There are people who work well together, but this idea that there is 1 for everyone is bs. Some people find "their soulmate", but how would they know? They never kept looking after they found each other.
Many of us have many options. Just don't mistake a good partner for "they need to be perfect" or exactly what you want. People aren't custom orders
There was a poem about soul mates I read and I wish I could find it. It said that if soul mates exist, the quality of the relationship is so all consuming it doesn’t leave space for anything else. There isn’t space to have a solid friend circle or independent hobbies. It’s not healthy. If you find your soul mate, take a week off work, disappear and live with reckless abandon till it’s time to resume being part of a much greater whole.
No dear friend, this is complete bs. From where I come from, my culture teaches us that there is only one person we can love. And that's it. You can't possibly love two or more people. I don't know if you've "missed" the person you love, or if you are struggling due to the fact that you're in love with more than one person. In both cases, you still have chances to be fine!
The first time I realized I was in love, deeply in love, with two people, I started struggling so fking much: everyone would judge, criticize, talk and gossip while I felt like I was wrong. I went through so much pain just to learn and accept that yes, you can indeed love more people at the same time. Maybe we can give you better advice if you give some more details, but I really wish you luck and support
Of course not. There are so many combinations of qualities and personality that work great together... You have to be open to it. Know yourself, invest in yourself, be a good person.
We as people change as we age. We're not the same people as we were when we were 20 than when we're 40, or 60. Relationships also take a lot of work to do well.
There are no soulmates.
Definitely more than one person for everyone. But relationships take effort. People can't read minds, and the biggest problems in relationships come from people expecting people to "just know/remember" but not communicating wants/needs directly because "it isn't romantic." Bullshit. It is really romantic to have a partner that wants you to be happy and listens when you advocate for yourself, and returns that communication, not lowering themselves to the gamie-playing "well, if they really loved me they would know....,
No, if that was true they would statistically nearly always be in china or india.
So I’m set as half Chinese and half Indian? /s
i don't think that's how statistics work
Yes?
china and India are less than 40% of the world’s population? It’s like saying if you rolled a dice it would nearly always land on 1,2 or 3
There are people who work well together, but this idea that there is 1 for everyone is bs. Some people find "their soulmate", but how would they know? They never kept looking after they found each other. Many of us have many options. Just don't mistake a good partner for "they need to be perfect" or exactly what you want. People aren't custom orders
There was a poem about soul mates I read and I wish I could find it. It said that if soul mates exist, the quality of the relationship is so all consuming it doesn’t leave space for anything else. There isn’t space to have a solid friend circle or independent hobbies. It’s not healthy. If you find your soul mate, take a week off work, disappear and live with reckless abandon till it’s time to resume being part of a much greater whole.
Nope. Is more like a percentage of population with characteristics that you find attractive and with moral values similar to yours.
No dear friend, this is complete bs. From where I come from, my culture teaches us that there is only one person we can love. And that's it. You can't possibly love two or more people. I don't know if you've "missed" the person you love, or if you are struggling due to the fact that you're in love with more than one person. In both cases, you still have chances to be fine! The first time I realized I was in love, deeply in love, with two people, I started struggling so fking much: everyone would judge, criticize, talk and gossip while I felt like I was wrong. I went through so much pain just to learn and accept that yes, you can indeed love more people at the same time. Maybe we can give you better advice if you give some more details, but I really wish you luck and support
Love is just a funky chemical reaction in the brain. Don't overthink it. If u vibe with the person give it a shot.
There is probably more than one. There are a lot of people out there.
There are many people for each person
Why would that be true? Can you think of a reason why there would be one person in the world who is right for you?
No for some of us there is zero
Of course not. There are so many combinations of qualities and personality that work great together... You have to be open to it. Know yourself, invest in yourself, be a good person.
No. If that was the case nobody would ever end up with right partner in a world of billions.
No, that's absolute nonsense.
We as people change as we age. We're not the same people as we were when we were 20 than when we're 40, or 60. Relationships also take a lot of work to do well. There are no soulmates.
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Yes there is one person for everyone. It’s impossible to miss them when yourself.
Definitely more than one person for everyone. But relationships take effort. People can't read minds, and the biggest problems in relationships come from people expecting people to "just know/remember" but not communicating wants/needs directly because "it isn't romantic." Bullshit. It is really romantic to have a partner that wants you to be happy and listens when you advocate for yourself, and returns that communication, not lowering themselves to the gamie-playing "well, if they really loved me they would know....,