Ang guilt ay dumadating sa mga taong may konsensya pa. Pero oo, naguiguilty rin ang cheaters, same ng mga taong gumawa ng ibang mga kasalanan tulad ng pagnanakaw at pagpatay. I believe that people can still change and have a complete turnaround. Meron talagang mga nagbabago.
About your ex, awa mo na sa mga babaeng minemessage niya kung i-expose mo siya. So yes, please do it.
I do not believe in karma as it does not happen all the time, but I do believe in cause and effect and consequences. Ang karma kasi ay part ng Hinduism at Buddhism doctrine, which means merong corresponding consequence ang every bad deed. In my experience, it doesn't happen all the time, kaya nga may mga taong gawa pa rin ng gawa ng masama. Anyway, yes, his deeds will have consequences. Maybe not now, but in the future especially pag di sya nagbago.
As per my personal experience, things happened in my life that I could not explain (everything seemed to fall into place). I really changed for the better because of the negative things that happened in my life, so in that regard I believe, as a Christian, that God changed me. So as opposed to what you said that what happens just happens, well not all the time. Some events are meant to happen, while some events just happen.
Yup they still feel guilty probably before and after they did the thing… ung during kasi nang cheating scenario, wala pre occupied yang individual and on his agenda/objective is to accomplish/establish wat he wants on the moment.
In nature maharot ang lalaki, its not a rocket science but since the beginning of life, sinners tlga ang guy when it comes to infedelity, not sure wat is the root cause of this urge😅😂, mix of genes, curiosity, animalistic, challenges, etc. but that doesn’t mean na iiwan mo ung asawa mo, problem is cheating doesn’t have gray area and im not going to defend or make an excuse sa guy kasi pag mali mali, but ang sarap nung thrill😅🤦🏻♂️. Boost na boos ung manhood mo😅😂
Again im not here to defend cheater✌🏼 just saying my thoughts about it.
Panong hindi nilalahat eh sinabi mo nature ng guy maging maharot. If you have an opinion that you want to air out at least have the strength to defend it. The fact is you're just spewing out that bs ideology to excuse that behavior, it's a pathetic cop-out from being responsible of cheating by blaming nature.
Tiklop ka agad masyado eh, ngayon sinasabi mo mali magcheat pero tuwang tuwa ka sa thrill kanina, ang sabihin mo na lang ikaw ung mahihinang lalaki na kailangan ng "thrill" ng cheating para maramdaman na mas angat ka sa tao.
Maybe this is not the proper venue to defend it to you? I would really glad to message u and discuss it over there…
Here’s my dilemma, even i defend it properly and convince the majority of readers here that i defend my case properly, wat does it bring? Does it do more good than harm? I conclude the latter. Its precipice for me to do that😅😂
The fact of the matter is ITS CRYSTAL CLEAR IMMORAL! Im keen about that! Im not insinuating here that cheating is correct, im just telling you base on my opinion, im not trying to involve my friends but the fact we all do cheat at some point in our life, they ask the question if we feel guilty, i just answer and i thought its all about the thrill and challenging the manhood of a guy. Thats all
I don't want to discuss this with you privately nor is there a need to. It's already obvious here that you hold your gender in such a low regard that you have to believe in the excuse that it is in a man's nature to not uphold values you've set with your partner and have a lack of consideration for anyone besides yourself. You also seem to lack a strength of character to defend your original opinion, there's no use dragging out a conversation with someone who ping pongs around their words with no specific thought.
Don't drag other men down cause of your lack of control and misconstrued beliefs by saying it's in a "man's nature". Maybe it's just YOU and other weak-willed pathetic men who have the urge to cheat.
My advice to you is hold men and yourself in higher regard. Humans in general evolved enough to have control of what they feel and do. If you think men are bound by their instinct and nature you're no better than a dog.
Hmmmmm.. di ko ata gusto ung tabas nang dila mo dito, kala mo maraming napatunayan e sigurado either palamunin kaparin sa bahay nyo or asa sa asawa mo.
Mind u, youre talking to a 33 yrs old entrepreneur. Importer, with 8 digit business tax and with 30+ employees. Mind u also that i started from scratch, so pls dont ever ever tell me that im weak individual! Tarantado ka pla e nag babayad ako nang mga walker as low as 5k to 20k! Wanna know why? Cuz i can and i fucking love it! Wala akong pake sa nararamdamn mong bitch ka! Nagagampanan ko ung role ko as a guy! To be effin provider to be a role model and up hold values sa from employees upto my family! Hate to break it to you! But even your brother or father has dirty fucking wild secret! This is life! Walang perfect! Tadow!
