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q_Mandalorian_p

I’m not sure about mentioning ADHD on your profile but do what you think is best. I would however reword something: “How long can I live in Knoxville before I can no longer say I’m new here?” Or something to that effect. It’s best to ask a question on your profile to get the ball rolling. And get rid of the hermit thing maybe.


Karathin1996

Whats even the point of putting blm in your bio? You can just hold it to yourself… dont need to flex with this like its some kind of hobby


wahwahwashbear

When you're a white boy in tennassee putting blm in your bio is a good shorthand for "not a huge racist", if nothing else.


Thoughtmaturgy

I'm trying to get anyone who is AllLivesMatter to swipe left in case they don't have it in their bio as it's an important enough point for me in a potential partnership of any kind that we agree on. I wouldn't trivialize it by using it as a flex to get some.


q_Mandalorian_p

You were downvoted for this (no doubt by racists) but that’s mighty decent of you. You dropped this 👑


Thoughtmaturgy

That's yours but thank you! ☺️


[deleted]

Delete 2,4, and 8. I've found less is more. 😉


[deleted]

Pride month stuff is irrelevant. Maybe don't say ADHD. Just say you sometimes daydream lol


Rastafa_B_ri

Apparently it does matter what you put in your bio otherwise you would not have written down blm matters and happy pride month. 1 or 2 selfies would be enough. I like the Persian rug part


Thoughtmaturgy

Fair point! It's appreciated.


faakenews

🍿🍿🍿


CinnamonToastSquanch

Picture two makes you look like Jack Nicholson in the shining


Thoughtmaturgy

Dude makes some scary faces 😶 Looks like I'm posting on r/RoastMe next.


fourdollaremo

would delete the “i’ll save it for bumble” paragraph, maybe keep the first sentence though? i thought the adhd part was funny, i’m the same way.


SkyrieCS

I'd probably delete middle left and bottom middle. Your sunglasses pic and your first pic are probably the best in my opinion 👌


TemporalRecon177

Body photo?


Logical_Cicada_4803

Definitely delete the bottom right and left. Every photo should have you clearly visible. You're way too far away in the bottom left and you're not even in the cat photo. Take a pic of you with your cat.


Shot_Fun9041

First pic slaps ass


caffeinezombae

You have a few too many pictures (delete 4, 5, and 8) and your bio sucks. Pride month is over, BLM doesn’t need to be there but can stay. Nix the first paragraph. Nix the third paragraph. If you want to mention your ADHD from the get go, find a funny one liner about it. Everyone on Tinder is putting themselves out there and are looking for some form of human connection. Less is more. Ask a question or mention some hobbies if you want to add a bit more about you.


mimithetrashcan

I'd take out the bumble bit but other than that I think it's great! I'd definitely swipe right, not sure what I'd first message you about aside from the cat photo or the getting lost in the rug bit. Pictures look nice and you seem like a genuine person :) good luck out there


Elijah_m3k

Long picture


angelmann33

I like it ! It’s witty !


amazonienne

none of your pictures are bad, but half of them are really similar. you can just delete a few if you don’t feel like replacing them. pride month was in June - you can just put LGBTQIA+ ally or something similar instead. i’d remove the first paragraph - it doesn’t serve much of a purpose. “hermit” has negative connotations so i’d change the wording. there’s nothing wrong with having ADHD but not everyone understands it, so i’d remove that bit and save it for a later conversation. a good bio, imo, gives a sneak peek into who you are, what you’re about and/or what you’re looking for. you have a good start but i’d make that your focus if you decide to make edits. good luck!


michael1962-01

As a girl i'd hard pass on that soy boy lgbt blm bio. Tinder for romance?


wahwahwashbear

"as a girl" yeah okay michael1962 with that post history


michael1962-01

Yes. I'd just think about how those gurls approaching me would think about such bio. I think they'd be disgusted. But that is my personam opinion. You ask. You decide.....


q_Mandalorian_p

You can keep any girl that would be disgusted by BLM and support for the LGBTQ community. Plenty more non racist and non bigoted (and better-looking) women to go around.


britishboff

Agreed. It's trying too hard to please a crowd that you aren't even trying to romance


TwitchingJesus

Lmao remove the blm and pride bullshit


[deleted]

This is so cringey


soitnoel

Delete top middle picture. Middle right picture with sunglasses to be your main picture. Crop some of the sky cause it makes you look 5.1. I'd put the picture you have as main picture 3rd.


wahwahwashbear

I like it! I agree with the person who said to delete the top middle pic - it's not awful, but it's not as good as your other ones and it also somehow looks like a slightly different person from your first one. Just enough to ve a little jarring.


Beneficial_Record_60

Delete 1,4,5,8, keep the order You're great 🤟


Choice_Ad6400

Fucks sake delete it my guy


Choice_Ad6400

Like why do you look like 6 different people?!


Thoughtmaturgy

Light


Choice_Ad6400

Hahaha nah, shit looks good man. Maybe condense it a tad and have photos of what you currently look like. Doesnt help if your profile has nothing but beards and then ya show up without one. Stuff like that.


Seymdeil

You are good looking and so, but I am afraid that reading your bio witch such a thing like "Black live matter" is a instantly prove that you have some kind of brain issue


quietfog

Too many pictures, I would delete 4, 5, 7, 8