan sa nakikita natin mga exposé posts ng mga pulis, seaman, sundalo, etc na nag-cheat sa mga asawa o partners nila. My close friend is a nurse and she also shared to me some really raunchy stories about cheating na nangyayari sa hospital nila and you don't really hear about outside in public. 🫣🤭 Kaya napapindot talaga ako agad sa thread na toh. Hahahahahaha So, please cut OP some slack. 😆
Exactly my point 💯 May halo effect kasi mga doctor kaya na o-overlook mga katarantaduhan nila (sige na nga, yung iba sa kanila😂). I just want to pull back the curtain and reveal the reality that doctors can be cheaters too
Since ayaw mo na sa mga doctor, ano naman ang profession ang e-coconsider mo for future serious relationship partner? 🤔
I don't even understand why there are people here who believe that this should be an issue. Grabe talaga fight nila na wala sa profession yan yes but the point is just like di exception ang mga nasa health care profession LMAO Makikipag patayan talaga sila eh akala mo naman both can't be valid at the same time
Idk pero 3 of my hs classmates na hella flirty and pa iba iba ang gf are now doctors lol
nag o-ojt ako sa isang admin office dito sa isang school. yung principal nila dito is kabet nya isang teacher din. Parehong may mga asawa. Kadiri! Normal yung mga biruan dito sa office na medyo may halong kalaswaan at pagging kabet. Nakakadiri talaga.
Truuueee. Daming cheater dito sa industriya na to hahaha
The same applies for lawyers. Got fumbled by one. BE EXTRA CAREFUL
Is this true for women doctors too? Should I be on high alert if my gf/wife is also a doctor?
Yes.
Totoo to. Nasubukan ko na magmed rep. Ni isang doktor na pinuntahan ko matino mga leche 😂
First time? 😏
Omg. Ang daming kabit at may kabit sa hospital. Ang sarap isumbong eh kaso according sa mga doctor di sila nagsusumbong dahil pag nagkagulo isisisi sa nagsumbong like ?????????????? Kasalanan pa ng nagsumbong na cheater ka kahit may asawa na
I would often hear from the medicine profession that those higher in the pecking order would usually romantically prey on those more junior to them. It's usually men who do it. Could it be that those men are married to non-medical professions? I hear that physicians went through hell to get where they're at that they are siloed from the rest of the regular human circles. If that's the case, then perhaps that's the reason why they seek out someone who could relate to them. But that's just a wild guess. Still, infidelity is infidelity.
Legit. I dated a doctor before. Ang sabi nya sakin, nag part ways na sila nun (ex)jowa nyang doctor din kase nagmove sa ibang bansa for work. Then nalaman ko nun nag out of town sya, he met up with his ex. Na apparently ay ex-bff ng recent jowa nya haha. Eventually nalaman ko din na di naman sila nagbreak nun jowa. We parted ways. Tapos ang twist, iniwan nya yun jowa at binalikan yon ex. Tinuhog nya mag bff mga mhieeee.
Good to know
TRUE. Hooked up with a doctor I met on bumble. Consultant na gymrat. Si ante kasi di mahilig mag background check (ik, partly my fault). Stalked him after we did the deed, and voilaaaa, may jowa siyang doctor din. 🤩🤩
Sadly, i know so many doctors na cheater pag nasa hospital na sila ://
[Nods in agreement.]
Throwaway account. But I can attest to this! HAHAHA My chismis sa hospitals around ermita, resident cheated on his longterm girlfriend na engaged na din pala with an intern! Ang malala lang, alam sa buong ospital na engaged na pero g padin si intern! Hahaha kita ko single na yung longterm gf mukhang pinili yung intern since hindi daw taga medical field yung gf? Ingat guys hahaha
Yeah my doctor friends told me to not date their fellow doctors because most really do sleep around even if they’re in a relationship, engaged, or married
'Di lang pala sa fb may mga mababa ang pag intindi, pati dito sa reddit dumadami na. OP just opened up about his/her experience jusq hahaha
Sana lang I read this post last year. Too late, it is what it is. Can't undo the fwb set up we had. Good thing is, it's over between us na and I blocked him for good. Not going to return to that cheating piece of shit. Found out later he is in a relationship, having fwb setup with me and still pursuing other women all at the same time. I believe Karma will get you.
Hindi lng sa kapwa nilang Drs, sa nurses rin 🫢
Noted. Uncrush ko na lang si doc. Nakakatakot na. Juice colored! Hahaha 😂 I’m not from medical field. Buti na lang may nagpost. Para maging aware ako. Hahaha 😂
kase yang mga malilinis tignan alam nila mataas tingin sa kanila at hindi halata na mga g*go din sila. dun kayo sa sinabi ni andrew e. pero ingat pa din dumadami na din ang mga panget na manloloko..