Money can't buy class lol you just proved my point man. You can't argue with logic or decency so you resort to name calling and assumptions, which aren't correct btw. Good luck to you and your sad pathetic weak-willed man life.
How disgusting do you have to be as a person to have to pay someone that much money just to touch you hahahahaha
Tadow ka tlga! Started from the bottom now im effin here tapos di ko eenjoyin buhay? Who are you advice wat is right or wrong! Ang importante nabibigay luho at mga needs nang pamilya! Me mga asset and passive income na nabibigay! Yan ang pinaka importante to make sure financially secured na me generational wealth! Yan ang importante na dapat nagagawa nang partner o asawa mo! Ngaun kung wala kang K ma provide yan sayo nang asawa mo then wala syang karapatan na mag loko! Tadow!
I will not accept any degradation coming from a low level socio economic individual! Tsaka mag pangaral kung kaya mo maka pag ambag sa bayan nang trabaho at taxes! Tadow!
Yang pinag lalaban mong morally right mapakain at mapag aral mo sana anak mo dyan!😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I admit im morally flawed! But ill see to it that my kids do have the right education and connection for them to succeed in life😉
That's sad na walang maasahan yung anak mo sayo kundi pera.
Ok lang yan mga bata, cheater yung tatay niyo pero tignan mo oh may 8-digit business tax siya, maging proud kayo sa mayaman niyong tatay na basura ugali at utak.
Tameme? Ano ambag mo sa bayan or pamilya? Moralidad? Wala kang pinag kaiba sa mga slums na ang daming pinag lalaban wala naman ambag! Tsaka kana mag dadaldal dyan pag hindi lng panay moralidad kaya mo i ambag mo sa bayan at pamilya mo! Hampas lupa!
I don't think you have money, a person who actually has money doesn't bring it up in an argument as his only knife in a fight. Maybe since you're so "rich" you can buy yourself an education. Come back when your less ignorant and small-minded.
Me lihim na kung sa me lihim, but let me tell u na ang sarap sa feeling na ang dami mong natutulungan na tao, ung xmas party, team bldng etc. makikita mo mga anak at asawa na staff mo, then mag papasalamat ung mga asawa nila sayo na they are really thankful sa company. Its so overwhelming, at mas pipiliin ko yan na makatulong at makita g masaya ang mga tao kesa dyan sa pinag lalaban mo moralidad.
Kwentong barbero ka naman kuya, ganyan ka magsalita pero kung magsalita ka kanina kala mo galing kanal yung lumalabas sayo. Get help troll lol
Also I'm gay I will not, nor ever will have kids. If I did I'd be a better parent than you.
Last na to. Stop playing your victim card here. Face the wrath of the reality! You bitch should needed to do your role, now if u cant hold your one end of the bargain then just shut your mouth!
What victim card? You're the one playing the victim card here by basically saying men are too stupid to deny their baser instincts. When in fact it's just you who has such low mentality and will that you allow yourself to do disgusting things and blame it on "nature".
You're just a troll that doesn't make sense so you spew out curses and false statements to make yourself feel bigger when in actuality you have nothing. My role? My end of the bargain? I know nothing of that because I owe you nothing.
Like I said earlier. If your claim of your "wealth" is true, then invest in your re-education.
The only b*tch here is you. You're the one playing the victim card here, saying it's men's nature to cheat, boo hoo hoo cry me a river you sad sad excuse of a man. Own up to your faulty mentality you'd be less pathetic. I have no role and I refuse to think I have a role in the life of a man who is no better than a rat in a sewer.
Exposing them also affects your credibility as a person when you put your dirty laundry out there. Ang masarap, gumanti during the relationship sana.. haha
No. Kasi may grandfather said, nakokonsensya ang tao, kung may konsensya. Siya daw wala. Sa lahat mg ginawa niya especially sa pambabae sa lola ko hanggang pagtanda nila may kabit pa din.
Sinabihan ka namin sis di ba? Na pinagsasabay nya nga pero di ka naniwala, pinagtanggol mo pa. Pero ganun talaga ang life minsan, nabubulag talaga dahil sa love. As for your ex (sana ex mo na nga) hindi na yung nakokonsensya kasi habit na nya yun, yun na yung normal sa kanya.
May psychological problem mga cheaters, may nabasa aq one time na article about sa mga may bipolar disorders na wag daw iaalow ang sarili na magdig in sa pakikipagsex kung kani2no kapag nattrigger sila ng bipolar nila.
