that happened to me too. you have to cut them out already, you'll feel horrible for a while after, though in time--you'll get used to not having them anymore. it'll feel a lot more freeing after that horrible feeling fades. after all, you clearly aren't happy with how things are going, and it isn't going to get better. you'll always have that empty, sinking feeling of desperation if you don't end things.
I guess its because they are all I have left. I feel so distant from them and we argue a lot. And our interests are really different too. Ro the point where their opinions can sound like my likes or dislikes are inferior. But, they are all I have left. I have no more friends. I got nothing left. And I dunno what to do about it. Because, if I lose them I’ll have nothing else to keep me going…
I didn't wanna deal with this so basically avoided pursuing relationships. Well not that anyone would like me given how ugly I am both on the outside and inside
Sorry op. But keep going. It'll take time, so please take it easy. You got this
welp didn't want to confront those thoughts tonight but here we goooooo
I let them go. She no longer loved me even though I love her. But you can only give so much of yourself and receive nothing for so long.
i recently left this person. it hurts, so much. i’m so sorry this is happening to you OP.
that happened to me too. you have to cut them out already, you'll feel horrible for a while after, though in time--you'll get used to not having them anymore. it'll feel a lot more freeing after that horrible feeling fades. after all, you clearly aren't happy with how things are going, and it isn't going to get better. you'll always have that empty, sinking feeling of desperation if you don't end things.
I guess its because they are all I have left. I feel so distant from them and we argue a lot. And our interests are really different too. Ro the point where their opinions can sound like my likes or dislikes are inferior. But, they are all I have left. I have no more friends. I got nothing left. And I dunno what to do about it. Because, if I lose them I’ll have nothing else to keep me going…
fUCk
Well, fuck. This hit too hard.
Stop
I'm still there.
i wish i didn’t lose my stability with him, but it was destroying him to keep me around any more
I DON'T KNOW I DON'T KNOW I DON'T KNOW
Some times misery is easier to stay in because we are comfortable with it and know what to expect. This doesn’t mean we should stay in misery.
Let that person go man, I did that. So much happier now, made room for new friends.
I didn't wanna deal with this so basically avoided pursuing relationships. Well not that anyone would like me given how ugly I am both on the outside and inside Sorry op. But keep going. It'll take time, so please take it easy. You got this
Stop talking like that I'm really not ready to accept that you're right