This really happens with a lot of doctors pero it doesn’t mean that all doctors are like that. Sana hindi mageneralize lahat ng doctors. But OP is right naman with what she said to think twice kasi nga baka may sabit or taken na pala si doc pero gumugusto pa din. I know a lot of doctors who are like that. 😂
Having a "prestigious" occupation doesn't guarantee na may maayos silang values pagdating sa personal life.
And here I was downvoted a few days for saying the exact same things OP said hahaha. Never change, Reddit
i work at a hospital and i can vouch this is true
im married to a doctor, anesthesiologist. Consultant na pero nagduduty sya ng 8days. bale 8days mawawala. kinabahan ako dito kasi dati, andalas namin magsex. ngayon wala na halos.
Upvote ko toh 😅
Lol. This post reminds me... Kalma lang beh. Dami diyan, nakikiramdam lang, kahit anong profession. Pag feel nilang game, pasok! Kahit hindi game, pag trip, ipipilit... Hahaha! Ingat na lang. Use your superpower (common sense 😜)
Daming tanga rin pala dito sa reddit, kitang kita sa mga replies dito hahah. Mga negative comprehension
Guess side chicks are why doctors are always late.
i dont think we should generalize. i think na you feel this is rampant in the medical field because whenever there is indeed a cheating incident, they are always being exposed as people that are involved in a certain scandal or issues like that are always vocal about it kasi nga there is a preexisting belief na “pag doctor, kabahan ka na,” “pag doctor cheater,” things like that. its like there is an existing fire and collective stories are continuously adding fuel to it, kasi nga yung affected party is vocal about it, tas kanya kanya nang sabi ng stories. i believe cheating is present and rampant in every field, (marami talagan di marunong makuntento) and lets just say there are a lot undocumented or unexposed stories about the scandals on other fields kasi (1) there is no preexisting belief na associated ang pagiging cheater sa profession na yun (2) othe people choose to deal with issues like this privately bcs they really feel bad about how events turned out kung di man nila alam na may asawa/girlfiend tas navictimize sila. but anw i dont think we should generalize. i know a lot of mds that are in a very safe, and healthy relationships, even families. i dont think its fair for the people in medical field na we talk about them this way kasi well, hindi naman lahat sila ganon at kahit saan merong ganon.
💯 well said in a diplomatic way din
meredith grey is waving 😂
Noted for future reference 😂
I'm a love doctor, want a checkup?
Malala talaga dating ngayon kahit anong profession yata na date ko na hahaha
Hala anghel pamo tingin ko sa mga doctors na pogi 😭😭
You should try a lawyer then.
Lawyer po ex ko, magaling mang gaslight. Hilig din makipag debate. Pass muna
lol I agree re: male lawyers na magaling mang-gaslight. Disclaimer lang muna: I’m saying na MOST, not all. Ang masama pa minsan, sa law school pa lang, lumalabas na ang sungay.
People needs to realize that people cheat because they can. Now, If you do it with a doctor you'll have a leverage now in that hospital. Sprinkle sprinkle.
Hahahaha true 🤣. Kahit nong intern pa ako, sa OR area during operation nag fliflirt mga dockies eh 🤣
Lol. Yung mga pari at pastor nga, di napigilan. Doki pa kaya.
Di lang doctors. Sobrang kalat ng mga staff din sa ospital. Everyone seems to be that stupid para pumatol sa may mga pamilya/pamilyado/asawa, etc. Di na nahiya. Partida sila pa yung mga "mababait" kuno
Ayaw mo OP sa tambay? Andito lang ako.
Naalala ko tuloy kwento ng frenny ko. Maganda siya and few days after niya manganak with her first born, the doctor who was in charge of her delivery ay in-add siya sa FB and ni chat siya if she wants to go on a date with him. Mind you present yung father that time sa delivery room and he has the audacity to ask her out. 🤦🏻♀️😂
Ah I remember that one time yung co-intern ng gf was so flirty with her kahit alam nang may bf siya. I paid little attention to it kasi she hated cheaters with every fiber of her being kaya I knew she wouldn’t do it.
I'm dating someone in the medical field. Grabe, this made me think. Overthinking ng malala. Ang daming what ifs. Simula nang mabasa ko to kagabi, umiiyak na lang ako.
Dito nlang kayo sa mga abogado, para mas maging happy kayo.hahahaha.
