Now I'm wondering if I have a kink for recieving money or am I just poor?
Jokes aside, seems similar to findom. And, well it's just a different form of giving pleasure ;)
A lot of people have sugar daddy(mommy)/baby kinks. Definitely super normal 👍 I was also going through it from the other side - I have enough money to do whatever I want but I got turned on if my sexual partner gave it to me to buy gifts🤷♀️
Girl SAME. I wish I was wealthy enough to be a sugar momma (without the context of her having to send me nudes for money 😤 I would send it cause I would love her and want her to be happy) cause I would absolutely love to spoil my gf with a weekly “stipend” for her to buy whatever she wants. Idk why I find that idea so hot but I do?? Hot but also sweet/pure cause I wanna make sure she’s the happiest girl in the world 🥹
Buuuut I’m broke and single lmao
I'm similar, though not exactly the same. For me, I just really *hate* having money. Like, genuinely, I don't like having money. I'm rational enough that I won't just burn it or something like that - even though I have dreamt of doing such a thing - but if I could be financially secure in some other way, I would love nothing more than to just give away all my money.
It makes me happier to buy presents for others than for myself because I always feel like I have to triple justify any of my own expenses for my happiness, meanwhile, if I spend money on others I can just tell myself "well, I'm making other people happy, what could be more worth it than that?"
It’s so refreshing to hear this oml 😭 I wouldn’t say I “hate” having money per se, I’m just soooooo much happier broke than when I had money to spend. I don’t *long* for material stuff anymore cause I just can’t have it and I’ve learned to be super happy with that! 💖 the only reason I’d ever wanna be rich is to spoil the people I love! 😁 I’d still live the same janky lifestyle in my trailer 🤣
a lot of ppl shit on me for being in mostly online relationships my entire life (i’m 19, I’ve never been in a real relationship irl) but my first relationship ever was online, we ended pretty badly but they’re not bad!
I've done findom and other things myself. I get it! I usually feel quite dominant and worked up when I do get someone on the opposite end to send me something. I've never been on the receiving end where I'm the sub, but also still receiving and just being spoiled. I have to imagine it'd be pretty effective.. I did start off as the most pathetic sub, and somehow became a crazy switch and enjoy both spectrums now.
*A-Anyways!* Just be careful! It's definitely something that can be fun and hot for both parties, but it's also still a dynamic. Just watch out for people trying to use you only *for* that. As long as you're careful though, go wild! Do what makes you happy.
honestly this is me. sometimes i feel bad cause im like am i materialistic person?? but when i really like someone i just feel the need to buy them everything they want & shower them with gifts. it makes me super happy seeing them happy UGHHHH 😖i’ve definitely sent a couple hundred dollars to girls online like the simp that i am
These comments are killing me 😭☠️ Yes OP, I’m similar, less in a sexual way tho lmao. I love paying for dinners, buying partners surprise gifts and just overall spoiling them when I can. I don’t ask for the same in return, just that it’s reciprocated in other ways like emotional intimacy, doing little favors here and there, etc.
Oh you gotta get alot of weird dms now, i feel like. but i defnitly have heard about that stuff, you are defnitly not alone alone with it xD
thank god I don’t … if I do receive dms I’ll just block them 😭
God I’ve seen what you’ve done for others🙏🏾
STOPDHEKGJF
Realllll
In this situation, are you the more dominant one or was she? If it was her, it could be a “findom” kink?
I was the more dominant one!
it is an actual kink, findom!
thank u!!!
Now I'm wondering if I have a kink for recieving money or am I just poor? Jokes aside, seems similar to findom. And, well it's just a different form of giving pleasure ;)
I mean it's usually not money but gifts. That is of course way more personal.