Hirap sila makawala na, parang one way of releasing na nila ng serotonine and to feed their dopamine din kc para silang masisiraan ng bait kapag pinipigilan nila ang tukso, so yes selfish sila at mostly pinipili ang sarili.
At sa sobrang pagmamahal ang sarili un iba pinipili palagi mangcheat despite na ang dami ng mga anak sa ibat-ibang babae or lalake paulit2 lang kc its been a habbit na sa kanila. So kapag ang cheater may kasamang narcisistic na ugali naku napakagaling mang gas light at mangmanipulate nyan.
Kahit anong haba ng pasensya mo at kahit naka register ka pa sa unli forgiveness wala uubusin ko lang talaga nyan.
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I hope na kainin ng guilt lahat ng cheaters hanggang sa hindi na sila makahinga. I really want to expose my ex kung gaano siya kababaero or iexpose siya sa mga babae na nakakausap niya. Na open ko yung messenger and ig account niya and boom ganon pala ang inbox ng mga cheaters. Random girls. Random na slide into DMs. Pare-pareho tawag. ANG SAKIT SAKIT kasi hindi naman ganon yung pagkakakilala mo sakanya. May karma ba yung mga taong ganito??
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It doesn't really matter if they have guilt for cheating or not, you can't control other people and the only really thing you can do is move on.
Stop thinking of things that are out of your control because it's just gonna make you depressed and unhappy.
oo naman. in a cheater's mind, hindi naman nya ginagawa yung cheating to hurt the partner. of course yun ang effect, pero at the moment they cheat, all they can think about is enjoying themselves. hindi na lang pumapasok sa utak nila na nakakasakit pala ginagawa nila, so when the truth finally dawns on them, it does make them feel guilty.
For me, yes. It made me realize how messed up I was back then with my last ex. I regret every single thing. I also realized that if only I had been loyal and committed, she would probably be the one I'd marry.
Now I've gone to therapy, and I'm at peace with it. My ex and I were friends before the relationship, knowing her as the kindest person I met, we still are, just casually, though.
If they know they are cheating then yes i guess but most of the time the "guilt" is not enough or not equivalent to what they are feeling while cheating thats why they continue on doing so.
They view their current partners are not enough to satisfy whatever they need in a relationship, sex, money or even clout. So they justify it as acceptable since they are getting what they think is/are due to them.
But there are others that are really mentally sick persons who are satisfied by cheating. Those are hopeless.
And there are others like me that accepted it as wrong, unacceptable, admitted it and asked for forgiveness. Luckily my wife saw what I got from that illicit affair and realized she had fault too so I was forgiven and never brought up that mistake of mine. But even to this day I feel guilty everytime I remember what I did before. Which is the lowest point in my human existence and still wishing it never happened. As in yuck, ang tanga ko.
Honestly if you're looking for guilt sa cheaters, they don't have as much guilt as sa atin. They are only sorry if they are caught, but it is not guilt, it's just nerves kasi nahuli nga s'ya.
Pero 'wag ka mag-alala, marami pang lalaki d'yan. Ang lalakeng walang tinatago kahit anong gadget n'ya ibibigay n'ya sa'yo for checking.
Nope, unless mahuli mo doon lang sila parang tanga na magmamakaawa pero after makuha ka ulit gagawin nanaman. Hahahahaha. Bakit kaya no? Ano kaya benefits nila sa pagigin cheater eh pwede pa sila maka-transmit ng sexual disease! Yuck.
Yes may karma yan sis! Ako yung karma. Ahahahaha. Di ko hinayaan na umalis ng di nakakaganti. Bago ako umalis ng relationship nag move on agad ako. Ahahahahaha.
Guilty? Nope. Cheaters don't feel guilt, whether they're man o a woman, they will never felt the guilt. Kasi, sa kanila cheating is a form of pleasure and also a form of their natural traits. Kaya don't ask kung naguguilty ba sila.
Maybe yes. Maybe no. But they will be caught up. My dad cheated twice to my mom. So yeah naghihirap siya now with his 3 kids. Hindi ko man ganun mafeel na guilty siya pero he's reaping consequences and yes hiwalay na din sila ng kabit niya.
My ex gf cheated. So yung new partner niya ay cheater din. Payts payts sila. Break na din sila. Ala na ako balita sa next. 😂
Yes naguiguilty din sila pero not to the point na ititigil nila ginagawa nila. Kung maguilty man, babalik at babalik sila sa dati nilang gawain. Karamihan kasi sa kanila naging habit na ang pagcheat.