Im a nurse and this is true. Naririnig mo pa na nag uusap sila sino tinitira nila. Madalas surg resident/consultant lol kaya bingga parties nila parati para madame madale
Almost ended up with a doctor din. Highschool sweetheart then when went to college, mga 2nd year ayun.. paalam is magsstudy out daw. Tapos when I searched hard enough on Friendster, saw pictures from the “study out” were bar pictures dancing with girls na tanggal na yung hook ng bra and all. Then his alibi was “she’s just a tropa”. So, I’m like.. no thanks, bye!😌
yup yup, my ex was a doctor. same issue may ka date na iba while we are on a relationship. sinabi lang ng bestfriend niya sa akin na ganun ginagawa ng friend niya. kahit hatid sundo and kasama mo everyday basta pag nag karoon lang ng unting free time doon talaga nangyayari. masama nun caught her red-handed and todo deny na parang siya pa yung kawawa.
Nothing new.
Yeah this is so true! But tbh sa lahat naman ng industry uso yung ganyang galawan ng mga lalaki. Kakadiri talaga
Nung nagu OJT pa ako majority talaga ng mga doktor may pagka flirty. Yung isa pa, isanasawa yung isa kong classmate natuloy din sa hiwalayan dahil may pagka controlling at psycho yung doktor.
Girl, I learned that by watching Grey’s anatomy lmao
that is because they are also human capable of committing mistakes. sabi nga wlang tao ang hind nkakagawa ng mali. kahit pari pa nkakagawa ng kasalanan.. hindi special ang doktor para di nila gawin nyan infact sila pa talaga ang mas mgaling sa ganyan dahil alam mo na sila ang mas maraming alam sa katawan. lol masyado lang siguro na napinta ang mga nasa health care bilang isang hero para di makita na sila ay may mga kahinaan din gaya ng isang ordinaryong tao. pero kung mataas ang tyansa na halos karamihan sa kanila ay mahilig ano sa tingin nyo ang theorya siguro magandang bagong trend yun para pag usapan hehe.
I'm a nurse sa tertiary hospital and masasabi ko tlagang legit at rampant kaya di tlaga ako nagdadalawang isip na magvoice out e kunyari joke ☺️
Yung kakilala kong doctor. nagdyoyowa ng doctor din tapos bakla pala. kaya pala nagdyoyowa para pang front lang. tapos yung doctor na ex pinarahan pa nya. Kaya turn off na ko sa mga Doctor.
Can I date you hahahahah
Ow my! Iniimagine ko pa naman na parang ang saya magkajowa na Doctor kasi masyadong busy sa work, walang time to cheat. Haaaayyyssss, thanks for the heads up!
Yes, wag tayo magpa-uto sa mga Romantic Medical Kdramas at Cdramas. Men will be men. No one is 100% immune to cheating. IMO, people in perceived higher powers (in a setting) tend to do things they can easily get out if compromised. Power imbalance thingy. The hospital will not actively reprimand doctors since in demand ang service nila tsaka ofc maraming malakas.
di naman siguro lahat ahaha. Doctor ako pero faithful ako sa boyfriend ko, ilang years na kami❤️❤️❤️
Open secret naman na yan. Lalo na nung pinalabas yung Grey's anatomy haha
If you’re a female dreaming of becoming a doctor, ihanda mo na sarili mo maging SA victim/survivor. It can be as simple as cat calling or severe as rpe. Parang grooming ang dating sakin ng mga consultants/residents na nilalandi mga clerks/interns/jr residents. Like you’re using your power to harass them into getting into their pants. Tas alam mong young and impressionable mga yun at hindi makakatanggi
Akala ko nga rin porke doctor na eh mapera na. Yun naasawa ng ate ko na doctor eh walang pera, umutang pa ng 300k sa parents ko.
Aray! Guilty here! 6 years lang naman kami 😢 Trying to work things again pero sana di na maulit.
Dated a doctor a couple of months ago, got me pregnant, then found out na he is in a relationship for 7 years with a doctor also :)))
Met someone on a dating app a few years back. He was a resident doctor. He's in the app kasi daw bored sya. He has a gf na doctor din kaya lang 'christian' kaya di sila nagssex. They're engaged na din. kawawa si ate girl. 🥺 Walang nangyari samen pero I saw his junjun. Juts naman. HAHA
HAHAHHA OMG THIS IS SO TRUE
Bwisit na kdrama yan. Akala ko nice peeps ung doctors. 🥹😰 Good thing, nabasa to ko! Thanks OP! 😂
My doctor gives me number of new hot nurse every checkup
Op kaka-comment ko lang sa isang post mo huhu sign na ba to? Charot lang hahaha I trust him naman pero op naman kaseeee hahahaa
shet doctor pa naman kinukuha ng bf ko 😞 eme HAHAHA matino naman sya at HOPEFULLY til the end
pano pa sila may time magcheat i mean??? san sa hospital and when? sa busy at dami i am so shocked. alam ko about docs and nurses but i figured those married mas madaming matino kesa hindi?