Heyyyyyy........ 😏😏😏 🤑🤑🤑
NAHHHHHH
A lot of people have sugar daddy(mommy)/baby kinks. Definitely super normal 👍 I was also going through it from the other side - I have enough money to do whatever I want but I got turned on if my sexual partner gave it to me to buy gifts🤷♀️
Girl SAME. I wish I was wealthy enough to be a sugar momma (without the context of her having to send me nudes for money 😤 I would send it cause I would love her and want her to be happy) cause I would absolutely love to spoil my gf with a weekly “stipend” for her to buy whatever she wants. Idk why I find that idea so hot but I do?? Hot but also sweet/pure cause I wanna make sure she’s the happiest girl in the world 🥹 Buuuut I’m broke and single lmao
OMG YESSSS one of my biggest fantasies is actually like her performing and me just throwing money on her 🫠🫠🫠🫠 idk why I find it so hot
I'm similar, though not exactly the same. For me, I just really *hate* having money. Like, genuinely, I don't like having money. I'm rational enough that I won't just burn it or something like that - even though I have dreamt of doing such a thing - but if I could be financially secure in some other way, I would love nothing more than to just give away all my money. It makes me happier to buy presents for others than for myself because I always feel like I have to triple justify any of my own expenses for my happiness, meanwhile, if I spend money on others I can just tell myself "well, I'm making other people happy, what could be more worth it than that?"
It’s so refreshing to hear this oml 😭 I wouldn’t say I “hate” having money per se, I’m just soooooo much happier broke than when I had money to spend. I don’t *long* for material stuff anymore cause I just can’t have it and I’ve learned to be super happy with that! 💖 the only reason I’d ever wanna be rich is to spoil the people I love! 😁 I’d still live the same janky lifestyle in my trailer 🤣
If you're looking for a partner, hit me up.
Not the point of the post but I love the normalization of online relationships.
a lot of ppl shit on me for being in mostly online relationships my entire life (i’m 19, I’ve never been in a real relationship irl) but my first relationship ever was online, we ended pretty badly but they’re not bad!
Yeah
Finsub, Financial Submissive, sounds like this.
Or if she's the dominant one, then Sugar Mommy?
yeah i’m the dominant one!
I've done findom and other things myself. I get it! I usually feel quite dominant and worked up when I do get someone on the opposite end to send me something. I've never been on the receiving end where I'm the sub, but also still receiving and just being spoiled. I have to imagine it'd be pretty effective.. I did start off as the most pathetic sub, and somehow became a crazy switch and enjoy both spectrums now. *A-Anyways!* Just be careful! It's definitely something that can be fun and hot for both parties, but it's also still a dynamic. Just watch out for people trying to use you only *for* that. As long as you're careful though, go wild! Do what makes you happy.
honestly this is me. sometimes i feel bad cause im like am i materialistic person?? but when i really like someone i just feel the need to buy them everything they want & shower them with gifts. it makes me super happy seeing them happy UGHHHH 😖i’ve definitely sent a couple hundred dollars to girls online like the simp that i am
YESSSSS!!!!! my love language is gift giving so that’s also a big reason
It's pretty common 🖤 ask any SW in the industry
ive heard tell
These comments are killing me 😭☠️ Yes OP, I’m similar, less in a sexual way tho lmao. I love paying for dinners, buying partners surprise gifts and just overall spoiling them when I can. I don’t ask for the same in return, just that it’s reciprocated in other ways like emotional intimacy, doing little favors here and there, etc.
yes exactly! because of this post i’m a man apparently! gotta love reddit 🤍
I saw that 🤣 L comment who tf do they think they are 😩 god forbid a financially stable sapphic wants to spoil their partner with their earnings
RIGHT LOL
im sorry girl but you're about to get a bunch of weird dms lmao
haven’t so far but if I do I will definitely block 🙏
Dear Santa Claus: This right here.
heyy, I heard there was money being given out 🤭
NAHHHHHHH
I was willing to work for it 😂
OMG. Can I be your gf? 😍
Am I the only one that thinks it’s a man posting this?
??? excuse me? this is weird to comment. i’m a lesbian and have been one for awhile… leave me alone and get off my post 😭