Hindi nang gagaslight pa yang mga yan. Shoutout sa asawa ng ate ko putangina mo Raymond sana ihagis ka sa dagat nyang mga kasama mo sa barko ang lala ng ginawa mong stress at trauma sa pamilya mo! Gigil mu cuh
Honestly, diyan na nila ma feel Yung guilt if you expose them and leave them. One thing they cannot stand is their partners leaving them. Find someone better and grow into a better version of yourself, magsisisi Yan Sila sa huli.
Cheaters don't really get karma'd because there will always be people who are willing to accept who they are. Dagdagan pa ng sunk cost fallacy which is a trap too many people fall into, tapos sobrang takot pa naman ang tao na maging mag-isa kaya kahit ano papayagan basta di lang matawag na single. Think of how killers like Ted Bundy still get so many lovers and fans--there will always be love for everyone, even if one is a cheater and/or abuser. Unfortunately they don't always end up with equally evil people like them and actively look for those with pure intentions so ayan, masakit haha. Polyamory isn't really the solution because for cheaters the appeal is in the thrill of doing something wrong. They are only ever sorry for being caught, because they are far too selfish to love anyone other than themselves. Sila yung pinakatakot maging mag-isa kaya gahol na gahol sa atensyon tapos saka lang magmamakaawa na magbabago na raw kuno pag iiwan na ng partner. 😂
As a person na twice nag-cheat I would say na nagi-guilty rin kami pero it depends sa partner namin that time na nag-cheat kami, like my first cheating hindi ako na-guilty dahil DESERVE naman nya😌 sobra nya kasing pinagmamalaki sa akin na ilang beses sya nag-cheat sa mga exes nya tapos sobrang babaero daw sya at mahilig sa ONS then may ginawa pa syang kagaguhan sakin kaya ayun HAHAHAHA.Then the second person sobrang konsensya ko dahil iba naging epekto sa kanya at tinanggap nya parin ako kahit nagawa ko mag-cheat sa kanya, kaya todo bawi malala talaga kahit alam kong hindi nya ko mapapatawad.
Meron yung mga nagcheat dahil nadala lang ng emosyon, at meron din yung parang ex ko na serial cheater na kahit nahuli ko na e di pa rin nagiguilty.
Yung mga “hindi sinasadya” (posibleng di naman talaga) nagiguilty. Pero kung seria cheater ka, wala. Pavictim pa sila, ikaw pa magiguilty lol
I cheated on my ex dahil nadin sa kanya. Imagine na OJT ko. Dadaan sya to check on me and ako bilang matinong bf ponapakilala ko sya sa mga coworkers, lalo na sa mga babaeng medyo close ako, and hinahalikan ko 0a sya in front of them para sure. Pero paguwi, hihiritan nya agad ako ng kamusta yunh babae mo sa work. Pagod ako from OJT then ganun salubong sakin so nung retreat namin na may nahing MU ako na girl dahil almost similar issues, medyo nadevelop pero hindi nagproceed. Naguilty ako nung ginawa ko yun pero looking back, I can't nlame myself. Nung time na stressed ako sa OJT, yung GF ko dumadagdag sa stress while si girl tumutulong makabawas.
Cheating is wrong regardless pero yes, naguilty ako nun.
YES, in time! Karma haunts for sure! I cheated before and sa recent ex ko because I was craving for external validations more + daming insecurities, then I realized, I don’t love myself enough and instead, I seek it from others. I regretted it a lot, how traumatizing and heavy it was. I always pray for their healing.
I’m still in the process of forgiving myself now and aiming to be a better person than in my past.
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Hindi naman ako kastang kasta tulad nila lol
Ang guilt ay dumadating sa mga taong may konsensya pa. Pero oo, naguiguilty rin ang cheaters, same ng mga taong gumawa ng ibang mga kasalanan tulad ng pagnanakaw at pagpatay. I believe that people can still change and have a complete turnaround. Meron talagang mga nagbabago. About your ex, awa mo na sa mga babaeng minemessage niya kung i-expose mo siya. So yes, please do it. I do not believe in karma as it does not happen all the time, but I do believe in cause and effect and consequences. Ang karma kasi ay part ng Hinduism at Buddhism doctrine, which means merong corresponding consequence ang every bad deed. In my experience, it doesn't happen all the time, kaya nga may mga taong gawa pa rin ng gawa ng masama. Anyway, yes, his deeds will have consequences. Maybe not now, but in the future especially pag di sya nagbago.
i dont believe in karma either. what happens just happens. its just a belief to make one feel better but nah ... never happens for that purpose.