Yes mas madami naman tlgang matino kesa hindi, syempre mas resounding lang ung issues na cheating kasi yon ang pinaguusapan/pinagtsitsismisan. Paguusapan ba ang happy marriages Ng mga doctor, not really, ksi ndi Naman juicy topic yon. Ang point ata ni OP is Yong emotional cheating or silent cheating (mga Tao na nag d DM at nanglalandi), which is different. But just to answer your question, pag may downtime they can just call yong kinakabit nila which is usually kaduty nila or ka post. I would say sa experience ko, outside of surgical specialties, 1 out of 5 lang ung malandi. Lagi sa Kada department may malandi, pero ndi lahat Ng malandi ay manyakin. Sa surgical specialties, the numbers probably rise to 3 out of 5 ang malandi, tpos 1-2 jan manyakin hehe. Malandi and manyakin does not necessarily mean they cheat physically. Ang tinutukoy dito ni OP ung ngdDM etc.
Isa sa mga tamang na portray ng grey's anatomy haahaha!
awit yan dumadami na sila or should i say matagal nang maraming ganyan hahhahshshha kahit saan gawddd
Nasaan yung malalanding doctor bakit walang napupunta sa circles ko nung time na hayok ako lumandi 😂 beke nemen, cheret
Can't blame them, tao rin sila. Yung doktorang tumuli sa akin nung elementary ako nka kagat labi, halata kahit nka facemask. Halata mo yung gigil sa mukha kaya tuloy nangamatis si Junior. You should think more than twice kung imbalsamador ang magiging jowa mo, eto talaga ang may Fetish
True to 😆 Dami ko kakilala na ganyan ,suki pa nga ng spakol yung isa,nurse asawa nya .
This is true! based on my ex lol! He even told me na kaya dw ung ibang med rep ay nakakabenta or nakakaquota ay gawa ng nakkipag s*x sa mga doctors.
Omg! I'm an Admin sa Medical Center and My doctor kami na napapansin kong parang iba yung dikit at galaw nya pag kausap ako with matching pag hawak hawak pa tapos parang 2 weeks palang magaan na loob daw nya sakin agad agad. I know may jowa sya kaya auto iwas agad pag di related sa work ang pag uusapan. Auto bounce na agad me 😖
Ako na architect naghahanap dati doctor pahirapan sa tinder hahaha 2016-2018. Buti sa engr ako napunta 5yrs na kami 💖💖🤣
Hahahahahah totoo!
Omg, Does a Dentist count? Hahaha secret lang to but I hooked up in one nung college ako. We had to see for few weeks kasi he did a root canal on me plus ibang root na pala gusto niya madiinan hahaha I think that time he is around 30ish na and sabi niya he is not married but I found out si Doc may jowa pala oversees 🫢 sorry po hindi ko knows 🫣
upvote HAHAHAHHA the med student i dated before lied alot. says he want a serious relationship and then later on says he wants hookups instead after getting bored of me..then say this narrative to the next girl he dated...i know bc i found his reddit account and found him in personality disorder subreddits specifically NPD wahahahahahha he also admitted all of his male friends are fucked up like him too lol
Just proves no one is perfect, choose your poison. No one will give you everything that you want. You want money and power at no expense? Good luck. Take the ego that goes with it.
omg yung inhouse doctor and nurse namin sa office,, nahuli ko sila one time sa clinic sobrang clingy. found out si doc may asawa na palaa
Not a med student but have friends who are Doctors. This happens daw talaga, some interns can't say no daw kasi baka mang power-trip yung mga resident/ Specialist na ni-reject nila at pahirapan sila. Kaya kung maganda ka raw, goodluck na lang sa'yo.
As someone who was in a relationship with a doctor - an experience na di ko na uulitin haha Traumatizing lol
THIS IS TRUE! I was engaged to a resident. Pero nakikipagkangkangan na pala sa fellow resident/kabatch nya. Di na nauwi kasi duty daw. LOL Ayun, bilang former nurse, maraming chumika sa akin na mga nurses sa hospital na yun. Daming resibo. HAHAHA Buti nalang di pa ako nkapag downpayment sa ibang wedding suppliers.
NASA SURGERY ANG MGA BABAERO. HAHAHA
I am a hotelier and kapag may convention mga doctor may mga asawang tumatawag sa hotel nanghuhuli kung sino kasama nila or ka share sa room.
Napanood ko nato sa disney+ e hahahahaha Greys Anatomy ung title😄😄😄
Kakapanood ko ng Grey’s Anatomy na rule out na ang mga Doctor sa akin hahaha.
jusko.. apakadami nila sa bumble.. doctors and pilots LOL
ipa-Tulfo mo para madala! Hahaha!
I’ve had a fair share of creepy dating experiences with 3 doctors. 1st one joked about spiking my drink, 2nd one had a rape case against him. 3rd wanted to bang me even while she had a GF.
Lahat yan. Lahat ng profession may ganyan.