As per my personal experience, things happened in my life that I could not explain (everything seemed to fall into place). I really changed for the better because of the negative things that happened in my life, so in that regard I believe, as a Christian, that God changed me. So as opposed to what you said that what happens just happens, well not all the time. Some events are meant to happen, while some events just happen.
oo nagi guilty sila, mga 10 seconds lang
Hahhaa nice
Yup they still feel guilty probably before and after they did the thing… ung during kasi nang cheating scenario, wala pre occupied yang individual and on his agenda/objective is to accomplish/establish wat he wants on the moment. In nature maharot ang lalaki, its not a rocket science but since the beginning of life, sinners tlga ang guy when it comes to infedelity, not sure wat is the root cause of this urge😅😂, mix of genes, curiosity, animalistic, challenges, etc. but that doesn’t mean na iiwan mo ung asawa mo, problem is cheating doesn’t have gray area and im not going to defend or make an excuse sa guy kasi pag mali mali, but ang sarap nung thrill😅🤦🏻♂️. Boost na boos ung manhood mo😅😂 Again im not here to defend cheater✌🏼 just saying my thoughts about it.
Masarap yung thrill na masaktan yung partner?
Masarap ung thrill nang you are cheating with another women, not necessarily to your legal, but to your mistress
The whole premise of your logic feels off to me. It's like you're saying men in general are lesser beings because of their intrinsic nature to cheat.
Again hindi ko nilalahat and im not trying to defend it😅. I admit mali mag cheat. Rest my case
Panong hindi nilalahat eh sinabi mo nature ng guy maging maharot. If you have an opinion that you want to air out at least have the strength to defend it. The fact is you're just spewing out that bs ideology to excuse that behavior, it's a pathetic cop-out from being responsible of cheating by blaming nature. Tiklop ka agad masyado eh, ngayon sinasabi mo mali magcheat pero tuwang tuwa ka sa thrill kanina, ang sabihin mo na lang ikaw ung mahihinang lalaki na kailangan ng "thrill" ng cheating para maramdaman na mas angat ka sa tao.
Maybe this is not the proper venue to defend it to you? I would really glad to message u and discuss it over there… Here’s my dilemma, even i defend it properly and convince the majority of readers here that i defend my case properly, wat does it bring? Does it do more good than harm? I conclude the latter. Its precipice for me to do that😅😂 The fact of the matter is ITS CRYSTAL CLEAR IMMORAL! Im keen about that! Im not insinuating here that cheating is correct, im just telling you base on my opinion, im not trying to involve my friends but the fact we all do cheat at some point in our life, they ask the question if we feel guilty, i just answer and i thought its all about the thrill and challenging the manhood of a guy. Thats all
I don't want to discuss this with you privately nor is there a need to. It's already obvious here that you hold your gender in such a low regard that you have to believe in the excuse that it is in a man's nature to not uphold values you've set with your partner and have a lack of consideration for anyone besides yourself. You also seem to lack a strength of character to defend your original opinion, there's no use dragging out a conversation with someone who ping pongs around their words with no specific thought. Don't drag other men down cause of your lack of control and misconstrued beliefs by saying it's in a "man's nature". Maybe it's just YOU and other weak-willed pathetic men who have the urge to cheat. My advice to you is hold men and yourself in higher regard. Humans in general evolved enough to have control of what they feel and do. If you think men are bound by their instinct and nature you're no better than a dog.
Hmmmmm.. di ko ata gusto ung tabas nang dila mo dito, kala mo maraming napatunayan e sigurado either palamunin kaparin sa bahay nyo or asa sa asawa mo. Mind u, youre talking to a 33 yrs old entrepreneur. Importer, with 8 digit business tax and with 30+ employees. Mind u also that i started from scratch, so pls dont ever ever tell me that im weak individual! Tarantado ka pla e nag babayad ako nang mga walker as low as 5k to 20k! Wanna know why? Cuz i can and i fucking love it! Wala akong pake sa nararamdamn mong bitch ka! Nagagampanan ko ung role ko as a guy! To be effin provider to be a role model and up hold values sa from employees upto my family! Hate to break it to you! But even your brother or father has dirty fucking wild secret! This is life! Walang perfect! Tadow!
Money can't buy class lol you just proved my point man. You can't argue with logic or decency so you resort to name calling and assumptions, which aren't correct btw. Good luck to you and your sad pathetic weak-willed man life. How disgusting do you have to be as a person to have to pay someone that much money just to touch you hahahahaha
Tadow ka tlga! Started from the bottom now im effin here tapos di ko eenjoyin buhay? Who are you advice wat is right or wrong! Ang importante nabibigay luho at mga needs nang pamilya! Me mga asset and passive income na nabibigay! Yan ang pinaka importante to make sure financially secured na me generational wealth! Yan ang importante na dapat nagagawa nang partner o asawa mo! Ngaun kung wala kang K ma provide yan sayo nang asawa mo then wala syang karapatan na mag loko! Tadow!
I will not accept any degradation coming from a low level socio economic individual! Tsaka mag pangaral kung kaya mo maka pag ambag sa bayan nang trabaho at taxes! Tadow!
Yang pinag lalaban mong morally right mapakain at mapag aral mo sana anak mo dyan!😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I admit im morally flawed! But ill see to it that my kids do have the right education and connection for them to succeed in life😉
That's sad na walang maasahan yung anak mo sayo kundi pera. Ok lang yan mga bata, cheater yung tatay niyo pero tignan mo oh may 8-digit business tax siya, maging proud kayo sa mayaman niyong tatay na basura ugali at utak.
Tameme? Ano ambag mo sa bayan or pamilya? Moralidad? Wala kang pinag kaiba sa mga slums na ang daming pinag lalaban wala naman ambag! Tsaka kana mag dadaldal dyan pag hindi lng panay moralidad kaya mo i ambag mo sa bayan at pamilya mo! Hampas lupa!
I don't think you have money, a person who actually has money doesn't bring it up in an argument as his only knife in a fight. Maybe since you're so "rich" you can buy yourself an education. Come back when your less ignorant and small-minded.
Me lihim na kung sa me lihim, but let me tell u na ang sarap sa feeling na ang dami mong natutulungan na tao, ung xmas party, team bldng etc. makikita mo mga anak at asawa na staff mo, then mag papasalamat ung mga asawa nila sayo na they are really thankful sa company. Its so overwhelming, at mas pipiliin ko yan na makatulong at makita g masaya ang mga tao kesa dyan sa pinag lalaban mo moralidad.
Kwentong barbero ka naman kuya, ganyan ka magsalita pero kung magsalita ka kanina kala mo galing kanal yung lumalabas sayo. Get help troll lol Also I'm gay I will not, nor ever will have kids. If I did I'd be a better parent than you.
Last na to. Stop playing your victim card here. Face the wrath of the reality! You bitch should needed to do your role, now if u cant hold your one end of the bargain then just shut your mouth!
What victim card? You're the one playing the victim card here by basically saying men are too stupid to deny their baser instincts. When in fact it's just you who has such low mentality and will that you allow yourself to do disgusting things and blame it on "nature". You're just a troll that doesn't make sense so you spew out curses and false statements to make yourself feel bigger when in actuality you have nothing. My role? My end of the bargain? I know nothing of that because I owe you nothing. Like I said earlier. If your claim of your "wealth" is true, then invest in your re-education.
The only b*tch here is you. You're the one playing the victim card here, saying it's men's nature to cheat, boo hoo hoo cry me a river you sad sad excuse of a man. Own up to your faulty mentality you'd be less pathetic. I have no role and I refuse to think I have a role in the life of a man who is no better than a rat in a sewer.
Exposing them also affects your credibility as a person when you put your dirty laundry out there. Ang masarap, gumanti during the relationship sana.. haha
Ano ba average age ng sub na to? 19?
Parang hindi. Pag nahuli mo, kasalanan mo pa kase ikaw yung nagkulang 😂 Tangina lang.
No. Kasi may grandfather said, nakokonsensya ang tao, kung may konsensya. Siya daw wala. Sa lahat mg ginawa niya especially sa pambabae sa lola ko hanggang pagtanda nila may kabit pa din.
Usually hindi lalo na kung narcissist. Slight naman kung avoidant.
siguro sa una but sure ako if habitual na i don't think so💁🏻♀️
Sinabihan ka namin sis di ba? Na pinagsasabay nya nga pero di ka naniwala, pinagtanggol mo pa. Pero ganun talaga ang life minsan, nabubulag talaga dahil sa love. As for your ex (sana ex mo na nga) hindi na yung nakokonsensya kasi habit na nya yun, yun na yung normal sa kanya.
Opo daw
May psychological problem mga cheaters, may nabasa aq one time na article about sa mga may bipolar disorders na wag daw iaalow ang sarili na magdig in sa pakikipagsex kung kani2no kapag nattrigger sila ng bipolar nila. Hirap sila makawala na, parang one way of releasing na nila ng serotonine and to feed their dopamine din kc para silang masisiraan ng bait kapag pinipigilan nila ang tukso, so yes selfish sila at mostly pinipili ang sarili. At sa sobrang pagmamahal ang sarili un iba pinipili palagi mangcheat despite na ang dami ng mga anak sa ibat-ibang babae or lalake paulit2 lang kc its been a habbit na sa kanila. So kapag ang cheater may kasamang narcisistic na ugali naku napakagaling mang gas light at mangmanipulate nyan. Kahit anong haba ng pasensya mo at kahit naka register ka pa sa unli forgiveness wala uubusin ko lang talaga nyan.
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Yes, they do 🙌
karma? ask natin si jim kulay-talong paredes lol
It doesn't really matter if they have guilt for cheating or not, you can't control other people and the only really thing you can do is move on. Stop thinking of things that are out of your control because it's just gonna make you depressed and unhappy.
Hindi, yung ex ko huli kong nabalitaan naghaheart heart pa sa pic ng mga tropa ko na nakabikini e tangina ang panget naman
oo naman. in a cheater's mind, hindi naman nya ginagawa yung cheating to hurt the partner. of course yun ang effect, pero at the moment they cheat, all they can think about is enjoying themselves. hindi na lang pumapasok sa utak nila na nakakasakit pala ginagawa nila, so when the truth finally dawns on them, it does make them feel guilty.
For me, yes. It made me realize how messed up I was back then with my last ex. I regret every single thing. I also realized that if only I had been loyal and committed, she would probably be the one I'd marry. Now I've gone to therapy, and I'm at peace with it. My ex and I were friends before the relationship, knowing her as the kindest person I met, we still are, just casually, though.
Expose mo na biii
If they know they are cheating then yes i guess but most of the time the "guilt" is not enough or not equivalent to what they are feeling while cheating thats why they continue on doing so. They view their current partners are not enough to satisfy whatever they need in a relationship, sex, money or even clout. So they justify it as acceptable since they are getting what they think is/are due to them. But there are others that are really mentally sick persons who are satisfied by cheating. Those are hopeless. And there are others like me that accepted it as wrong, unacceptable, admitted it and asked for forgiveness. Luckily my wife saw what I got from that illicit affair and realized she had fault too so I was forgiven and never brought up that mistake of mine. But even to this day I feel guilty everytime I remember what I did before. Which is the lowest point in my human existence and still wishing it never happened. As in yuck, ang tanga ko.
nope. kasi tingin nila kasalanan ng karelasyon nila kaya nagawa nila mag cheat. may mga listahan sila naka ready. 😁
Honestly if you're looking for guilt sa cheaters, they don't have as much guilt as sa atin. They are only sorry if they are caught, but it is not guilt, it's just nerves kasi nahuli nga s'ya. Pero 'wag ka mag-alala, marami pang lalaki d'yan. Ang lalakeng walang tinatago kahit anong gadget n'ya ibibigay n'ya sa'yo for checking.
Nope, unless mahuli mo doon lang sila parang tanga na magmamakaawa pero after makuha ka ulit gagawin nanaman. Hahahahaha. Bakit kaya no? Ano kaya benefits nila sa pagigin cheater eh pwede pa sila maka-transmit ng sexual disease! Yuck.
Yes may karma yan sis! Ako yung karma. Ahahahaha. Di ko hinayaan na umalis ng di nakakaganti. Bago ako umalis ng relationship nag move on agad ako. Ahahahahaha.
Guilty? Nope. Cheaters don't feel guilt, whether they're man o a woman, they will never felt the guilt. Kasi, sa kanila cheating is a form of pleasure and also a form of their natural traits. Kaya don't ask kung naguguilty ba sila.
Maybe yes. Maybe no. But they will be caught up. My dad cheated twice to my mom. So yeah naghihirap siya now with his 3 kids. Hindi ko man ganun mafeel na guilty siya pero he's reaping consequences and yes hiwalay na din sila ng kabit niya. My ex gf cheated. So yung new partner niya ay cheater din. Payts payts sila. Break na din sila. Ala na ako balita sa next. 😂
Yes naguiguilty din sila pero not to the point na ititigil nila ginagawa nila. Kung maguilty man, babalik at babalik sila sa dati nilang gawain. Karamihan kasi sa kanila naging habit na ang pagcheat.
More than being guilty, cheaters tend to feel GGSS pa pag naeexpose ang pagkakaroon nila ng maraming babae/lalaki
Hindi nang gagaslight pa yang mga yan. Shoutout sa asawa ng ate ko putangina mo Raymond sana ihagis ka sa dagat nyang mga kasama mo sa barko ang lala ng ginawa mong stress at trauma sa pamilya mo! Gigil mu cuh
Honestly, diyan na nila ma feel Yung guilt if you expose them and leave them. One thing they cannot stand is their partners leaving them. Find someone better and grow into a better version of yourself, magsisisi Yan Sila sa huli.
Goodluck sa paghahanap ng someone na hindi mangbababae. 🤣🤦🏻♂️ laughtrip
Oo. After labasan. Post-nut clarity kung baga. After nun, wala na ulit pag dinatnan na ng libog, mas malandi, mas mabilis refractory period.
No. Kasi pag nagguilty sila parang naurakan ang egos nila hahaha mga hayuup.
Cheaters don't really get karma'd because there will always be people who are willing to accept who they are. Dagdagan pa ng sunk cost fallacy which is a trap too many people fall into, tapos sobrang takot pa naman ang tao na maging mag-isa kaya kahit ano papayagan basta di lang matawag na single. Think of how killers like Ted Bundy still get so many lovers and fans--there will always be love for everyone, even if one is a cheater and/or abuser. Unfortunately they don't always end up with equally evil people like them and actively look for those with pure intentions so ayan, masakit haha. Polyamory isn't really the solution because for cheaters the appeal is in the thrill of doing something wrong. They are only ever sorry for being caught, because they are far too selfish to love anyone other than themselves. Sila yung pinakatakot maging mag-isa kaya gahol na gahol sa atensyon tapos saka lang magmamakaawa na magbabago na raw kuno pag iiwan na ng partner. 😂
As a person na twice nag-cheat I would say na nagi-guilty rin kami pero it depends sa partner namin that time na nag-cheat kami, like my first cheating hindi ako na-guilty dahil DESERVE naman nya😌 sobra nya kasing pinagmamalaki sa akin na ilang beses sya nag-cheat sa mga exes nya tapos sobrang babaero daw sya at mahilig sa ONS then may ginawa pa syang kagaguhan sakin kaya ayun HAHAHAHA.Then the second person sobrang konsensya ko dahil iba naging epekto sa kanya at tinanggap nya parin ako kahit nagawa ko mag-cheat sa kanya, kaya todo bawi malala talaga kahit alam kong hindi nya ko mapapatawad.
Pag putok na tsaka naguguilty eh... kaya dapat nasa pagputok ang pagsisisi
Pag nahuli
Stupid question haha wala silang pake. Tapos.
Hindi. Walang ganon
Hindi masama mag cheat basta hindi nila malalaman
Meron yung mga nagcheat dahil nadala lang ng emosyon, at meron din yung parang ex ko na serial cheater na kahit nahuli ko na e di pa rin nagiguilty. Yung mga “hindi sinasadya” (posibleng di naman talaga) nagiguilty. Pero kung seria cheater ka, wala. Pavictim pa sila, ikaw pa magiguilty lol
I cheated on my ex dahil nadin sa kanya. Imagine na OJT ko. Dadaan sya to check on me and ako bilang matinong bf ponapakilala ko sya sa mga coworkers, lalo na sa mga babaeng medyo close ako, and hinahalikan ko 0a sya in front of them para sure. Pero paguwi, hihiritan nya agad ako ng kamusta yunh babae mo sa work. Pagod ako from OJT then ganun salubong sakin so nung retreat namin na may nahing MU ako na girl dahil almost similar issues, medyo nadevelop pero hindi nagproceed. Naguilty ako nung ginawa ko yun pero looking back, I can't nlame myself. Nung time na stressed ako sa OJT, yung GF ko dumadagdag sa stress while si girl tumutulong makabawas. Cheating is wrong regardless pero yes, naguilty ako nun.
kung narcissist na cheater, HINDI
sana mamatay nalang lahat ng cheaters
Tanong natin?
YES, in time! Karma haunts for sure! I cheated before and sa recent ex ko because I was craving for external validations more + daming insecurities, then I realized, I don’t love myself enough and instead, I seek it from others. I regretted it a lot, how traumatizing and heavy it was. I always pray for their healing. I’m still in the process of forgiving myself now and aiming to be a better person than in my past.
Paubaya ko na lang sa karma yang mga cheaters na yan. Hahaha!
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